American Women

[Cuero99]

The world is flat. Even BKK is damn expensive now. Tell us more about these Amazon women please.

The link to that chica I posted, from Tarapoto, that is amazon jungle blood. If you saw those pics I think they say 1000 words. These provincial girls are simple and humble, the most important thing in the world to them unless they have a bebe is snaring a man either short or long time. Of course when they have a bebe they still want and need what a man can offer for obvious reasons. There are different types, she may pursue or work regular jobs or careers, or she may simply live off men for the most part, but inside of them pursuing and ultimately pleasing a man she wants comes first in her heart. For the masculinized AW it is usually the opposite, life revolves around / work and career and all the energy needed to succeed in a more complex economy. The hot provincials like any hot woman knows what she has and how to get men and will settle for local men, but a decent foreign man with some means appeals to them on multiple levels, whether in P4P terms she is a non-pro, semi-pro, or pro-in-denial. Linked Tarapoto girl is category 2 or 3, she already tried to get 300 WU dollars from me, I refused to send her anything and she is ok, still wants very much to see me, implicit is she will get some benefits from me after I tap her. If it happens she is just a flake who was just hoping to steal my money it is no big loss to me.

The other downside with these simple chicas besides their craftiness is after you bang them you often don't have much to talk about. But my Lima and Lima-born favorite girl is a big city girl and great conversationalist and we can spend hours with her between sessions doing whatever and never get bored which is unusual and along with her passionate bedroom performance has made her a keeper for me. I mentioned previously in this forum I have sent this one modest amounts by moneygram, she is a true non pro with a genuine need for money and has yet to abuse the privilege. Tarapoto girl knows all about the favorita, sometimes I like to get their competitive juices flowing when it makes sense to do so.

[DirkDingy]

one cannot generalize here, there are very different people and attitudes. are you asking abut yourself only or all blacks in general?

as you have noticed, it depends a lot on the region and area type (city, village, suburbs) in fsu. generally in fsu south attitude to blacks is good. in north there are more racists. still most people have no problems with blacks, and some love to see them on tv, musical concerts, etc. but at the same time there some racist movements exist. they are against everybody who is not white and comes from another country.

even in the north people from fsu south are sometimes called "blacks", and it actually sounds offensive. may be that's why in fsu south people are much more tolerant to anything that is not white since they are "black", asians or both themselves.

i mean what race/ethnicity am i viewed as by your peeps?

[DirkDingy]

Peru is great for GFE. I too have fallen for peruvian women. If Lima was as cheap as it was a few years ago I would be envious of anybody living there. These days are different. It's gotten too pricey to go out on GFE dates and the pfp IMHO has not gotten better in years. Actually it's gotten worse. .

If you have enough money and time renting on the fly and moving around is the way to go.

The world is flat. Even BKK is damn expensive now. Tell us more about these Amazon women please.

[DirkDingy]

True that. A good part of the population over here doesn't suffer from such a competitive mindset as it seems to be the case in the USA and as a result money and status is not the only thing you, as a man, can bring on the table. Not every man needs to be a provider anymore. Having game or looks or being good in the sack or having an enormous dick or all of the above will also get you far with a lot of women but that's everywhere; then it depends on where you want to place yourself in how and to who you relate to.

Just like pussy ain't the top and only thing of life, neither is material possessions and the work you have to do to keep it all up and running.

Bless

First: Yes, being amusing for a lack of a better term, can attract women anywhere in the world. For a fling but stability wins 8/10 times in the long term. Yes, in places like Sweeden they are not as concerned with material stuff as in the rest of the world.

Second: I find the way some Scandavanians live as in some perverted Mr. Mom movie to be very emasculating. I am a man, not a fucking nurse or a maid. I could not sit on my ass and have some woman by my master. That's some pussy ass junk.

Third: You are correct, $$ is not everything as long as you have your needs met at an accepetable level.

[Artisttyp]

Thanks, but it's not just me, I also feel AW generally have little to offer me. There are a few good ones I am sure, but the decently hot and nonfat ones have lots of choices and are going to go for either the bad boys, smooth-talking salesman / sportscar types, or high-level power corporativos. If I had some other qualities, sure I do have the money required to spend on them, if I was serious I would trade in my Honda Civic for a sportscar or Lexus.

But I'm basically a STEM guy with a quiet personality to match and not in those categories. Also I am 1. 68 mts, unless one is a muscular little napoleon lack of height is a big drawback in USA in the dating market, while pretty much a non-issue in much of LAm, especially Peru. I feel its important to realize in life when certain things just aren't going to happen.

Life is not perfect, it never is, but thanks to air travel and my near-fluent Spanish LAm continues to offer me the ability to live my dreams at least intermittently, so certainly things could be much worse.

Peru is great for GFE. I too have fallen for peruvian women. If Lima was as cheap as it was a few years ago I would be envious of anybody living there. These days are different. It's gotten too pricey to go out on GFE dates and the pfp IMHO has not gotten better in years. Actually it's gotten worse. Places have closed and those that were affordable are now accepting credit cards.

I've heard that each town has a chongo but I can tell you from experience that any town south of Lima is good for a few hours if that. I will never venture south again. The amazon is cool for a few days and the woman are AMAZING looking but what to do when the milk dries up?

Lima was my dream for a long time. I've never felt more manly anywhere else! Things change though and places change. To be honest I have no idea where I could stay for 2 months without getting antsy.

If you have enough money and time renting on the fly and moving around is the way to go.

[DirkDingy]

yes, in peru that could be trujillo or chiclayo, or tarapoto, lots of hot women in these cities. check out this tarapotana that is on my radar, can you say hot:

http://www.slide.com/r/mdzxlaqcqt82p...58197335147622

but keeping a solid money flow is less challenging from a first-tier city, in my case remote programming work for a us company. better high-speed internet connectivity is more available in these large international cities plus easier ability to fly back on site to us if needed.

do you really want to live in some ass backwards location with no real friends for some pussy? you can't fuck 24/7. remember that the 2nd world is the 2nd world for a reason-limited infastructure, sporadic rule of law, corrupton, limited access to decent medical care, insurgenices and kidnappings in la (shining path in your case) , etc. not to mention how fukcing boring it will be with no decent mates.

i am not saying its a bad idea; just giving you the flip side of the coin.

i am normally against the importation of foreign women for most expats because they have no clue who they are buying, but in your case, as long as you are sober about the transaction, you seem like a strong candidate for a foreign bride. especially if you meet her on one of your extended sojourns to bfe in peru.

[Cuero99]

Dude, stope selling yourself short and believing that you have little to offer AW. You have a good job and appear to be a gentleman. The bar scene is not for everybody and caters to the wrong qualities anyway. Try its just lunch and / or meet women at social events. Keep trying. If the woman can't see your value then move in because she is not the one for you.

Thanks, but it's not just me, I also feel AW generally have little to offer me. There are a few good ones I am sure, but the decently hot and nonfat ones have lots of choices and are going to go for either the bad boys, smooth-talking salesman / sportscar types, or high-level power corporativos. If I had some other qualities, sure I do have the money required to spend on them, if I was serious I would trade in my Honda Civic for a sportscar or Lexus.

But I'm basically a STEM guy with a quiet personality to match and not in those categories. Also I am 1. 68 mts, unless one is a muscular little napoleon lack of height is a big drawback in USA in the dating market, while pretty much a non-issue in much of LAm, especially Peru. I feel its important to realize in life when certain things just aren't going to happen.

Life is not perfect, it never is, but thanks to air travel and my near-fluent Spanish LAm continues to offer me the ability to live my dreams at least intermittently, so certainly things could be much worse.

[Goga Fung]

Most of what you guys are talking about is nonsense.

I know of no place in particular where black guys. And by that I mean Black Americans don't kill.

North America, South America, Western Europe, Eastern Europe, Asia, Oceana, Africa.

Although Latin America and North America has its racist history. And overarching cultural biases. On the individual level this ends up meaning very little when interacting with females.

The easiest place for black guy to score white tail is right here in the USA. No need to travel far for that.

Why nonsense? I believe I know what I'm talking about. I'm very well familiar with Easter Europe, know many people there. There are various attitudes (from love, non different, and to hate) towards blacks (and actually non whites in general) as I wrote before. There are also some women who do get married to black men. I know one personally from Eastern Europe who moved to USA, also had kids with a black man.

So in general DJ4M has an opportunity to meet a nice family oriented woman of the age he wants. The main issue here, as Dirk Dingy explained, the guy must be successful and be able to provide well for the new family.

Eastern European women are not as naive and desperate as they used to be 15-20 years ago.

[Drlawyer]

Not necessarily anymore. It used to be more like this, but now people in those countries are more familiar with blacks than before (10-20-30 years ago).

Still a black person there can be successful and popular in case if he's got lots of money and / or he is famous, for example if he is a participant in a musical group or show. I've heard black singers have some very big value over there and can be in high demand for entertainment industry.

But to be a regular black person, just living normal daily life in Eastern Europe may not be a good idea. There are at least a couple of problems. Some Africans are associated there with drugs and illegals. Another problem there is racism exists. Once in a while skinheads do attack blacks and nonwhites. But south of EE / FSU is much more tolerant and friendly with that aspect.

Most of what you guys are talking about is nonsense.

I know of no place in particular where black guys. And by that I mean Black Americans don't kill.

North America, South America, Western Europe, Eastern Europe, Asia, Oceana, Africa.

Although Latin America and North America has its racist history. And overarching cultural biases. On the individual level this ends up meaning very little when interacting with females.

The easiest place for black guy to score white tail is right here in the USA.. No need to travel far for that.

Just because the men of a particular place hate on the brothers (sexual competition) does not mean that the women share the same view. Especially, when she is behind closed doors or her "rep" (I. E. Opportunity to find a beta to marry) is not jeopardized.

[Goga Fung]

As more women enter the workforce the less likely women will choose a partner based on his ability to provide. If women see themselves as "breadwinners" (or potential "breadwinners") , the more likely they will choose partners based on the same criteria that men choose their mates, looks and sexual aptitude.

If men are being viewed by women more and more as sex objects, then men may be better served by spending more time at the gym and less time working.

Helpmann

This is exactly what is hapenning in USA and probably other feminist societies.

Few years ago I went to a gym for about a month in USA. Sometimes I was counting the ratio between men and women attending. Most of the time there were about 10 men and 2 women! Or a similar ratio. Often zero women and only men. Definately something is very wrong here. It means that men are getting into shape while women eating pizza and sitting on their ass watching TV. The ratio should be at least 50/50.

On the other hand when I was going to a kickboxing gym, the ratio often was much better. But I think it had a lot to do that women want to be able to fight and be able kick men's ass. I think there is a propaganda like this in USA.

[Goga Fung]

My own ideal lifestyle in a perfect world would be building and maintaining a small harem of perhaps 3 or 4 hotties, all non and semi-pro types, rotating in and out fresh and stale ones from the stable, plus occasional hunting trips out of town, and no pretenses of being faithful to minimize dramas and BS with the girls. If I relocate to LAm this is a possibility but only if I can keep a certain income stream flowing; most women agreeing to the "no strings" bit will need something else to keep them interested in staying in the loop which is some kind of financial help.

This is what actually some people are doing there. Of course not many can afford this. GFE on the side can be expensive.

But people with money can have several "wives". Sometimes they buy for those extra wives apartments or cars, plus other financial help. So supposedly because of such generocity those wives are committed to only this guy and not supposed to cheat. In a muslim culture this is acceptable, some people would not like that, but nobody gets pissed off much. As long as the guy provides for his women, nobody can complain.

[Goga Fung]

hi. we hung out in the fsu before. what do your peeps consider me? just want to know before i go off on a diatribe. thanks.

one cannot generalize here, there are very different people and attitudes. are you asking abut yourself only or all blacks in general?

as you have noticed, it depends a lot on the region and area type (city, village, suburbs) in fsu. generally in fsu south attitude to blacks is good. in north there are more racists. still most people have no problems with blacks, and some love to see them on tv, musical concerts, etc. but at the same time there some racist movements exist. they are against everybody who is not white and comes from another country.

even in the north people from fsu south are sometimes called "blacks", and it actually sounds offensive. may be that's why in fsu south people are much more tolerant to anything that is not white since they are "black", asians or both themselves.

[DirkDingy]

I agree with this, it is the novelty factor. Where I live now in northeast USA I am a cubicle-worker with little to offer personality-wise or financially (despite a very good salary and being more than financially solvent) that can attract or stimulate the gina tingles inside of any decent available local woman, at least not a caucasian US born woman.

As the Peruvian economy booms and opportunity for locals and materialism expand I see it is getting more difficult over time and guys like me seem less novel, but the city is so big there are still lots of places where my game limited as it is continues to play well. Plus there are other many smaller cities outside of the capital to explore where the girls know very little of foreigners. The cities especially to the north and in the jungle have lots of possibility, for awhile I had a sweetie from Lambayaque, a lovely pretty face, simple and always happy to be with me. That one would still be in play but she sadly has gone from from slightly gordita to plump and I had to drop her.

Dude, stope selling yourself short and believing that you have little to offer AW. You have a good job and appear to be a gentleman. The bar scene is not for everybody and caters to the wrong qualities anyway. Try its just lunch and / or meet women at social events. Keep trying. If the woman can't see your value then move in because she is not the one for you.

[LittleTruths]

Socialist European women from rich small countries are more likely to date men less stable than they are though.

True that. A good part of the population over here doesn't suffer from such a competitive mindset as it seems to be the case in the USA and as a result money and status is not the only thing you, as a man, can bring on the table. Not every man needs to be a provider anymore. Having game or looks or being good in the sack or having an enormous dick or all of the above will also get you far with a lot of women but that's everywhere; then it depends on where you want to place yourself in how and to who you relate to.

Just like pussy ain't the top and only thing of life, neither is material possessions and the work you have to do to keep it all up and running.

Bless

[DirkDingy]

Is this using those sugardaddy websites?

Tha Canucks normally require less $$ than the AW. Less attitude too.