American Women

[Steve 9696]

Guys,

I'm trying to figure out the one thing I'm missing here. I do have a lot to offer. Definitely more than enough in pretty much every department. Including confidence, dick skills, humor, personality. Etc. I apologize if I sound arrogant that is not my intention. I have always been able to pick up broads so I don't think it is the issue. But this one is keeping me at an arms distance. And I told her flat out maybe I'm just not the normal man she would be dreaming of, and I would understand because for many women I might not be there cup of tea. However, making it worse she claims it is her. So cliche she acknowledges but it is her own mind. It is playing tricks on me because I feel there has to be a flaw as if the right guy came in I'm sure she would drop everything and spread legs.

Obviously y'all will tell me to run, but I actually think that maybe there is a flaw in my game I need to fix, and I really enjoy my time with her. And we do get naked together so that confuses things more as we are not just friends, except most of the time we are or cuddle buddies. Maybe, there is not a flaw and it really is her! I dunno. Anyone have any ideas how to flush this out? I'm very direct so maybe I just need to hear the truth and she won't tell because she wants me around, so maybe I need to hear it from one of you. Anyway. You can tell AW are as fucked as they come and I can't wait to go back to SA for at least a month in Spring. Thailand next fall too.

I would submit there is nothing wrong with you and this is textbook post-kids American woman. Certainly in my situation and many guys I know once their wife had kids her sex desire went out the window. So I would say she typical or at least common. She doesn't enjoy or crave sex. She does it with you out of obligation to try to keep you. But she'the rather just cuddle. This is all about her and not you. Find urself a pre-kids mid twenties gal if you want to have some great sex and have it often. Even tho mine are indirectly paid as Sugar Babies (see Seeking Arrangement thread) you can't tell me they don't enjoy and want the sex. Many twenty somethings these days are free and liberated in a good way. They enjoy sex and lots of it.

[OldSchool318]

Understood, Old School. Good that you can travel and get some. I stopped dating AWs 12 years ago now opting instead for frequent travel to Philippines, Thailand, Cambodia, Vietnam, Costa Rica, Colombia, Curacao and Dominican Republic. My employer paid me to go to most of these countries so I feel very lucky. Most of my buddies that are tied to AWs are miserable and I can see why because the broads have fat asses, don't put out and are never happy with what you do for them. Like I said I'm retiring in Philippines as soon as they let me in. Looks like February 2022 now. I do have a brown sugar that sucks me off for 40 or 50 bucks a pop so that helps, too. Good luck, man.

Guys,

I'm trying to figure out the one thing I'm missing here. I do have a lot to offer. Definitely more than enough in pretty much every department. Including confidence, dick skills, humor, personality. Etc. I apologize if I sound arrogant that is not my intention. I have always been able to pick up broads so I don't think it is the issue. But this one is keeping me at an arms distance. And I told her flat out maybe I'm just not the normal man she would be dreaming of, and I would understand because for many women I might not be there cup of tea. However, making it worse she claims it is her. So cliche she acknowledges but it is her own mind. It is playing tricks on me because I feel there has to be a flaw as if the right guy came in I'm sure she would drop everything and spread legs.

Obviously y'all will tell me to run, but I actually think that maybe there is a flaw in my game I need to fix, and I really enjoy my time with her. And we do get naked together so that confuses things more as we are not just friends, except most of the time we are or cuddle buddies. Maybe, there is not a flaw and it really is her! I dunno. Anyone have any ideas how to flush this out? I'm very direct so maybe I just need to hear the truth and she won't tell because she wants me around, so maybe I need to hear it from one of you. Anyway. You can tell AW are as fucked as they come and I can't wait to go back to SA for at least a month in Spring. Thailand next fall too.

[Rocko20]

Run for your life and go anywhere in Latin America or Southeast Asia when it opens. All women are fucking nuts IMHO but American Women are the worst on the planet. Even the young guys with game and money are heeding this advice because they are sick and tired of all the bullshit they have to put up with AWs.

I agree. I'm pretty young with decent money and America is horrible for dating, women, mongering, etc. If you're not at least 6'2", and willing to buy them a bunch of stupid crap while living in a major city that has the most women, just forget about it.

I can go to the Dominican Republic with some flip flops, Thailand looking like a bum, or even to the Germany brothels and get more ass in 1 day than I could in 1 year in America.

The good news is millions of American men can't, won't, and don't go overseas which means more overseas women for the rest of us.

America is a place where you make your money, then take it overseas to spend it.

[D Cups]

This is where my money is. I need to be here a good amount of the time. I travel often like I wrote.

But I still need women in my life here in the US as paying gets expensive here. The one I wrote about doesn't really cost me anything. At least not money. Time, energy head creeps yes. LOL.

I'll keep posting adventures and updates but leaving is not an option right now.

Understood, Old School. Good that you can travel and get some. I stopped dating AWs 12 years ago now opting instead for frequent travel to Philippines, Thailand, Cambodia, Vietnam, Costa Rica, Colombia, Curacao and Dominican Republic. My employer paid me to go to most of these countries so I feel very lucky. Most of my buddies that are tied to AWs are miserable and I can see why because the broads have fat asses, don't put out and are never happy with what you do for them. Like I said I'm retiring in Philippines as soon as they let me in. Looks like February 2022 now. I do have a brown sugar that sucks me off for 40 or 50 bucks a pop so that helps, too. Good luck, man.

[D Cups]

This is where my money is. I need to be here a good amount of the time. I travel often like I wrote.

But I still need women in my life here in the US as paying gets expensive here. The one I wrote about doesn't really cost me anything. At least not money. Time, energy head creeps yes. LOL.

I'll keep posting adventures and updates but leaving is not an option right now.

Understood Old School. Good that you can travel and get some on the side. I stopped dating AWs 12 years ago opting to travel frequently to Philippines, Thailand, Cambodia, Vietnam, Costa Rica, Colombia, Curacao, Mexico and Dominican Republic instead. But I had the kind of job that allowed the time off and even paid for me to go to many of theses countries. My buddies in the USA who are married or living together with their GF are mostly miserable. Their significant others are fat asses and never satisfied with anything the guy does for them. I do have a brown sugar that comes over to suck me off for 40 or 50 bucks between trips so that keeps me happy. Good luck man. Like I said I'm headed to Philippines to retire as soon as they let me in. Fuck the USA and especially California. Prices are out of control as well as the broads. I can't deal with it any more. I'm going somewhere where women treat you like a man and doesn't cost an arm and a leg.

[DramaFree11]

Not wrong. Her gig is monster energy drinks and smoke stix. This combo causes massive anxiety in these women as well.

I am pretty sure unless you are the guy that causes her knees to get week (for whatever reason) you can do just about anything you want and she will keep coming. I have been on both sides of the coin. Otherwise no matter what there will always be a reason you are not good enough and they will probably never tell you.

Yes, I forgot about smoke stixs. 2 of my last 2 arrangements were hot, but both depressed. I told them too stop smoking that shit and lay off the sugar there lives would improve immediately.

I forgot the to mention how they dress. Yoga pants, gym shoes and ball caps just do not do it for me. Once in awhile it is cool, but they look so stupid in that outfit. Not to mention the Pajama party at airports these days, just a joke.

Now I am doing great professionally, but that comes with a trade off, I can not travel as much and very little free times. When I go to Mexico it is amazing, but the other 12-14 days I do want some companionship.

[OldSchool318]

Great report. So true about the wine. You forgot to mention 2 or 3 trips daily to Starbucks and a crappy diet. No wonder they are getting so fat and depressed. The whole thing is so sad, but I doubt there will be a change in American women anytime soon.

Not wrong. Her gig is monster energy drinks and smoke stix. This combo causes massive anxiety in these women as well.

I am pretty sure unless you are the guy that causes her knees to get week (for whatever reason) you can do just about anything you want and she will keep coming. I have been on both sides of the coin. Otherwise no matter what there will always be a reason you are not good enough and they will probably never tell you.

[OldSchool318]

Run for your life and go anywhere in Latin America or Southeast Asia when it opens. All women are fucking nuts IMHO but American Women are the worst on the planet. Even the young guys with game and money are heeding this advice because they are sick and tired of all the bullshit they have to put up with AWs.

This is where my money is. I need to be here a good amount of the time. I travel often like I wrote.

But I still need women in my life here in the US as paying gets expensive here. The one I wrote about doesn't really cost me anything. At least not money. Time, energy head creeps yes. LOL.

I'll keep posting adventures and updates but leaving is not an option right now.

[DramaFree11]

As long as this lasts I will periodically update.

I travel a lot especially to Latin and South America and much of it is documented here and have lived in a few of those countries so you already know I have known the good life.

In CR I have a Tica that always takes care of me in everyway. I also have a few Colombia that can't wait to see me when I go back. Unfortunately due to business I can't be there as much as wanted. So I have to date in the states because like any man I get lonely.

I am in shape, money in my pocket, and dress well. I am also not quite old yet.

Anyway. I date a 30 year old Blonde with 2 kids. She is to me very beautiful and she is kind and she does cook for me when I go over. She also is fun to go out to the clubs and the strip clubs too. We have a good time together.

However, she is also a chronic wine drinker. Like most other women I know of her age these days, they drink about a bottle at least every day. Sometimes it is harder booze, and Sunday game day it is beer. There is a constant sadness underneath the beauty which makes no sense to me as her life is pretty great and she clears north of 100 k..

Great report. So true about the wine. You forgot to mention 2 or 3 trips daily to Starbucks and a crappy diet. No wonder they are getting so fat and depressed. The whole thing is so sad, but I doubt there will be a change in American women anytime soon.

[D Cups]

As long as this lasts I will periodically update.

I travel a lot especially to Latin and South America and much of it is documented here and have lived in a few of those countries so you already know I have known the good life.

In CR I have a Tica that always takes care of me in everyway. I also have a few Colombia that can't wait to see me when I go back. Unfortunately due to business I can't be there as much as wanted. So I have to date in the states because like any man I get lonely.

I am in shape, money in my pocket, and dress well. I am also not quite old yet.

Anyway. I date a 30 year old Blonde with 2 kids. She is to me very beautiful and she is kind and she does cook for me when I go over. She also is fun to go out to the clubs and the strip clubs too. We have a good time together..

Run for your life and go anywhere in Latin America or Southeast Asia when it opens. All women are fucking nuts IMHO but American Women are the worst on the planet. Even the young guys with game and money are heeding this advice because they are sick and tired of all the bullshit they have to put up with AWs.

[OldSchool318]

As long as this lasts I will periodically update.

I travel a lot especially to Latin and South America and much of it is documented here and have lived in a few of those countries so you already know I have known the good life.

In CR I have a Tica that always takes care of me in everyway. I also have a few Colombia that can't wait to see me when I go back. Unfortunately due to business I can't be there as much as wanted. So I have to date in the states because like any man I get lonely.

I am in shape, money in my pocket, and dress well. I am also not quite old yet.

Anyway. I date a 30 year old Blonde with 2 kids. She is to me very beautiful and she is kind and she does cook for me when I go over. She also is fun to go out to the clubs and the strip clubs too. We have a good time together.

However, she is also a chronic wine drinker. Like most other women I know of her age these days, they drink about a bottle at least every day. Sometimes it is harder booze, and Sunday game day it is beer. There is a constant sadness underneath the beauty which makes no sense to me as her life is pretty great and she clears north of 100 k.

They all seem to have this sadness and discomfort underneath in this country I don't know why wtf?

Also, even though we spend much time together and we often sleep in the same bed and cuddle, the sex is rare. It has happened a few times but not the way it would with a normal GF. She claims because we are not in official relationship she does not wish to sleep around. Which would be fine, except she is impulsive and there have been times she has done exactly that. Even if we were to commit (don't worry I won't) I wonder if the sex situation would be any better. I imagine it would not be, because in some way even though she probably loves me in some way, I am not the ideal man she has in her head. Even though I have potential to fit all the boxes, there is just one box that does not. And I don't know what it is. However, this I believe is the common story of the American Relationship. Even if I gave 100% and went all in, I would not get it back.

Anyway, I do have side pieces to fuck even here in the States and some are very attractive and willing but they all have there own sets of problems and I typically don't stay long. I look around and see many of my fellow men and they are slaves to women with kids not theirs, and the majority of everyone are fat and out of shape anyway.

It is a failing situation in every way here in the States. To me it is our own chaos and confusion doing us in.

Anyway, if anyone wants to try to tell me what I am missing or what is going on in her head besides chaos and confusion. Feel free. I will update as I go along until I decide to cut it off.

[Xpartan]

We were in Miami waiting for connection to DR when American Airlines cancelled our flight. We went on full hacking mode and after couple hours secured flights and hotel to Rio. However, we did not do any research prior to coming here (we've been here a few years ago) and now staying at Marriot per someone's recommendation (thank you! Would love to stay in Barra de Tijuca next but Transamerica is all booked this weekend. I am sure Vagabundo1 & Others already disclosed good recommendations but we just don't have the time now to start RTFF. Can you help us out with some nicer end hotels close to TransAmerica / Perla Negra that are chica friendly? Thanks much!

You really need to post this in Rio forum, but Hyatt is reportedly guest-friendly (and it's garota or menina-friendly in Brazil).

[SurfMonger]

We were in Miami waiting for connection to DR when American Airlines cancelled our flight. We went on full hacking mode and after couple hours secured flights and hotel to Rio. However, we did not do any research prior to coming here (we've been here a few years ago) and now staying at Marriot per someone's recommendation (thank you! Would love to stay in Barra de Tijuca next but Transamerica is all booked this weekend. I am sure Vagabundo1 & Others already disclosed good recommendations but we just don't have the time now to start RTFF. Can you help us out with some nicer end hotels close to TransAmerica / Perla Negra that are chica friendly? Thanks much!

Just leave.

Go to Brazil.

Don't look back.

[D Cups]

I want leave too, you hate the state of affairs in the US. I love American but as the years roll on it gets we more retarded as a nation.

Copy that, Joe. I'm trying to get to Philippines (for good) but the paperwork is absurd.

[Vagabundo1]

Just leave.

Go to Brazil.

Don't look back.

I want leave too, you hate the state of affairs in the US. I love American but as the years roll on it gets we more retarded as a nation.