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03-15-11 07:33 #10070
Posts: 606Originally Posted by Bango Cheito [View Original Post]
I also kinda get feeling that when you talk about Colombians you talk like about Bogotenos / rolos. I think Colombians in other places such as from the coast, Medellin, etc. Can be different. More tolerant to races and / or more laidback.
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03-15-11 07:27 #10069
Posts: 1281I personally think many of you guys are overestimating the effect of money on women. I'm not denying it exists, because it does and it's a powerful force. But I think now the most powerful force is sheer physical attraction, and if you can learn to work that, everything else becomes easier. I've watched a couple of my gorgeous broke-ass male friends pick up girls no problem, even have the girls pay the hotel room and buy dinner etc. They inspired me so much, I stopped using money as leverage alltogether, and instead I put that money into my own appearance. :P it's working better and better.
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03-15-11 07:23 #10068
Posts: 1281For the record, I was born and raised in Canada. Canada is the most segregated place on Earth. In Toronto, each little group of immigrants has its own little neighborhood and people don't really mix well with each other. I had a serious case of jungle fever in Toronto because I could NEVER get a dark-skinned chick and I was curious. But there was no way a black woman was going to date a white guy in Toronto. Never happen. It might work a little easier the other way around, but the girl's family is NEVER going to be cool about it. I had a Portuguese friend there who married an Ecuadoran and his family disowned him for marrying "that spic *****".
I'd say any place is easier to get laid in if you're coming in from out of town. That's always a strong factor. I use it to my advantage when I travel to various cities in Colombia.
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03-15-11 07:07 #10067
Posts: 1281I'd love to take anybody up on it, come down here to Bogota and see how well you do with the non-pros. Don't flash cash because you're a strong black brother and that "kills" anywhere. If someone would care to properly define what "killing" is we could make a bet even :P.
I personally have no problem with women of any color, I'm not picky at all. Myself I'm very very white and tend to avoid women who look too much like me with pink skin and yellow hair, but if one came knocking on my door naked I doubt I'd turn her away. So don't shoot the messenger. I'm just passing on my observations and not making value judgement.
People here in Colombia tend to equate "black" with "ugly" and in most of the rest of this part of the world it's the same. I've seen stunning black women go by and my friends don't even give her a second look. I show people here pictures of my black ex-wife and I've had people practically go into SHOCK. And it's mainly the WOMEN that react that way, not so much the men. And I know people here from every class and every walk of life. My life here takes me everywhere. Women here tell me point blank that they would never have anything sexually to do with a black man. I dunno how much of it is cultural influence or what people's sexual preferences really are.
For the record when they see pictures of my two fairly light-skinned kids, everybody says how beautiful they are. So there's a definite color-line here. In other words, if you're considered "black" in the USA and are light-skinned enough you'll do fine here.
I have a black friend, amazing drummer, in perfect shape, picks up girls in the US left right and center, but he's NEVER nailed a Colombian woman. When he told me THAT, it clicked instantly for me.
For the record, both here AND in the USA and just about anywhere else I've been mongering, the darker-skinned the woman is, the lower the value she has on the market. When I used to monger in NYC (which in the general population has quite an even balance) black girls always commanded the lowest fees, and whites were at the top of the scale, with the Asians a close second. I saw dudes happily shell out $300 to fuck a barely passable looking white chick and pass over a gorgeous black girl for $80.
Last time I was in Montreal, I went to an incall and they had a bunch of real average looking white chicks and a brown-skinned stunner (obvious choice for me, hands down). My favorite spot here in Bogota has a whole bunch of real good looking chicks of all styles, shapes and colors but they have one former beauty queen who is real dark skinned, stands out like a motherfucker even among all the beauties there. Her rates are among the cheapest. I just thank the Goddess I don't have any ingrained cultural prejudices and can see the forest for the trees. . But to me the phenomenon is world-wide.
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03-15-11 06:18 #10066
Posts: 510Originally Posted by dj fourmoney [View Original Post]
i think that you are confused about my profession. i do not work for the military industrial complex per se. i worked for the emerging markets division of a huge multinational consulting firm for about five years. i am not some x-jarhead slinging a weapon. i have an ivy league degree, worked on wall street after graduation, and then migrated to the consulting world. i have spent about 60% of my time in conflict zones namely because of the dearth of qualified peers willing to go, the amount of authority granted, copious vacation time, and (for what this middle class kid from so cal considers) good money; however, the remaining time i have worked on donor funded projects in eastern europe, central asia, and non middle east. 90% of the projects i work on are economic / fiscal related no matter the location. i also worked for my previous employer on projects in the us.
i have met a few people from this site and my bonafides have been firmly established.
as i have been deemed sufficiently competent and reliable by various donor agencies, i have cut the middle man out and now work for various donor agencies directly on short and medium term contracts at a rate between $550—$1100 per day plus 4 star level hotel accommodation and an extra 2k-4k a month per diem. when i was a jr. guy i spent quite a bit of my time in the 'sandbox', but now, having paid my dues, i am pickier about the locations which i work. i used to take any project offered at whatever rate offered but those days are (hopefully) in my rearview mirror.
contrary to your assertions, i do have an address-three actually- a condo in sea, an apartment share in a recent eu country in the balkans, and a 5200 sq ft house in the usa that i recently purchased. but yes, consultants do spend the bulk of their time on the road and some may consider it a drawback of the profession.
unlike you, i had little scruples about making $$ when i had little, and am still hungry for a buck now that i have a few. hell, if there is a de minimus chance of indictment, i will probably take the contract.
when i was broke, ostracized by my "freinds", and living in my mom's house with no pussy i took a job doing menial labor in iraq which was humbling to say the least, but was better than being broke with no possibility of pussy.
i do not think nor do i recall saying that $$ is the only thing that matters when attracting women; however, in materialistic cultures like our own and in poor countries where stability is paramount it is the dominant factor. nevertheless one should not focus on $$. it's an effect rather than the cause of what attracts women. what attracts women is success. that's what you lack. losers are no more popular in bangladesh than they are in oslo.
in america, where the 'reach factor' is always in play it stops many men on this board from getting what they are entitled to. if a man is successful in his career but short and not overly engaging he may have a hard time getting a woman of comparable value. aw, especially when they are young, desire a successful, handsome, and entertaining mate. even though she is a 5, she thinks she can score a 7. and that 7 thinks she deserves no less than an 8. when in reality the 5 should be with 5 and the 7 with the 7. as they got older they get wiser, but unfortunately by that time they are no longer as desirable as they once were.
in poorer countries, the women are primarily concerned with stability above all else. this is where traveling poses the most value to some on this board. money can mask 'deficiencies' in looks and personality in the developing world.
you must note that the mentality in much of the developing world is completely different than in the west.
for instance, with russian women, because of the instability of their community, they value stability above all else. it does not matter what one looks like or what one's personality is, it only matters what you one provide for her as a husband and boyfriend. these women are taught from an early age 'the prettier you are the better man you will have; the better man you have the better your life will be. ' the man is viewed primarily through the lens of a provider. that's what a man is for. to provide for his woman. if one is a good provider, as goga fung indicated, one can have many girlfriends, mistresses, and generally do shit that would earn one divorce papers in the civilized world.
because you can't provide for yourself let alone a pretty gal, you have little chance with these women.
in scandinavia, in america, most of the women can equate success with something other than a car and the area code of a home. for instance, if one is a successful artist, a materialistic american woman will think 'great, but how can that pay the bills? ' while a person who lives in a small homogenous liberal rich socialist country will think, 'great, i think his unique passion is cool'.
just as some aw erroneously conflate success with $$ you should not believe that scandinavians equate a lack of success with attractiveness.
that tuition for that landmine course i turned you onto would have been paid by the firm. but if you quit within a year of graduation-as i am sure many thinking people do-you would be liable to repay the firm for the tuition. another fellow i turned on to this job worked for a year in africa and afghanistan, claimed some bs mental disorder, and now lives of 5k a month disability in manillla.
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03-14-11 21:58 #10065
Posts: 2374Originally Posted by DJ FourMoney [View Original Post]
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03-14-11 21:20 #10064
Posts: 1493Originally Posted by Goga Fung [View Original Post]
Define "Successful"? Material Success? So if I'm in debt up to my eye balls (recent Loyola Grad school bill is $85K) but still manage to pay rent on a posh $3, 000 apartment near the Staple Center and drive a fancy German car, that's considered Successful?
I don't think any FSU Women is desperate even in very poor countries like Moldova or the 'Stans but there are still plenty of women to go around.
I would agree with D-Law about with one small change. There are more IR couples in the UK than in the US, more than double as many (27% vs 4%). I would argue the best place for black men to pick up Anglo chicks is Britain and Canada, not the US.
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03-14-11 20:59 #10063
Posts: 1493Originally Posted by DirkDingy [View Original Post]
I do use P4P as I prefer not to go sexless. That's perfectly acceptable here and I've never gotten a PM from Jackson saying I don't belong here.
I'v never beat off to pictures you have posted, now that's funny. I only beat off to moving pictures you haven't posted any of those.
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03-14-11 20:47 #10062
Posts: 1493Originally Posted by Goga Fung [View Original Post]
All this fear of outsourcing is ridiculous and here's why.
They are handing HB1's out like candy but even with that, there still jobs open.
Originally Posted by Goga Fung [View Original Post]
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03-14-11 20:31 #10061
Posts: 1493Originally Posted by Chocha Monger [View Original Post]
Joining the Army as some others have suggested is a non-starter.
Then relationship advice from two guys that are never home and for the most part have no permanent address?
I understand this site is mainly for looking for pussy. But some of you seem to think that involves everything but monogamous relationships which is false. You desire to have sex with multiple partners based on the Eddie Murphy "Same Old Crackers" line. That's fine and if you want to live that lifestyle then that's for you, I don't make light or fun of it.
But you don't show me the same level of respect the other way. My ex wanted to marry me, I didn't want to marry a woman with weight problems. That was the main but not the only reason I let her go.
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03-14-11 17:50 #10060
Posts: 450Women in General
All women in general are looking for basically the same dream.
A knight in shining white armor (Attractive a definite bonus) to pick them up take them some where nice, set up camp and look after their immediate and future needs.
This holds true if they come from Beverly Hills or the Amazon.
Although I do agree there needs and expectations vary widely.
If it looks like can deliver this your are in? If not don't waste your time.
As they say in BKK. No Money, No Honey.
Its not a matter of what you need to be comfortable its a matter of the women think they need to be comfortable.
In Peru, Where I live you can get an attractive 20 yr old for $USD 50 per night (12 hours).
Sly
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03-14-11 16:17 #10059
Posts: 3852Originally Posted by DirkDingy [View Original Post]
Peruvian women from the jungle are HOTTT. There is no other way to describe it. However time after time I have fallen in love with photos of girls from piura. A city close to the border of ecuador.
All I need to see is golden brown skin and I am sold.
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03-14-11 14:41 #10058
Posts: 74Originally Posted by Artisttyp [View Original Post]
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03-14-11 14:41 #10057
Posts: 606Originally Posted by dirkdingy [View Original Post]
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03-14-11 14:09 #10056
Posts: 74More amazonas
More amazonas. Tarapoto Peru. These women are like the best brasilianas, built for sex, thighs and asses to die for and nice faces to boot. I'd like to check out an event at this place when I visit, my knowledge is still limited but certainly there have got to be some very satisfied upper-crust local businessmen in that city:
http://macumbalatingrill.com/galeria...?g2_itemId=408