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01-28-11 20:50 #9920
Posts: 2656Thinking of putting a long distance ho on Western Union?
Don't! You'll get nothing back on your investment or very little at best. The thought of paying a retainer to reserve your very own little parking space in her pussy pen might sound very appealing, exclusive and trendy even. However, once you get past the euphoria you'll see it makes about as much sense as renting a seaside villa year round on some exotic Caribbean island hideaway while you reside in some frigid corner of North America. Sure you might actually get to visit and use the villa once or twice a year. The rest of the time you're not there strangers are entering and squatting in the villa you're paying maintenance and service fees on. Now compare that to paying for a really nice suite in an upscale hotel where you only pay for the nights you occupy it and for the amenities you use during your stay. It is a much better deal than the former arrangement isn't it?
Sending Western Union remittances to women over long distance will not make them any more loyal or less inclined to fuck others during your absence. Doing so puts you at risk for being financially exploited. If you want to see the same ho again then show her a good time when you're there. It will increase the odds of seeing her again. Save yourself the pain of sending money until your next annual vacation only to have her disappear or come up with some emergency reason for not being able to meet with you. Every time you think of sending a ho money by Western Union imagine yourself alone in your hotel room with your hard dick in one hand and a phone with a busy tone in the other.
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01-28-11 04:00 #9919
Posts: 338Cuero,
I haven't done Western Union, but I have paid a dentist in Asuncion to perform about $300 of dental work for a chica with a great smile and bloody-toothbrush problems. Full course of gingival treatment, some fillings, and a dental implant to replace a broken bicuspid that was in a position to spoil everything; pre-paid to the dental clinic, so she wouldn't be able to blow the money on something else. Romantic, eh? But when I returned in eight months, she was VERY proud to show me the "perfect tooth" where there had been a disfiguring gap.
Your WU bill is not so bad. You aren't trying to support her long-distance; it sounds as though she only asks you for help when she really needs it, rather than sitting around with her friends dreaming up "emergencies" to tap your wallet. It also sounds as though you're getting a delightful ROI. Being able to hang out and chat for hours and hours, plus a woman who loves to play tongue-tag as long and as well as you describe. She sounds like she's worth a lot more than the average run-of-the-bedroom P4P contractor.
I made up my mind about "no Western Union" when I started mongering, down in Paraguay. I'd heard enough stories from my fellow mongers that I decided I would be generous while I'm in town - "but once the plane climbs out, cara mia, you're on your own." Your situation, as you describe it, leaves me thinking that I might have missed out on some wonderful experiences by taking that hard-line stance.
Good luck, have fun, and be true to your own nature -
Westy
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01-28-11 00:56 #9918
Posts: 74Westy,
I'll admit mine is a WU girl, but the donations have been irregular. 3 separate requests totaling around $400 over the past year since the first "urgent" request. At under $40 monthly that is not a lot for me but I admit the ROI is a bit questionable since unless I relocate to Lima I can only visit a few times a year. If the demands escalate at all I am ready to say no.
But I enjoy the feeling of being with a happy, sensual woman who kisses passionately like I'm a long lost lover, this goes for as much as 30 to 40 minutes before the main event to the point it is hard to pull away from her to fully undress ourselves for the main event and I'm not used to that! That kind of experience can be very hard or impossible to find in most P4P settings, although many of the Medellin Colombia prepago paisas really surprised me last year when I got a taste of them with similar kind of DFK and hot, urgent non-mechanical sex.
My Lima friend is also a great conversationalist and we can just hang out and chat for hours and I don't get bored which is rare.
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01-27-11 18:33 #9917
Posts: 338The sugar-daddy lifestyle
A little more to add to my last post:
The "Ashley Madison" web-site is perhaps the best-known forum for sugar-babies ISO sugar-daddies. There are others, but it's a good example. What kind of girl subscribes? Some 'pretty young thing' who isn't adverse to having an older, well-to-do 'boyfriend' or 'patron' who will give her (typically) financial support, in exchange for her affections.
But, she rationalizes, she's not taking on just anybody. She wants "a man she can look up to," with some semblance of romance; and she's looking for longer-term support. It may not be as blatant as cash money; she may want someone to pay the rent for a nice apartment, in exchange for having a key to her door and "taking her out" a couple of times a week. She may frame it as "help" with her schooling tuition, or "gifts" of a nature that isn't necessarily cash money. She is looking to be "kept," and she sees herself as a "mistress" rather than an out-and-out ho.
Of course, a guy has to be pretty well-off (in the local economy) to play this game."Sugar-Daddy Bigbucks" had also be pretty-well settled on "Ashley," which I'll use instead of the classic "Little Annie Fanny," suits him enough for the long-term that he's willing to put her "on retainer" (as it's called when you hire a lawyer like this; I think it's also a 'polite' term for hiring a mistress).
This can be workable if you're living in the same city, where you do have plenty of opportunities to get together with "Ashley" for the evening or for an Afternoon Delight. If you live in a different city, it's more trouble and far less certain. If you live in the USA and she lives in the Third World, we call it "Western Union," with all that implies.
In some countries, you can get into a situation like this for a shorter term; where you meet up at a disco or pub,"hit it off," she comes back to the hotel with you, and both of you act like "you got lucky" in the "lust at first sight" mode. Next morning, you "give her a nice gift" and make plans to meet her that evening; you wine and dine her, same as you would a "regular girlfriend," your sex is more like "making love" than professional-style, and you may buy her pretty dresses and jewelry rather than just handing her a wad of currency. Of course, you still give her "cab fare home."
I actually like this pretty well. It salves my conscience, and hers; I like feeling like "a generous boyfriend" more than like "a trick"; it is more fun for me to "act romantic" ... my first lesson in Portuguese was learning the proper lyrics to "The Girl From Ipanema," so I could sing it to greet my new carioca girlfriend when she showed up at the piano bar of my hotel (the Granados Park, in Asuncion) when she came in the door to meet me and my buddies. And it doesn't leave any long-term hurt, as long as I remember where she's going to be the night after my flight home: back in the "meet market" where I met her, looking for the next sugar-daddy. Western Union? Fuggetaboutit.
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01-27-11 14:41 #9916
Posts: 338Originally Posted by Cuero99 [View Original Post]
A girl who 'dates' (let's put a discreet, respectable label on this) an older, moneyed 'gentleman' (another discreet label) for dinner & drinks, plus some nice 'gift' that he gives her 'every so often' (thank you, Thomas Bowdler!) , is able to keep her self-respect because "she's not doing it just for the money, after all." Her 'benefactor' likely had to pursue her a little, go out with her more than once before she 'let him have his way, ' and I don't doubt that every encounter has to be 'another date, ' with drinks and dinner and probably even some dancing before going back home to 'the main event. ' The 'nice gift' in the morning is presented in a face-saving manner, possibly referred to as 'cab fare home'. At least that's the way I played it with my inamorata, down in Paraguay, a few years ago.
I know at least one member of this board (not myself) who has sought out similar enjoyments, traveling around the USA. I would do it again myself, if I were staying longer-term in a country where the economy would permit me to 'keep a mistress' in this fashion.
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01-27-11 13:45 #9915
Posts: 74Originally Posted by Bango Cheito [View Original Post]
A single, attractive, relatively poor working (non hooker) latina woman in Peru or Colombia like my Lima favorite can enjoy the company and fucking a hotter young stud who has little money or offers her none because of his great personality, athletic body and great performance in bed. That doesn't mean she actually dislikes the company or dislikes fucking as well the other more aged foreign man in her life like myself who visits her on occasion and has a bit of dinero to share with her. It is very often the money factor that tips the balance, opens the legs and lubricates the pussy in the company of the moneyed man. In any fuckbuddy relationship she can have both.
Consider also that my sex friend would not fuck the older, somewhat less attractive guy (me) if he had no money to share, as she has limited time and having many choices and needs in her life. But, nor would she fuck me if I was very old, fat or ugly or a complete bore, even if I offered her 10x of the modest financial benefits that I provide to her. Given the many men who want to tap her pussy she will only choose those few that benefit her in some way, and in combination offer her the best total benefits for enjoyable companionship, personal sexual satisfaction, and familial financial security while allowing her to keep her personal sense of respect in herself intact.
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01-26-11 00:33 #9914
Posts: 776Thanks!
Originally Posted by Westy [View Original Post]
-Helpmann
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01-25-11 22:46 #9913
Posts: 338Originally Posted by The Manipulated Man
Originally Posted by John Galt
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01-25-11 18:42 #9912
Posts: 95Originally Posted by Westy [View Original Post]
"If a young man gets married, and starts a family and spends the rest of hise life
Working at a soul-destroying job, he is held up as an example of virtue and
Responsibility. The other type of man, living only for himself, working only for himself,
Doing first one thing and then another simply because he enjoys it and because he
Has to keep only himself, sleeping where and when he wants, and facing woman
When he meets her on equal terms and not as one of a million slaves, is rejected by
Society The free, unshackled man has no place in its midst"
Sums me right up. Good stuff
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01-24-11 21:22 #9911
Posts: 338"The Manipulated Man"
I came across a link to this, from one of the Stickman website "reader submission" articles.
A very sharp, informative essay from years ago. Even more trenchant, in that it's written by a woman, Esther Vilar, an Argentinian by birth, who saw society in a very different light from the "politically correct".
From the introduction:
Originally Posted by Esther Vilar
The Manipulated Man
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01-24-11 20:32 #9910
Posts: 95I Second That
Originally Posted by Cyberdas [View Original Post]
Nevertheless what I have noticed recently through reading Businessweek and Wallstreet Journal is that white men are screwing over other white men on a large scale. From the bank bailout, outsourcing of jobs, laying off of workers, lack of funding to education,...etc white guys are getting screwed over by guys that look just like themselves nowadays.
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01-21-11 15:46 #9909
Posts: 10Hugh Hefner has got his own set of problems.
Many people hate Hugh Hefner. Me, on the other hand, neither envy nor hate. Sure he has probably had more beautifull women and pussy then your average could ever imagine.
Once you bang one hot cutie and have a totally awesome experiene each experience thereafter is just an attempt of a chase repeat. Why not. The bottom line with Hugh Hefner is that his new wife will gain more from marrying him and going down in history as yet another one Hughes many ladies. He knows in his heart she is not there for him but only what she can gain. Besides he is impotent. I am sure given all the spectacular science he can get erections.
In conclusion, Hugh is just another man with the same heartache as you and I have. Sure hes banged more pussy than most but so what. In the end we all stop breathing the same way Hugh will.
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01-21-11 15:22 #9908
Posts: 3053There probably is not a man on the planet who wouldn't want to be Hugh Hefner. At least have his empire and his chicks. I hope to be bangin an ultra-hot broad when I'm 84, too.
Originally Posted by Westy [View Original Post]
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01-21-11 09:00 #9907
Posts: 1281See this is what I'm talking about, why the fuck can't SHE get her own goddamn BMW? Suck dicks or kill people to get it if she has to, but not beg another adult human being's money for it.
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01-21-11 08:10 #9906
Posts: 397Originally Posted by DJ FourMoney [View Original Post]
Maybe she talks a good game today, but you're still suspicious. If you think she may evolve to lifestyle choices that are beyond your willingness, let alone ability to pay for, better do your best to smoke that out.