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03-06-09 21:33 #858
Posts: 1454Originally Posted by Old Thai Hand
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03-06-09 21:25 #857
Posts: 1454Originally Posted by Ken Orvik
You certainly profited in the commodities market so to speak. Good for you.
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03-06-09 21:11 #856
Posts: 70P4P girls
I dont know how much P4P you have had, but I think you are trying to make a general opinion about this.
As I am writing this, I am sitting in my living room watching a Scandinavian Tv show which my wife chose to watch.
She has a background of about 10 years as a dancer in Soi Cowboy and Nana Plaza.
We have been married for about 7 years now, and she had no problem adapting to a "new life"
She now works as a nurse, and want to go to school again next year to get a better job.
I lived in Thailand for some years, and I have to say, the most honest and nice girls I met in the Bangkok P4P scene.
Really nice and lovely girls.
I dated a lot of women while living there, and I must say: All of them had a very nice personality.
So maybe you not have to pick a MBA student to meet a very nice woman.
I married P4P, and so far I have no regrets.
Ken.
AND. THEY ARE NOT STUPID!!!
Just my experience.
QUOTE=Old Thai Hand]In your first sentence you refer to all girls "poor or not", and then go on in the rest of the post to talk just about poor girls.
The girls who are not poor, middle-class and above are generally not interested in Farang, especially those on holiday, who come here for sex.
Learn to differentiate and talk about what you know.[/QUOTE]
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03-06-09 01:06 #855
Posts: 1749Originally Posted by Old Thai Hand
When you were "with" these ladies did you shag them? What would they think if you attempted to discuss epistemology and metaphysics? Like WTF and boring? Based on my experience I'd expect many of them to whisper three little words in your ear, Why so serious?
Originally Posted by Old Thai Hand
Nothing going on in their heads? So that should make them the equivalent of the beautiful, busty blonde stereotype? Maybe most guys like that type, especially combined with the qualities you speak of {willing, compliant, beautiful and sexy}. Add to that the fun loving nature of many TGs and it's easy to see why they are so sought after for their company LT, as GFs, or even as lifelong mates.
I'd suggest a majority of Farang in LOS have little going on in their heads, whatever that is supposed to mean, and the ones who have been hypnotized and plundered by TG magic have even less. So maybe these Farang and P4P {or LoSo} TG's are birds of a feather? Maybe they are more interested in, or totally interested in, hedonism rather than intellectualism. And that is reflected in their choice of a mate.
BTW, when you say LoSo, are you referring to poor rice farmers, seven eleven employees, hotel workers, and clerks at Siam Paragon? What would the MidSo include, doctors, lawyers, dentists, teachers?
Originally Posted by Old Thai Hand
Originally Posted by Old Thai Hand
Personally I have found P4P TGs have an interest in knowledge. For example many of them are studying English. They actually use books for this. Some of which I have provided them myself, out of my bountiful, unsurpassed and endless generosity.
One of my P4P regulars, to whom BTW I donated some 200KB in 4 months recently, is a university student. So I would guess there is something going on in her head. But it is logically possible, metaphysicly speaking, that once this lady entered P4P she was automaticly and immediately lobotimized. Don't ask me how.
At one time I would have been into "deep and meaningful" discussions and be the philosophical type like you, but, having outgrown that, I only live for wine, women and song. Or, rather, my drugs of choice, Baccardi Breezer, testosterone, and the Rolling Stones. As a hedonist, gambling, Thai ladies, free internet porn, and mindless action movies are also some of my favorite addictions. Without them I'd consider taking up bungee jumping without the cord.
Carpe Diem
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03-05-09 11:23 #854
Posts: 2102Originally Posted by Sammon
The girls who are not poor, middle-class and above are generally not interested in Farang, especially those on holiday, who come here for sex.
Learn to differentiate and talk about what you know.
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03-04-09 16:00 #853
Posts: 3281Non P4P girls
All the girls whether they are poor or not are well informed nowadays. They know foreign people come to their country looking for girls to have sex with. They know in return they will get money and gifts. they know foreigners will profess endless love only to use them and leave them for another pretty skirt which comes along.
Gone are the days when the girls were innocent. Poverty makes them desparate to lie, cheat etc to make their life better. I am sure there are some good girls but it is getting difficult to find them.
Traditionally Thai custom is the older thai men have one wife and many girlfriends on the side. So it is not taboo for them to be with older foreign men. But sooner or later they are naturally attracted to men their own age .
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03-04-09 08:40 #852
Posts: 2102Originally Posted by PinkPearl
To answer your first question...Guys spend LT with these girls because of the fantasy. It's quite seductive at first to be middle-aged or older and have a young thing to play with. Even during a week or two holiday the bloom may not wear off the rose because of the fact that most guys delude themselves into thinking what's going on is genuine or at least a GFE and consequently, they lower their standards vis a vis, a meaningful relationship, having a decent conversation and the rest. Do a background check on a lot of guys and it's the same story: crappy relationships in the west, devorced from some fat, ugly shrew etc. which stands in stark contrast to the willing and compliant, not to mention comparatively beautiful and sexy Thai girls. So, these guys put up with, or just ignore the fact that these girls have nothing going on in their heads.
The point I was making was have your fun with them, even go on holiday with them if that turns your crank. But, don't under any circumstances get deeply involved with them, or you'll be in for loads of money trouble and creeping boredom. That was the catalyst for my original remarks, because of Dardo's experience. I wasn't knocking mongers, so much as just knocking mongers who mistake love for lust and get fucked up in the process.
As for conversations with my GF about epistemology and metaphysics...Ya, I actually have quite lengthy discussions with her on all kinds of deep and meaningful topics, because she is quite hungry for knowledge. This is one of the main reasons I like her, because it is so refreshing and atypical in this country to find someone like that.
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03-04-09 05:51 #851
Posts: 51Originally Posted by Washburn
Specially, the point, that having a relationship with one of these girls requires an appreciable budget.
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03-04-09 03:23 #850
Posts: 28I Agree With OTH
Though I might not have as much experience as many here, I agree with OTH that Middle Class Girls may be the best place to find a Thai GF. I have spent summers here and developed some short term relationships with BG and middle class girls I met on TLL. The BG's have always needed more money for family, sick buffalos and numerous other things. They are also quite jealous in my experience if they see that wallet maybe going to another woman.
Some middle class girl relationships went sour, with s few GREAT girls, because I could not stay. The longest I had was 2 summers with 1 girl. But the girl I met last year, from Chiang Mai, was wonderful. College graduate, pretty, a car and house and a teenage son. She drove me all over Northern Thailand and introduced me to all of her friends and people at the Temple AND church as one of her relatives converted to Christianity. She did everything for me but wipe my butt. I met her family. Very nice. They had jobs and houses. When I got home, I received a post card from her every day for about 2 months. She sent small gifts and emailed every day.
Then about 2 months ago (I just found out) she had money problems where she was going to lose her house. She never asked me for money. NEVER! I was joking over a chat session that I knew she had another BF. I told her. You better tell me. Suddenly she said. OK. I WILL CONFES TO YOU BECAUSE I LOVE YOU! She told me about her house situation and said she was assisted financially by a old man. 75. Who was has cancer. Basically she became his nurse and he helped her financially. This is not a bar girl but she confessed she slept nude with him and washed him and cleaned him. She sent a picture of him and he was quite old and frail looking. Maybe he screwed her. Maybe he didn't. I don't know what to beleive.
She knows I am moving there this summer permanently. She has begged me for her forgivesmess. Says she wants to be with me. She is no longer helping him (according to her). She says she would do anythong for me. Including letting me have a BG for a night if I think she cheated me (which she still insists she did not).
This was a great girl. Who I could have even married. But sadly I think I may have to take a pass on her. I don't know what to believe but probably better for me to believe the worst.
So who are the best girls for GF's. I still think Middle Class but you still have to be a little lucky!
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03-03-09 22:52 #849
Posts: 1749Originally Posted by Easy2007
Having spent over half my time there in the past two years, I've seen a lot of ladies going in and out, everything from fat & ugly to stunners, whether in the morning at breakfast to prime time in the evening.
In the restaurant for breakfast one may not see as high a percentage of hotties, which may be due to numerous factors. They may be more likely to have a TBF to get back to, so will not do LT or, if they do, not hang around for breakfast. BTW the TGs I've been with usually do not care for the hotel food.
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03-03-09 22:00 #848
Posts: 1749Originally Posted by Old Thai Hand
Having taken several 100's of these TGs yourself, perhaps you would know what the attraction is, besides getting physical.
BTW, how often have you been with such in the past 1, 2 & 5 years?
I understand you claim to have outgrown the P4P TGs, and insist that the the vast majority of those living in Thailand and involved with them will eventually do so as well. Yet the picture you have painted of the non P4P TGs you have "dated" does not sound much different. Namely that you have disposed of 100's of them also, including numerous nightmarish situations, and even the one you are with now is easily changeable since, as you put it, there is a lineup of replacements at the door, ready and eager to take her place.
BTW, been having any dialogues re epistemology and metaphyics with her lately? That couldn't be boring.
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03-03-09 21:53 #847
Posts: 66Originally Posted by Dardo
OTH comes to a monger forum to express his low opinion of mongers, to whom he is incomparably superior, he believes.
He has to brag to us, because if he bragged to his pals back in Canada they'd listen for two minutes then ask him if he knows Gary Glitter.
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03-03-09 11:27 #846
Posts: 139Originally Posted by NicFrenchy
Same could be said for bargirls.
What I mean is that Thai girls are expected to be married in their 20's. Once they hit 30, they start to lose hope of ever getting married. I chat to another girl in her 30's, single, feels the same way.
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03-02-09 12:05 #845
Posts: 4665Originally Posted by Bob Down
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03-02-09 08:16 #844
Posts: 139Originally Posted by NicFrenchy