Thai Women - Opinions & Advice

[Gangles]

Hello Neil,

I wrote you a long reply about this last night, but somehow I clicked the wrong button and lost it.

But I suggest you go to www.thailandguru.com there is lots of advice there.

Look on the left, towards the bottom, for Thai girlfriends or something like that.

For me, the rules are simple.

Treat them like you would treat a first date in your own country.

Dress well, I prefer to meet them in a neutral plac like a coffee shop or restaurant near my hotel.

Be courteous, be attentive. Many Thai women do not drink alcohol, so don't press it if she says no.

There gets to be a point in the meeting where conversation dies out, and you are both just sitting there. At this time I ask her "what do you want to do now?". Often she will say go to your room. or maybe if you think she is really interested, ask if she wants to watch some TV in your room. Move slowly, by this time she is pretty much committed, but will still be very nervous. Don't push her.

And Thai women tend to not take the initiatie - it is part of their culture. So you will have to initiate everything.

Remember, if she is a regular Thai woman, this is probably her first experience with a farang, so she is probably a bit nervous too. And she has heard all sorts of stories about farang monsters, or farangs eating babies, etc.

But I have had them come with me on the first date. very nervous about penis size, and if you will hurt them.

One spoke very little English, but I had been introduced by a friend, who came with us to dinner, and acted as interpreter for that evening. She came with me first time, and stayed overnight. It was lovely, once she got going, she was vry attentive. And we still get together when I am there in Thailand with some time to spare.

I have not had sex with a Thai virgin.

Oh, also, be prepared that she may turn up with a friend. This is part of their culture, a chaperone, so don't bag it. The second person may be a brother, a friend, sister, cousin. This person is there to protect her in situations of distress. be courteous, accept it. If you shape up as OK, this person will excuse themselves. If they do this, you know you have passed the test, and you are in. It is a good sign.

And remember, in Asia, "nothing is as it seems"

Good luck,

G

[Member #3428]

Like my wife. Took me a long time to convience her that as a Farang I didn't have two heads and wasn't going to eat children.

I know many Thai women pushing forty that haven't encountered the 'one eyed trouser snake" yet and probably never will.

I agree 100% and 99.9999999% of the people that read this board do not get to know traditional thai women. I now know, after many years working and making mistakes in BKK, many women that share intimate details with me, we do things with, talk all the time, but no way are they putting out until after marriage and many are older already and are OK with working and staying single.

Now saying this there are many ladies on web sites that will put out first date no problem. But these I would not classify as traditional girls. If they are advertising on the web I would have a hard time as considering them normal or traditional thai girls still.

The problem for me, is that I'm a fucking horn dog / bastard and need a nympho. Looks are important but the nympho aspect is the most important. I haven't found a traditional thai girl that can hump all the time and haven't found a traditional girl I want to invest the time with to try to get into the sack. So I'm inclined to think I'm stuck with bar girls or ex bar girls in different countries for the rest of my life.

NOW... I do know a lot of ex bar girls that have been good wives, act like traditional wives, etc... But I know a lot more that cheat and ko hok to their sponsors. The older they get, the more they've learned and value a good guy so getting young bar girls as your TGF you are asking for trouble.

And shit but I like them young so I'm screwed no matter what I do. I admire you for finding a good wife and staying with it.

[Retired Army]

First Date? Shoot.. I've had some that go long long long time without getting any type of sexual action.

Like my wife. Took me a long time to convience her that as a Farang I didn't have two heads and wasn't going to eat children.

I know many Thai women pushing forty that haven't encountered the 'one eyed trouser snake" yet and probably never will.

[1Ball]

Neil, just go along on the principle these girls are no different than girls you might meet in your home country. They might be easy, they might not. If you like them, don't jump on them, take your time, and your efforts will rewarded 10 fold.

[Member #3428]

Don't assume that all Thai women are *****s or prostitutes. There are "good" Thai girls that don't want to sleep with you on the first date.

First Date? Shoot.. I've had some that go long long long time without getting any type of sexual action.

[Retired Army]

Hey guys,

A few months ago I reported about my last trip to BKK. I was getting kind of bored with the P4P scene.

My next trip is coming up in a few weeks.

I have prepared it very much.

I have been chatting for two months with girls from a thai dating site.

This time I come to BKK with a dozen of girls waiting for me.

It's pretty cool but I'll probably wont have the time to see them all.

My question to you guys is :

"What are the DOs and DON'Ts when dating regular thai girls?".

Thanks in advance for your advices

Don't assume that all Thai women are *****s or prostitutes. There are "good" Thai girls that don't want to sleep with you on the first date.

[Fon Tok]

Are you sure they are all lady boys? I'd be in real trouble...Slim

In that particular photo, i.e, the previous group shot, yes.

Thai ladyboys communicate in a distinctive cackle that is probably one of the more obnoxious sounds known to man. You could hear these guys coming from 100 meters.

[LittleBigMan]

MP Lover,

Is this who I think it is?

LBM

[Neil Flanders]

Hey guys,

A few months ago I reported about my last trip to BKK. I was getting kind of bored with the P4P scene.

My next trip is coming up in a few weeks.

I have prepared it very much.

I have been chatting for two months with girls from a thai dating site.

This time I come to BKK with a dozen of girls waiting for me.

It's pretty cool but I'll probably wont have the time to see them all.

My question to you guys is :

"What are the DOs and DON'Ts when dating regular thai girls?".

Thanks in advance for your advices

[M P Lurker]

As noted to each his own!

This picture of Natt, very very nice, somewhat thin, but the breast more than make up for it. Very very nice! Here face, also nice no makeup! which is always a plus for LBM. Into the natural look without all the powder cake!

Now I did some backtracking maybe I'm missing it.. Where does she work?

LBM

Natt used to be a celebrity pornstar in Thailand, but I believe quit a few years back. I saw her interviewed on TV tonight show by Sanyaa I think. May have restarted porn work or nude modelling for all I know.

[Nvslim]

It's amazing how many ladyboys are "mall rats."

Are you sure they are all lady boys? I'd be in real trouble.

Slim

[LittleBigMan]

As noted to each his own!

This picture of Natt, very very nice, somewhat thin, but the breast more than make up for it. Very very nice! Here face, also nice no makeup! which is always a plus for LBM. Into the natural look without all the powder cake!

Now I did some backtracking maybe I'm missing it.. Where does she work?

LBM

[M P Lurker]

I'd agree on her body, since it's slim with attractive breasts.

As for her face, IMO it's only average, not pretty. If i met her around NEP
or Siam Paragon i'd be seriously concerned that she might not be a lady.

I'd offer her 1000 Baht ST, while for those i consider to be hotter than her
or stunners with great performance i go to 1500.

As i see it quite a number of ladies on the Angel and Annies MP websites
are pretty or beautiful. Natt Chanapa is neither.

As the sayings go, to each their own, or beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
But i am really surprised you'ld consider this lady pretty or a stunner.

There is no accounting for taste!

Nearly everyone is surprised that you were surprised!

Very few people would agree with you, unless their spec is round faced pudgy girls. (Each to their own)

No Annies girl could compete with Natt in looks, even though Natt is not exactly my spec.

http://www.chanapanatt.com/nattchanapasex02.jpg

Maybe Kristen at Angel (the one who seemed was never there).

[Fon Tok]

...If i met her around NEP
or Siam Paragon i'd be seriously concerned that she might not be a lady...

It's amazing how many ladyboys are "mall rats."

[PinkPearl]

Anyway, the attractive Thai girls I've seen tend to be the more Chinese-Thai, the light-skinned girls. Natt Chanapa is an example of a great Thai girl stunner. She's not exactly super pretty, but pretty enough, and her body is to die for.

I'd agree on her body, since it's slim with attractive breasts.

As for her face, IMO it's only average, not pretty. If i met her around NEP
or Siam Paragon i'd be seriously concerned that she might not be a lady.

I'd offer her 1000 Baht ST, while for those i consider to be hotter than her
or stunners with great performance i go to 1500.

As i see it quite a number of ladies on the Angel and Annies MP websites
are pretty or beautiful. Natt Chanapa is neither.

As the sayings go, to each their own, or beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
But i am really surprised you'ld consider this lady pretty or a stunner.

I'd be interested in other opinions on this, especially OTH's, as he has shown
IMO an above average taste in Thai women.