Thread: The Morality of Prostitution
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07-24-09 03:51 #3652
Posts: 1342The Unfair Sex
Originally Posted by Dickhead
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07-23-09 21:30 #3651
Posts: 2656Originally Posted by Dickhead
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07-23-09 21:11 #3650
Posts: 3359I was unaware of that bit of urban lexicon but I don't think I'd be comfortable using it, myself. Not afraid of women. But, they had sexual power over me, when I wasn't mongering. That led to making some decisions with my dick that should have been made with my brain, a couple of times. Things like live in City A vs. City B, take job A vs. job B, go to school A vs. (much better) school B (I did that for sure), for reasons of pussy. I'm thinkin' I'm not the only one out here who's done that kind of shit.
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07-23-09 19:36 #3649
Posts: 4050Originally Posted by Illogic
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07-23-09 08:03 #3648
Posts: 1342Afro? Problems With Mongering?
Originally Posted by Piper1
Originally Posted by Dickhead
http://www.urbandictionary.com/defin...beat%20it%20up
http://www.urbandictionary.com/defin...like%20a%20cop
DH it simply means to fuck, long and hard, touch the cervix all the while being cordial and pleasing the woman. I don’t know how this is indicative of my problems with mongering could you explain?
Originally Posted by Dickhead
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07-23-09 05:42 #3647
Posts: 4050Originally Posted by Dickhead
Originally Posted by Dickhead
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07-22-09 19:44 #3646
Posts: 3359Yeah, if I were paying $200-$300 per poke, that would be pretty bleak. Today I chose one of my $26 options. Other days I choose one of my $21 options. Occasionally I also like my $45 TLN option but not more than once a week.
Morally, since I moved from a wealthy neighborhood to the exact geographic center of hookers ten days ago, I face a lot of these decisions. I suppose I could try the $18 option that is a block away. The women there are old friends of mine. But, after knowing them for almost seven years, the problem is they are too old.
The $39 "off-peak" package of a drink, professional massage, BBJ, sex, and shower is also a fine value, but only available 10P-10A. 10A-10P this is $52 which is not going to happen. www.gysell.com; she advertises in the Argentina forum.
I believe paying less is the more moral thing for me to do, because I am going to spend the same amount monthly in pursuit of the hobby. Therefore, by paying less, I pay more. More chicas, that is. My goal is to do the greatest good for the greatest number. It's altruism in its purest and most moral form. That's particularly true when in any given week I can stimulate the economies of not just Argentina, but Perú. Colombia, Uruguay, and especially Paraguay. My mongering alone probably comprises 2% of Paraguay's GDP.
The favorita did have to do the walk of shame up Suipacha past all the hooker bars last week, and was worried about me becoming a bit too altruistic living in such close proximity. I explained to her that although there were indeed a lot of hooker bars in the neighborhood, she didn't need to worry about them since there were also so many streetwalkers and privados in the neighborhood. Strangely, this did seem to re-assure her.
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07-22-09 18:32 #3645
Posts: 724Best of both worlds
Originally Posted by Raptor 09
Even when my wife is not putting out the way I would like,
I am still getting it say 2-3 times per week, every week, all year.
Then I get to party (or try to) whenever I travel. Best of both worlds.
Of course, I would be able to monger more if I was not married, but the
pickings are so slim in my city that it would be tough to beat the comforts of home.
The other downside is if she finds out, then the whole structure comes down.
But I reconciled myself with that some time ago and am prepared to defend my choices and freedom.
But the idea of only having sex while away at a mongering destination, or when I am prepared to drop $200-300 per poke, seems awfully bleak...
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07-22-09 15:54 #3644
Posts: 3359"Beat the pussy like it stole it something" is pretty indicative of IL/DW's double-standard and obvious problems with mongering.
But becoming "impervious to the manipulative wiles of ... women," now that has a lot to do with why I personally monger. Women have no power over me any more, and I'm very happy about that.
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07-22-09 11:03 #3643
Posts: 80Originally Posted by Yellow Fever #2
After spending quite a bit of time mongering in the past years (I think my track is now @ about 250 girls), I have a hard time to envision going back to a normal life without renting girls twice-a-month.
Yes, I do have a nice, caring, average looking girlfriend at home and it is a happy relationship. However our ideas of sex are not fully matching. She is now coming to age (42) and I am always tempted by younger girls (18y-22y).
I do not want to split at all, because life is fun when I am at home (I am travelling a lot), but I continue to play with the devil side while I am away.
The combination of being at home (friendly environment) and abroad (lustful environment) works pretty fine for me. I hope this stays for quite a bit of time like that.
Raptor
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07-22-09 00:50 #3642
Posts: 111Originally Posted by Frannie
And I agree: each of us has to accept that eventually we will die, and this world will carry on just fine without us. That sounds harsh, but it's true for everyone who ever lives, so I don't lose any sleep over it. I think it's good to value human life whilst accepting the things humans do aren't of any eternal significance. Even if human beings don't kill themselves off with climate change or nuclear war (which is looking decidedly unlikely, to be honest), it will still be the case that one day, far, far into the future, the conditions for any life at all will still become impossible.
But again: what do I care? We're all in the same boat: me, you, the girls we fuck, Barack Obama, the richest man on earth, the babies who are being born as you read these words...
Anyway, the point is I don't think mongering is something to regret as some kind of 'eternal crime'. Plus it's ALWAYS good to keep in mind that famous human delusion called the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. If I were married with kids, I'd get one set of good experiences and miss out on others; if I continue to monger, I get to fuck really hot women on a regular basis but miss out on being a Dad. I consciously choose the latter, and I'm man enough to live with the choices I make.
The grass is always greener, never forget that!
Originally Posted by YellowFever#2
I'm sure at some point I'll naturally start to desire a long-term relationship, rather than continue with endless mongering, but as I said above, I'll simply remind myself that the grass is always greener.
Besides, if I want to taste a loving relationship I merely need to find a girl who likes me in whatever country and who's after a husband, then go with her for a little while. Trouble is, before long, my dick would be demanding to add to the tally of smoking-hot girls and I'll end the relationship. I know that's callously using a girl to steady my nerves, but is that really any worse than paying to fuck her like a piece of meat? Hardly, she'll get over me soon enough and meet someone else.
Life's too short for regrets; the grass is always greener. I think those two principles will serve me well enough during my mongering career!
The wine's starting to kick in, so I'll leave you with the words of a Christian intellectual of yesteryear which I think sum up the human condition brilliantly:
Originally Posted by CS LewisLast edited by Gedanken; 07-22-09 at 00:56. Reason: the quote is unreadable, needs paragraphs
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07-21-09 15:09 #3641
Posts: 2803Originally Posted by Gedanken
I have a similar outlook. You are in an airplane thousands of feet in the air, and layed out below you is a city teeming with people--only at this point you can't even see them, because they are miniscule as ants. And you think God is watching the sex life of billions of individuals and passing judgement? No, our sex lives are no more significant in the grand scheme of things than the sex lives of the fire ants in my back yard.
Mongering has changed me, and for the better, and I am not ashamed of that, and even if I cannot discuss it with most of the people I meet in my work and daily life, I know that it affects all my relationships. Mostly I feel sorry for the other guys and impervious to the manipulative wiles of the women. I am very popular with women and can get attractive, younger girlfriends if I want, but I don't want to get into relationships based on delusory and temporary affection governed by lust, that will inevitably turn to dross over a period of time.
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07-21-09 10:34 #3640
Posts: 1345Originally Posted by Illogic
Sex is just sex? I don’t fuck prostitutes like I would a GF..... So you see sex is not just sex. Some sex is based on a mutual understanding, respect etc... feelings other sex is purely a financial transaction.
Please expound.
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07-21-09 09:42 #3639
Posts: 2656I decided that the whole marriage economic slave package was not for me after a few years in the military. I saw how military wives used the regulations and the commanders to keep their husbands in line. These women treated these guys like kids and always ran to tell daddy (the commander) if these guys were being bad. Being bad could mean a suspected affair or not giving them as much money as they thought that they were entitled to. In the military a wife can break a man's career. If she got traffic tickets or wrote bad checks the guy was likely to get pulled on the carpet since he was the sponsor. I thought it was foolish for a man to allow a woman to have that much control over his life.
Later on I realized that it wasn't just the military but American law at large opened a married man up to a host of liabilities. These liabilities went beyond child support and alimony. Some states allowed a man's property to be attached if his wife was sued for debts or causing injury to a third party. The whole thing was just unpalatable, a very raw deal. Then one day I discovered the hobby by accident. I never thought the same about relationships again. There is something quite liberating about being able to bang a 9.5/10 chick without having to cater to her whims. Knowing that I can have access to that for a pittance pretty much knocked pussy off its pedestal as far as I was concerned. The result is that I now hold women to the same standards as men when it comes to work, the law or anything else. I guess you could say that the hobby has made me more egalitarian.
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07-21-09 09:04 #3638
Posts: 205Originally Posted by Illogic
I try my best to treat a WG as my GF. My goal is to make her happy, if I can make her happy, I will be happy too. I've had only great experiences this way. It is a wonderful thing to get reference sex, when her friends want to try you too.
That being said, sometimes I pick up so dubious girls that honestly I should not have taken. In those cases, I just can't get it hard and the whole point is moot. I'll still pay them as agreed to meet my side of the bargain.