American Women

[Toronto]

You wrote that you make good $$ in the USA. You can acquire a few NSA girls from the south between 27-30 for between 500-1000 a month.

Is this using those sugardaddy websites?

[DirkDingy]

Yes and no, any healthy hetero man loves the chucha and a lot, and most of us variety, but we are all different in our specific preferences. Anonymous sex with cold-hearted putas doesn't excite me and I prefer to have the GFE feeling with each sexual encounter and feel like I am friends with the girl before and after the session as opposed to feeling like a customer. I don't know of any place where $10 purchases can provide the GFE.

My own ideal lifestyle in a perfect world would be building and maintaining a small harem of perhaps 3 or 4 hotties, all non and semi-pro types, rotating in and out fresh and stale ones from the stable, plus occasional hunting trips out of town, and no pretenses of being faithful to minimize dramas and BS with the girls. If I relocate to LAm this is a possibility but only if I can keep a certain income stream flowing; most women agreeing to the "no strings" bit will need something else to keep them interested in staying in the loop which is some kind of financial help.

A few months ago someone posted an article about this dude who went to live in jungles of the Phillpines; I think he had a liftestyle similair to that which you seek. If you locate to a 2nd or 3rd tier city in Peru and have the $$ to do it I am sure that you can have a few Sugarbabbies.

You wrote that you make good $$ in the USA. You can acquire a few NSA girls from the south between 27-30 for between 500-1000 a month.

[DirkDingy]

As more women enter the workforce the less likely women will choose a partner based on his ability to provide. If women see themselves as "breadwinners" (or potential "breadwinners") , the more likely they will choose partners based on the same criteria that men choose their mates, looks and sexual aptitude.

If men are being viewed by women more and more as sex objects, then men may be better served by spending more time at the gym and less time working.

-Helpmann.

AW talk that feminist nonsense but gender roles are still alive and even dominant in America. Women seek security, stability, and want to be taken care of. It's biological.

As I date more and more in America I have found that women refuse to date men less successful than they are. This just raises the bar with even more unrealistic expecations. She does not think I make 70k a year thus I will settle for a walmart sales associate who makes 27k. She thinks with my 70k and his 80k we can have two cars and a nice house.

The average AM is getting squeezed out of the market due to unrealstic expectations of the AW.

Socialist European women from rich small countries are more likely to date men less stable than they are though.

[DirkDingy]

Okay I'll bite. Mister World Traveler, X-Military, Contract Merchant whatever your doing now. What would you have me do?

Be some single bastard, chasing skirts, paying women to leave, forget having my own children, travel the world until I need new pages for my passport?

I'm all ears, most suggestions fall on deaf ears they are 180 degrees of what I want. My overall knowledge is fairly narrow, but I've also seen your post elsewhere on this site and its seems your very cynical, so how can I take any advice about women from you seriously?

Simple: You need to do whatever you need save donning a hoodie and a Saturday nite special to better yourself. You are 40 and a complete and utter failure. You are a fuking disgrace. This is a forum for men who have the means to pay for sex. You obviously do not, so do yourself a favor and get off this board. Try monster. Com or vault. The rules of the game are simple: first you get job / status, then you get the accoutrements of the status, and then you enjoy the aforementioned—including women. These are the rules of the game for life since the beginning of time.

You need to stop indulging in your fantasies of EE buxom blondes and face the fact that you are broke, uneducated, and unsuccessful which makes you desirable to NO WOMEN ON THE PLANET.

The truth hurts but so be it. The other ass clowns on this board who place pussy atop the pantheon of life are also worrisome. Traveling to poor countries where you may be considered less of a looser to permanently chase ass is also pathetic. This board is great for the 2 week a year sex tourist but to someone like yourself it's a poor man's shrink. And we all we be committing malpractice is we continue to indulge your drivel.

You will not be hired as an IT professional to work in the EU with a degree from a community college, you will likely never have a woman that can be considered even remotely desirable in ANY country, and you will likely be considered just another bum. If you were 22 or even 32 maybe not, but at 40 you have made your bed and now must sleep in it. You will not pass go and you will not collect $200.

I told your sorry ass a few years ago that you needed to take a huge risk to get out from the hole that you are in and you just continued to lurch around this board and beat off to the pictures that I posted in the photo gallery. I told you to sign up for the EOD—human bomb sniffer—course. It's good $$ and for an uneducated 40 year old like yourself it would have been a good deal for you. I even PM'the you the hiring manager's contact info and agreed to split the referral fee with you. If you had your legs blown off you would get a 500k payout and 5K a month for the rest of your life. With prosthetics nowadays you could have moved to Tajikistan and had a late 20s ethnic Russian dyev to take care of you as long as that 5k came in every month. If you would have died in a bomb blast neither you nor the world would be much. And at least you would have died serving your country.

I don't fault you for being a pernnial looser; I fault you for not doing anything concretely to better yourself.

[Golfinho]

I am a cubicle-worker with little to offer personality-wise or financially. But every time I return to Lima Peru I am seen as exciting and interesting, so many girls call me "guapo" or "lindo" it is hard to believe they are just saying that to me for no reason. Part of it is I change when I touch down there, I become a much more engaging and outgoing and humorous guy.

You have solved the mystery: Sitting in the back of a plane for half the night magically transforms you into an 'interesting person. '

[Cuero99]

I agree with this, it is the novelty factor. Where I live now in northeast USA I am a cubicle-worker with little to offer personality-wise or financially (despite a very good salary and being more than financially solvent) that can attract or stimulate the gina tingles inside of any decent available local woman, at least not a caucasian US born woman. There is a married asian woman where I work that flirts with me a bit and seems to have a crush on me, if I was motivated or interested I could probably get an ok asian girlfriend but asians except the real hot ones that are uncommon and probably out of my league here don't do much for me.

But every time I return to Lima Peru I am seen as exciting and interesting, so many girls call me "guapo" or "lindo" it is hard to believe they are just saying that to me for no reason. Part of it is I change when I touch down there, I become a much more engaging and outgoing and humorous guy, even when the skies are overcast the place puts me in a good mood with great food and just the good feeling knowing quality pussy is always in the picture if not with the girl I am hitting on at the moment then another one.

As the Peruvian economy booms and opportunity for locals and materialism expand I see it is getting more difficult over time and guys like me seem less novel, but the city is so big there are still lots of places where my game limited as it is continues to play well. Plus there are other many smaller cities outside of the capital to explore where the girls know very little of foreigners. The cities especially to the north and in the jungle have lots of possibility, for awhile I had a sweetie from Lambayaque, a lovely pretty face, simple and always happy to be with me. That one would still be in play but she sadly has gone from from slightly gordita to plump and I had to drop her.

In the end I guess that beside the money transaction thing, this whole fucking around of ours and this website owes a lot to the out-of-towner effect. You know what I mean, you might be a regular guy in your home town but the simple fact of being on the other side of the world at some given time adds some exotic aura to the way people sees you and so you're suddenly more interesting than you'd be back home and gain pussy-points as a result.

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[DirkDingy]

not necessarily anymore. it used to be more like this, but now people in those countries are more familiar with blacks than before (10-20-30 years ago).

still a black person there can be successful and popular in case if he's got lots of money and / or he is famous, for example if he is a participant in a musical group or show. i've heard black singers have some very big value over there and can be in high demand for entertainment industry.

but to be a regular black person, just living normal daily life in eastern europe may not be a good idea. there are at least a couple of problems. some africans are associated there with drugs and illegals. another problem there is racism exists. once in a while skinheads do attack blacks and nonwhites. but south of ee / fsu is much more tolerant and friendly with that aspect.

hi. we hung out in the fsu before. what do your peeps consider me? just want to know before i go off on a diatribe. thanks.

[Helpmann]

As more women enter the workforce the less likely women will choose a partner based on his ability to provide. If women see themselves as "breadwinners" (or potential "breadwinners"), the more likely they will choose partners based on the same criteria that men choose their mates, looks and sexual aptitude.

If men are being viewed by women more and more as sex objects, then men may be better served by spending more time at the gym and less time working.

-Helpmann

[Cuero99]

It does not have to be like that.

I have a friend in FSU. He got married last fall. Now his wife is pregnant. The guy still fucks chicks like for $5-$10 in his car or the apartment I rent all the time. His sex life did not change at all after marriage.

I guess this kinda lifestyle is unacceptable or rather impossible in USA where people got to commit to only one way. Single / dating or married.

But I like the idea when you can have best of both worlds. Nice family life with a loving wife (BTW some may have several wives there) and whoring around whenever you feel like doing that. Don't all men would like this kind of lifestyle?

Yes and no, any healthy hetero man loves the chucha and a lot, and most of us variety, but we are all different in our specific preferences. Anonymous sex with cold-hearted putas doesn't excite me and I prefer to have the GFE feeling with each sexual encounter and feel like I am friends with the girl before and after the session as opposed to feeling like a customer. I don't know of any place where $10 purchases can provide the GFE.

My own ideal lifestyle in a perfect world would be building and maintaining a small harem of perhaps 3 or 4 hotties, all non and semi-pro types, rotating in and out fresh and stale ones from the stable, plus occasional hunting trips out of town, and no pretenses of being faithful to minimize dramas and BS with the girls. If I relocate to LAm this is a possibility but only if I can keep a certain income stream flowing; most women agreeing to the "no strings" bit will need something else to keep them interested in staying in the loop which is some kind of financial help.

[LittleTruths]

I have also noticed this a number of times. I think Hollywood and other bullshit propaganda (such as porn, magazines, etc.) have made it's job.

One time a guy in FSU asked me, is it true that AW are really easy and will go have sex with you right away? I asked him if he is out of his mind and where he got this crazy idea. The guy continued complaining that local women (in FSU!) are too hard to get, and he'd heard that AW are a much better with that respect.

Out-of-towner effect it is then! (this thing can really be ridiculous, but we all love it)

I have personally often been directly approached by USA chicks here and there, and even tho I haven't had any reason to go there myself some close friends did and all came back with the same stories of how damn easy it is. Now, it could be BS of course, but when you know for a fact that the guy has been all around the world on that trip, then why would he insist on how tuna trow themselves at you in that specifical place?

One of these guys, I have once been to OZ with, and mind you in OZ I entered house parties without even saying "good evening" and found myself in girl's bedrooms within half an hour with no effort whatsoever, so talking of this easy USA pussy I asked my buddy "is it as easy as in OZ?" and he replied with "even easier!".

In the end I guess that beside the money transaction thing, this whole fucking around of ours and this website owes a lot to the out-of-towner effect. You know what I mean, you might be a regular guy in your home town but the simple fact of being on the other side of the world at some given time adds some exotic aura to the way people sees you and so you're suddenly more interesting than you'd be back home and gain pussy-points as a result.

It works wonders for me because I love all kinds of exotic pussy and I'm around the world most of the time, in the meantime pussy loves me too so it's a win-win situation. The only downside is that like this it's difficult to get emotionally attached and even when it happens it is difficult and painful to try and keep it going.

LOL, Mr. Internationals need love too!

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[Goga Fung]

Back on topic, as unbelievable as it might sound to you USA guys, AW have a reputation for being among the easiest lays in the whole motherfuckin' world, along with Aussies. Like unreally-easy.

I have also noticed this a number of times. I think Hollywood and other bullshit propaganda (such as porn, magazines, etc.) have made it's job.

One time a guy in FSU asked me, is it true that AW are really easy and will go have sex with you right away? I asked him if he is out of his mind and where he got this crazy idea. The guy continued complaining that local women (in FSU!) are too hard to get, and he'd heard that AW are a much better with that respect.

I told him that this is total bullshit, and he should be lucky to drive a mercedes (though old but nice looking) in this FSU country where he gets many looks from women all the time. So he gets a lot of opportunity to meet friendly girls everyday. They see him driving a mercedes, it means they get interested who is that guy who probably has a good job, can be a provider or just cool to be / fuck around with.

In contrast, in USA most women would do not give a shit about your car unless it's something rare and very expensive, so this guy would not have a chance in USA. He is also not young and not too good looking.

[Goga Fung]

if getting yourself some white tail is what you aim for DJ4M, I'd say your best bet would be to head for EE / FSU countries. In those places you would be some kind of novelty and everybody knows that out-of-towners always have extra pussy-points anywhere at a certain level.

Not necessarily anymore. It used to be more like this, but now people in those countries are more familiar with blacks than before (10-20-30 years ago).

Still a black person there can be successful and popular in case if he's got lots of money and / or he is famous, for example if he is a participant in a musical group or show. I've heard black singers have some very big value over there and can be in high demand for entertainment industry.

But to be a regular black person, just living normal daily life in Eastern Europe may not be a good idea. There are at least a couple of problems. Some Africans are associated there with drugs and illegals. Another problem there is racism exists. Once in a while skinheads do attack blacks and nonwhites. But south of EE / FSU is much more tolerant and friendly with that aspect.

[Goga Fung]

I.

For Multi National companies you will be up against all those individuals who have been layoff because of outsourcing. With Degree's and certifications. Because its cheaper to outsource and. And most companies that don't outsource. Import H1B's from India and soon China.

So you have big time competition. And thats not even mentioning those top college grads who like you. Also did part time work. . But also got a degree.

Very few companies hire non specialist who need no type of supervision or guidance and send them overseas to work.

I agree, IT now is really hard field. In addition to outsourcing Indians, there are also lots of talented young IT / programmers in Eastern Europe. How a non college graduate beginner programmer in his 40s could compete with them I have no idea. Of course anything is possible, but it seems to be a hard way.

If I were D. J. I would go into an own online business. Of course there is a lot of competition too, but it is very realistic to make some money. You could also do import / export biz. For example you can send stuff from USA to other countries and profit. I do not see a problem to make $1000 or even $2000 or more per month, which can be good money in some countries where average salary is $300-$500.

[Goga Fung]

DJ,

You're on a monger forum when you're seeking a wife? The advice and information here is primarily oriented to finding women and fucking them at the lowest financial risk to men. Therefore you will find that it is "anti-marriage." There ain't no love in this shit. If you seriously want a wife you should participate in a forum of like minded men. Sex tourism and wife hunting do not mix. Don't be a sex tourist or associate with them if you're seeking to commit to one woman.

It does not have to be like that.

I have a friend in FSU. He got married last fall. Now his wife is pregnant. The guy still fucks chicks like for $5-$10 in his car or the apartment I rent all the time. His sex life did not change at all after marriage.

I guess this kinda lifestyle is unacceptable or rather impossible in USA where people got to commit to only one way. Single / dating or married.

But I like the idea when you can have best of both worlds. Nice family life with a loving wife (BTW some may have several wives there) and whoring around whenever you feel like doing that. Don't all men would like this kind of lifestyle?

[LittleTruths]

it would be way too much of a generalization to state that "south american chicas prefer white / black", because you know, a "south american" can be a lot of things; ranging from pitch-black bahiana to a mulata from rio to a javanese or indostaanse from suriname or guyane to a trigueña from santa cruz de la sierra and so on and on all the way 'till you hit the blonde of german descent you see here and there in porto alegre or buenos aires.

as a rule of thumb tho, i would agree that women everywhere tend to prefer fairer skin tones than their own, unless of course they are as white as it gets to start off with. there is plenty of exceptions tho, and much is also up to personal tastes so one can never tell, but yeah; if getting yourself some white tail is what you aim for dj4m, i'd say your best bet would be to head for ee / fsu countries. in those places you would be some kind of novelty and everybody knows that out-of-towners always have extra pussy-points anywhere at a certain level.

being black in latin america is more something that relates you to being of a poorer heritage, and there is plenty of blacks around anyways so you're nothing strange.

fairer skin-toned latinas are, most often than not, quite racist in my experience. dd is right to say that these beeatches lie a lot so you can't rely on a woman's word, but even then all you need to figure it out is to pay attention to what they say indirectly and notice its implications.

for instance, in latin america they have maybe 20 different terms to identify different mixes of race and the resulting rainbow of skin-color / hair quality combinations. what does that tell us, that they don't pay attention to such things or that it doesn't matter to them? lol!

in some places like cuba they refer to the typical african hair-type as "malo", which means "bad". what does that tell you?

once in south africa i 've heard some black guys making fun of a colored one by saying that he was "half white and half black, but the white half was his lower half, while the black was the upper". everybody seemed to get it straight and laughed wholeheartedly while it just flew over my head, so i asked my (black) chick what was so funny about that? she told me something along the lines of "white downstairs, black upstairs; small dick, no brain!"

interestingly enough, some days later i asked her whether she regarded herself as belonging to a race of idiots (i am latin btw) and sure thing she replied "of course not!", so i called her out on the funny half-white / half-black joke of hers and her peers from the days before and needless to say she no longer knew what to run her beak about so i've had her running it over my dick instead that's better.

but enough of this.

also, i regard the idea of money bringing chicks as rubbish.

money won't bring you any more chicks than you're getting already, it will only bring you more leeches and vultures, just the same way better looks bring you shallow materialistic beeatches.

if you got money and / or looks you become a commodity or a toy in the view of a woman, so if casual meaningless nuts-busting is what really does it for you then alright, be happy. but when you mean something deeper you will have to take charge, get some game and get it going so that you can steer yourself towards wherever it is that you want to go. game is free and can be learned / improved by anyone quickly with a bit of dedication.

back on topic, as unbelievable as it might sound to you usa guys, aw have a reputation for being among the easiest lays in the whole motherfuckin' world, along with aussies. like unreally-easy. but then again, this is from the point of view of the 'round 30 years old foreigner with decent looks, mildly interesting character and proper lenguage skills. no nice ride and no house owning needed.

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