Thai Women - Opinions & Advice

[Old Thai Hand]

From what I've seen and read this is normal behaviour for Thai ladies outside the P4P realm. Compared to what you describe here, dealing with drug addicted SW *****s in Canada is a piece of cake, with P4P TGs being a dream cum true. Good luck with your knee operation!

Thanks. It's actually true in P4P, as well. Thai women in general are just plain psycho. In my early days, I had plenty of P4P girls who went nuts in one way or another. The best thing is to simply 3F and get rid of them.

I was just having dinner with a couple of long-time friends here and one, who after managing to extricate himself from his marriage to a very disturbed HiSo TG was lamenting that the girls he's dated since have been every bit as crazy.

Mental illness, afterall is quite a serious problem here. The role models that TGs find in Thai TV programs only exacerbate the problems.

[NicFrenchy]

Usually thai girls have the memory of a gold fish.

Funny quote JB LOL, a Gold fish has a 3 seconds memory (which is why it is never bored in the Small Bowl).

Now, Girls have a far better memory than their male counterparts, so I assume Thai Guys all are close to 1sec memory?

Seriously, in my 3 years working with Thais, I have found that they can remember all the things that they like quite well and will never bother to even think about boring stuff. If something is boring, they will not make any effort to remember, but if there is something they think as important, some are better than me at remembering things.

[Jungle Bluebird]

Usually thai girls have the memory of a gold fish. I you do not screw all within the first week nothing will come out of it.

Keep in mind they also get about 100 mails per day. So if you delay, they simple will move on.

I suggest you filter as per your needs. You may ask them to double up - i.e. invite 2 girls at once :-)

But of course they are all 'good girls', so in that sense filtering will work well, as u may end up with just 1 or 2.

Tip: locate ok hotel close to condo or place of work.

JB

...Out of 60 I got 25 Tel # and the promise that they are all waiting for me...

[PinkPearl]

i've been stalked, threatened with a false pregnancy a few times, threatened with a charge of [CodeWord123] and police coming to my condo with the "victim", huge tantrums and crying jags in public, not to mention two incidents of physical assault (not serious, in that neither could punch very hard). but, the punching in one case attracted a group of angry motorcycle taxi guys who just assumed the worst about "the farang" and were ready to beat the crap out of me, until i managed to hop in a taxi and escape.

have fun. but, be careful.

from what i've seen and read this is normal behaviour for thai ladies outside the p4p realm. compared to what you describe here, dealing with drug addicted sw *****s in canada is a piece of cake, with p4p tgs being a dream cum true. good luck with your knee operation!

[Old Thai Hand]

This is completely shocking, given the obviously "better" class of women that you only associate with. Perhaps you should try shagging brown-skinned P4P girls fresh off the farm. I've done many dozens, perhaps hundreds of them, and never had this happen. I just pay them and they leave. Charlie Sheen would be proud.

That should read, " 'better' class of woman that I NORMALLY associate with ". However, there are some of those online, too. I was just referring to the worst case scenario of my experiences which represents less than 10% of the 70 or so women I have met online. Afterall, as I've stated before, I met both my GF and Gig online and the two of them are true gems. So, one can meet quality girls online. But, it takes some major searching through the drek to find them. I wasn't looking for a GF. But, I luckily found one by accident.

Back in 2003, I started using online websites like AsianEuro, Thailovelinks, and more recently HotorNot, not to mention Hi5 and MSN Personals because it was something different and initially I thought it would be another and certainly easier avenue to pursue, than my usual route. But, most of the girls, while shaggable aren't my personal cup of tea. But, I'm sure they would appeal to many others. While there is a wide variety to choose from, most still seem to come from Isaan, especially Khon Kaen and Udon Thani (I particularly dislike women from these 2 provinces), and the vast majority do seem quite desperate. Also, the quality has dropped considerably in the last couple of years and there are a lot more P4P, or near-P4P now using these sites, under the guise of being "regular" TGs.

I think for someone just coming here on a holiday, it's a good way to go with the advantage of being able to escape after a couple of weeks, without any lingering after-effects. But, for someone living here, it requires considerably more caution and being much more selective.

[Quickfix]

Hi Guys,

Can someone please advise the web sites that they used to meet these Thai girls. Yes i'm aware of the down side just want to look at some.

Thanks

Q

[Yin Yang]

Love Sex 22,

I also spiced up my recent trip with a few online dates and had good fun - but also a lot of work - with them. From my experience, anything is on offer on those websites. You have the gold-diggers, you have the desperate ones, and you also have some genuine Thai ladies looking for a match. If you spend a couple of hours in the chat rooms, it's relatively easy to separate the wheat from the chaff - and then it's up to you to choose which one you want.

Not all of the ladies will be interested in "good clean fun". Actually, most of them will want more than that, in one way or another. As usual in Thailand, things that are obvious to both sides - such as the fact that each date is just one among many others - tend to be ignored nonetheless. So some ladies who try to monopolize you react very strongly if they realize they can't. To avoid nasty situations, more than one phone number and breaking up the trip into several parts, changing hotel etc. can be useful. As OTH said, some of the girls can become attached more quickly than you may desire. And more often than not, the ones who get attached too quickly are not the ones you would have chosen yourself. Apart from that, however, you can easily have a great time - and save some money too

YY

[Love Sex 22]

having played the online game for about 5 years now, i would strongly recommend caution when dealing with any of these girls.

first and foremost, don't ever let them know where your condo is - take them to a hotel, or go to their place. get another phone, separate from your usual phone and use this when communicating with any of them. they may say that they understand that you aren't looking for anything serious. but, trust me, none of them actually buy into this and will get very attached, very fast and will turn psycho, if they think you have someone else.

i've been stalked, threatened with a false pregnancy a few times, threatened with a charge of [CodeWord123] and police coming to my condo with the "victim", huge tantrums and crying jags in public, not to mention two incidents of physical assault (not serious, in that neither could punch very hard). but, the punching in one case attracted a group of angry motorcycle taxi guys who just assumed the worst about "the farang" and were ready to beat the crap out of me, until i managed to hop in a taxi and escape.

have fun. but, be careful.

thats a great idea not taking them to my condo . it would save me a lot of problems. i have already 3 cell phones that part is covered . now i am getting 30 emails every day that i have to answer to but i use the p4p girls method . i send the same email to all the girls but just change the names.
thanks gioto for your sympathy . i might bring few of them to your sport bar .
i will keep you, guys posted .

[Member #2041]

having played the online game for about 5 years now, i would strongly recommend caution when dealing with any of these girls.

first and foremost, don't ever let them know where your condo is - take them to a hotel, or go to their place. get another phone, separate from your usual phone and use this when communicating with any of them. they may say that they understand that you aren't looking for anything serious. but, trust me, none of them actually buy into this and will get very attached, very fast and will turn psycho, if they think you have someone else.

i've been stalked, threatened with a false pregnancy a few times, threatened with a charge of [CodeWord123] and police coming to my condo with the "victim", huge tantrums and crying jags in public, not to mention two incidents of physical assault (not serious, in that neither could punch very hard). but, the punching in one case attracted a group of angry motorcycle taxi guys who just assumed the worst about "the farang" and were ready to beat the crap out of me, until i managed to hop in a taxi and escape.

have fun. but, be careful.

this is completely shocking, given the obviously "better" class of women that you only associate with. perhaps you should try shagging brown-skinned p4p girls fresh off the farm. i've done many dozens, perhaps hundreds of them, and never had this happen. i just pay them and they leave. charlie sheen would be proud.

[Old Thai Hand]

And through it all, from start to finish, you were just treating each of them in your usual sweet, lovable, understanding, and good hearted way, right?

absolutely!

[Daddy07]

... i've been stalked, threatened with a false pregnancy a few times, threatened with a charge of [CodeWord123] and police coming to my condo with the "victim", huge tantrums and crying jags in public, not to mention two incidents of physical assault...

and through it all, from start to finish, you were just treating each of them in your usual sweet, lovable, understanding, and good hearted way, right? :d

[Old Thai Hand]

i am not a young man , i am over 50 , and all the girls saw my picture and they know exactly how i look . the only thing that attracts them i am sure is the fact that i have a condo and a new car in bangkok . so money talks again even for none pro .
my biggest problem now is how to manage my time when i get to bangkok in 2 weeks . because i have a girl friend that she would cut my balls if she finds out about these girls .

having played the online game for about 5 years now, i would strongly recommend caution when dealing with any of these girls.

first and foremost, don't ever let them know where your condo is - take them to a hotel, or go to their place. get another phone, separate from your usual phone and use this when communicating with any of them. they may say that they understand that you aren't looking for anything serious. but, trust me, none of them actually buy into this and will get very attached, very fast and will turn psycho, if they think you have someone else.

i've been stalked, threatened with a false pregnancy a few times, threatened with a charge of [CodeWord123] and police coming to my condo with the "victim", huge tantrums and crying jags in public, not to mention two incidents of physical assault (not serious, in that neither could punch very hard). but, the punching in one case attracted a group of angry motorcycle taxi guys who just assumed the worst about "the farang" and were ready to beat the crap out of me, until i managed to hop in a taxi and escape.

have fun. but, be careful.

[M P Lurker]

Re the pics of girls, I'm not sure that I'm understanding your point. I'd assume that probably your first sentence is true, but don't see how the second follows from it, my view being that the ladies at those two places are as lovely as those on the website. Perhaps you meant to reiterate your opinion from another thread that these women in BKK are ugly. And that those on the site are so much superior to them that there is no comparison.

I mean't that the web sites would not expect to be rated as similar to the Nana Car park. They may be trying for a quite different look and certainly not similar to the ladyboys

I don't believe BKK women are ugly in general, nor do I go for the chinese, round faced, nor slanty-eyed looks that many others go for. I prefer a very obviously Thai look but with small nose. I think Thai have a higher proportion of good lookers than most Asian countries.
My taste would be as close as can get to a Thai version of Jessica Alba.

Its just that the Nana Car park is not where I would expect to find a lot of stunners to my taste. The odd one or two might be pretty enough to interest me.

[Giotto]

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My biggest problem now is how to manage my time when I get to Bangkok in 2 weeks . Because I have a girl friend that she would cut my balls if she finds out about these girls .

Love Sex 22,

LOL, I understand that you have a serious problem now. I feel for you .


Giotto

[Love Sex 22]

Since I had a little free time back home in USA . I decided to try my luck with the Thai dating sights for the first time . I must say I was amazed at the number of girls that looking to find farang man for serious relationship most of them with a bachelor degrees and some with master degrees . . That obviously was not my intention I am looking just for some good clean fun , if you no what I mean . And I made it clear to the girls that I am not looking to get married and just want to have some fun and be friends . I wrote the same letter to about 100 girls from 20 to 28 years old all look attractive in the photos . I got 60 serious responds with there email and there interest to meet me . Out of 60 I got 25 Tel # and the promise that they are all waiting for me . Some of them even offered to pick me up from the airport . I am not a young man , I am over 50 , and all the girls saw my picture and they know exactly how I look . The only thing that attracts them I am sure is the fact that I have a condo and a new car in Bangkok . So money talks again even for none pro .
My biggest problem now is how to manage my time when I get to Bangkok in 2 weeks . Because I have a girl friend that she would cut my balls if she finds out about these girls .