American Women

[Furysys]

Just got back from 12 days in the UK, and was horrified. At least half of them are overweight, I'd put the same totals as what was reported on AWs, maybe 30% or so were a proper weight. And even the nicer looking ones dressed like $hit, unbelievable. When one compares whats in Colombia and other parts of SA with what I saw there, at least I was able to tour through the old cities and stuff, in some ways the buildings are better looking than the women.

[Nyc Expat]

pull your pants up, comb your hair, lose 50 pounds, lose the stupid t-shirts, tie your shoelaces, stop saying "like" every third word, cover your mouth when you cough or yawn, get all the shrapnel and scrap metal out of your lips and eyebrows, and stop chewing gum with your mouth open.

clean up your fucking act. 239 more days to go.

most importantly, do not say awesome. that's for **** school girls, not adults.

[ThatGuy865]

I'll bite but you make it sound like we are just complaining and should leave, you don't happen to be Libertarian or Republican/NeoCon?

I happen to think my best chance as passed me by, my best opportunities lost. The best looking woman I've ever been involved with hadn't seen me in person before. She was only disappointed because as is often said, Luck is made when preparation meets opportunity. I was unprepared and unemployed at the time. If I had $100 I could have closed that deal, I couldn't even borrow $30 from so-called "Friends". That was 1995!

Another woman that was putty in my hands was a French-Canadian girl I met on mIRC, that was 1994/1995.

Since then, I should have left my ex for a woman down in San Diego or a woman that lived in Ventura. I did neither I stood pat was still unhappy and when I finally decided to let her go, it was 2 years later. (1996-1999)

So from 2000-2010, its gotten progressively worst. Nothing but Single Mothers and BBW's. Women without children are not interested in me for whatever reason. I think its because these women want LTR and so do I just not with their children. So I've been reluctant to commit and the one woman I would have accepted her young son, rebuffed me in Oslo, Norway.

I can't explain childless women, likely because I live at home, but to be honest I don't think that would be a marked improvement if I did move, at least nobody I want to be with that I have seen, just old ass women, unless you consider mid 30's viable and I really don't.

Since AW only like a 2-5 year age difference and tolerate 7-10 years ONLY when they have children or over 40, in which case all the older women want younger men, not Cougars just don't want a guy that's 50 when they are 40, they want 30-40 men. Single mothers its obvious, stability is their concern.

So TG what am I suppose to do? I don't want to date women over 30, let alone over 35. I have a mild interest in a Austrian woman who's 35, married for a Green Card and is a UCLA student. I haven't heard from her this week, this is likely because classes have started, who knows. She's mmm hot (Blonde, Blue Eyes, been on TV in her home country). I sense an opportunity but I fear my economic situation will be my undoing once again.

So I have picked a plan that just might work. It involves either South America (less likely) or Eastern Europe. It has to work because I feel this is it, I have about a 5 year window total about a 2-3 year window to make it happen. It also might involve relocation as I think as the US slides further into Depression and likely to double dip (40% chance according to Dr Doom) and it will be awhile for a full recovery (2015 many are saying if not longer).

Once I know I will be able to visit women at any given time (within reason) I will start to contact women on the two or three web sites that are low cost. The other tactic will be some sort of agency or service. I'm learning towards a specialized service that's affordable and away from the agencies in general.

Either way, its solely focused on women that want to marry and have children, plain and simple, cut and dry. The only women in North America that motivated are women over 35 clinging to the chance to have children and of course single mothers. In EE I can for sure get 28-35 and push for up to 25 and get it. That is virtually impossible here.

If you can come up with a better scheme then let me know, but I know you can't.

DJ. 1st Id say for what you bring to the table you shouldn't expect much. Why would any woman want to be with you. No job. Live with mommy. And over 30 without a degree. Now why would a beautiful 20 something want to be with you. What do you have to offer. Id don't say this to flame. But be real. Do expect a woman to settle. When their are obviously thousands of better choices than you.

Realistically you better lower your standards and face reality. Countries all over are having economic problems. Immigration for work is being tightened everywhere. You will not have any experience in a specialized field so. It is unlikely that you will be able to gain employment in any of those cities. And if you bring a young girl from any country to L. A.. It won't be long before she realizes you are living at the bottom of the barrel and will leave for a younger probably with a better income.

Your best bet is to search for a woman. Any woman. (children or not). And if they two of you can get along personality wise. Forget the rest and be happy. Beauty is fleeting and fades with age anyway. Guys who marry for such only set themselves up for divorce. JMHO

[DJ FourMoney]

For every one whinning guy who doesn't like AW. There are 10 men and 20 women begging to come into America.

If americans really loved skinny girls as you guys. EE and SEA countries would be high on the tourist list. But the most visited countries are the ones with fattest women outside of the USA namely the UK and France. And even for latin countries its mexico. Which has to have the fattest women of latin america

So leave. You won't be missed and leave those who are happy with AW. Which obviously is the majority.

CYA and have fun living in your newly found havens. But there are millions who are not only happy but think they have it the best in the world. In america you are a tiny minority. But to each his own.

TG

I'll bite but you make it sound like we are just complaining and should leave, you don't happen to be Libertarian or Republican/NeoCon?

I happen to think my best chance as passed me by, my best opportunities lost. The best looking woman I've ever been involved with hadn't seen me in person before. She was only disappointed because as is often said, Luck is made when preparation meets opportunity. I was unprepared and unemployed at the time. If I had $100 I could have closed that deal, I couldn't even borrow $30 from so-called "Friends". That was 1995!

Another woman that was putty in my hands was a French-Canadian girl I met on mIRC, that was 1994/1995.

Since then, I should have left my ex for a woman down in San Diego or a woman that lived in Ventura. I did neither I stood pat was still unhappy and when I finally decided to let her go, it was 2 years later. (1996-1999)

So from 2000-2010, its gotten progressively worst. Nothing but Single Mothers and BBW's. Women without children are not interested in me for whatever reason. I think its because these women want LTR and so do I just not with their children. So I've been reluctant to commit and the one woman I would have accepted her young son, rebuffed me in Oslo, Norway.

I can't explain childless women, likely because I live at home, but to be honest I don't think that would be a marked improvement if I did move, at least nobody I wanna be with that I have seen, just old ass women, unless you consider mid 30's viable and I really don't.

Since AW only like a 2-5 year age difference and tolerate 7-10 years ONLY when they have children or over 40, in which case all the older women want younger men, not Cougars just don't want a guy that's 50 when they are 40, they want 30-40 men. Single mothers its obvious, stability is their concern.

So TG what am I suppose to do? I don't want to date women over 30, let alone over 35. I have a mild interest in a Austrian woman who's 35, married for a Green Card and is a UCLA student. I haven't heard from her this week, this is likely because classes have started, who knows. She's mmm hot (Blonde, Blue Eyes, been on TV in her home country). I sense an opportunity but I fear my economic situation will be my undoing once again.

So I have picked a plan that just might work. It involves either South America (less likely) or Eastern Europe. It has to work because I feel this is it, I have about a 5 year window total about a 2-3 year window to make it happen. It also might involve relocation as I think as the US slides further into Depression and likely to double dip (40% chance according to Dr Doom) and it will be awhile for a full recovery (2015 many are saying if not longer).

Once I know I will be able to visit women at any given time (within reason) I will start to contact women on the two or three web sites that are low cost. The other tactic will be some sort of agency or service. I'm learning towards a specialized service that's affordable and away from the agencies in general.

Either way, its solely focused on women that want to marry and have children, plain and simple, cut and dry. The only women in North America that motivated are women over 35 clinging to the chance to have children and of course single mothers. In EE I can for sure get 28-35 and push for up to 25 and get it. That is virtually impossible here.

If you can come up with a better scheme then let me know, but I know you can't.

[DJ FourMoney]

The "US food industry" deserves perhaps 1% of the blame for the obesity epidemic. Many healthy food choices are available in US supermarkets, certainly more so than in Argentina, for example. People's personal choices are to blame. It's sad when parents don't provide good examples or good choices for their children. When did it become acceptable to serve soda pop at the dinner table, for example? Blame the sedentary lifestyle, the unwillingness to exercise, the inability to cook, and just plain ridiculous gluttony. Snack snack snack munch munch munch all day long, and then more pigging out in front of the TV. I don't eat sweets or junk food, I exercise almost every day, I don't own a car, and I read labels. I am not a vegetarian but my diet is built around grains and legumes. I don't count calories and I drink 8 or 10 beers a day, and I'm not fat. The "US food industry" is just a scapegoat for a lack of self-control and an unwillingness to take personal responsibility.

SOOOO-EY!

I would say this is largely correct.

[Dickhead]

The "US food industry" deserves perhaps 1% of the blame for the obesity epidemic. Many healthy food choices are available in US supermarkets, certainly more so than in Argentina, for example. People's personal choices are to blame. It's sad when parents don't provide good examples or good choices for their children. When did it become acceptable to serve soda pop at the dinner table, for example? Blame the sedentary lifestyle, the unwillingness to exercise, the inability to cook, and just plain ridiculous gluttony. Snack snack snack munch munch munch all day long, and then more pigging out in front of the TV. I don't eat sweets or junk food, I exercise almost every day, I don't own a car, and I read labels. I am not a vegetarian but my diet is built around grains and legumes. I don't count calories and I drink 8 or 10 beers a day, and I'm not fat. The "US food industry" is just a scapegoat for a lack of self-control and an unwillingness to take personal responsibility.

SOOOO-EY!

[Australiasucks]

The best was riding the train in NYC back to catch a plane the last time I was there a couple months ago.

This totally ghetto group of teenage kids were all sitting next to me, screaming at the top of their lungs, talking about their buddies who got locked up so all of us got to hear it, arguing about stupid shit, then two of the boys got in a fist fight and one of them started crying, the older girl started cussing them out and then said to the rest of us in the train car "WTF yall looking at motherfuckers? ". Then one of the nasty little primates let loose the nastiest fart I've ever smelled and everyone was laughing about it. Nuuuuuuuuuu thank you, I could NEVER live there again.

The sad thing about New York is that there are millions of people that behave like those thugs you met in the train but there are millions who are not like that and have to endure such barbaric behavior among their fellow citizens but such idiotic behavior is not confined to NYC, I just came back from San Francisco, I ran into a teenage boy and girl who were reenacting the UFC in an electronics store but when I walked by the boy at least had some courtesy to say excuse me and yelled at his girlfriend for acting out in a public place, so yes they behaved stupidly but the boy had the decency to say excuse me, I doubt I would hear a pair like that do the same in NYC. I am actually in the process of helping a friend in NY get out of there and migrate to Australia. We have are own share of bad characters in Oz but in general you can easily avoid them unlike in NY where trouble will find you.

[ThatGuy865]

For every one whinning guy who doesn't like AW. There are 10 men and 20 women begging to come into America.

If americans really loved skinny girls as you guys. EE and SEA countries would be high on the tourist list. But the most visited countries are the ones with fattest women outside of the USA namely the UK and France. And even for latin countries its mexico. Which has to have the fattest women of latin america

So leave. You won't be missed and leave those who are happy with AW. Which obviously is the majority.

CYA and have fun living in your newly found havens. But there are millions who are not only happy but think they have it the best in the world. In america you are a tiny minority. But to each his own.

TG

[ThatGuy865]

The best was riding the train in NYC back to catch a plane the last time I was there a couple months ago.

This totally ghetto group of teenage kids were all sitting next to me, screaming at the top of their lungs, talking about their buddies who got locked up so all of us got to hear it, arguing about stupid shit, then two of the boys got in a fist fight and one of them started crying, the older girl started cussing them out and then said to the rest of us in the train car "WTF yall looking at motherfuckers? ". Then one of the nasty little primates let loose the nastiest fart I've ever smelled and everyone was laughing about it. Nuuuuuuuuuu thank you, I could never live there again.

I'm sure all those drug gang teenagers in Colombia. Are very courteous about shooting and robbing you. Theyuse proper etiquitte when they rob you.

[Bango Cheito]

My bad. I missed the word "over." 5'8" woman should be around 140 or so, maybe 145. My goodness, women are significantly fatter in the US even than when I left seven years ago. Lots of fat men too but I don't notice much of a significant change there. Of course, there are a lot of Native Americans here and obesity is just rampant among them (as are acne, myopia, alcoholism, meth, etc; not a pretty sight).

In addition to what the previous poster wrote about everyone in the US dressing like shit, posture is terrible. Swearing in public, such as on public transit, is very obnoxious especially when done at high volume while talking on one's cell phone.

In general, returning after seven years, I have this to say to American women and American men:

Pull your pants up, comb your hair, lose 50 pounds, lose the stupid T-shirts, tie your shoelaces, stop saying "like" every third word, cover your mouth when you cough or yawn, get all the shrapnel and scrap metal out of your lips and eyebrows, and stop chewing gum with your mouth open.

Clean up your fucking act. 239 more days to go.

The best was riding the train in NYC back to catch a plane the last time I was there a couple months ago.

This totally ghetto group of teenage kids were all sitting next to me, screaming at the top of their lungs, talking about their buddies who got locked up so all of us got to hear it, arguing about stupid shit, then two of the boys got in a fist fight and one of them started crying, the older girl started cussing them out and then said to the rest of us in the train car "wtf yall looking at motherfuckers?" ..... then one of the nasty little primates let loose the nastiest fart I've ever smelled and everyone was laughing about it... nuuuuuuuuuu thank you, I could NEVER live there again...

[DJ FourMoney]

5'5" 170 is really obese to me too. I would not want to be crashed by a hippo either. American standards are really messed up.

Some chicks which I date in FSU, I guess they would look anorexic for America:
5"2" 88 lbs
5"6 110lbs
5'8" 120lbs

Actually the opposite happens, they attract attention because of their weight or lack thereof. Given how most FSU women dress at home, heals, skirts, dresses, etc; They can shop in the Young Ms section and that makes many AW positivity green with rage and jealously.

I see many FSU that are size zero to maybe 4-5, almost all under 140lbs. The ladies that "heavy" are around 5'9 usually or over 30, where you just have natural weight gain.

I never liked really short women (5'4 and below), I've always loved women around eye level 5'8-6'0.

All you have to do is cruise around your typical US based web site and many of the women are 15-20lbs overweight if not worst. That is the majority.

Seems every women that contacts me online is FAT, not slightly overweight, except on LL

[Dickhead]

My bad. I missed the word "over." 5'8" woman should be around 140 or so, maybe 145. My goodness, women are significantly fatter in the US even than when I left seven years ago. Lots of fat men too but I don't notice much of a significant change there. Of course, there are a lot of Native Americans here and obesity is just rampant among them (as are acne, myopia, alcoholism, meth, etc; not a pretty sight).

In addition to what the previous poster wrote about everyone in the US dressing like shit, posture is terrible. Swearing in public, such as on public transit, is very obnoxious especially when done at high volume while talking on one's cell phone.

In general, returning after seven years, I have this to say to American women and American men:

Pull your pants up, comb your hair, lose 50 pounds, lose the stupid T-shirts, tie your shoelaces, stop saying "like" every third word, cover your mouth when you cough or yawn, get all the shrapnel and scrap metal out of your lips and eyebrows, and stop chewing gum with your mouth open.

Clean up your fucking act. 239 more days to go.

[DJ FourMoney]

5'4" and 135 is slightly overweight. 5'4" and 150 is fat. 5'4" and 190 is obese. Yuck.

True but the women I usually date are closer to 5'8

[Dickhead]

5'4" and 135 is slightly overweight. 5'4" and 150 is fat. 5'4" and 190 is obese. Yuck.

[DJ FourMoney]

Oops. I meant "AW".

I too get attention from overweight women; it is unwanted. I choose to ignore them, as I find them to be repulsive.
Just my taste, that's all. No criticism intended as to the taste of others.

There's a difference between being slightly overweight (which is what I would call women over 5'4 and over 150lbs but under 190lbs) and a whale. I tend to turn them down as well, but it comes with a price, less sex.