American Women

[Helpmann]

Dating Web Sites equalize things for men, not for women really.

If you don't appear "successful" (Car, Job, Clothes) then your penalized. Then women parse that. Is the car a BMW or Benz, is the job high paying and are the clothes from a upscale retailer? If not, they marks off each and weigh that against how you look. The further you're away from Taye Diggs, Ricky Martin or Brad Pitt, you get put on the "Friend's Ladder". But that only happens in real time. On web sites they can filter out those easily, which is why lying is so effective for men...

Excellent point! Dating websites and social networks can equalize the playing field for men.

-Helpmann

[DJ FourMoney]

That whole dating website thing is really strange. I've known some really hot chicks that were into that scene. One of them was a hot P.R. chick with one of the the all-time top three nicest asses I have ever seen. No kids but real stuck up though. I believe females think they can order up the perfect man criteria wise when describing what they are looking for, and that is why they go that route.

Actually its more complex than that.

Dating Web Sites equalize things for men, not for women really.

If you don't appear "successful" (Car, Job, Clothes) then your penalized. Then women parse that. Is the car a BMW or Benz, is the job high paying and are the clothes from a upscale retailer? If not, they marks off each and weigh that against how you look. The further you're away from Taye Diggs, Ricky Martin or Brad Pitt, you get put on the "Friend's Ladder". But that only happens in real time. On web sites they can filter out those easily, which is why lying is so effective for men.

I can't explain to Cherchez why failed with his Facebook Girl. Its likely she wasn't that into him but didn't want to hurt his feelings. Women know almost instantly if they are going to let you fuck them or not. At least I know, I've never been shocked when the panties drop, its expected, I get results. The only time I'm surprised is how quickly it happens, first date anybody?

[Mike12]

LOL I also posted a fake profile in China (DIA site) with a nice photo of a chick I had picked in Shanghai. That got over 30-40 responses a day! An oxford university professor, vice presidents of companies, real estate tycoons, doctors .. all responded. Lots of guys from UK USA Germany and some Turkish, Australians. No one from China itself. It was an eye opener.

Such was the case in China. I can only surmise what would happen if a hot chick posts on match-dot-com or any US website.

Watch the internet ads/banners for ANY American dating site. They always post a picture of the hot girl. They know there are no women. It's all just men becoming members and paying obscene money. So they target men.

I ignore all US sites completely. Going to a local grocery store and picking up MILFs is much much easier. For fresh off the boat chicks , try libraries of community colleges.

That whole dating website thing is really strange. I've known some really hot chicks that were into that scene. One of them was a hot P.R. chick with one of the the all-time top three nicest asses I have ever seen. No kids but real stuck up though. I believe females think they can order up the perfect man criteria wise when describing what they are looking for, and that is why they go that route.

[Badboy27]

You are too naive, sorry.

Most likely she has already gotten 10-20 chumps(no offence, a joke) like you from the internet, promising a lot in exchange of her attention.

And in addition to that, after her arrival, the rumors about the "fresh" pussy has propagaded quickly, so now there is a line of guys in BMW, Mercedes and Lexuses has lined up.

This is what happens when a new pussy(even ugly ones) enters the Land of the Free and the Home of the Brave. You face a lot of competition for 1-2-3 holes in a piece of meat. This sucks, but that's the USA reality.

I know this for sure, I had posted a fake profile on a dating site, you have to see what kinda things men are offering! Also one my ex-girlfriend was shocked after she placed a profile on a dating site. She got offers from some rich people, asking her out, promising dinners, some NYC producers inviting her to their shows, etc. Some guys drove 100 miles to see her.

LOL I also posted a fake profile in China (DIA site) with a nice photo of a chick I had picked in Shanghai. That got over 30-40 responses a day! An oxford university professor, vice presidents of companies, real estate tycoons, doctors .. all responded. Lots of guys from UK USA Germany and some Turkish, Australians. No one from China itself. It was an eye opener.

Such was the case in China. I can only surmise what would happen if a hot chick posts on match-dot-com or any US website.

Watch the internet ads/banners for ANY American dating site. They always post a picture of the hot girl. They know there are no women. It's all just men becoming members and paying obscene money. So they target men.

I ignore all US sites completely. Going to a local grocery store and picking up MILFs is much much easier. For fresh off the boat chicks , try libraries of community colleges.

[Goga Fung]

OK, I tried contacting one, just one, ex-student via FB and she did not respond. I need to try it on others, not sure who though.

Been back in the States 10 days, and am already not getting a response from a girl who just moved here a month ago (I met her back in Europe, I kind of know her family). We had talked about NYC and how I was going to show her everything and she was so excited and blablabla and now. Nada. Oh well, she's not much to look at anyway but still would do her.

You are too naive, sorry.

Most likely she has already gotten 10-20 chumps(no offence, a joke) like you from the internet, promising a lot in exchange of her attention.

And in addition to that, after her arrival, the rumors about the "fresh" pussy has propagaded quickly, so now there is a line of guys in BMW, Mercedes and Lexuses has lined up.

This is what happens when a new pussy(even ugly ones) enters the Land of the Free and the Home of the Brave. You face a lot of competition for 1-2-3 holes in a piece of meat. This sucks, but that's the USA reality.

I know this for sure, I had posted a fake profile on a dating site, you have to see what kinda things men are offering! Also one my ex-girlfriend was shocked after she placed a profile on a dating site. She got offers from some rich people, asking her out, promising dinners, some NYC producers inviting her to their shows, etc. Some guys drove 100 miles to see her.

[CherchezFemme]

OK, I tried contacting one, just one, ex-student via FB and she did not respond. I need to try it on others, not sure who though.
Been back in the States 10 days, and am already not getting a response from a girl who just moved here a month ago ( I met her back in Europe, I kind of know her family). We had talked about NYC and how I was going to show her everything and she was so excited and blablabla and now....nada. Oh well, she's not much to look at anyway but still would do her.

[Vaquero]

A Mexicana who's been somewhat pursuing me for awhile, even after I expressed my preference for married women, suggested we take a trip together. She's offered to pick up half the costs of the hotel.

That's unusual. Maybe I'll go ahead and take the money from her and then set it on the dresser for her at the end of the weekend.

[DJ FourMoney]

PS.

And if a foreign pussy has been to USA, ignore her. She is worse than AW. She has realized her worth. Her eyes are now opened and now she is a Mexican who wants Texas back.

She will treat you like no body.

I don't think that always happens. Remember you only hear or remember the worst, its easy to remember, its human nature. I can tell you for sure that their are plenty of immigrants and expats from Europe in America that almost completely reject our social structure.

What you forget is that many countries allow you to keep your citizenship. If worst comes to worst, you can go back to France, this was pointed out Micheal Moore's film Sicko.

If anything Foreign Women (in the US) are more honest and won't waste your time. If they don't find interesting and/or attractive, then they won't give you a fake phone number or their actual phone number and then threaten legal action when you actually call it.

In otherwords, most Foreign women are NOT copying the worst aspects of AW.

What most here are thinking of are the women becoming engulfed in our Capitalist Economy, then demanding the large SUV, oversize Home and lavish Vacations.

Which I find interesting, some people don't want others to experience the perts of our economy such as it is? If you married a Gold Digger, you ignored the signs, its your fault. Women don't turn into Gold Digging, Sexual Prudes overnight, you didn't see it.

[Vaquero]

"A woman who wants to succeed as a manager/professional in the US working world economy simply has to take on the exact opposite characteristics that make for an appealing female dating/love/sex partner. Sweet, happy, compliant, sensual, uncomplicated.

My work project manager seems to be a decent lady at heart, and is not fat or intrinsically ugly, and I get along fine with her professionally. But when she smiles the hardness built up from years trying to climb the corporate ladder shows in her face. She just has to be a bit of a battle-axe to be as successful as she is in her career in a pretty cutthroat environment."

All I can say is I work as a civil servant and it's so much a cut-throat environment for women as it is a system that requires a certain quota of women to be in higher level positions. A woman in today's government has a fairly easy ticket from what I've seen.

Women in the workplace are by far the most political and insecure people I've worked with, both in the private and public sectors. They also pride themselves on manipulation and keeping secrets.

Their one convenient downfall is that they're sometime unable to contain their emotions, so you get to witness public outbursts occasionally that lessen their credibility. But unfortunately, they're still women with a big affirmative action push behind them, so it's still hard for them to get in trouble.

[Badboy27]

PS.

And if a foreign pussy has been to USA, ignore her. She is worse than AW. She has realized her worth. Her eyes are now opened and now she is a Mexican who wants Texas back.

She will treat you like no body.

AW dog is long dead. No point shooting it. It's widely accepted around the globe among the enlightened. Corpses are now bloated, rotting and smelling due to decay.

Even saying 'hello, how are you' is a waste of time. The dog can no longer wag her tail.

One word of caution though: When you meet young juicy pulsating pussies from foreign lands, make sure to allude to 'so called stunning AW with brain' !! Tell them all AW look like models you saw on TV soap opera from Hollywood or better. Be lavish in singing paeans of praise for AW. Tell them though we think AWs are the most beautiful and the best, we are considering you only because you have a sincere heart. AWs are a bit materialist for our taste. Never make the mistake of badmouthing AWs in front of foreign pussies.

For some reasons, foreign pussies like to hear that. They like us to be condescending. This has been my experience I wanted to share.

I do not go into 'why it's like that'. I am only interested in 'what is like what' and use it.

[Badboy27]

AW dog is long dead. No point shooting it. It's widely accepted around the globe among the enlightened. Corpses are now bloated, rotting and smelling due to decay.

Even saying 'hello, how are you' is a waste of time. The dog can no longer wag her tail.

One word of caution though: When you meet young juicy pulsating pussies from foreign lands, make sure to allude to 'so called stunning AW with brain' !! Tell them all AW look like models you saw on TV soap opera from Hollywood or better. Be lavish in singing paeans of praise for AW. Tell them though we think AWs are the most beautiful and the best, we are considering you only because you have a sincere heart. AWs are a bit materialist for our taste. Never make the mistake of badmouthing AWs in front of foreign pussies.

For some reasons, foreign pussies like to hear that. They like us to be condescending. This has been my experience I wanted to share.

I do not go into 'why it's like that'. I am only interested in 'what is like what' and use it.

[Horn Dog]

In essence, they feel that they're entitled to more than men are entitled to, and it shows in many of their attitudes. It's like their entire dating philosophy consists of finding out how much they can get out of a relationship while putting in as little as possible, and sex is a major bargaining chip that they use to maintain that balance. This is why many of them see sex workers in such a negative light. It is a direct threat to their control of relationships. If men are able to pay for sex, women will lose some of their bargaining power, and will have to put more effort into relationships while not getting as many benefits.

Perhaps this view is cynical, but it's based on my past experiences with american women.

Having been married to an American once, and now to an Eastern European, I'd say you hit the nail right on the head.

She used to call it P.O.P: The power of pussy.

[Cuero99]

I have never been married. When I was younger, it made me a little depressed, but these days, at 40, I don't mind so much, especially since I work for a woman.

Never been harassed so much in my life. I always know that if the tables were turned, and if it were a white guy berating a Latin female like she does me, I'd be in deep shit.

A woman who wants to succeed as a manager/professional in the US working world economy simply has to take on the exact opposite characteristics that make for an appealing female dating/love/sex partner. Sweet, happy, compliant, sensual, uncomplicated.

My work project manager seems to be a decent lady at heart, and is not fat or intrinsically ugly, and I get along fine with her professionally. But when she smiles the hardness built up from years trying to climb the corporate ladder shows in her face. She just has to be a bit of a battle-axe to be as successful as she is in her career in a pretty cutthroat environment. She is very well off financially due to her advancement within the company but I just can't imagine ever dating never mind ever ever being a husband to a woman like this but she does have a husband. I don't know him, I wonder if he mongers? Its hard to imagine he has a good married sex life.

Occasional travel to places where I can trade my gringo charm and accumulated financial resources for access to the delightful wet pussies of the poor uncomplicated unspoiled young chicas of latin america is much more appealing to dating any available AW professional career woman, and the best I can do at the moment.

Granted if I was a tall, high status, extroverted, very athletic and very attractive man which I am not I could certainly date and bang some of the better looking professional AW. But even if I was that man, I still don't see how I could be satisfied with these AW, I would always have to prefer the sweet simple unspoiled latin american chicas and what they offer in the bedroom.

What is the alternative in gringalandia? Dating AW +non-professional+ women? That also would have its issues, like probably an even deeper hit on my bank account than traveling and mongering for far less satisfaction. This group is the PeopleOfWalmart crowd, uggh!

[Vaquero]

I have never been married. When I was younger, it made me a little depressed, but these days, at 40, I don't mind so much, especially since I work for a woman.

Never been harassed so much in my life. I always know that if the tables were turned, and if it were a white guy berating a Latin female like she does me, I'd be in deep shit.

But it may be a benefit in the long run. Truth be told, I haven't been in a lot of longterm relationships, but I think I understand marriage more by being in this work situation. It's fucking miserable. Working for a woman is like getting a vasectomy that prevents marriage.

I do think they're pretty good at interior decorating, though. I'll give them that.

A little disappointed I haven't had the chance to father a son. I'm sure daughters could be cool, too, but the truth is that most American mothers will poison their minds. Damn shame.

[Australiasucks]

Have to say that after visiting America a few times on business I can add in a few comments of my own that you may like. Being european and watching a lot of american TV it is quite easy to get the idea that the majority of american girls are slim sexy types. Landing for the first time and actually getting out the plane and seeing the average american girls it is no wonder you guys complain. Im so glad that I can go back to the UK and not have to put up with these women. Totally amazed at thier attitudes and how they think that they can get away with it and sponge off of thier husbands. Depending on getting the poor suckers hooked and then bleeding them dry of both spirit and of money.

I wonder why you guys put up with it. I did have a few daubbles in the mongering when I was there but then again so glad that I dont live there ! Like Nevada you guys put up with paying silly money and then having the girl go through with so many dont do this dont do thats? Pugh ! like you know how many hours I worked to get the price of what you want to charge me for an hour? Yep and Ive to put up with crap ? Florida having to sit and wank myself off watching you model lingerie ? 7-11 and buy playboy ? What I cant get playboy as it upsets women ? why cause it gives guys an outlet to stop them chasing girls? Yep. Its the land of the emancuated indeed. Law busts and total draconian attitudes along with girls that think that they are worth all this high maintenance pish.

Nope dont bother with the yanks when Im out there now quite glad just to yank myself off and forget any interaction with an overweight and full of self importance breed of imbiciles.

UK women are probably even worse than American women. The idea most American women are slim and sexy is Hollywood muckracking BS. I think Australia beats the US to a degree, its nothing compared to Latin America and Eastern Europe. I live in a big international city, and I meet women from all over, so as long as you got a job and a place, reasonably fit and clean, you will definitely find plenty of women. Even in America, the fit and clean struggle to get it on.