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05-30-08 16:06 #363
Posts: 1213Dumbass
Originally Posted by aslan
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05-30-08 13:32 #362
Posts: 704A Different Perspective
I have been reading the last few posts, and I thought that I would add a few comments to the discussion.
Firstly, about the statements that there is plenty of P4P in Thailand. This is partly true, but there is far more in the US, and Australia and other western countries. There are more prostitutes per head of population in Australia than in any asian country. You can get any kind of sex, any time, men, women, boys, girls. Prostitution is openly advertised in the local newspapers, brothels are legal. So it is important to get the facts right to put things into correct perspective.
Secondly, I have a Thai gf who had never been into a bar before I took her. She had very little sex with her husband before she divorced. Since we have been together, she has blossomed, knows that there are no limits on what she can do, loves to be naked, loves sex, now that she has found that she can get so much pleasure and satisfaction from sex. In public, she is still shy, and I respect her for that.
I do not believe that all Thai women just want money and the visa. My gf certainly has never asked for either. Except that I have asked her to take a massage course, and I have paid for it, likewise, I am funding her through her English classes. She has a regular job, is looking at setting up a business, and her family is pretty well off middle classs.
Gangles
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05-30-08 13:28 #361
Posts: 2102Originally Posted by Dan7373
Originally Posted by Dan7373
Originally Posted by Dan7373
Originally Posted by Dan7373
You also said in one of your earlier posts something to the effect that a Farang couldn't possibly sweet-talk a TG like a Thai man could. This is rubbish. If you know the lingo and more importantly the nuances of tone and pronounciation, it's quite easy to actually get further with them because at least most Farang represent possibilities to a lot of both P4P and certain types of non-P4P TGs.
I actually "sweet-talked" an Isaan girl last night and she went all giggly and shy on me and thought I was so cute for what I said. It wasn't really the words, so much, but the way they were said and the fact that it was a 'Bakseeda' บักสีดา (Farang) speaking Isaan. TGs love it when a Farang speaks their lingo.
Here's a simple phrase for you to try out.
Jao seu ee-nyang ja. Jao pen na hak ih-lee der. เจ้าซื่อหยัง เจ้าเป็นน่าฮักอิหลีเด้อ
Ask your P4P girl to translate it for you.
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05-30-08 12:32 #360
Posts: 3823Originally Posted by aslan
you can't really judge anyone by what they say. how they act gives more clues.
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05-28-08 07:16 #359
Posts: 1641Originally Posted by Dan7373
I only meant that in general assuming the worst about people anywhere in the world is the most accurate.
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05-28-08 06:53 #358
Posts: 68I'm a dumbass
i just got back home from a trip to the los and had a hell of a time. i've been quite a few times now and dated a thai university grad for a few years that i met in the states and considered marrying. just this past week while sitting in the biergarten on soi 7 at one of the side tables and having a bite to eat i caught a look at this beautiful young lady sitting across the bar. most of the girls will look at you and smile and nod their head or make some flirting gesture, but this one just looked away and then back again in a little bit. after i finished eating i walked over and talked to her and she said she thought i was looking at another lady. we went upstairs and played pool for a little bit and then over to gullivers for a few games. i'm terrible at the game, but she was pretty good. when it was time to say goodbye we talked about going back together. i liked the way she carried herself and sense of humor so i took her back. i see some real assholes dealing with women in these places and i believe in showing them respect until they give me reason not to. we're all *****s in our own way. some girls are gfe and some are just about getting down to business. we hung around and talked for a little while before and after and she left. great experience i thought and i'm off to samui for a week. next night i'm in bangkok i see her at absolute bar while listening to some chick singing like tina turner. she's with a farang and he's dancing all over her. she sees me and a little while later comes over to talk to me. we head upstairs and she kills me at pool again and we end up at the hotel. all night. great experience and she gives me her number. she tells me she's happy i chose her again instead of taking another lady. we talk about meeting the next evening for a movie so she shows up at my hotel at 6pm as planned (shocking) and we're off to ekkamai to eat at some place where you order all sorts of things and cook them on the table as a soup. we're joking around and she's being really sweet. doing things like filling my soup bowl first, pouring water, and showing me how the whole restaurant thing works which you don't find in the states generally. old world feminity. it isn't that i want someone to serve me, but i found a certain grace and politeness in her actions as i do in opening the door for a woman, giving her my coat, or helping her out of a vehicle. even at the hotel she would fold my clothes and offered to take them home and wash them for me because she had a place she could wash them cheap though i declined the offer. we went to the movies and were holding hands. she gives me the thai kiss from time to time. after finding out the newest indiana jones wasn't that great we head back to my hotel. all night. i put money under her purse for when she is ready to leave the next morning she says i don't have to give her money and gives it back to me. i put it in her purse when she's not looking and she's on her way. next evening i don't see her at the biergarten so i give her a call to say hello. she's with her sister in the room and says she doesn't go to the biergarten every day. the following evening i give her a call because she's not there again and we meet up. she says she didn't want to interrupt me the night before because she thought i might want to have a different lady so she didn't want ask to meet me. she gives me the i'm a thai lady and we do not ask the man to do this or that. we spend the next few days together and i really enjoy her company. she's 28, but not jaded like she's been a bar girl since she was 18. her english is pretty good, but not great and not the same bar girl english you find so much of. i speak a little thai so we worked it out. said she used to work in some big hotel in bangkok. no children. never married. says she just started coming to the bar a few weeks prior to meeting me and stays with her sister who is married to an american. she says she's not a bar girl. says she's going to open a store in petchabun and is making money for it. she didn't talk to any of the other girls at the bar because she said she didn't know anyone there. she wasn't really modest which i was a little confused by. my old girlfriend would get naked in the sack, but would cover up after a shower and when changing or laying around. this girl would [CodeWord134] and clean up with me in the same room while i was taking a shower like we were married or something. she walked around naked like it was just a natural thing to do. she was very clean and dressed modestly. she didn't kiss on the mouth, didn't do oral which i didn't press, and wasn't mechanical about sex. i kind of feel like a dumbass writing this. she's a bar girl right? i'm a bit cynical from knowing some other ladies. thing is, i really hated leaving and wished i could have spent more time with her. i can't tell about this one, but i would like to see her again.
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05-28-08 06:45 #357
Posts: 1213Originally Posted by Dan7373
Then I truly feel sorry for you. Thailand has so much to offer and P4P is just a small part. And unfortunately, not the best part of Thailand or Thai society.
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05-27-08 17:49 #356
Posts: 1089Originally Posted by Opebo
If the Thai people are satisfied to live the way they do. Then who are we to judge their way of life?
The plentiful availability of P4P ladies in Thailand is actually what attracted me to Thailand in the first place. For me this is the best Thailand has to offer.
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05-27-08 06:32 #355
Posts: 1213Originally Posted by Dan7373
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05-27-08 04:44 #354
Posts: 1641In Thailand, like everywhere else, one may appear preternaturally knowledgable by simply assuming the worst about people.
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05-26-08 23:15 #353
Posts: 1089Originally Posted by Retired Army
I simply trust the information and the explanations my P4P lady gave me about her community where she has lived most of her life. And I trust her expertise in this matter a lot more than I trust yours or that of other farangs. Because she is from Thailand. And you are not. And she knows a lot about the P4P scene in Thailand from her own life experiences and from the friends she keeps.
I don't want to get personal about this. But it sounds to me like you claim to be a better expert on Thai sociey than someone who was born there and who intimately knows her community. Which is ludicrous.
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05-26-08 22:58 #352
Posts: 116Thai reality
So everyone is agreed, then. We only know what we know.
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05-26-08 21:08 #351
Posts: 1213Thai Reality
Originally Posted by Dan7373
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05-26-08 20:55 #350
Posts: 1089Originally Posted by Retired Army
Just because your experiences have been different from mine doesn't necessarily mean that one of us must be lying. Both of us are probably right. And the reason for the difference is that we've experienced different parts and different aspects of the same Thai society.
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05-26-08 19:39 #349
Posts: 81I deal with Thais close-up and personal every day. And, yet, I'm only partially privy to the deep, inner workings of Thai people.
I'm curious. When you gathered all your in-depth information from the locals in order to form your declarative views, did you do it in English, Thai, or Isaan? If you don't speak the lingo, you never can begin to know much about what people are actually thinking.
I'm sticking to my opinion that you have a very narrow view of a very small part of Thailand and are not really in a position to comment beyond that.[/QUOTE]I would add the it is very rare to find a lad that can drop his own and absorb the new correctly. Doesen't happen. So what OTH says is not only correct, but makes sense in my practical application. On ?, I say, without language and help with context, real life usage/ Thai usage; it is almost not possible to integrate - relate is the best that I can see possible.
Best Regards,
Neufie