American Women

[Bart9000]

My time is limited, and I have some things going on. However, let me make a brief suggestion.

First go out and get an escort who is better looking than this girl. Fuck her for as many hours as is necessary to gain clarity in your thinking.

Forget that this conversation occurred. Take great pains to treat this woman neither any better nor any worse than your other subordinates. Either will expose you to being bent over and fucked with no kiss.

This may sound freaky and paranoid, but were I in your position, I would invest in some covert surveilence equipment (check local laws too) and find a way to document the date and time of what is being surveiled. $1000 for a couple of "bugs" and video taping setups for your office, and any other place you might encounter her privately could save you a $30,000 lawsuit payment, plus likely expensive as fuck divorce.

B9k

[Sinanju Master]

Tallguy2004, this smells of a TRAP! Let me tell you why: this is a BUSINESS setting in which you volunteered the info about the Sugar Daddy and of YOUR desire to do the same. She now KNOWS that she has something YOU want and that you are willing to "go for it". Remember, this is AMERICA! Translation: if you get accused of sexual harassment, the burden of PROOF is upon the ACCUSED (overwhelmingly MALE) and PROVING your innocence beyond a doubt will be an uphill battle. Even if you DO, there are those out there that will say the justice system did NOT do it's job (metaphorically tarring and feathering you, and draining your financial resources dry) and that you got off scot free. This woman seems like a calculating shark since her reaction was not one of SURPRISE at either end of the spectrum. You said that her reaction was one of pleasant contemplation. The wheels in her head INSTANTLY started turning to CONTEMPLATE how much it is that she can sue you for. I can NOT emphasize STRONGLY ENOUGH that this is a BAD IDEA!! When she hauls you into court, you will AMAZED at how quickly her demeanor changes from the time when the two of you had lunch. Her attorney (who will ALREADY be making arrangements to purchase his next Benz) will portray her as a helpless victim who was under duress to acquiesce to her boss' demands for sex or lose her job. Add THAT to the fact that she's a single mom trying to support a kid, and the attorney's job of making YOU seem like a sex-crazed monster will be complete. You will spend YEARS (possibly DECADES) repairing your professional and personal life.

BEWARE THE DARK SIDE OR FOREVER WILL IT RULE YOUR DESTINY!

[Tallguy2004]

I am President of a company in the U.S. Early this year, I hired a new Accounting Manager, partly for her skills, partly because she is a knockout. She is not a slutty-type knockout, but a beautiful Midwestern girl 29 years old.

This week she seemed down so I asked her what was wrong. She said she is looking for a new place since she is leaving her boyfriend of two years.

Friday we went to lunch together (pre-scheduled, I have lunch with each of my directs every 6-8 weeks.) We talked about business. She also volunteered that she was trying to get the BF to go to therapy, but expected she would still be moving out in to months. I asked if she would buy a place, and she answered she still had some work to do in order to "save enough" to buy a house. She has kids so this seems important. I also know that her ex-boyfriend-to-be makes less money than she does.

We talked a little shop, but mainly I counseled her that over the next few years the company should grow significantly and I may move the facility, and would she be interested in being the Accounting Manager of a larger, multi-facility company, of course making a much better salary. She answered emphatically that this is what she wants. I added that I want to be he career advocate and that we need to work together to grow her career. (Aside from her physical appearance, she is actually a good Accounting Manager.)

I then asked if I could offer some personal comments and ideas, and she answered, "Of course."

I told her a story of a woman with whom I had worked years before. The woman had found herself in a similar situation in her late twenties (suddenly single with kids, etc.) I told her that this woman, my close friend years later, had told me of something she did after her sudden break-up that had turned out to be the best thing she could have done at that time. I said she had gotten a "Sugar Daddy."

I awaited her reaction. Rather than one of disgust or, "I'd never do that," her facial expression changed to one of pleasant contemplation, and she said, "Not a bad idea." Seeing a "proceed with caution" signal, I added some details - that this woman stayed alone with her sugar daddy only once or twice per month, that she had gotten everything she had wanted out of the arrangement and had been able to save enough to buy a house, had been able to truly focus on herself and her kids since she was freed of relationship worries, and that after three years she met the man of her dreams and ended the sugar daddy relationship amicably. I added that later, the sugar daddy even came to her wedding as they had remained friends. Seeing a continuing friendly ear, I closed that the sugar daddy was the woman's boss.

My guest responded that she and her sister had just had a conversation in which my guest had shared with her, sister "I really want to take some time out of serious relationships for awhile," and later added from the same conversation, "Maybe I just need someone to take care of me."

OK, we're 3 ball and no strikes, 2 men on base and the pitcher is tiring. I go for a base hit. I added in a passing but direct way, "Of course that woman was nowhere near the stunningly beautiful woman you are..." No reaction from my guest. Not a frown, not a smile, just a continued pleasant facial expression while listening to me, as if I had not uttered a word. I later made a similar passing but strong comment about her beauty, but with the same result from my lovely guest. I am not sure how to gauge this part of the exchange.

We finished lunch, talking only business and went back to the office.

At this stage, I am very interested in making an arrangement with this woman. I am married so plan to of course be extremely careful.

Here's my question for the brethren: Is this a green light, a yellow light or a red light? What should be my next steps?

[Furiouz]

Here's a sorry ass ad I clipped off CL. If any of you guys have a spare $7,000 lying around this college b!tch needs you ASAP. What a load of crock!! It would not surprise me if some a$$hole out there offered her the $$$.

college girl needs you - w4m
Reply to: pers-207568657@craigslist.org
Date: 2006-09-15, 4:57AM EDT


I need a man who can help me with 7k that I need by 12 noon, I am a college kid who is serious where are you?

This chick needs to go do some porn..$1000 a shoot they are up to now.





RE: American TV...it's junk. Violence, drug use, murder are all the prevalent themes in the most popular shows. Oh, but don't show any breasts or couples making love, that's a sin. Every sit-com or commercial is a demonstration in male-bashing. Hot wife, smart-alecky kids always showing up Dad. Let us not get into how every woman on TV is blond, even the Asian reporter on my local news channel is blonde with big boobs. Hey, I thought America was about diversity?
And the sad part is, THE WHOLE WORLD watches what's on American TV. I was chatting with a cute little 18 year old from Romania last night. Her favorite show is CSI:Wherever. Americans (in general , of course) are mentally lazy and really do not wwant anything new or thought provoking on the telly. Otherwise PBS would kill every other station. Oh..PBS rocks hard. I love it.

RE: American Women...(pulls out a stick and beats the dead and decaying horse)

RE: Sports. Sports are the only true drama left up to chance. We don't know how the outcome will be. The upset is one of the sweetest things in our lives. Sports matter because they don't matter. The Chiefs vs Broncos will not have any effect on gas prices, will not add taxes, will not put food on or take food off our tables. But it will bring people together for 3 hours, to laugh, talk and enjoy company. That's the importance of sports.

Cheers, my brothas.


F

[Capt Ajax]

Here's a sorry ass ad I clipped off CL. If any of you guys have a spare $7,000 lying around this college b!tch needs you ASAP. What a load of crock!! It would not surprise me if some a$$hole out there offered her the $$$.

college girl needs you - w4m
Reply to: pers-207568657@craigslist.org
Date: 2006-09-15, 4:57AM EDT


I need a man who can help me with 7k that I need by 12 noon, I am a college kid who is serious where are you?

[Chocha Monger]

the other was the host. she was a decent looking american. so of course they show all these men talking to her in the streets. its just sickening. her instinct is to just close off, kind of reject them, it seems as if shes disgusted by men to her core. they show her doing tango. all the other couples look very romantic, fluid, enjoying the moment of male female closeness, and its awesome. this ***** is like acting all too cool for her dancer. disgusting.

marak,

you have to understand that american women generally regard any male outside their immediate family as a potential [CodeWord126], hence their unapproachable manner. they are obsessed with the thought of being raped, taken by force and violated. this first occurred to me in college where girls constantly jabbered about the latest rumor about prowling [CodeWord127] on campus or the sorority girl who got "slipped a mickey" only to find out that she was gang banged by the basketball team the next day.

approaching a strange aw means being labeled a "potential [CodeWord126]" until proven otherwise. this proud tradition has been embodied in imbra, now foreign brides can presume their american husbands are violent [CodeWord125] scumbags until proven otherwise.

american women see sex as something valuable, a thing not given freely but traded for a large sum of money, status or other advantage. therefore they are always preoccupied that someone may try to "steal" sex or take it by force. it is like the guy walking around a bad neighborhood with too much cash in his pockets.

you can barely ask an aw for directions or other general information without her presuming that your real intention is to fuck her. at some point it gets tiring for american men being regarded in this fashion that they too try to avoid speaking to strange women, unless of course they want to fuck them. in the end it all becomes a self fulfilling prophecy.

[Bart9000]

The question: Is American TV a reflection of the American populace, or is the American populace a reflection a it's TV. I'm inclined towards the former.

I once tried getting online and found that I couldn't. At the time, I had DSL and thought that I may have forgotten to pay the phone bill. I drove to a pay phone to call the phone company.....and discovered that the phone system had crashed due to being overwhelmed by calls to "American Idol". I thought to myself "I am sooooo living in the wrong country"

Interesting dramas with original concepts tend to get cancelled (an exception-"Lost")......mostly it's the same brainless crap over and over. American Television is to entertainment what Mickey Dees is to the culinary arts......sort of just "filling" in the empty holes of our time without any real merit.


B9k

[DJ FourMoney]

"Talin Estonia, the Bangkok of Eastern Europe"

Its not. Read the forum reports on Talinn, much of it is negative. There certainly isnt a developed p4p market there and freebie action has been much reduced since tourists started flooding there a few years ago.

It terms of pro action, easy access, relatively affordable pricing and quality service, IMHO Germany is the top address... especially in the Frankfurt and Ruhr areas. If your interest is pro sex, places like Prague or Talinn are merely sidetracks.

In terms of freebie/dating action, I think the black man will find that Germany is one of his better markets.

I have no problem finding enough German ladies to talk too that's for sure...

I'd have to show AM my bank statement and the keys to my apartment (I don't have one) for them to even consider me!

Thanks for the support Skank, the good Doctor has made his presents felt.

[Doctor_Skank]

"Talin Estonia, the Bangkok of Eastern Europe"

Its not. Read the forum reports on Talinn, much of it is negative. There certainly isnt a truly developed p4p market there and freebie action has been much reduced since tourists started flooding there a few years ago.

It terms of pro action, easy access, relatively affordable pricing and quality service, IMHO Germany is the top address in Europe... especially in the Frankfurt and Ruhr areas. If your interest is pro sex, places like Prague or Talinn are merely sidetracks. I've been going to EE for years and still find that some of the hottest EE girls I have had were in German FKKs.

In terms of freebie/dating action, I think the black man will find that Germany is one of his better markets, better than Czech Republic or Estonia in any case.

[CBGBConnisur]

Its planned out somewhat... I've been investigating the Frankfurt. I can afford to make only 1 inter-european R/T during my stay on this trip. Looks like I'll make an appearance at one of the many places in that area.

I wanted to hit Prague, but I'm not sure I can do that. We'll see, I might have more money available.

Here's a hint, I went 4-0 today, got the under on the Buc/Ravens game, the outright victory with the Falcons, Victory on the road with the Bengals and got the ATS victory with San Fran.

This weekend: 7-3 ATS and 9-1 ST (Dayum it Texas!)

This was a plan all along so that's why I have limited my scope. If I have more money available, I'll have more options, but I can't plan around what I don't have....

No negitive post about betting on Football either, been at it 10 years...

DJ, besides Prague, check out Talin Estonia, the Bangkok of Eastern Europe. Anyway, I am leaving Oz and going back to the States, but will reappear somewhere in Central Europe.

[Furiouz]

ah I read back a few pages and came onto this post.

from the one and only jamesd2004.

I remember his trolling days quite fondly.

ps I kind of like this post

Blasphemy! Sinner!

LOL

[DJ FourMoney]

I didnt mean to be down on your trip, just regurgitating what I have heard from quite a few guys with tons of experience and have found to be true myself.

Definitely hope you get laid whatever happens.

I will share anything that is of interest to you all. This is a brotherhood and we're bound to have disagreements over alot of things. But this is a general support network I enjoy being involved in.

[Rock Dog]

DJ,

I really can relate to what you said about falling on your face. Don't worry about the possibility of failure. Even if things totally go wrong, it's better to have failed trying than to have never tried at all.

Don't get me wrong, chances are your trip will be a success!!

Rock

[DJ FourMoney]

I agree 100%. Sometimes I stay away for 3 weeks and even that is not enough.

Why not map out a few pfp encounters then make time for your other missions? Dont pay all this money without getting the most out of it.

Dont forget to pack a lunch....no liquids.

Artisttyp

Its planned out somewhat... I've been investigating the Frankfurt. I can afford to make only 1 inter-european R/T during my stay on this trip. Looks like I'll make an appearance at one of the many places in that area.

I wanted to hit Prague, but I'm not sure I can do that. We'll see, I might have more money available.

Here's a hint, I went 4-0 today, got the under on the Buc/Ravens game, the outright victory with the Falcons, Victory on the road with the Bengals and got the ATS victory with San Fran.

This weekend: 7-3 ATS and 9-1 ST (Dayum it Texas!)

This was a plan all along so that's why I have limited my scope. If I have more money available, I'll have more options, but I can't plan around what I don't have....

No negitive post about betting on Football either, been at it 10 years...

[DJ FourMoney]

i am leaving actually ezinho. the price drops by $50 after oct 25th, that's the only thing that's holding things up at the moment. once i figure that out, i will have dates

right now its after oct 11

or right after oct 25th

i'll be away for 3 weeks or the better part of 21 days.

i have set it all up. bills are paid all the way out to nov and if i decide to leave later, then i might have everything paid out to jan '07.

i may fall on my face, that doesn't bother me.

now if was going to jump off the plane and shout "here i am!" my reception would be lukewarm to say the least.

c'mon give me some credit, i have investigated my options and while i might seem to be lazy, i'm not. i work when told and work overtime when asked, i do my task, complete them and stay over if i need too. now personally yeah there long over due projects, but who doesn't?

don't get me wrong masta, i like bunda, i really do. i'll get down there, just not this trip and reguardles of what happens, i'll be traveling alone or with a wingman for at least another 1-2 years.

mexico would be a challenge if i didn't know spanish right? well i know a bit, but my boy antonio is fluent and he's down like two flat tires! we're going "hynas huntin" and that should be very interesting. he's not even 21 yet, so his options for traveling are a bit limited.

flood800 -

my buddy mike is flip and he's always suggesting i go down there, find me one, sit back and let her work. i dunno, that just doesn't seem appealing. i just feel asians are 3rd on the depth chart just ahead of black women. i am not closed to the idea, but i haven't ran across any i just had to meet.

not say i won't ever make it down to thailand or the "islands" either. i actually want to see malayasia. when? i dunno, its on the list.

i think we're all a bit pessimistic on these boards.

i shall forge ahead, full speed...

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