Thai Women - Opinions & Advice

[Opebo]

I routine play mind games with her by telling her that I will be leaving her. I have on 3 different occasions dumped her, but after a lot of crying and pleading from her I stayed.

I think this is the key to the relative success of this relationship for you - ill treatment is almost always what wins hearts with the fair sex.

(this is true in any country or culture, not just Thailand)

[AndyBKK]

Both Old Thai Hand and Andybkk are too cynical and jaded for their own good.

Yes, you're right. But like a fellow member stated I am not too far from the truth. I was told by a local girl how much you love me and how she will love me forever. I was young at the time (22), dumb, and full of cum, so I believed this Hi-So hottie, who was a virgin.

Well, to make a long strong short. After I worked my ass off, brought 2 homes in here, land, and stash away quite a bit of money. My angel decides to leave me for a local loser, whose passions are gambling and playing lucky numbers.

Of course, I was stupid enough to put everything in her name because the stupid ass Thai laws state that I can not put it in mine, so she ran away with a lot of my hard work, but above all else she ran away with my dream.

Now I am not a old ugly beer belly guy. I am 30, good looking guy. Maybe even better looking then the guy she ran off with.

Now I am leaving with a former Nana bar girl, turned university student, and future lawyer. She is a hottie too, but I get bored with her at times and she has given me the green light to go fuck around and have even gone with me to go-go bars and karaoke places. I don't give her any money, but pay for her schooling which comes out to 50,000B ever term ( 5 months).

She has attempted to get additional money from me but I tell her to not go down that path in on way or another.

She wakes up every morning and the first thing she does if I'm having morning glory is drain my juices.

She will either suck me or fuck me whenever I am horny, which happens about 5-10 times everyday. And besides from the above-mentioned all she gets from me is multi-O s each day.

Also she was an anal virgin, but has since given the pleasure of filling that hole.

I routine play mind games with her by telling her that I will be leaving her. I have on 3 different occasions dumped her, but after a lot of crying and pleading from her I stayed.

Recently her younger sister (19) from up north, who is just as hot as her, broke up with her Thai BF and need a place to stay. The sister was thinking about her various options of employment in Bangkok and I was asked to give my opinion. One of the options for the sister was to go work at Nana.

In the end, I've decided to take the younger sister in.

As far as additional expenses are concern, there really isn't much because she eats what we ( the two of us) eat. And is a rather simple her for being so hot. The sister doesn't complain about anything and doesn't ask for anything either.

I went down to Pratunam, wholesale clothing district and purchased some jeans and shirt for both of them. ( my first gift after saying with the older sister, 20, for a year and a half.) The prices were amazingly inexpensive. Jeans that would normally go for 300-500B where 150B.

Anyway, I just realized that I am rambling on on. So I will get to the point. Should I have sex with the younger sister? ( the older one has in one way or another hint that it was ok for me to make her sister a mia noi Lol)

Should I leave? Should I thank my lucky stars that I am living with two hot girls from Issan? Give me some inputs.

[Sanook D]

Yep, that's why, even in Gogos, I order bottled water and I want to open the bottle myself.
The problem is, these cats are smart, the lady could well be rubbing the "substance" on her tits so that when you take a whiff: you're fucked

The only time I suspect I was drugged in a bar was when my buddy and I took rather heavy swigs (upon being offered) or two of what a couple of the girls were drinking at a bar in Nana. It was mixed concoction, tasting of Mekhong, Red Bull, and Buddha knows what else. I was already in my cups, so to speak, or I wouldn't have done it. At any rate, it had the opposite effect of a knock-out drink; I wound up staying up all night, couldn't have slept if I'd wanted. Whatever was in there was much stronger than Red Bull. The night was followed by a two-day hangover, probably the result of my body taking that long to sweep up the dead neurons (my friend, who drove himself home, experienced the same effects). Most unpleasant, and needless to say, I from then on I've stuck with what's on the menu.

[NicFrenchy]

OK: If it's easy, they will do you. If it's not, they just move on to the next mark. Don't make it easy for them, or you very well may suffer the consequences.

Yep, that's why, even in Gogos, I order bottled water and I want to open the bottle myself.
The problem is, these cats are smart, the lady could well be rubbing the "substance" on her tits so that when you take a whiff: you're fucked

[Bearsk]

OTH
I am inclined to agree with you in some instances but not all Thais are like this. In some respects the lower socioeconomic level of Thai society does not have a choice but to work hard. Also some of the things you say are universally applicable - Fall of the Roman Empire, the Happsburgs and American in the 21st Century!
BSK

I think that there are some very hard-working, competent, self-made, (if heartless and ruthless) Thais, especially running Thai businesses. The problem is that the gene pool has become drastically weaked with their children.

Having had everything handed to them on a silver platter, having never had to work a day in their lives, having never had to face the consequences for sometimes unethical and immoral actions (being caught cheating at school and having Daddy bride the administrators) will guarantee they are a generation of ineffectual, spoiled lay-abouts.

[Old Thai Hand]

What I find amazing in this context is that there are still Thai companies that are run by Thai people, that there are Thai surgeons, Thai airline pilots, Thai central bankers, etc. Some of them at least seem to know what they are doing and do not appear to be completely phoney.

I think that there are some very hard-working, competent, self-made, (if heartless and ruthless) Thais, especially running Thai businesses. The problem is that the gene pool has become drastically weaked with their children.

Having had everything handed to them on a silver platter, having never had to work a day in their lives, having never had to face the consequences for sometimes unethical and immoral actions (being caught cheating at school and having Daddy bride the administrators) will guarantee they are a generation of ineffectual, spoiled lay-abouts. Just look at Taksin's son. He was so bad, that he got thrown first out of Chula, and later out of the lowly Ramkhamhaeng University for cheating on exams (in this case Daddy was told to "stuff it" when he tried to bribe the university chancellor). How did Taksin discipline his son on the immorality of his actions? He threw a load of money at him and set him up as an instantly successful photographer.

I teach a lot of these kids, and many have such a complete lack of basic morality and ethics, and a total disregard for working hard to achieve something, that it makes the current corruption endemic in the society seem tame.

There's no such thing as "Pride in a job well-done" here. It's more like gloating when you manage to pull the wool over somebody's eyes and win something for nothing.

[Seydlitz]

More accurately, Thai students are taught that getting things the easy way; through corruption or stealing someone else's work or ideas is a perfectly normal thing to do. I encounter this attitude on a daily basis. For example, it's nothing for a dozen students to hand in the identical assignment (word for word) in class, which one copied from the Internet, while the rest copied from him. I see them sitting in class copying out another student's work, oblivious to the ethical issue. They are so blatant and uncreative about it, that they are easily caught. But, when caught, and given a '0', they don't understand what they did wrong. This way of thinking extends all the way up to Thai academics who steal research and publish it as their own. If you think of the huge amount of intellectual property rights violation in this country, it shows that it's considered perfectly acceptable to 'steal' (in that sense). This isn't just the shady guys on the street copying DVDs and Prada bags. The Thai media industry routinely use creative material without paying royalties, or images of Western celebrities, without permission.

They hate thinking. So, if they can avoid it by stealing someone else's hard work and efforts, they'll do it without any guilt, whatsoever.

Isn’t also the case that in Thai society appearance matters, not substance? You get a prominent wealthy situation because of who you are, from what family you were born etc. You only need to go through the moves of attending the right university and getting a degree not because you need to learn much but because it is an important social rite.

I guess that Thai academics need to have work published under their name. It does not matter that they write it themselves or pilfer it from somebody else. Hardly anybody will read it anyway.

It is really still a medieval society. There is a ruling class that is defined by blood line, not by ability and certainly not by merit. What I find amazing in this context is that there are still Thai companies that are run by Thai people, that there are Thai surgeons, Thai airline pilots, Thai central bankers, etc. Some of them at least seem to know what they are doing and do not appear to be completely phoney.

[Barko]

They hate thinking. So, if they can avoid it by stealing someone else's hard work and efforts, they'll do it without any guilt, whatsoever.

Just an aside, I was in Long Gun about three months ago, hooked up with a very hot little spinner. Bought 2 drinks each and one chaser Heine for myself, that's it.

Turns out the little spinner's older sister was a bartender, 180 degree difference from the little one, dog fucking ugly, hard to look at her without turning my head with a wince and coughing a "whoa" out of the side of my mouth. And, obviously, she not liking that I was doing her little sister, not one bit.

Quickly barfined the spnner short time. Got her out and upstairs fast, ready to bang the holy living shit out of this one I was thinking to myself. Well. The fucking chick didn't do anything! I mean absolutely NOTHING, no taking off shoes, no taking off clothes, no shower, no nothing! I pleaded and prodded, teased and cajoled, but started feeling really fucking strange (reported here on ISG.) After ten minutes of watching the girl sit on the bed, looking at her cell phone, and stare at me, rolling her eyes from time to time and obviously waiting for something, I, without saying a word, woozily threw a grand on the bed and stumbled out the door then literally fell into the back seat of a taxi.

I was fucked up for three days. Slept, dizzy as shit, hard to hold head up. Couldn't eat anything, just laid in bed in the condo wondering if I was going to die.

Went back to LG the following weekend, walked straight to the back and asked mama if the same two sister chicks were there. In Thai, I told her that I thought I had been drugged and related the episode. She quietly sat me down in the upper booth type area, big smiles everywhere, told me that those girls were now gone, sent a waitress over, then wandered back over to her hang out spot to plant her elbow on the bar and talk to one of the waitresses. Looking back at her a minute later, I saw that she was giving me the hardest pinched eyed devil stare I have ever seen in Thailand. I had obviously fucked by saying something, and, I left. Pronto.

I know that there are members here that are close with the people that run that place. Any comments?

No matter what they tell you in the bars, magazines, online or otherwise, this shit still does happen in Thailand, and I was lucky enough to have been a very very bad boy in my youth and seemingly could handle the dose without quickly passing out. BTW, there is a major upsurge of this in Tokyo and Seoul lately, I wonder if the trend is making its way here.

OK: If it's easy, they will do you. If it's not, they just move on to the next mark. Don't make it easy for them, or you very well may suffer the consequences. East to say, and it's been a long time since I got hit (camera in Chiang Mai) but I have never forgotten. Thievery of any kind here, from some kid stealing your flip flops, to that HiSo dude taking the 10 million Baht you paid for your condo then running out of the country. The stuff is ingrained, seemingly acceptable, and a major part of the landscape.

[Old Thai Hand]

i was laughing my ass off last night while at the supermarket of emporium.

here was this young 40some farang (clearly a tourist) with his evening purchase.

the guy was good looking and i really think he could have found a much much better looking "lady for the night".

looking at some fruits, she was shouting at every expensive ones (cherries, strawberries, grapefruits, peaches) "i want try this, i want that" and when the man questionned her about "are you going to eat this?" she was giving him a nasty look.

she clearly had the upper-hand and i felt bad for what looked like a nice guy being played like a puppet by a heavily tatooed, ugly face 40kg tg.

the 3 thai guys wrapping the fruits were amused and probably made fun of him because when they caught my eye they could not help but chuckle.

that guy probably ended up buying 10k of groceries.

maybe she wanted to make him pay for the fact that he had bargained her fee from 3k to 1k lt?

she could have perhaps been his wife, which is even sadder.

i witness this type of spectacle on a weekly basis at carrefour. it astounds me the butt-ugly, not to mention rude, old hags some guys marry and what's worse have children with. the majority of thai shoppers at carrefour stare at these couples with a mixture of extreme bewilderment, slight trepidation and mild contempt. my gf and i sometimes get the same stares, but in reverse. thais look at us, and i'm sure wonder what a girl who looks like she does is doing with such a butt-ugly, not to mention rude, old geezer like me.

the farang guys look at me, then my gf, then their butt-ugly, rude hags and i'm sure think, "i drank too much singh-a and settled too quickly for the first thing that looked my way, that first night i arrived in bangkok. damn! where can i get me one of those?" at which point, his lovely wife, seeing him oggling my gf, screeches at him to hold their howling mutt of a kid.

in his mind, she's probaby an angel in heaven compared to the fat ugly shrew he keeps back at home with the kids in farang land. :d

oh, i don't know...some of these thai "brides" that i see guys stuck with could really make them wax nostalgic for the "white whale" they left back home.

[Daddy07]

...She clearly had the upper-hand and I felt bad for what looked like a nice guy being played like a puppet by a heavily tatooed, ugly face 40kg TG...

In his mind, she's probaby an angel in heaven compared to the fat ugly shrew he keeps back at home with the kids in Farang land.

[Member #3428]

The guy was good looking and I really think he could have found a much much better looking "lady for the night".

I am still amazed at the type of girls that guys are going out with in public. Granted I've picked some girls that were not beautiful but seriously some guys really go out with some butt ugly ladies and they seem happy to do so.

I keep looking at the ladies guys are pulling, looking at the girl I am with, and wonder if folks think she is butt ugly also in their mind. At least in my mind the current girl has all her teeth (straight ones too), no tattoo's, goes to a real university, and has a life plan.

[NicFrenchy]

i was laughing my ass off last night while at the supermarket of emporium.

here was this young 40some farang (clearly a tourist) with his evening purchase.

the guy was good looking and i really think he could have found a much much better looking "lady for the night".

looking at some fruits, she was shouting at every expensive ones (cherries, strawberries, grapefruits, peaches) "i want try this, i want that" and when the man questionned her about "are you going to eat this?" she was giving him a nasty look.

she clearly had the upper-hand and i felt bad for what looked like a nice guy being played like a puppet by a heavily tatooed, ugly face 40kg tg.

the 3 thai guys wrapping the fruits were amused and probably made fun of him because when they caught my eye they could not help but chuckle.

that guy probably ended up buying 10k of groceries.

maybe she wanted to make him pay for the fact that he had bargained her fee from 3k to 1k lt?

[NicFrenchy]

Who said I was local?

No one.. you are the Overseas RABBIT
the Thai guy that fucks all night is the Local RABBIT

and according to my lady staff, his dick stays hard the whole night (maybe he is pill-assisted?)

[LittleBigMan]

There is a local place in Pattaya, somewhere near Soi 13/4 near the New Orleans haven't been there and I can't get a job there because the job can only be filled by a Thai National. The place is staff with Bi-sexual or Gay Thai's to service horny housewives or ugly or big Mammas that aren't getting it from their husband etc.. These Thai guy keep it up cause they load up on Viagra and other keep you going drugs that in the long run are harmful to ones health at those levels. They don't care as long as they get paid for it.
Now this is all hearsay from a couple of local Thai's!

I was thinking shit I would do it for free but I in no way would be keeping it up on day and night.

LBM

[Member #3428]

One girl said that there is a guy which is more expensive (4,000) but apparently his dick does not go down the whole night... he can fuck/come, fuck/come until the early hours of the morning (I guess we have found the LOCAL Rabbit).

Who said I was local?