The Morality of Prostitution

[CBGBConnisur]

In some ways its a very liberating feeling to pay a woman for sex, no attachments and no worries afterwards. Still it seems like a bad substitute. We are living an increasingly fast paced world where relationships are difficult to maintain due to the hectic pace of life, and the fact that we are constantly running around. Its awefully easy to find a girlfriend but its hard to keep a meaningful relationship in this day and age.

[Mike Del]

I happened to see a link to the 'Rookie Opinions' (under 'Special Interests' / 'General Mongering Q&A) which is actually very good - many of the points and many answers are posted which deal with the issues being discussed now.

Sasha: perhaps you might like to select and put up some of those posts, I think. Rubber Nursey is a font of good advice as you know.

My two cents worth (for the wall):

George 90 and Zing are on the money - having dealt with WGs and non-WGs, the pretty ones in my experience always have some sort of issue: too tired or sore, won't do that, don't mess up my make-up / hair / implants etc etc. It's like a bad date, the only thing is that it might be a little shorter event though it sometimes costs the same.

Funnily enough, I've had some of the most pleasant experiences with girls about the same age as me (late 30s) and early 20s. The personality / psychology (if you will) is the key factor. Just like anyone in their job. But I've always thought that the younger WGs always think of their hunky boyfriends when they do the deed...

Turn-offs: One in particular is a motor mouth. I remember trying to chat up a WG in a parlour (unnamed) and "Essex Girl" kept on talking and talking and talking about whatever like the Energizer bunny. I like chatting and getting to know the WGs, what they do outside of work and so on. But I hate jackhammers in my ear.
Obviously another is the 'Jeckyll & Hyde' routine - sweet outside the room and the opposite inside. This is harder to get right and only experience teaches what to look for. But I would like to know what's off limits before making a choice.
Cutting in: Some WGS might well be desperate for business. Nothing pisses me off more than one trying to cut in, especially if I'm talking to someone I've seen before.
Other clients: I have no problem with it (others might) but if you have other bookings, tell us. Don't string us along, it just pisses us off.

Turn-ons: Call me a wimp, I like it when, after the girl closes the door to the room (WG or not), she gives me a hug and starts whispering in my ear. I like that a return the favour. I appreciate it when girls tell me (gently) what they do and don't like. I would like to oblige where I can - doesn't everybody ?
Eye contact: I know its hard to do when you don't like the client but it helps to get in the mood.
Thank you: I know its hard to do when you don't like the client but if I like you, I am likely to come back.


Just my thoughts...





That's not to say that I'm into the ugly of the ugly - but I guess I like regular, non-pretentious girls rather than prima donnas.

[Opebo]

I think any honest observer would agree that regular customers are mainly about 'GFE' - bareback sex, or at the very least BBBJ.

[George90]

What interests me is that some girls have the ability to make guys turn up there every week and part with their money and other girls have no idea thats the name of the game. A regular client is worth their weight in gold.

My other recent observation is that the WG with the regular clientelle don't tend to be the young pretty thing, but the working girl in my age group (30-35). Why is it that these young girls don't appeal to the clients for a regular visit?

I agree with Zing. Very pretty girls grow up in an environment where they live on their looks. They get catered to by everyone. They get freebies from police, stores, entertainers, even teachers and parents. They are rarely asked to work for what they are getting and can get away with refusing to do so when they are asked. They develop a prima donna attitude. The name of their game is "I'm special!"

When they become WGs, they bring this attitude with them. They discover that the men who patronize WGs are not so accomodating as regular society because a pretty face and a sexy body *BY THEMSELVES* don't do squat for a man. They don't want to accept their new role of having to actually work so they push that man away expecting the next one to be more like what they have been used to. Of course, what they have been used to never arroves, so they never develop repeat clientele.

Only after they have lost some of their appeal due to age, weight gain, or other things, do they realize they need to drop their attitude.

[Zing23]

My other recent observation is that the WG with the regular clientelle don't tend to be the young pretty thing, but the working girl in my age group (30-35). Why is it that these young girls don't appeal to the clients for a regular visit?

My experience has been that the young pretty things don't make that a super effort in the room. They may be very flirty and arousing in the bar (our legal brothels are also bars, where you mingle with the girls and drink and perhaps make a selection, or not), but in the room they are usually lacking in one thing or another: too passive, or too restrictive (no intimacy such as kissing or BBBJ or even caressing and snuggling), or even inexperienced in love making (it is a learned skill after all), too concerned about the elapsed time, etc. They sometimes seem to be saying to the client - you are lucky to be in the bed with me, accept what little I have to offer.

My theory has been that being the cutest and the youngest, they get a lot of customers anyway, so they don't have the incentive to try harder and build repeat clientele. And perhaps they have been getting what they want from men wihout much effort since they hit puberty!

I try not to be prejudiced against beautiful WG because I have had some incredible encounters with beautiful ones. But the odds say that it is less likely....

-zing

[Sasha Coffee]

here being a wg is not a crime, two years ago we made prostitution legal. yippeeeee.

ok so when a client comes into a brothel and pays for a lady he is paying at the door to the receptionist. when he has the lady of his choice and is in the room he doesn't need to open his wallet again. unless ofcourse he has negotiated with the lady in question for what we call extra services of anal etc. (you get my drift)..

therefore the wg here provides the basic service of massage, suck, f...

what interests me is that some girls have the ability to make guys turn up there every week and part with their money and other girls have no idea thats the name of the game. a regular client is worth their weight in gold.

my other recent observation is that the wg with the regular clientelle don't tend to be the young pretty thing, but the working girl in my age group (30-35). why is it that these young girls don't appeal to the clients for a regular visit?

[Lazzaro]

Thanks guys thats a start.
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Keep it coming I'm dying to know more.
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How bout what is one thing that a WG will do that can you leave you totally turned off or something she can do that can turn you on.

Dearest Sasha

I think it is the same as for the other trades.
I do often a comparison (analogy, parallel. Sorry I really don't know the correct English term) with friends:
If you go to a small restaurant where you pay, all-inclusive (including drinks), 15 Euro (dollars,......) you get a 15 euro service. It means that the waiters could works in "undershirt" and slipper and with toothpick in the mouth. Food could be the best, but all around you makes you feel unconfortable as you are in a filthy restaurant
If you go to a restaurant where you pay 60 Euro, you get also a better service. Waiters are well dressed, polite, the restaurand seems clean........Even if the food is not the best, it appears you better than it is in the truth.
If you go to a restaurant where a small bottle of water it costs you 30 Euro, you expect the waiters with a white gloves, you expect they change the cutlery every time even if you have not used them, you expect a waiters who fill up your glass everytime you drink, .....In few words: you expect the best of the best and even if the food is not the best, it looks like something to die for.
The same is for a WG: On my side, when I go with a WG, it is not a simply matter of "insert/shake/spurt" (like Bam Wham thank you mom), but it is something more.
I don't say that chemistry play its game, but also that could be a good item.
If I pay a WG 25 Euro, the service will be compared with the expense.
If I pay 60 Euro, I'm expecting what I'm looking for basically.
And so on........

Ciao

[Bango Cheito]

Personally, and I think I'm also speaking in general on this one, i think WGs need to forget about the hard sell, at least on the verbal level. I'm thinking specifically of incall, strip clubs, underground parties etc. This is one of the BIG differences I noticed between Latin America and the US. The guys are there, they've paid admission, they're ready to go. They are just trying to decide with whom.

Often the best way (IMO) to close the deal for a WG is simply to rub up against the guy, sit in his lap, purr in his ear etc. Talking is a little more difficult, as Lazzaro pointed out, what would work for me wouldn't work for him. But of course as you probably already know the idea is to figure out what the guy is looking for and do your best to become that, or if you can't get close enough, just move on.

[Tile Man4]

Thanks guys thats a start.

I ask because I want to put your posts up in my parlour and show the girls what men require.

I'm so pleased you wrote the Cell phone one, that drives me nuts also. I hate seeing girls sitting there texting when clients are around.

Other than that now I see why I'm a good WG. Its the simple things, on time, well groomed, well dressed, well spoken

Sex in multi positions without the prude attitude.

Keep it coming I'm dying to know more.

How bout what is one thing that a WG will do that can you leave you totally turned off or something she can do that can turn you on.

Kick some ass with your WG's Sasha. The cell phone game is very rude. We western men are told that Chinese women are the most polite and respectful in the world. I hope this is true , BUT , they are rude with that cell phone.

I don't think the WG will do this in front of a Chinese client , because the Chinese man will not accept this shit. True or not true?

Also , tell your WG , don't be shy to stat the action . Most western men like this. And most western men will accept NO to oral and anal if the WG does not like this. There are a million ways to make a man happy. PLAY PLAY PLAY

Chinese women are taught to pamper men and even be slaves to men. Western men like the play and pamper , BUT , most of us are not looking for a slave. Also Sasha , most western men like to give his women pleasure and many Chinese men don't care about his woman's pleasure. Tell your WG to accept pleasure. Most western men will forget about his Orgasm (high Tide)
one hour after he has his orgasm , BUT , he will NEVER forget the orgasm that he gives his woman.

I'm not bashing Chinese men , they are good men , but I have hear some stories that many of them only think about himself and not his woman. If I heard wrong , then I am sorry to all you Chinese men.

Tell your WG's that western men love to give oral , yes , even a WG. Chinese men tell you Chinese women that they will lose face if they give a woman oral. Lose face my ass. What about your face when your WG must give oral?

Tell your WG's to ask for oral , they will be very surprised how many men will give them the best orgasm they ever had. Men like to be asked and told what to do too. Being asked TURNS us on.

Good luck girl and make some money.

Tilegpc4

[Sasha Coffee]

Thanks guys thats a start.

I ask because I want to put your posts up in my parlour and show the girls what men require.

I'm so pleased you wrote the Cell phone one, that drives me nuts also. I hate seeing girls sitting there texting when clients are around.

Other than that now I see why I'm a good WG. Its the simple things, on time, well groomed, well dressed, well spoken

Sex in multi positions without the prude attitude.

Keep it coming I'm dying to know more.

How bout what is one thing that a WG will do that can you leave you totally turned off or something she can do that can turn you on.

[Lazzaro]

......I personally don't mind at all if a girl swears or talks really dirty, I like that in a woman. Most smart WGs would pick up on that, because I would be applying hints with a sledgehammer......

I don't formalize either if she speaks dirty "during" the action (or sometime...).
What I meant (these are typical problem of translation....sorry!) is: I don't look for a graduate girls, but neither an illiterate one.
I don't like person who swears like a trooper; who says a swearword every 3 words; who is coarse,........

Hope to clarify

[Bango Cheito]

i think most of it is what applies anywhere in the business world. being punctual (in situations where it applies), presentable, and personable. i personally don't mind at all if a girl swears or talks really dirty, i like that in a woman. most smart wgs would pick up on that, because i would be applying hints with a sledgehammer. obviously baiting and switching are never cool in business of any sort.

the one thing i don't like are girls that have lots of limits, especially really unnecessary ones. i can appreciate things like not doing anal if the girl really isn't up to speed with her ability in that area, for example. but sometimes you get real weird shit like a girl who only wants to do one position, as another example. i like lots of variety in my sex, not just in with whom i do it but also in what happens. personally i don't understand at all because if i put myself in a wg's shoes i'd be very up for anything that allowed me to have a break from the regular suck-and-fuck.

[Alex Rock]

Sasha, Boy, we're all willing to tell you.

I think what makes a wg stand out from the pack are:

She focusses on you when you are with her - no phone, no disinterest, no distraction, no rush. No "hurry up"

She helps you relax - we can be nervous, especially with new girls or in a strange place. She smiles and lets you feel OK. She asks you if there's anything you'd like. Willing to do things that turn you on.

She makes you feel safe and clean and she smells good - not over perfumed.

She acts friendly, especially when it's time to go.

[Tile Man4]

Ciao Sasha

I agree with George90:

On my side, me too I can only say what makes a sex worker "good" for me.

1) Also fo me, she should be the typical girl you go to drink something with.
No vulgar and a little bit feminine

She should not have a "bad smell" and she should put me at the centre of her attention (ie. the cell phone is turned OFF ABSOLUTELY!!!!!).

I know, I could be accused to be a "male sciovinist", but at the end, I look for a "lover" not for a "wife"

2) She should be honest from the beginning.

Sometimes what it is not said in advance, there is no reson to say it (i.e.: touching breast. Not said in advance does not mean I can't touch) ALL condition, limits, restrictions, must be discussed BEFORE the deal is set.

3) I was too with WGs who saw the ceiling or she was completely absent mentally.
Everyone lost interest and couldn't continue the performance.

If I try to give her some pleasure, she should relax and try to take it, without feign.
At least, she should tells you where and how to touch them or suggested positions in which they also were well stimulated (as also written by George90).

I look for a "normal" girl (the typical closest door girl), who's able to say something on what happens in the world (not only politics or sports and neither talking about "Pussy" or "dick" or "fuck", and so on)

But overall is most important she looks at me not as a "cow to milk" and neither ask me "how many time to finish? are you ready to explode?" and so on.

In fact I'm going "quite" regularly into an apartment whre there are 2 Chinese girls.
It is nice spend some time chatting about "how to cook this" or the difference of the Italian way of life compared with the Chinese one.

Ciao

I agree you you 1000% - THAT CELL PHONE OFF . Several WG almost got that cell phone up their ass and not my dick. WG's sell themself , that means I own them for 1 hour or more. The same way my boss owns me for 8 hours a day. I don't want them conducting more business when I am trying to get my rocks off. WG's want respect and so do I. I see 6 year old kids with cell phone in China. Its crazy

tilegpc4

[Lazzaro]

I have answered lots and lots of questions and given my opinion on many things involving sex workers. I was wondering something:
What is it that men look for in a sex worker, and what is it that she does thats makes her a good sex worker in your eyes?

Ciao Sasha

I agree with George90:

On my side, me too I can only say what makes a sex worker "good" for me.

1) Also fo me, she should be the typical girl you go to drink something with.
No vulgar and a little bit feminine
She should not have a "bad smell" and she should put me at the centre of her attention (ie. the cell phone is turned OFF ABSOLUTELY!!!!!).
I know, I could be accused to be a "male sciovinist", but at the end, I look for a "lover" not for a "wife"

2) She should be honest from the beginning.
Sometimes what it is not said in advance, there is no reson to say it (i.e.: touching breast. Not said in advance does not mean I can't touch) ALL condition, limits, restrictions, must be discussed BEFORE the deal is set.

3) I was too with WGs who saw the ceiling or she was completely absent mentally.
Everyone lost interest and couldn't continue the performance.
If I try to give her some pleasure, she should relax and try to take it, without feign.
At least, she should tells you where and how to touch them or suggested positions in which they also were well stimulated (as also written by George90).


I look for a "normal" girl (the typical closest door girl), who's able to say something on what happens in the world (not only politics or sports and neither talking about "Pussy" or "dick" or "fuck", and so on)
But overall is most important she looks at me not as a "cow to milk" and neither ask me "how many time to finish? are you ready to explode?" and so on.
In fact I'm going "quite" regularly into an apartment whre there are 2 Chinese girls.
It is nice spend some time chatting about "how to cook this" or the difference of the Italian way of life compared with the Chinese one.

Ciao