American Women

[Capt Ajax]

Here's a review from a typical pussywhipped American male. The chick finishes him off with a bj and cleans him up, since his hour is not yet up, he begs for nookie(sex), she refuses, but then allows him to go down on her for a few minutes, total BS, and she kicks his ass out. Guys when are we going to wake the fuck up. It's obvious who's in control here, the PROVIDER. I just cannot imagine this kind of BS happening in Central, South America, Asia, EE, the Caribbean etc. Looks like this chick is right up ThatGuy865 alley.

Saw her ad on BP and was in the mood so I called her up. I thought I was speaking with her, but I found out later it was another girl giving me directions. I eventually made it to her incall, a very run down and messy house. She met me in a bra only, took the envelope, and guided me to the bedroom. I knew it wasn't the girl in the pics (not even close) but I was thinking with the other head. I should have walked out when I saw it wasn't the girl in the pics...not a good experience.

She met me at the door wearing nothing but a white lacey bra and nothing else. Her tits were obvioulsy factory made (which I hate) and were way too big for her petite frame. Her face was not attractive and she had a complete forest for a bush. I haven't see that much pubic hair since college!

She guided me to the bedroom and had to squeeze thru the doorway since there was a huge pile of dirty clothes on the floor and couldn't open the door. The bed was a mess and TV was blaring. She took off her bra and I got comfortable. She started with a very poor bbbj (more hand than mouth) and I came quickly. We'd spoken on the phone, and she agreed to a full hour, with multiples and greek for $180. After she cleaned me up she told me I had to leave! Had I known that, I wouldn't have wasted my time with the aweful bj. I reitterated what we'd discussed on the phone, and that's when she told me she never spoke to me, it was someone else. But she agreed to give me a bit more time. I wasn't hard so I went down on her for a few minutes. Then she got up and told me I had to leave.

It was a poor experience. There are plenty of other providers in the area, don't give her a second thought. I will not repeat (obviously).

[DJ FourMoney]

if that was true why are Men in other countries where woman are submissive still fuck around. There is no country in the world where men are faitful. Period. No matter how domesticated the women might B. Hell in most of the those countries. The men are notorious for having mistresses.

So why is that?

Supply and Demand...

America and to large extent UK are STRANGE places socially and its not fair to compare them to Eastern Europe, Western Europe, Asia or South America.

While all these places have more women than men, the social results are much different.

a) Generally divorce is easier to get and higher rates in Western Countries.

b) Other countries, men correctly see the advantage of more women as more CHOICE. This leads to infidelity, less children being born, fewer marriages and much larger pool of single women of in all age brackets.

Men in other countries are not penalized for being Single, for not being Married, rarely have "Shotgun Weddings" and are valued much higher. I recently watched DW where they went to a village in Bulgaria and there was a Bride Market believe it or not. Could you imagine such a thing in Western Culture????

While there are more woman in US, I have some facts for you -

Of women under 40:

42% of Black Women have never been married
32% of Hispanic Women have never been married
22% of Caucasian Women have never been married

Considering 300 Million People and that's a SIZABLE CHUNK of the dating Pool that's Single. But you would hardly call that "paradise".

Most of those women are looking for imaginary people. You know "Corporate Thugs", Rich Bad Boys. Speaking of which, Sandra Bullock anybody?

This is why I blocked your post before, sometimes you make sense, other times you don't.

There is a no Silver Bullet to a successful relationship, that's why successful relationships are a constant work in progress.

[DJ FourMoney]

Couldn't disagree more. Human beings need variety.. no ONE woman would ever satisfy me 100%

Check that, YOU NEED VARIETY...

And you know what? That's perfectly okay.

I want one woman really, just one. In the meantime that does NOT mean I need to go sexless nor do I need to put up with typical BS in the American Dating Pool.

[DJ FourMoney]

Don’t believe everything you read. There are a lot of handsome young college educated black men out there without a criminal record who have difficulty finding a suitable American woman for a mate. I know several of them. One recently found himself a Costa Rican virgin for a wife after spending years chasing black college girls who were more interested in trying to fuck rappers on spring break or finding a sugar-daddy. Like the article says, real life is complicated. A college education isn’t the only trait that men look for in a wife so having one doesn’t necessarily make a black woman any more desirable. A degree usually means little more than an extremely high likelihood that the woman is bringing a huge shitload of credit card and student loan debt into the marriage.

The black women out there wringing their hands about not being able to find a suitable husband, more often than not, are not the kind of women that you would like to marry. These women refuse to look at themselves and blame their situation on everything from mass incarceration to homosexuality among black males. Black men in college will tell you that they appear invisible to black women until they start dating a white, Asian or Hispanic girl. Then they get plenty of evil stares and hateful comments. The truth is that black American women set their goals for a sucker unrealistically high. They want handsome, rich, young, powerful, intelligent, sexually prow and domesticated in one neat convenient package like an iPhone with all its apps. Ironically, even when black men meet all of their criteria they tend to avoid these high expectation women.

+1

Oh so true...

[Bango Cheito]

I think people who didn't have lots of money just went to the *****house and called it a day, and there were TONS of them around all over any city....

[BH Bound]

I'm pretty sure men with means (disposable income) going outside of their marriages for strange was not really talked about or even that big of a deal until the women's lib movement. It was accepted that it was going to happen, and all women really cared about was how he was at home. I'm not speaking from experience, as I wasn't even alive back then, and my father isn't from the US.

Poor men had to remain faithful, as they wouldn't really have the financial means to support a mistress and wouldn't attract nearly as many women as their richer counterparts.

Demonizing and even criminalizing maleness in our society is getting out of hand lately.

[Bango Cheito]

It doesn't matter how into sex a woman is, how frequently she wants it, or how kinky she's willing to be, I'm ALWAYS going to want multiple sex partners... I think it's deeply engrained human nature... how far certain pathetic individuals are willing to go to SURPRESS it is not really my concern... it's their funeral.... I for one want to live like a man and not a fucking slave!!!

[ThatGuy865]

If every married man had a woman who had sex with him every night, like you just described, I'm willing to bet that 90%+ of marriages would last for as long as they both shall live. What always changes during a marriage are the conditions in which the courting took place.

AW go out of their way to hook a man she wishes to marry by giving the man the illusion he is about to marry his dream girl. During courtship, she hardly says no, treats the man well, acts like a woman. As soon as the ring goes on and the marriage is official, as it is said "Why does a bride smile coming down the aisle? " Shock, disapointment, cheating and divorce are the results of this deceit and yes, it is the woman who is to blame for changing the conditions of the relationship in the first place.

If a man gets his physical needs met everyday, there is no way there would be a 50% divorce rate. Man will try his best to always satisfy his basic needs despite the abuse being dished by his partner in marriage. So if he needs a provider, coworker or whatever to take care of that most basic of needs, there is only one person to blame: Her

if that was true why are Men in other countries where woman are submissive still fuck around. There is no country in the world where men are faitful. Period. No matter how domesticated the women might B. Hell in most of the those countries. The men are notorious for having mistresses.

So why is that?

[Jake993]

I agree, a worn out dick is not worth a hill of beans to a horny woman outside the marriage. Unfortunately most AW fail to understand this very simple concept.

Hmmmmm - sounds like the best defense is a good offense.

[Capt Ajax]

I had a very interesting conversation with a provider, now retired, who got married a couple of years ago. She told me, a worn out dick ain't worth a hill of beans to a horny woman outside a marriage.

She also said, if she ever got married, just based on her experiences in the hobby, she would elect to fuck her husband 24/7 i.e. give him all the sex he ever wanted day or night. Her theory, fuck her husband so much that he would be too exhausted to have sex with other women. I talked to her early last year, she now has a one year old child, and is still happily married to her dick tired husband.

I agree, a worn out dick is not worth a hill of beans to a horny woman outside the marriage. Unfortunately most AW fail to understand this very simple concept.

Being Canadian, I think the truth lies in compromise between these diverse viewpoints.

Sure there are some guys who will always stray, no matter how good it is at home.

But I also think a lot of guys are driven to stray by lack of home comforts.
And many of them would not stray if they were satisfied at home.
Not that they could not be tempted, or don't fantasize about it, but many would not actually get around to doing it.
There are many reasons - loyalty, fear, shame, etc, but I think the biggest impediments are effort, cost and inconvenience.
It can be hard and complicated work to cheat on your spouse.
Especially if you are looking for an extra-marital affair, rather than P4P.

Christ - trying to find a woman who wants to screw with a married man, which usually means she is married also, thus further complicated and costly, is a hell of a lot of effort!

And frankly, so is finding a suitable P4P arrangement, if you don't know the ropes. Lots of cities have mediocre options, high prices and real fear of law enforcement and humiliation and social ostracization if you are exposed.

If you travel in your work, all these issues become easier, especially if your travel takes you to some international candyland, where supply is plentiful, price reasonable and social mores accommodating. But if you are homebound, it can be tough - tough enough to discourage many men unless driven to it by sexual starvation.

[Gentleman Travel]

BC - As much as I would like to agree with V1, you have a valid point. Variety is the spice of life. But I think you need to qualify your statement a little...

For the rest of us, however, you would like to think that coming home every night being greeted at the door by a smiling wife who drops to her knees and gives you a blowjob followed by "acrobat sex" for two hours would be enough to stop any guy from straying...

Being Canadian, I think the truth lies in compromise between these diverse viewpoints.

Sure there are some guys who will always stray, no matter how good it is at home.

But I also think a lot of guys are driven to stray by lack of home comforts.
And many of them would not stray if they were satisfied at home.
Not that they could not be tempted, or don't fantasize about it, but many would not actually get around to doing it.
There are many reasons - loyalty, fear, shame, etc, but I think the biggest impediments are effort, cost and inconvenience.
It can be hard and complicated work to cheat on your spouse.
Especially if you are looking for an extra-marital affair, rather than P4P.

Christ - trying to find a woman who wants to screw with a married man, which usually means she is married also, thus further complicated and costly, is a hell of a lot of effort!

And frankly, so is finding a suitable P4P arrangement, if you don't know the ropes. Lots of cities have mediocre options, high prices and real fear of law enforcement and humiliation and social ostracization if you are exposed.

If you travel in your work, all these issues become easier, especially if your travel takes you to some international candyland, where supply is plentiful, price reasonable and social mores accommodating. But if you are homebound, it can be tough - tough enough to discourage many men unless driven to it by sexual starvation.

[Jake993]

Couldn't disagree more. Human beings need variety.. no ONE woman would ever satisfy me 100%

BC - As much as I would like to agree with V1, you have a valid point. Variety is the spice of life. But I think you need to qualify your statement a little.

While most of the guys on this board could not fathom it, there is a big chunk of the male population who are just not that interested in sex after the age of 28 or so. I know, I know... it hardly seems possible. But for those guys, none of this is an issue. They go through life as happy as could be getting laid once every 60 days or so not counting high holidays. Frankly, many of these guys are just too lazy to chase strange pussy, or maybe they have just given up entirely. Regardless of their reasons, they don't really factor into the argument. For them - none of this is an issue. For whatever reason, their sex drive has been suppressed.

For the rest of us, however, you would like to think that coming home every night being greeted at the door by a smiling wife who drops to her knees and gives you a blowjob followed by "acrobat sex" for two hours would be enough to stop any guy from straying. While I have never been so lucky to receive such treatment, I do know guys who do. In more than 50% of cases, it's just a matter of time until they get bored with the routine and go looking for something else. If you are predisposed to stray, you are going to stray regardless of what you have at home.

I used to have a neighbor who had such a wife that treated him right. She was a virgin when he married her and she took to sex like a duck to water. No mater what he suggested she was up for it. But after 5 years or so, it all got to be routine and the stupid bastard went looking for some "strange" and ...... well, you know the rest.

The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence.

[Bango Cheito]

If every married man had a woman who had sex with him every night, like you just described, I'm willing to bet that 90%+ of marriages would last for as long as they both shall live. What always changes during a marriage are the conditions in which the courting took place.
AW go out of their way to hook a man she wishes to marry by giving the man the illusion he is about to marry his dream girl. During courtship, she hardly says no, treats the man well, acts like a woman. As soon as the ring goes on and the marriage is official, as it is said "Why does a bride smile coming down the aisle?" Shock, disapointment, cheating and divorce are the results of this deceit and yes, it is the woman who is to blame for changing the conditions of the relationship in the first place.
If a man gets his physical needs met everyday, there is no way there would be a 50% divorce rate. Man will try his best to always satisfy his basic needs despite the abuse being dished by his partner in marriage. So if he needs a provider, coworker or whatever to take care of that most basic of needs, there is only one person to blame: Her

Couldn't disagree more. Human beings need variety.. no ONE woman would ever satisfy me 100%

[Voyajer1]

If every married man had a woman who had sex with him every night, like you just described, I'm willing to bet that 90%+ of marriages would last for as long as they both shall live. What always changes during a marriage are the conditions in which the courting took place.
AW go out of their way to hook a man she wishes to marry by giving the man the illusion he is about to marry his dream girl. During courtship, she hardly says no, treats the man well, acts like a woman. As soon as the ring goes on and the marriage is official, as it is said "Why does a bride smile coming down the aisle?" Shock, disapointment, cheating and divorce are the results of this deceit and yes, it is the woman who is to blame for changing the conditions of the relationship in the first place.
If a man gets his physical needs met everyday, there is no way there would be a 50% divorce rate. Man will try his best to always satisfy his basic needs despite the abuse being dished by his partner in marriage. So if he needs a provider, coworker or whatever to take care of that most basic of needs, there is only one person to blame: Her

Hell it has little to do with how a woman treats you. She could be fucking you every night sooner or later Most men would want something different.

[Dickhead]

I just spent 11 days in sex prison. I fucked an old friend of mine (literally as she is 57). It was good sex and she is in very good shape for her age. I have known her for 30 years and fucked her off and on for 18 years.

So what was the problem? She kept complaining about her boyfriend/common-law husband, who she's been with for about fifteen years. He's fat, he doesn't do anything around the house, he spends all his time on the computer. He's "emotionally unavailable," whatever the fuck that means. In fact she complains about him constantly to anyone who will listen and often criticizes him in public when he is there.

Hmmm. He pays 100% of the mortgage and utility bills. It was his house to begin with. He puts up with her six stupid little dogs and takes care of them on her frequent trips out of town to be with her friends, trips on which he is never invited and on which she often fucks around. I spent half a Saturday at her house, drinking (his beer) and smoking weed and playing cards. Meanwhile he was taking all the baseboards off and refinishing them, laying paving stones in HER garden, and he went and did the grocery shopping.

I sort of felt sorry for the guy as I was fucking her, but not really.