Thread: American Women
+
Add Report
Results 2,341 to 2,355 of 11975
-
10-02-10 03:19 #9635
Posts: 338Originally Posted by Rubber Nursey
But - given the ever-increasing contempt aimed at men by Western women - can you definitively rule out that some of these gay couples may be putting on a show like that, not just for their own pleasure, but also to (as Artisttyp said) "make straights uncomfortable and rub their sexuality in your face"?
I was and I am reporting on my own state of mind and emotions when I said that I don't even pretend to hope there would be any room for me in the mix, and that I feel like the show underlines the fact.
I already recognize that American women would appreciate nothing more from me than seeing me crawl back under my rock and disappear. I have grown used to that rock, even comfortable under it, but I do crawl out from time to time for some sunlight and fresh air....
-
10-02-10 00:21 #9634
Posts: 614Originally Posted by Artisttyp
-
10-01-10 23:56 #9633
Posts: 614Duh !
Rn,
Its no use in trying to convince these guys of nothing. You are dealing with the socially and relationship inept with this group.
For any rational thinking person to think that Only straight people kiss in public because of passion and gays Only do it to attract attention or to some how embarrass straight people shows how ignorant these guys are about people and relationships. In general
I believe most of these guys here are those guys who werent able to get women EVER. Oh they might of had that one or two girls who like them so much that the woman pratically made the move on them and of course these knuckleheads thought they were the ones who made the move. And then once the woman realized the socially inept guys they had. They dumped them. So any and everyone who is in love or displays affection of any kind has to be doing it with some other motive.
That is why most of these guys are locked solely into the p4p game or can only deal with women are so economically strapped that they accept any foreigner and since there is the obvious language barrier. No intellectual discussions will take place.
-
10-01-10 23:55 #9632
Posts: 1493Originally Posted by Rubber Nursey
I don't know the reasons WHY they do it, they just do it. I have seen it, its not what I would call a regular thing, but also straight women bring known bi-sexual women into heterosexual nightclubs. Mix in a little alky and you never know what happens.
-
10-01-10 19:52 #9631
Posts: 3852Originally Posted by Rubber Nursey
I live in NYC a mecca for this crap. They do it to make straight people feel uncomfortable and to rub their sexuality in your face. It's their way of getting back at the "folks".
I have respect for old school gays 70's/80's. They had way more balls then the guys nowdays. The younger gay guys act worse than high school "mean girls".
The straight man is the real underdog these days.
Another big deal in NYC are bull dykes that look like men and date lipstick lesbos. If you somewhat glance at their lipstick GF they want to pounce on you. Most are PR's or Black. Maybe it has to do with macho culture. I don't know.
These are people looking for trouble who feel the need to exacerbate the situation. It is nothing more than an act of desperation.
Again these are all signs of desperation and the need to prove something. If you are happy and you know it clap your hands...that's what I say.
-
10-01-10 19:24 #9630
Posts: 1345Originally Posted by Westy
-
10-01-10 18:20 #9629
Posts: 1493Originally Posted by Westy
-
10-01-10 15:02 #9628
Posts: 338Originally Posted by Rubber Nursey
I have had two "happy hour" experiences in my life - one professional (at Blackbeard's in the DomRep) and one "semi-pro" (in Asuncion, Paraguay, with a woman I'd been with before and her friend that she was partying with before we hooked up that night). Neither one involved any girl-on-girl action, though I would have enjoyed the show if it had come about that way.
Two women getting sexy with each other? I don't even pretend to hope there would be any room for me in the mix, any more than I would hope that a woman I find attractive is going to want anything to do with the likes of me. Unless it's P4$ with the gringo mark-up.
-
10-01-10 07:12 #9627
Posts: 1493Originally Posted by Rubber Nursey
That's the only time I find myself in nightclubs these days. Its not for 40somethings, its not even for 30somethings even though they still go. I don't drink so I don't like the bar scene, I'm just kinda stuck. I rely heavily on the internet now.
I have never met any women (besides the one I mentioned) that was openly interested in bi-sexual activities, so the likelihood of that happening is SLIM and NONE.
For me its a loose, loose, - Example
I was making my rounds on the sites I'm on (dating sites) and out of nowhere I get a poke/wink that somebody wants to chat with me, okay... Its some 40ish Flight Attendant, who looks very bit 40. After about 15 mins she asked what my "Special Situation" and I said I live at home with my parents as I wanted to save money. Then she goes on this mini-rant about being an Independent Women and that she couldn't handle me being at home. Before that she said "I wanted alot to be a guy that lives at home". I've become very BLUNT in my description of what I want (no kids or if you do one small child, under 3 and under 35) I don't see how that's "demanding"....lol How could some woman on the wrong side of 40 say some shit like that like she was doing ME a favor by contacting me first to see what kinda "looser" I was?
This is what American Men have to put up with. I didn't ask for her opinion on my living situation, nor did I was I really interested in talking to her. If I was I would have contacted her first.
That's some serious bullshit!
-
10-01-10 05:57 #9626
Posts: 1345Originally Posted by DJ FourMoney
However...I should add that a lot of women who pull that trick are actually trying to promote themselves as 'sexually enlightened' and, perhaps, suggest that they're up for a 2-girl/1-guy threesome. How is that a bad thing? Surely that's a win-win situation for many men!
-
10-01-10 05:39 #9625
Posts: 1493Originally Posted by Rubber Nursey
-
10-01-10 03:58 #9624
Posts: 1345Originally Posted by Mike12
-
09-30-10 14:42 #9623
Posts: 724The best defence...
... is a good offence.
Probably also it is a defence mechanism - if she is not open to approaches, then she cannot be rejected.
Originally Posted by Goga Fung
-
09-30-10 07:34 #9622
Posts: 87Originally Posted by DJ FourMoney
I walk down a Manhattan street every day right after high school lets out and see and hear all kinds of things going on with the charming student body. Various fights and robberies, girls instigating fights, roving kids in the street jumping out at cars, screaming high-school kids, and all this with cops on every street to shepard them along to the subway. Lovely experience for sure. With that being said, I still don't think it was as bad as the eighties. At least now these kids got lap-tops, Ipods, smartphones, and a reasonable awareness of the world around them through the internet and the media.
As far as the lesbian duos, I meant they are drawing attention to themselves, intentionally dick-teasing guys now for fun. Like a game.
-
09-30-10 04:56 #9621
Posts: 1493Originally Posted by Vaquero
I've never dated any Bi-Women, I only knew one that expressed interest in being with a woman and I didn't have a problem with it.