The Morality of Prostitution

[Gedanken]

Ok, so I read the report written by the chick in the link, and yes, probably at some time I will feel lonely about only seeing young, hot pussy willing to take it in the mouth for 1200 php.

Such times will happen - and for me that's when the beer comes in! I get some beers into me to drown my sorrows, or better still go out drinking with friends or a fellow monger. The bad time will not last forever. Better still, go get yourself some GFE! Nothing like some loving GFE to cheer up the melancholic monger!

I love stating the obvious: life is all about making decisions and living with the consequences. I foresee quite well most of the likely and inevitable downsides to this mongering lifestyle which we all follow, but for me it's worth it. I know that I can't have my cake and eat it: mongering has downsides. I don't think throwing yourself headlong into mongering without consideration of the impact that it will have on yourself and your life is particularly wise. Sure, sometimes feeling lonely about only seeing young, hot pussy will happen; it's just a downside to mongering. On the other side of the fence, which always looks greener, you could be chained to a wife who could leave you at any moment and so leave you in an emotional and financial ruin. My fear of commitment (i.e. fear of rejection) plus my non-existent desire to bring children into this shitty world makes choosing mongering a reasonably easy decision (though I am mindful that this choice has its downsides).

On the other hand, I, (like the guy in the article), have neither the time nor the patience to go on 3 dates (my limit) with chicks for mediocre sex at best with a chick that doesn't know how to give a good BJ or take it in the ass.

Again I find myself agreeing with you. What's the point in wining and dining your typical girl and all the effort that dating requires (with no guarantee of a lay even at the end of it), when you can just make a phone call or go to a club, pay a sum of money and fuck the kind of pussy that you could otherwise only dream about?

Doing different pussy each time gets my dick hard. Even same old/same old providers get boring after a while, no matter how hot they are. That is just me. Honestly, right now, I don't think you could pay me to get married.

Ditto: the more women I fuck, the more women I want to fuck. It also helps with the dehumanisation process if you only see the girl once. If you see them a few times, spend some time chatting with them, I find it much harder - if not impossible - to treat them like fuck-meat.

[Gedanken]

Probably English isn't your first language but I don't see where anyone on this thread ever said anything like that.

My good sir, I must insist that I was merely agreeing with you. In a recent, previous post you said, "I think most guys who move to a country just for the pussy will not be happy." That statement was what I was agreeing with, I apologise for not making myself clearer.

Perhaps we could do a study correlating perceived happiness with the number of pairs of shoes owned. The results could be quite interesting.

This sounds like a worthwhile research project! Given the apparent relationship between numbers of pairs of shoes that many silly, shallow, money-motivated, rich-world women insist on owning and their levels of happiness (and mine), I'd be unsurprised if the study found that that owning lots of shoes means you are not very happy (and unable to make a man happy). You and I, with our mere handful of pairs of shoes, are the people to emulate, Dickhead!

[Bango Cheito]

Wow, I've not had time to reply for a while...

Just to say, IMOE, mongering has NOT made me any harder. In face, since I moved to Colombia, my heart chakra has been blown WIDE open. Living in North America made me hard and cold and lacking in perception. That's all been corrected now. I mongered in both places, ergo, mongering had NOTHING to do with it.

I'm currently in love with a girl I may never be more than friends with (although God and Satan both know I will do what I can to change that).... and in the meantime I'm still mongering AND seeing other girls casually. Being in love hasn't lessened the joy of that, but at the same time, the joy of that hasn't lessened the pain or longing of the unrequited love. But if the girl ends up deciding she does want to be with me and demands monogamy in return, I will even give it a try. I don't know if the sex will be the most mind-blowing sex ever or just mediocre. I personally doubt I could be this into the girl and not have great sex, but the proof is in the pudding. I honestly really don't know just how much experience she has, I haven't been able to pry it out of her yet. But also, even if she's inexperienced there is always the possibility that she will learn fast and be down for everything!!

If you want to talk about quality of life here, the ONLY area in which an American city beats Bogota would be access to cars, and I fucking hate cars and I hate to drive anyways. The water here is better quality than ANY American city's water, and 99% of the city has good access to it. Not to mention medical care. And trust me, there are a lot of plasma TVs in the poorest neighborhoods here too! Not that I think that's a good thing either!

There are also food stamps, other programs for infants and children, besides the aforementioned medical programs, TONS of shit to help the bottom 20% of society here. The women who work in prostitution here do it by and large by CHOICE..... meaning 99.9999% of the time by choice.

The last girl I had here only works one day a week... hardly sounds like coercion to me!

Lastly, Illogic, you yourself said it, the problem is THE WAY PEOPLE LOOK AT PROSTITUTES. We change THAT, and the problem goes away!!

[Carmex]

Ok, so I read the report written by the chick in the link, and yes, probably at some time I will feel lonely about only seeing young, hot pussy willing to take it in the mouth for 1200 php.

On the other hand, I, (like the guy in the article), have neither the time nor the patience to go on 3 dates (my limit) with chicks for mediocre sex at best with a chick that doesn't know how to give a good BJ or take it in the ass.

Add up all the dates you have been on in your life, then add the money you spent, and subtract the times you got fucked. Then do the same with all the SP you have been with and see which number is bigger.

Doing different pussy each time gets my dick hard. Even same old/same old providers get boring after a while, no matter how hot they are. That is just me. Honestly, right now, I don't think you could pay me to get married. Unless she was an ultra rich, bisexual, multi-orgasmic, super model with a PhD in Astrophysics. Then, maybe then, I would last for a couple of years.

Just ask Hugh Hefner.

I rest my case.

[Dickhead]

"I don't know how anyone can honestly say they can live only for pussy and be happy."

Probably English isn't your first language but I don't see where anyone on this thread ever said anything like that.

Obviously you can't be happy living only for pussy. You need beer and weed and a high-level career with steady money coming in and a good gym (and a good pair of gym shoes). You need intellectual and cultural stimulation from time to time as well.

I don't know how anyone can live without sex and be happy. I know a lot of people who live without sex and none of them seem very happy to me. Perhaps we could do a study correlating perceived happiness with the number of pairs of shoes owned. The results could be quite interesting.

[Gedanken]

The next time I saw her she asked me, "Do you really only have three pairs of shoes?" I have four pairs now so I am moving up in the world. I don't have to move again for another five months so I might even buy another pair, or not.

Hahaha! Geez, I own only two pairs of shoes at the moment: my Nikes and my smart black shoes for suit-and-tie occasions.

I don't know how anyone can honestly say they can live only for pussy and be happy.

[Dickhead]

That's funny cuz here the WGs all assume you're married. The first year I was here I had this chilena who was built like a brick shit house. About the seventh or eighth time she was at my apartment she asked me where I lived. I was like, uh, here? Buenos Aires? I don't understand the question. She said, "No, I know you live here in Buenos Aires, but in what neighborhood?" We are in my fucking apartment. I am completely confused.

I say, "I live here in this apartment. Are you drunk or high on something?" "No, I just figure this is your bulo." A bulo is like a fuck pad. Common here for several guys to go in and rent one and I have it on Mondays and you on Tuesdays and Joe on Wednesdays and shit like that.

I ask, "Why the hell would you think that?" "Because there aren't any pictures or anything or personal stuff and there are hardly any clothes in your closet." So I explained that this was all the clothes I had and that all my personal pictures and stuff like that had been destroyed when my storage unit in Germany was flooded the previous year. 100% true but I know she never believed me and is probably still sure I was married.

The next time I saw her she asked me, "Do you really only have three pairs of shoes?" I have four pairs now so I am moving up in the world. I don't have to move again for another five months so I might even buy another pair, or not.

[Warbucks]

A female point of view on why men monger.
http://www.askmen.com/dating/vanessa...e_secrets.html

Nice article CM especially the end part. I have had many a WG ask me why I am mongering. “You’re young why you don’t have a girlfriend?”

[Chocha Monger]

A female point of view on why men monger.
http://www.askmen.com/dating/vanessa...e_secrets.html

[DirkDingy]

A countries standard is not based upon its bars/clubs. .

News to me

[ThatGuy865]

I guess I understand what you are saying, but what is wrong to move to another country?

Do you say that USA is 1st World luxury? It's only for somebody, sometimes, in some places. Mostly its only overall impression.

Many so-called "3rd" world countries can be much more luxurious than USA. For example, many if not most bars/clubs in USA look like shitholes with trashy people and music. If you compare to night clubs in Eastern Europe and South America, USA looks like 5th world country."

A countries standard is not based upon its bars/clubs. And there isn't a place in this world that can compare to Las Vegas. So it makes all you stated look like shitholes.

But forget clubs. You tell where you can go to the poor neighborhood in a country and find Big screen HD TV's in just about everyone's house, a car in every drive way, if not 2 cars. Decent housing, clean running water.

This in the POOR neighborhoods. I don't even have to talk about the rich. US poor can stand up against most 3rd world middle class and even in some other 1st world countries.

Now I didn't pass judgement on a person moving to another country. I only noted how desireable pussy must be to make a person leave these luxuries. I never said it was a good or bad thing to do. You must feel like its not the best thing to do being you are so defensive about the comment.

[Warbucks]

I was in love with my wife but I refused to move with her. I did once for a school term but then I left her there and she came back. The others were after and I was not getting enough pussy so when I did, it made me loco. I wasn't in love with the ones I did the stupid shit for. So, it was for pussy.

DH was in love. I find that amazing Woman must have been a damn Superhero I can honestly say I have never done crazy stuff for pussy “with a woman I was in a relationship with.” If I was in a relationship with a woman then it meant that I cared for them above and beyond pussy.

A few inconveniences living here but no "calamities." It must really suck where you are, IL. You just did that for the money.

The word calamities I learned from a Filipina in Dubai while discussing running a business in PI. It is too strong of a word to use in this situation yes? I think your word inconvenience is appropriate. Actually I live a life some would call a dream back in the West. Sex on demand from various young women. Personal drivers, a maid etc.

While the Philippines itself is still struggling to pull itself up from the Third world image… no it does not suck.

I didn’t move here for money. Actually I was living in Japan when I moved out to PI. Some things came up I found myself in PI and just said fuck it and chilled. The US was out the door for me. I was having too much fun on this side of the planet.

You never fail to point out how racist your adopted country is? Why would you want to live around people like this? I am thinking of dropping in just to see what the fuck is up. I am wondering maybe I will be treated like 1800s US. It’s fucking 2009. I know some brothers have been down there already. We are not new anywhere.

You probably figure you'll do it for a few years and save up a bunch of money.

Oh yes I am saving a ton of money by living in PI on taxes, goods, pussy and other random things.

But even though women are the number one reason I'm here, there are a lot of other reasons.

The woman are a big reason I decided to stay in PI as I was thinking about leaving but they are not reason I moved here.

I think most guys who move to a country just for the pussy will not be happy.

Agreed.

I like the pussy here much more than the pussy in the US but I also like most other things here much more. Some guys come here for pussy and try to avoid other aspects of the culture but I've immersed myself in the culture since day one, not just the pussy.

I honestly must say besides the low cost of living, beaches and the pussy for me there isn’t much to like.

I guess I understand what you are saying, but what is wrong to move to another country?

Nothing.

Do you say that USA is 1st World luxury? It's only for somebody, sometimes, in some places. Mostly its only overall impression.

Come on man you cannot compare the infrastructure and services in the US to a third world country. As Mike Tyson would say it’s ludicrous.

Anyway, what is wrong if a person prefers to have access to a lot of girls (who are also more beautiful and friendlier), so he chooses a "3rld World" country for that. Instead of staying home where the only choice he's got to work hard, eat a lot, watch TV, getting sick, maybe have a buttugly gf, getting pissed, go to doctors, and work even more to pay for his bills. For me it looks insane to be like that.

I am saying you need to have something more than pussy to sustain you in another country. You can’t live off pussy alone. I have been fucking bar girls like 90 (mph) going north but now since I have started meeting girls who are worlds away from that lifestyle I am starting to feel better about the place.

So some people chose all this materialistic crap and stay safe in "1st world". And some prefer to be able spend time with women in the "3rld world"

Third world women for reasons of socioeconomic factors, lack of education are nothing but the least path of resistance.

[Dickhead]

I was in love with my wife but I refused to move with her. I did once for a school term but then I left her there and she came back. The others were after and I was not getting enough pussy so when I did, it made me loco. I wasn't in love with the ones I did the stupid shit for. So, it was for pussy.

A few inconveniences living here but no "calamities." It must really suck where you are, IL. You just did that for the money. Fine. You probably figure you'll do it for a few years and save up a bunch of money. But even though women are the number one reason I'm here, there are a lot of other reasons. The overall lifestyle is just better for me, and I can save a lot more towards retirement. I think most guys who move to a country just for the pussy will not be happy. I like the pussy here much more than the pussy in the US but I also like most other things here much more. Some guys come here for pussy and try to avoid other aspects of the culture but I've immersed myself in the culture since day one, not just the pussy.

[Goga Fung]

DH as Michael Jackson once said you are not alone. I did a lot of shit and put up with a lot of shit because of my Ex but did you do that because of sex or did you do that because you loved and cared about them? Now a lot of guys have moved overseas and put up with all the calamities of living in a foreign country for sex only which I think is madness.

You have just summed up a lot of guys on this forum who move/vacation from 1st world luxury to 3rd world inadequacies. Strictly chasing the all mighty pussy. It can be just as strong as any drug.

I guess I understand what you are saying, but what is wrong to move to another country?

Do you say that USA is 1st World luxury? It's only for somebody, sometimes, in some places. Mostly its only overall impression.

Many so-called "3rd" world countries can be much more luxurious than USA. For example, many if not most bars/clubs in USA look like shitholes with trashy people and music. If you compare to night clubs in Eastern Europe and South America, USA looks like 5th world country.

Anyway, what is wrong if a person prefers to have access to a lot of girls (who are also more beautiful and friendlier), so he chooses a "3rld World" country for that. Instead of staying home where the only choice he's got to work hard, eat a lot, watch TV, getting sick, maybe have a buttugly gf, getting pissed, go to doctors, and work even more to pay for his bills. For me it looks insane to be like that.

So some people chose all this materialistic crap and stay safe in "1st world". And some prefer to be able spend time with women in the "3rld world"

[ThatGuy865]

I was unaware of that bit of urban lexicon but I don't think I'd be comfortable using it, myself. Not afraid of women. But, they had sexual power over me, when I wasn't mongering. That led to making some decisions with my dick that should have been made with my brain, a couple of times. Things like live in City A vs. City B, take job A vs. job B, go to school A vs. (much better) school B (I did that for sure), for reasons of pussy. I'm thinkin' I'm not the only one out here who's done that kind of shit.

You have just summed up a lot of guys on this forum who move/vacation from 1st world luxury to 3rd world inadequacies. Strictly chasing the all mighty pussy. It can be just as strong as any drug.