American Women

[Sinanju Master]

I personally don't have a great issue with women's hair length, as long as it doesn't look like a Wesley Snipes buzz cut. In addition to the Olympian Goddess I witnessed in Spain, I also gawked at a chick (I'm certain she was French) when I was in Crete. I was sitting at an outdoor cafe when I turned to see this chick who was talking to a friend. Her hair was just above shoulder length and unlike SoCal honies, her beauty was ALL NATURAL. I'm not knocking a woman for wanting to improve upon what she deems to be imperfections, but when a woman has natural beauty (NOT perfect) and revels in that natural beauty and femininity, THAT tells me she has confidence (without arrogance) in her total package. Hell, for these two chicks, I would have reeacted the ice house fight scene from Bruce Lee's movie Fist of Fury! LOL

On another subject, I read that if you tell a woman you want to live in HER country when you wed, THAT will weed out the pretenders from the real thing.

As I've been reading these posts, I rummaged through my memories of the places I've visited and seeing a FAT chick in a foreign country is EXTREMELY rare.

[Darkseid]

Sinanjumaster, American women always remember the most trivial things on the planet and they are never forgiving. I guess that is why there are so many gays in America or guys like us that turn to foreign women. The gay guys don't know any better and don't know what we know-the alternative to American women, foreign women, so they think ALL women on the planet are like American women. They don't want to put up with all the non-sense American women puts us through so they turn to other guys. I am very glad my Brazillian friend introduced me to foreign women because I wouldn't want to be gay. My brazillian friend was able to tell how bad the situation here in America even though he didn't live here all his life but he can really tell the difference. He also knows that braziliian women are much better than american women and he even told me he wouldn't bother with them.

[Darkseid]

Everything on that internet site sums up American women, Dogg. Some of the things I like to point out is that all American women or women assimilated into American culture want to the number one in their men's lives. They want to be the center of attention and want their men to eat, sleep, and only think of them 24/7. My ex-fiancee who was assimilated by an American woman expected me to remember all these dumb anniversaries like the first time I kissed her, the first time we met, the first time I saw her naked, the first time I caught her picking her nose, and the list goes on and on then she expects me to buy a pair of shoes for each of these anniversaries. American women also expect us to be psychics even in the initial contact with her. They expect us to read hints on whether they are interested in us or not. At least foreign women tell you straight out that they like you or not instead of wasting our time on what could be a false signal or an act.
Another thing women do after marriage is cut their hair and put it up and curl it which makes them look like cauliflower heads. I think that hairdon't makes them look like 1,000 year old hags but most American women do it anyway.
I guess since American women love to be the center of attention all the time, they get fat so they can't be overlooked. Hey, they would be hard to miss if they were big and wide and you'd have no choice but to look at her because she would block the view of anything else behind her.
Fake boobs seem to be the norm in SoCal. In fact most of the American porno movies were made there. You can't find slim chicks elsewhere in America. The women here in the East Coast are fat and they spend most of their money on food. Hey, since most things are illegal here in America, what else can you do but to eat, eat, and eat besides making the money to buy the food and yes, the one thing good about America is the fact you can make money here. However, instead of eating myself to obesity, I save my money to take trips overseas instead of staying home and eating like my co-workers. I am one of the three people in shape in my office. The rest spend their money on food and on their American wives.

[Sinanju Master]

Bigg Dogg ROFLMFAO!!! I can relate to one of those rules. My best friend (a chick) did a mushroom cloud on me by bringing up the fact that in 1997 I accidentally dinged her car door (there was a MICROSCOPIC dent that one had to REALLY look for if the location wasn't known) and I didn't say "I'm sorry". Granted, I deserved to hear an earful of it THEN, but 4 FUCKING YEARS down the road?? I found out at THAT MOMENT that women stockpile grievances for future use the way the U.S. and the former Soviet Union stockpiled nuclear warheads. Except that the COMBINED arsenals of BOTH countries doesn't come CLOSE to the number of grievances they store.

[Benevolent_Man]

darkseid:

When I was in the midwest US women were fat as f***
That's one of the first things foreign men notice when coming to the US.

But here in good old SoCal there are some incredibly fine women... but lots of fake boobies.

[Bigg Dogg]

Here's some funny rules of men from an internet site.

Learn to work the toilet seat. You're a big girl. If it's up, put it down. We need it up,
you need it down. You don't hear us bitching about you leaving it down.

Birthdays, Valentines, and Anniversaries are not quests to see if we can find the perfect
present yet again!

Sometimes we are not thinking about you. Live with it.

Sunday = sports. It's like the full moon or the changing of the tides. Let it be.

Don't cut your hair. Ever. Long hair is always more attractive than short hair. One of
the big reasons guys fear getting married is that married women always cut their hair, and
by then you're stuck with her.

Shopping is NOT a sport. And no, we are never going to think of it that way.

Crying is blackmail.

Ask for what you want. Let us be clear on this one: Subtle hints do not work! Strong
hints do not work! Obvious hints do not work! Just say it!

We don't remember dates. Mark birthdays and anniversaries on a calendar. Remind us
frequently beforehand.

Most guys own three pairs of shoes - tops. What makes you think we'd be any good at
choosing which pair, out of thirty, would look good with your dress?

Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question.

Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it. That's what we do. Sympathy
is what your girlfriends are for.

A headache that last for 17 months is a problem. See a doctor.

Check your oil!

Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument. In fact, all comments
become null and void after 7 days.

If you won't dress like the Victoria's Secret girls, don't expect us to act like soap
opera guys.

If you think you're fat, you probably are. Don't ask us. We refuse to
answer.

If something we said can be interpreted two ways, and one of the ways makes you sad or
angry, we meant the other one.

Let us ogle. We are going to look anyway; it's genetic.

You can either ask us to do something or tell us how you want it done. Not both. If you
already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.

Whenever possible, please say whatever you have to say during commercials.

Christopher Columbus did not need directions, and neither do we.

The relationship is never going to be like it was the first two months we were going out.
Get over it. And quit whining to your girlfriends.

ALL men see in only 16 colors. Peach, for example, is a fruit, not a colour. Pumpkin is
also a fruit. We have no idea what mauve is.

If it itches, it will be scratched. We do that.

We are not mind readers and we never will be. Our lack of mind-reading ability is not
proof of how little we care about you.

If we ask what is wrong and you say "nothing," we will act like nothing's wrong. We know
you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle.

If you ask a question you don't want an answer to, expect an answer you don't want to
hear.

When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine. Really.

Don't ask us what we're thinking about unless you are prepared to discuss such topics as
navel lint, the shotgun formation, or monster trucks.

You have enough clothes and too many shoes.

Foreign films are best left to foreigners. (Unless it's Bruce Lee or some war flick where
it doesn't really matter what the hell they're saying anyway.)

It is neither in your best interest or ours to take the quiz together. No, it doesn't
matter which quiz.

BEER is as exciting for us as handbags are for you.

I'm in shape. ROUND is a shape.

Men like sleeping on the couch, it's like camping.

[Darkseid]

Blobster, most Asian women do not like to date Asian men because some of them figure their parents will force them to marry an Asian guy anyway. They would date white guys though and sometimes their parents give in or approve of this because of the status white guys have here in America. Chinese, Japanese, and Korean women are taught from birth to marry for status and they NEVER marry for love. Older guys have more status in China so it is common for the older guys to hook up with women half their age. In America, Asian guys give up their status when they move here or some just get promoted to middle class like myself. Asian women (Thai and Phillipinas excepted) want to MARRY the guy with the highest status, the rich White guy or another wealthy Asian guy is ideal.
On the other hand, you have the wealthier Asian families arrange a marriage with another wealthy family and the Asian woman doesn't date ANYONE. She would claim she does not date outside her race because their mothers have a husband that they arrange for them. (Yes, arranged marriages are still practiced among the wealthy Chinese but they aren't necessarily arranged from birth, unlike in India.) There are some that rebel though and they go against their parent's wishes.
As for the Europeans detecting American women, it's funny you should say that, Paddy. When I was in Holland, they pick people to get into the clubs. They let me in even though I am not from Holland but I looked the part because I am in good shape like the rest of the Dutch young people. But when a group of obese girls came to the bouncer, the bouncer IMMEDIATELY knew they were American women. He asked," You're not from Holland are you ladies?" They said no so the bouncer sent them off.As for the Europeans detecting American women, it's funny you should say that, Paddy. When I was in Holland, they pick people to get into the clubs. They let me in even though I am not from Holland but I looked the part because I am in good shape like the rest of the Dutch young people. But when a group of obese girls came to the bouncer, the bouncer IMMEDIATELY knew they were American women. He asked," You're not from Holland are you ladies?" They said no so the bouncer sent them off.

[Blobster]

Dark,

Wow, sorry to read about that. There's such consensus on the attitude of asian women. I think it's pretty safe to say most of them behave this way.

I have never dated one for those reasons. I actually came close this past year when I met a really nice, educated, intelligent Korean chick. She was a coworker, which is a bad idea anyway. At any rate, she told me on our first date, "I would only marry another asian." I found out it had something to do with her ability to be completely understood by an asian, making an inference that she couldn't be understood by anyone else. I responded that: first, you are a damn racist because if I said that as a white guy, I'd be lynched in this society. Second, you should marry a woman if you really want to be "understood." Yes, she had some real issues to work out. She would only marry an asian, but obviously she doesn't mind some white C - CK.

Is it just that women are so screwed up and irrational? OR is it their self-centeredness?

[Bigg Dogg]

I'm only a gentleman when the situation deserves as much. My rule is never to allow the woman to take control of any situation unless I give that control. This was learned through the trials and tribulations of being married previously. When a woman gets crazy on the phone, I do the same and hang up on her and let her call me back (believe me they will because they can't stand you getting the last word).

[Paddy]

Hey Darkseid,

Good for you man! Woman starts handing you shit as you sit down in the restaurant and you walk out on her. Cool!!! I should have done that on several occasions. I have this personality flaw, however, in that I try to conduct myself like a gentleman. I've come to the conclusion that acting like a gentleman is viewed as a sign of weakness and deference to many American women and they try to exploit you then. You know, they seem to think this guy is following a certain code of behavior and they can probably pull just about anything.

I get quite the opposite response from Eastern European women. They definitely like American gentlemen and they enjoy it when you light their cigarette, speak respectfully to them, open the car door, etc. Like you said, America is a great place to make money and work but is the pits when it comes our women.

On last thing. They have saying in Prague in that if you see a fat and non-feminine woman with an ugly haircut - she's almost certainly an American.

[Three I]

Hey I need some advice I would like to study Chinese in China for 1 year doyou guys have any advice.

threex@theinbox.org

[Darkseid]

Blobster, after reading your post, I totally agree with you on Asian women. I myself am an Asian guy and I face persecution from Asian women as well. Asian women want the white guy because they see them as rich and they think they can get ahead in American society by marrying one. They see Asian guys and Black guys as lower status guys. Take a look at the movie, "The Joy Luck Club" and you'll see how Asian women view the Asian guy. Not to mention, most Chinese, Japanese and Korean women are prudes and don't like being penetrated. They have the same taboo attitudes as American women and that is why in Asian Massage parlours in Japan, you only get handjobs or if you're lucky a blowjob is as far as you can get.
I had so much of a problem meeting Asian women that my mother even tried to set me up on blind dates with some. This was before I started travelling and knowing better. My mother also didn't like me dating outside my race and hated my ex-fiancee for being Cuban. This was before I was forced to move out of my parent's place and rent an expensive apartment in New York City. One Chinese girl my mother set me up with did not even want to kiss me and said, "I'm the girl of the 90's. I don't kiss or have sex until marriage." Sensing that she wasn't interested in me and that she had such a bad attitude, I immediately called off the date and left the restaurant we had dinner at because of her attitude. Fortunately for her, it was early in the date before we even ordered food and that she was stiffed with buying 2 sodas instead of paying for a complete meal. I was forced on this date because my mother wanted to disown me if I didn't go. I then went back to dating my pre-American-assimilated ex-fiancee. My mother tried to set me up again but I decided to move out and live with my ex-fiancee (who later turned on me after meeting a black american woman friend who assimilated my ex-fiancee and turned her into one of them, an American woman).

[Darkseid]

Hey Paddy, now that you mentioned it, I LOVE seeing the looks on American Women's faces when I reject THEM. I used to be the victim of their games and now I don't have to play their games anymore, thanks to foreign women. They used to act like they are interested in me then they would wait until I asked them out or ask for their phone numbers and then reject the invitation and laugh or give me a fake phone number. Nowadays, I see through their phony advances and I ignore them. They then look disappointed because the joke is now on them instead of on me because the guy that they deem a "loser" is the rejecter instead of the rejectee. They are now the rejectee and they face humiliation from their friends from being rejected by the "loser". Instead of the entire group laughing at me, the joke turns on her and SHE gets laughed at by her friends. It was like having my revenge seeing the tables turned on them because I no longer needed American women and their games.

[Paddy]

Hey Nightprowler66,

Welcome to the forum on American women! Yes, isn't it fun to see the puzzled and startled look on their faces when you don't respond to their manipulations and tricks. Some of them almost panic at their perceived loss of control over you. I , too, noticed that once I started going overseas for sex and ignored American women, I suddenly had more women than I could ever handle here.

If you want to take it one step further and really [CodeWord140] them off, just mention that you now go exclusively overseas to meet foreign women. Tell them that you prefer Brazilian or Dutch women to American women. They go ballistic. It's something to see.

Again, welcome the forum and please post your recommendations and experiences with women from other countries.

[nightprowler66]

I usually don't read this post but decided to check it out and what do I find but brothers in arms. I agree one hundred percent that these women are just prostituting themselves. Calling them prostitutes is actulally an insult to prostitutes. At least the professionals tell you what you're gonna get and how much it will cost. With black and white women it's a continuous hustle. I gladly lay down my hard earned cash to avoid all of that bullshit.

There is a great deal of truth in satisfying your manly needs elsewhere. It definitely levels the playing field. They have this lost look about them when you don't seem to care if they are going to put out or not. They act like who come you aren't responding to my charms? don't you like me anymore? It great fun.

Enough ranting about an age old problem that ain't going away.

Keep fighting the good fight brothers