American Women

**Dickhead** · 10-28-02 19:21

94% of all men admit to masturbating and 6% are liars, whereas 6% of all women admit to masturbating and 94% are liars.

**Paddy** · 10-28-02 18:55

Hi RN,

I was out with a group of friends (male and female) and along with the alcohol, the topic somehow turned to masturbation. Don't ask me how???

Here in the US, studies such as the Kinsey report and other legitimate academic researchers have found that approximately 94% of men masturbate (one author said the other 6% were probably liars). Ok, sounds about right.

When the isssue of FEMALE masturbation came up, matters became sort of tense if not deadly. I didn't say a word. My date already hates me I think.

Well, to your knowledge as a professional, what are the characteristics of female mastrubation? It's an unkown and pretty much a taboo subject here in the states - I think? I mean, like how often do women mastrubate? Do Oz women have all kinds of "medievil" hang-ups about it like women in the states? Is it a normal phase of human development and growth? Is it frowned upon in Oz culture? Is it looked upon as healthy and appropriate?

I guess, I'm asking what do you know about this topic? I certainly learned nothing on Saturday night. The women went from jolly to deadly serious when the subject turned to females. Also, if any of guys out there have any data or research we'd like to hear it.

Thanks.

**køsmik** · 10-26-02 03:03

My personal Advice :

** FORGET ** American Women !!

Go to an ASIAN MASSAGE PARLOR if you want a woman

who'll treat you Right !!

P.S. i *know* what i'm talking about ...

.... i'm *married* to an American Woman !!!

**Three I** · 10-23-02 20:42

Hey, all you guys in Cali listen to Tom Lekis 97.1 FM!3pm to 7pm mon - fri!

**Darkseid** · 10-23-02 13:32

Blobster, the women in New York are East coast versions of LA bitches. They too expect their men to treat them like princesses, and if you can't meet their expectations like buy them jewelry and clothes or they will dump you. This means you must spend your entire paycheck to please them or you must be rich. I am middle class and I complain if they spend more than half my paychecks on their clothes. I had an ex-girlfriend that dumped me because I couldn't buy her more shoes even after I already bought her some (and the sex wasn't even that good either). She thought that sex was a way to repay me for the shoes. This is why i became more choosy with American women. Yes, I ask them out and date them only because I am stuck in America but I also ditch them as soon as they ask for something expensive and complain when I refuse to buy it. Yes, I would buy that for her birthday or anniversary, which is reasonable but some women ask me to buy something expensive the moment they lay eyes on it. New York women tend to be impulsive shoppers. Some of them hold high positions and make more than I do but are poor because they spend anything they get on clothes or jewelry. Then they try to hook up with a guy and spend their money.

**Blobster** · 10-22-02 20:07

There is some bullshit out here on this opinions board. Let me say this...after living in Los Angeles for most of my adult life: women in this town are bitches, plain and simple. I finally have a girlfriend without the attitude, or the belief that men owe her something (mostly money). They feel you should treat them like a princess, and i don't mind doing that, but they should not EXPECT it! It should be a welcome courtesy from a man who cares about them.

I don't care WHY they do it, it's a plain and simple fact that many of them do and that is sad. I have had hard bumps on my own life, but that didn't make me a cynical bastard.

By the way, my girlfriend (the one without the attitude) is a foreigner. This says something about American women, at least the ones in LA.

**Three I** · 10-22-02 19:31

Sex is never free for a man RN!

**Darkseid** · 10-17-02 21:06

the rudeness from women is most likely from the mistrust that they learn from living in a big city environment. there are more reported crimes in big cities than in little suburbab townships because of the bigger media influence in the cities. women are told to trust no one and they all believe that men are after them for just sex and that men hope to be polite to them to get into their pants. the media is influenced by feminism and prudity in many ways. the media never shows good things happening when a man holds the doors but they show all crimes in which a courteous gesture has an alterior motive like a man holding the door and then pulling a knife and [CodeWord125] the woman in the rooftop of that apartment building.
the rise of feminism is also another factor. feminism always stresses the historical abuse of men to the women. it is like blacks hating whites today because they haven't forgiven them for slavery. in the same way, feminist nazis stress unforgiveness to men and therefore to hate men and take advantage of the laws that favor women today. these same unforgiving, spiteful feminist nazis are the ones that snicker at you for being courteous. they also think that by a man being courteous to them is offensive and that the man thinks they cannot help themselves. this is their interpretation of courtesy. if that is the case then let the door go and make them catch the door so they can push it open themselves. this will make them a lot happier.

**Joe Zop** · 10-12-02 16:16

Although I do think that in the larger cities Americans can be more distant and have less interpersonal contact, I think in many ways that's a byproduct of cities. I see it less as I move out of the larger places. The bottom line is that I don't get the same negative reaction from men if I hold a door, or the elderly, or kids. Generally, I get warm thanks, occasionally a bit of conversation or banter, either of which is a welcome payoff for a slight act and which helps the day go by more pleasantly. But an unfortunately high percentage of women come up with the same reaction Dickhead describes -- and I'd hazard that every American male has felt the sting of having their polite gesture rebuffed at one point or another. If politeness is not either returned or accepted it will eventually cease to exist, and what does that have to do with equality? And let me be clear that I'm not making a blanket statement -- this is not nearly half of women who have this reaction, but it's still a significant enough percentage that it's a trend as opposed to a series of isolated incidents.

No disagreement on your gift approach from me, RN, as it generally matches my approach, but I also know guys who have been called cheap bastards by their girlfriends for doing exactly those kinds of things as opposed to coughing up an expensive bauble that can be shown off.

**Rubber Nursey** · 10-12-02 09:02

What...like free sex isn't enough for you?? *cheeky grin*

**Dickhead** · 10-12-02 07:41

Yeah, yeah, yeah, but you still have to spend more than $10 on my birthday present.

**Rubber Nursey** · 10-12-02 06:28

There's a tip to successful gift giving, that should save you a shitload of money as well. (Granted, this will not work on shallow, materialistic women, but if she's that bad...why are you with the selfish cow anyway???) The tip is...forethought.

Sure, we all like expensive shiny things, but to me those type of gifts say that you're rich...not that you necessarily love me. What would be better than getting a brand new BMW for my birthday?
* Taking me for a picnic lunch in the park, at the exact spot where we met five years ago
* Getting the DVD of the movie that was playing at the drive-in in '88, that we missed 'coz we were shagging in the back seat
* Organising a babysitter, running a bath and lighting candles, and surprising me with a night alone together when I get home from work
* ANYTHING that tells me that our time together means as much to you as it does to me.

That sort of thing just melts my cold little feminist heart.

**Rubber Nursey** · 10-12-02 06:14

LOL!! Sorry babe...perhaps I should say, the gentlemen who yesterday were appreciated but today are frowned upon. Forgive me??

As for me calling women "girls"... I am getting all too close to being thirty years old. I LOVE still being called a girl! Think I'm gonna shag a guy who calls me Ma'am?? LOL (Unless it's said in a long, slow Southern drawl of course. Mmmmm.) Women who find the word girl patronising are just looking for any old excuse to argue, if you ask me. 'Spose it depends on how you say it though. If you said I couldn't do something "because you're just a girl" you would have to duck flying objects...

**Dickhead** · 10-12-02 06:04

Plus also too additionally besides, how's come every time I'm in a relationship I spend way MORE on her Christmas/birthday/anniversary/just to surprise you gift than she EVER spends on mine? Even the relationships where I make the same or even LESS than she does? Not that I'm an extravagant gift giver, either.

Partially answering my own question: none of the women I've been in relationships have been able to handle money. But that is no excuse. They could learn, same as I did.

**Dickhead** · 10-12-02 05:58

[QUOTE]Originally posted by RN: [i]" Which idiot decided that ladies didn't want to be called ladies any more? The same idiot that told men to stop opening doors for women? "

Yeah, pretty sure it was the same idiot. DH

"Yes, I have heard women say that they are offended by being called "girls' "

I never, ever do that. You do, though. And if you do, wouldn't that encourage others to do so to? DH

"BUT, I have also heard men say "If she wants equality in the workplace, then she can ask me out/pay for dinner/buy me gifts"...what does that have to do with equality in the workplace?"

Well, nothing, but it still sounds like a good idea to me.

DH

"Women have gone on a power trip and started milking feminism for all it's worth, and men have got bitter and twisted and started using feminism against us."

Agree. DH

"There are women like me all over the world wanting to meet one of yesterday's "true gentlemen', and it's women like her that are turning them into assholes."

YESTERDAY'S???!!?

DH

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