Thai Women - Opinions & Advice

[M P Lurker]

I stumbled upon this article and I think is very Funny:
"Women lie, cheat and steal. This is not news. For the Thais, and particularly for bargirls, telling tall tales seems almost to be the national sport. The problem is, they’re appallingly bad at it.

My Thai GF was different. Rather than lie she would simply be silent and say nothing. She obviously knew she would be bad at it.

[Lover Boy #2]

You know what I don't get? it's people who think that because they have the yellow Fever, then everyone going to Thailand has to catch it.

...and in any case....it has been proven that it is not passed from person to person.....it can be controlled...just watch those little mosquitos (aka TG's);


http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Walter_Reed

[NicFrenchy]

What I'm saying is that if you have been here four years, you have been here too long and are infected.

You know what I don't get? it's people who think that because they have the yellow Fever, then everyone going to Thailand has to catch it.

[Applesauce]

We also talked about a lot of different issues like Indians & Blacks, she said she did not mind but would never go with an indian guy in his hotel. She was scared about stories she heard that Indians barfine girls and then when she goes to their hotel room, another 2 or 3 guys are there all waiting to be serviced (for the price of 1).

I've heard the same thing from numerous working girls in my country (Canada) so I can believe it. Stereotypes always have a grain of truth in them, and Indians do tend to be cheap and will haggle on everything whether it's appropriate or not. Do Indians feel that they're always being ripped off? Is that why? Or is haggling on everything part of the culture?

Indian culture is very sexist and chauvinistic though, and a lot of Indian women here (in Canada) refuse to see Indian men. They'll claim that they don't want to potentially meet anyone within their social circle (not the sexism here -- it's okay for the men to see escorts but not for the women to be escorts) which is valid, but the truth is Indian men generally don't treat women (of any ethnicity) very well.

Me puts on racism shield.

[Retired Army]

I am not sure I understand, you mean I haven't been here long enough? and, what's an undertaker?

What I'm saying is that if you have been here four years, you have been here too long and are infected.

An undertaker is a mortician. Someone who prepairs dead bodies for burial.

[NicFrenchy]

You've been here for four years, nothing more needs to be said. Call the undertaker.

I am not sure I understand, you mean I haven't been here long enough? and, what's an undertaker?

[Retired Army]

I am happy to say that after 4 years here I do not have Yellow Fever and am pretty sure I will never get it

There is something that is missing in Thai ladies, in my eyes. Sex is great but a relationship is more than sex and unfortunately, Thai girls are lacking in the Other departments.

This of course is only my opinion.

You've been here for four years, nothing more needs to be said. Call the undertaker.

Couldn't agree with you more about Thai girls lacking in the other departments. You just haven't met the right one yet.

[Run Mann]

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It makes me think of Christ’s statement “let he who is without guilt cast the first stone”.
So unless we are totally honest in our personal dealings with P4P ladies, let’s not sling off at them for behaving the same way that we do.

This is too funny! You do realize that you are preaching to people who by the very nature of us being here are not necessarily in step with religion. I mean how many commandments and scripture lessons are violated by mongers on a daily basis? Doesn’t religion teach belivers not to lay with any woman other than your wife, or not to have sex until marriage? Working girls offer their service/product in the same manner as any other purveyors and as such are subject to feedback/criticism from their customers. If you are sympathetic to their negative feedback, you should hear some of the feedback they have of us.

[Gangles]

I was reading comments about how deceptive are the Thai P4P ladies. It made me think how true that is. A bar girl deals with hundreds, or thousands of men like us. These men tell lies, deceive the girls, promise them that they love her, if only she will root them now, promise that they will come back later to barfine her when they know they will not, promise to take her out of the bar, and make her a respected woman in Australia/USA/UK/Canada/Germany/etc.

Sometimes the girl goes for it, then gets dumped, or pregnant and dumped.

So these bargirls deal with this every day and night, continuous deception by foreigners, yet they keep on, creating the fantasy for the customer. It must take a great deal of cynicism on their part to keep on going.

It makes me think of Christ’s statement “let he who is without guilt cast the first stone”.

So unless we are totally honest in our personal dealings with P4P ladies, let’s not sling off at them for behaving the same way that we do.

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[NicFrenchy]

I have Jasmine fever defined by my preference for Asian women in comparisons to western women when it comes to fucking (and that’s what I meant in your case) but if I had to pick a lady for a relationship I would still prefer a got her shit together western woman any day.

I see we see things the same way

[Warbucks]

I was being Serious. I don't have yellow fever. I am happy to be in Thailand, of course, the ladies are nice adn sex is good and overly available but, Maybe I'm a cold bastard, I don't "love" easily.

I couldn't love a thai girl, no matter how sweet or nice she looks if she is lacking a good education and doesn't have Character.

I have found Thai ladies to be at the extremes, either they are too nice and pushovers or they are too bitchy.
Also, I can't get in a relationship with a girl that can't see past tonights or tomorrows meal.

I have Jasmine fever defined by my preference for Asian women in comparisons to western women when it comes to fucking (and that’s what I meant in your case) but if I had to pick a lady for a relationship I would still prefer a got her shit together western woman any day.

[Member #3428]

Trust me, after working here 4 years, I can guarantee you some girls are really lacking in the "Character" department but to say that I would apply this to all Thai girls: definitely not.

Now clear My ESL is slow at times. And trust me, I've run into my share of winners at work too. I think the BG's at the Beer Garden have more character then the ones I have to deal with.

[NicFrenchy]

I stumbled upon this article and I think is very Funny:

"Women lie, cheat and steal. This is not news. For the Thais, and particularly for bargirls, telling tall tales seems almost to be the national sport. The problem is, they’re appallingly bad at it.

“I only go with you, tilac“, she purrs, as her cellphone continually beeps throughout the evening with various messages from Steve, Sven, Simon and Somchai.

Then there’s the girl who answers her cellphone in mid-thrust to tell her boyfriend that she’s staying in her room watching TV alone.

Another girl couldn’t call you the other evening because her cellphone battery died. Which means she was in bed with a guy who had the sense to persuade her to turn her phone off.

[NicFrenchy]

This surprises me, your comment about character... I've met a lot of strong willed ladies with great character. But character could be subjective I guess.

Maybe I was not Clear? but I have never said that Thai Ladies did NOT have Character, I said I could not fall in love with one IF she did not have any.

Trust me, after working here 4 years, I can guarantee you some girls are really lacking in the "Character" department but to say that I would apply this to all Thai girls: definitely not.

[Member #3428]

I couldn't love a thai girl, no matter how sweet or nice she looks if she is lacking a good education and doesn't have Character. ...... Also, I can't get in a relationship with a girl that can't see past tonights or tomorrows meal.

This surprises me, your comment about character... I've met a lot of strong willed ladies with great character. But character could be subjective I guess. My definition might differ from yours. The rest... I can see. Drives me batty they won't plan anything let alone their own future.

Very few have plans (from work and from P4P) and the ones that do have plans... watch out... they'll eat anyone alive that stands in their way or do anything to anyone to get what they want.