American Women

[Freeler]

Guys,

If this trailer cums anywhere near the way American guys act around women, we really need an 'American Men' section...

http://www.apple.com/trailers/sony_p...itch/high.html

[Long Stroker]

mike12,

when i saw the trailer for hitch, i also became a little concerned that will smith might be giving away too much information. as you may be aware, some of that shit actually works! i mean really amazing jedi-mind-trick type shit.

perhaps the most extreme (and thus potentianly untenable) version of this type of thinking is ross jefferies speed seduction program. i'm not promoting it, hell i never even bought it. too bad for ross, much of this info is available for free on the internet.

basically what it comes down to is getting totally inside her mind, finding out her likes and dislikes, and artificially creating that reality for her without her having any idea what you are up too. in effect, you are programming her to like you and want to fuck you. sub-themes also involve ignoring her from time to time, just to remind her she's only a ho to you (recommended by 50 cent in one of his new songs, incidentally) and learning how to be that jerk all girls love so much.

it can be tricky to get the hang of, and certainly doesn't always work. but if you can find a simple-minded enough chick, the odds can be good. i've had some amazing results with chicks i thought were out of my league.

unfortunatly, as you may suspect, this type of technique is only sustainable over the short-term. in other words, obviously, the basis for the whole relationship is a lie (i.e. the fabricated world that you have created for her) and will last only as long as you choose to carry the facade.

also, it gets tiring being an asshole all the time. (at least it does for me.) i happen to love women. they are nature's most perfect creation in my eyes - physically, at least, mentally is another story. inevitably, you reach the point in the relationship where you want to reveal your true feelings for the girl, but this you can never do. for to admit this is to admit defeat and to hand her the victory. from this point, only two outcomes can occur: either she'll want to get married or she'll dump you. considering that neither one of those is a desired outcome, there exists no reason for continuing past a short-term relationship.

therefore, in these situations, its still 3f baby, all the way.

and the sad thing is, they'll love you all the more for it.

[CBGBConnisur]

I am starting to realize, just about wherever you go in the world, you are bound to meet some crappy women. In many parts of the world, globalization has a lot to do with this pattern. I have seen a lot of lazy fat stupid women who watch TV all day in Europe and in Australia. In the past, things were different. Still compared to the States, beautiful women in both places are more approachable for the average male. I think it has to do with economics, there aren't a lot of guys with money in these places, so an average guy has a chance of picking someone up through his own charm and appeal rather than playing the meal ticket. Regardless, women around the world look at a man as meal ticket. Its just that some have lower expectations and some have higher expectations. I think in some parts of the world, if a guy has a job and a haircut, that is good enough for most women. However, in America, women have some ridiculous expectations. Those women that come from foreign countries to America can turn out to be the worst American females, greedy and expecting everything from their prospective mate.

[Mike12]

Seen this movie "Hitch" last week. Funny flick. Alot of interesting things going on in the movie. First off it pisses me off because it kind of gives away some of the methods and tricks to get a womans attention. With that being said we need all the help we can get. In America anyway. anyways, Hitch is a date doctor who helps men get with chicks through various means. The guys contrive the meeting and do what they do, cause otherwise they dont have a chance. The womans ideal encounter is spontaneous and makes them feel special. We all know for normal guys this don't happen often. Unless you got money or are famous this don't apply. Thats another topic though. One good part is when eva mendes accuses will smith of " tricking, lying, and deceiving woman into getting, getting,"....and will smith says "getting out of their own Goddamn way". Now that there should be an eye opener for woman. Hopefully.

[PsyberZombie]

Since Infidelity seems to be the Topic du Jour , here's a link to an Article on the Subject =

http://*******.com/5uf9r

Not that I totally agree with it ; fer ex , a psychologist is quoted as saying =

" There are some cases when someone is just having sex with different people out of a need for variety, but most people really think before they go off in that direction. If you have a good relationship, you're less likely to jeopardize it "

"SOME Cases" ??

I would guess that for the over·whelming majority of my fellow Mongers , the desire for a little Variety is the Primary Motive for why they're in the Hobby

[Smut Villain]

This TV program makes me wonder:

(1) How can women be so damned illogical but such perfect scheme artists at the same time (actually I think the 2nd part of that question is because we men fall for their schemes almost every time).

(2) Ever notice that this show was based on American women? Why not Asians or Latinas, or some other culture? Gives you something to think about, doesn't it?

Oh well, why should it matter; as soon as my financial situation is straightened out I plan to become an expatriate anyway.

P.S. Welcome back Sinanju Master, et al. Nice to hear from everyone again!

[Jaswells]

Programmes like sex in the city have an awful lot to answer for! Women in the west see it and suddenly believe it is ok to apply aggression to the jealous/revenge streak in them. This results in unnattractive witches such as that Samantha character. Personally cant watch the programme for more than 5 mins without filling with rage. Hopefully such shit will never be essential viewing for girls elsewhere in the world.

On the topic of infidelity, I read from a reputable source a year or so ago that approx 1 in 20 men in the US and UK were family men and fathers to kids that were not their own and completely unaware of the fact. This figure was derived from a relatively large random survey of couples. I still find this figure hard to believe, but made me think, and i guess yeh, i can see why a woman would do anything to keep a guy supporting her child even if she doubts the true paternity.

Means theres alot of poor dumb guys out there living a lie.

[Crypton]

Rock Dog,

"Seems like quite a few women are out there screwing around. I'm wondering if there's any good surveys out there that give some idea of how often this goes on."

This is interesting. After DNA paternity tests became common, biologists started using them on various animals. For many years, people thought some species of birds bonded with a single male for the whole season (and in fewer cases, for life). Anyway, it turned out that about 20-25% (on average) of nestlings in such species were fathered by a different male! Of course, to do these kinds of tests in humans would be unethical. But estimates are about 5-10% of the babies in the US are not fathered by the male that is supposed to have. Of course, both men and women are screwing around; and studies in other animals show that females screw around lot more than people previously suspected (but probably less than men).

Crypton

[Sinanju Master]

LS,

I remember watching a few minutes of it once, and from what I was able to piece together, the broad Samantha had just lured an old flame into bed (it was morning and they had just finished doing the deed god knows how many times) with the intention of dumping him because (get THIS) he dumped HER sometime ago! ANYWAY, they get to talking and experiencing the afterglow and although he was oblivious to her plot, he dumps her AGAIN!! She then freaks out, throws a tantrum and says OUTRIGHT (I don't think this is VERBATIM, but it's very very CLOSE): "That's not supposed to happen! YOU'RE supposed to get dumped by ME"! I was laffing my ASS OFF!

[Long Stroker]

Sinanju Master,

That guy on Oprah was pushing his book.

This is from a description on Amazon.com:

"He's Just Not That Into You --based on a popular episode of Sex and the City -- educates otherwise smart women on how to tell when a guy just doesn't like them enough, so they can stop wasting time making excuses for a dead-end relationship. He's Just Not That Into You is provocative, hilarious, and, above all, intoxicatingly liberating. It deserves a place on every woman's night table. It knows you're a beautiful, smart, funny woman who deserves better. The next time you feel the need to start "figuring him out," consider the glorious thought that maybe He's just not that into you. And then set yourself loose to go find the one who is."

I read most of the synopsis and a few reviews. Basically, the book is saying to the female, "Look, if he doesn't call you, doesn't email you, doesn't ask you out on a date, well, maybe he just doesn't want anything to do with you."

And that's the hilarious part! Apparently, even women themselves understand that there is a tremendous need for a book that helps them THINK LOGICALLY when it comes to relationships. (not that there's any hope for that ever happening)

P.S. I have watched Sex in the City on a few occasions (never by choice) and have found that it can at times offer truly incredible insight into the fucked-up female mind. Kind of like watching a car accident........

[Sinanju Master]

Hey, Smut!

I was gonna make a comment on something I saw on Oprah a little over a month ago (or was it longer than that?). It involved something that occurred on 'Sex in the City", which, by the way, I have NEVER seen a full episode EVER. Anyhoo, on Oprah, the subject was when a woman falls for a guy but he gives her a "polite" brushoff. The phenomenon is called: "He's Just Not Into You". She goes onto interview this guy who readily gives millions of women the so-called signs of when a guy brushes off a woman and I immediately thought to myself: "Where is the fucking show that tells GUYS about the MYRIAD bullshit excuses and mindgames that WOMEN toss at men SOMETIMES for FUN"? I know I was talking to myself at the moment, but I was frustrated at the one-sided issue.

[Rock Dog]

Yay Hooray!

I noticed the exact same thing as Smut V. Maybe everyone is waiting for someone else to make the first post. So here goes.

Does anyone ever watch Maury Povich? I've noticed that a lot of the time a woman will have a paternity test done to prove to her boyfriend/husband that the kid is really his. What's interesting is that, every now and then, it turns out he isn't the dad.

Then the girl usualy gets a shocked look on her face before she runs to the backstage in tears. Seems like quite a few women are out there screwing around. I'm wondering if there's any good surveys out there that give some idea of how often this goes on.

Rock

[Smut Villain]

Hey guys, Jackson's worked most of the bugs out of the system caused by the DOS attacks, but nobody's posting! I know we didn't run out of things to say, did we?

Server's back up, and it's safe to come out and play again

[PsyberZombie]

... not to mention that Wives sell their bodies the way those pushy sales·people
sell Time Shares =

You can only use it once a year ; but most wives don't even offer a 'Roll Over' Option , if you get my drift

[Sinanju Master]

Hookers divulge UP FRONT the bill of goods they will sell you; Wives include a lot of FINE PRINT that is NOT divulged and will take advantage of the sucker who fails to read it.