American Women

[NoFatso]

miller. This is bad. I must be demented..... I found no disagreement with you on your earlier posting. You got to do better than this... Give me that nasty so I can fight. You can't fight when you have no partner.

So, yes, I ditto your summary about the extremists on both ends of the political spectrums. Problem with America is everybody is "my way or the high way". Fact is, in life, except for ALLWiBos, most issues are settled in the "middle". So, no argument there. HOWEVER.....

You got me all wrong. I am not an angry male who got burned by ALLWiBos. In fact, my romantic life is pretty good and easy, just that 99.99% of women I boned wanted to have relationship with me and that pissed me off. I was like "go make your own money, I need no one to help spend my hard earned $$$." I just need some bom bom, call me when I need that pussy ...... and they are always like "what's wrong with you... I have been nice to you..... da da da" then I just tuned them out...... in fact, in the last 24 months, none of my dates are ALLWiBos (not a bad feat if you consider this area 99% of single women are ALLWiBos). Ooops, time out, one of the girls is married... well. what the heck, she is totally doable. So, I was like, "hello? Can I just bone you w/o having to talk about relationship and all that shit?" So, I am not angry. Yeah, may be I am angry. The Bill of Rights has ensured that all MEN should bone a pussy w/o talking about relationship. If you do good, I can throw you some $ but definitely not give you half of my asset. That's all. Do I sound angry? I am saying this with a warm smile though


But what the heck, I am going on vacation in a week. No complaint.

[NoFatso]

miller You the man! Love to have a fighting partner. OK, let's GO!

But serious business first. Regretted (not sad) to see USA lost. I think they could have won if the ref. is not blind. Second, the Germans always played a boring game and this year, they are no different. So, US lost but my second favorite Brasil won and they won beautifully. Ronaldihno was fantastic. Did you see how he got ejected from the game? I missed that part.

Next step, I am going with Brasil (they played FANtastic last night), Senegal (they played with lots of style and passion) and lastly I route for Korea. I think Korea will beat Spain tonight and go on to beat German. The final will be either Brasil with Korea or Senegal with Korea. Yes, I am not sure if Brasil could beat Senegal easily. By now you would surmise that I don't think the European have much of a chance.

Now, soccer done, let's fight it out on the ALLWiBos. (next)

[Mill Just]

..Thanks US Babe...have a nice trip


Nofatso...seeing that the USA lost, I am also in a fighting mood (try living in Mexico after we eliminate them from the World Cup..that's really difficult)

For someone who hates the whole "victimhood mentality", you sure moan about your victimization a lot. "Boo Hoo. Poor me." I see just as many attractive women as unattractive ones in the USA. Maybe your senses have been distorted to such a degree that only pure perfection will do (I'd love to see just how much of a "perfect specimen" you are).

With regards to the whole Miss USA thing: Sure, people get out of hand. There is always a lunatic fringe of one percent that is the most vocal. Once again, you are guilty of mass generalizations. You see women protesting and you say, "See. That's how they ALL are" Extremes in anything is bad. It is bad to be too PC and it's bad to be too Conservative.

Nobody is saying that there is anything wrong with being attractive and physically fit. You make it out like everybody is dying to be obese. C'mon. How many obese women or men are on TV or in the movies? There is a definite prejudice in popular culture towards cookie-cutter beauty. This culturalization leads to warped ideas of beauty that very few women (even with the perfect diet and exercise) can attain. The only point that needs to be made is that not all of a woman's value is wrapped up in her appearance. Sure, you may decide that one woman is more attractive than another, but that's alright. But she isn't diminished as a person just because she is less physically attractive to you.

I hope you learn to deal with your anger because I see nothing but loneliness and frustration in your future if you don't tame your inner demons. Sure, foreign women may be seeing dollar signs when they see you. And they may want to be with you initially. You may change a little with them, feel less bitter...but you can't escape yourself and sooner or later you will have the same problems that you had in the USA. You deserve better than that. Putting others down is the clearest cry for help. I personally couldn't care less about what the future holds for you, but you should care for yourself more. Bad ideas and negative thoughts are as toxic to your psyche as junk food is to your body.

from: THE HAPPIEST MAN ALIVE

[USbabe]

i'm just about ready to head out the door, but i couldn't resist taking a quick peek. hi miller – your words are perfectly terse! if every man heeded them, the problems between men and women would become nearly non-existent. seriously, i would urge any and all men to read your post and to totally absorb it. unfortunately for a lot of people (both men and women), their own tunnel vision of negativity will cloud out any ray of sunshine that might be present, and ultimately their pessimism becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.

well, i've really gotta run, and i know you do, too. with your attitude and disposition, you probably have women trying to tear down your door at this very moment! you're carrying some dangerously potent wisdom there, mister. ;-)

[NoFatso]

time out. miller i changed my mind. feel like fighting tonight. waiting for us soccer to play germany. so, time to fight.

you are like insinuating that guys here were "hurt" by american women so they "hate" women. don't think so. do i have problem with american women, you bet. i have problem with american women because most of them (especially if you live in the "fly over states or the southern states), are fat. second i have problem with american women for not taking care of themselves. they consider putting on make up, nice hair do, manicure as bad. this is all culture. last week, a local university invited miss usa to give the graduation speech. man alive, you wouldn't believe the level of condemnation from the student body. the comments were, a woman who was a winner of beauty paegent is not "smart" enough........ bottomline is, american women feel that taking time to make oneself look good is degrading, is dumb. the counter culture dictates. so, when miss usa spoke at the graduation ceremony, some students booed. this is the mindset of american women, fat/ugly is a virtue. pretty fit/tight dumb. so, everybody goes out to get fat. third, the attitude and the victimhood mentality. this theme has been repeated enough, no need to have more.

now, let's check out our options. in this internet age, like it or not, many men (may not be all) have options. same for women. if you have the means, the time and the look, there is no reason to fool around in hell hole. thus many guys go overseas. why not? from sex tourism to mail order bride. this is exactly like 20 years ago when american automobile got so lousy that german and japanese imports ruled the day. or even better, corporations moved jobs overseas where the cost is lower and quality is higher. our company just moved our entire engineering division to india where they have better engineers at half the cost. (just go to silicon valley, many us engineers are already indian imports). so, we are competing with the whole world. we no longer have the luxury of the "lucky sperm club", that just because i was born and raised in the good old usa, i "deserve" to have this and that...... same with women. if you are fat, ugly, not taking care of yourself, then you are at a competitive disadvantage when matched with a gorgeous foreign babe. unless the men set low expectation for themselves, these women are just last night's leftover pizzas on coffee table. let's face it. american men, irrespective of what we think, are not superior to men in these foreign countries. i read many postings on this board stating that "foreign women like american guys because americans treat women so much better....." b.s. o have yet to see a totally nice guy got laid all the time. most probably nice guys have the most problem to get laid. but back to our subject, bottomline is, most of us have some wealth (as in disposable cash). even here in the us, let's face it, not many wage earners can throw in 10 grand for a vacation. that 10 grand in a developing world can cause even more outrageous. so, right there, american men with a walking dollar signs are at a competitive advantage. this is no different from hitting a club in miami. tom cruise gets right whereas you and your buddies are still in line.... facts of life. so, yes, i have problem with american women.

[NoFatso]

Hey miller, welcome back. Nice to see all my buddies here. Master and Miller. all here. just like the old days even the old days was not too long ago. Nonetheless it's been fun.

Time out, miller, i think you and I have no fight. I am all peace. So, how about this? "No fight." Now, if you don't entertain my offer for peace, let's do it again?

USBabe. Sorry, thank you but no thanks. can't do. 350#? You got big bone alright.

[Mill Just]

...I've been out of town for a few days and I actually found a discussion in here!

First, welcome aboard US Babe. You're proof positive that there are many good women in the USA.

I truly think that the b*tches are the vast minority. The problem is that we are indeed too involved in our own selves. "I want this woman, she doesn't want me, she's bad." That's a very simplistic approach without even the slightest concern about the other person's feelings and point of view. Maybe the woman is NOT stringing you along, maybe she is deciding whether or not to have a relationship with you. Then, because of all of the baggage and negativity that you bring, she decides that you aren't the right one for her. Is that not fair? A bitter person hardly makes for a suitable life companion. Later, of course, you try to rationalize the rejection by saying that she wanted a rich man or a handsome man, etc.

Here's a little story: After a few rough situations with women, the man becomes resentful and then hateful. At that point, any hopes of a healthy romantic relationship are gone. Then, the man hits the road and leaves the country. In the foreign land, he feels revived. The women appear to be friendlier and the world is beautiful again. The man attributes this to some sort of deficiency in the US women and/or a superiority in the foreign women. But he is wrong. He feels so happy and alive because he is in a new environment, a fresh start so to speak, away from the place of countless rejections and heartaches. He finds himself free of the baggage that he carries, but never correctly attributes this to the real cause: He's left himself for awhile. He is free to be someone different because no one knows who he is. The pressure is off and he can finally be confident and comfortable in his own skin.
...Of course this is just a story...nothing like this is possible, right?

I've never had problems with US women. Like I said before, I am not the epitome of American beauty, but I've never had trouble finding a good woman. Why? Because I don't take this too seriously. I've been played for a fool just like everyone else, but so what? Am I going to sit around and feel sorry for myself for the rest of my life? Am I going to let this "woman" continue to affect me forever? Hell no. If I get played, I get played. I learn from my lessons and move on. I leave my emotional baggage behind because no woman wants to deal with that. I start new and don't assume that ALL people are this way or that ALL people act like this. I get the feeling that a lot of people here have never recovered from little Mary-Ann turning down your invitation to the homecoming dance. I know that it's easier to blame all of your shortcomings on other people, but if everyone you encounter leaves a bad taste in your mouth, maybe the problem is not the the rest of the world, maybe it's you.

Man, Nofatso..do you work for the "Brother" office supply company? I've never seen anyone use so many labels. What a fascinating world you live in...

[USbabe]

Sinanjumaster, sir, you are utterly doomed. If you keep making a habit of opening your mind like this, one day a beautiful, intelligent, and charming woman is simply going to waltz right into your life. What on earth would the neighbors say? Your reputation as a woman basher would be utterly tarnished. We can't have that!

Here, I'll help you get back on track by describing myself. I'm 4'8", 350 pounds (I'm big boned), 69 years young, and the proud owner of a framed genuine US of A hi skool diploma! Now, get the %$#@! out of my way before I mace you because you're oppressing me and upsetting my delicate sensibilities.

There now, much better! Please excuse me now because I have a hot date with nofatso. We're meeting at the Cheesecake Factory for a few appetizers, entrées, and desserts. Then, he's taking me to Big Bertha's Abode of Bountiful Tents and Awnings and treating me to a whole new summer wardrobe! Oh, don't let him fool you, I know the kind of woman he likes. ;-)

Seriously, I have to catch a plane in the morning and probably won't have time to get online for a week or so, but I'll keep an eye out when I return.

[NoFatso]

hey Master. Nice to see my buddy here again. Yeah, I been totally busy finishing up two deadlines. Got done and preparing my month long trip to Brasil....

ALLWiBOS (alternative looking lady with wide Body Shape). the political incorrect terminology is UFC as in Ugly Fat Chick. I was like UFC dig KFC (Kentucky Fried Chicks).

[NoFatso]

I have to respond to some of the comments started off by USBabe.

First, phil (Afro Bro), you may be handsome and nice looking like my main man Denzel, however to an American ALLWiBos, you are just another potential victim if you ain't careful with them. ALLWiBos are EEOC. Just check out Tom Cruise... oops, I am wrong Nicole Kidman is Aussie. Oh well, what the hell, Aussie women are just as bad. Yes, Aussie and American are all bad.

Now to Paddy. Of course, the gringo women are ballistic to know that you went to Europe. You are making a loud and clear statement (i.e. you voted with your feet w/o even articulating it). The statement is, to hell with your messy hair, messy dress, SLOB (Saggy, Loose, Obese Body) and most of all, to hell with your attitude, I have better babes to dig then waste my time on you. Check out contemporary American history, when American corporation moved jobs to another country or allow more immigrants in to diversify the labor pool, the labor union fought (yes, violence) big time. Until today, violence is on going in some old line industry. Not so much in technology trade. Bottomline is this, I believe in free society, free competition. Let's face it, if foreign men flood to America to get all these ALLWiBos, more power to them. But let's be serious, who would want to waste time on these ALLWiBos? I have a few Brasilian guy friends who told me American women are fat and ugly. I am like, hello!!!? Tell me something new plezzzzzz.

Now, guys, when even Tom Cruise, the guy with 10,000,000 easy laids is dating a Spanish woman, that's your take home message.

[Sinanju Master]

nofatso, can you tell me what ALLWiBo means again? I'm sorry I haven't the strength to search for it, but I've been up ALL DAY busting my ass at work and research is NOT in my plans right now.

[NoFatso]

Been busy for a while and no time to engage my buddies on this site. Hey Sin...Master, how's going?!

First of all, USBabe. Where are you located? Let's meet for coffee and check out the possibility. You sound nice. But first of all, I like tight, fit pretty babes below 27 above 5'8". Brains optional.

Hey, guys. Talking about American women. Just keep an eye on the fire at Pikes Peak CO. So, this evil ALLWiBo, (yes, for lack of better word, she is fat) who went about setting fire and burnt everything. So, the cops arrested her and her first line of defence was campers, careless smokers, hunters (the traditional woes of the left wing liberal feminazis). So, the cops confronted her with evidence that there was no smokers, no hunters, no campers, so she stated her ex- made her do it (at least the letter from the ex). So the cops again confronted her that there was no trace of burnt paper and a check with her ex reported that the guy never even sent her any letters. Now detectives found evidence that the fire was deliberately set. I am waiting to hear her third line of defence. As I said, this is so typical of gringo ALLWiBos, first blame it on men, second blame it on society, especially the Republicans, third blame it on repressed memory. It always work. Now, what is so intriguing is the judge would let her go on bail for a few hundred grand. This is typical of the liberal bench when every woman is judged to be "kind" and "nice". It's reported that the fat chick may be suicidal. Typical of liberal media, every woman is a victim of the society and even when they are caught in the act, they are so repressed by society that they can be suicidal. Well, tell it to the home owners who lost their hard earned property. So, guys, be careful with when you are with gringo women, especially ALLWiBos, they are going to burn you

[Paddy]

Hi US Babe,

I never directly tell women here that I'm going to Eastern Europe to meet women there. It's when they find out from friends and others that the firestorm starts. I must say that the response of American women is both harsh and consistent.

I make no excuses for trips abroad. We live in a free and democratic society and I'm exercising my rights. Hey, none of these women went ballistic on me when I bought my BMW.

It's just that I find women in Europe to be so much more friendly and engaging. Just walking around Bratislava or Prague, for instance, the women are slender, fashionable and very striking. What do we have here? Countless numbers of seriously overweight women who have given up on their appearance in many instances. When the US Surgeon General says that obesity is an "epidemic" here in the US I believe it. I work constantly on staying fit and in shape and women here can do it too. I think that you get my drift.

I hang out at a bar in Prague that is frequented by Brits, Scots, etc. They tell me that if you see a fat, masculine women in Prague - she's an American. You know what? This harsh generalization is often correct.

[Sinanju Master]

AAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGHHHHHHH! Curse you, USBabe! You're right, and pleasant and graceful! DAMMIT! Yer NOT supposed to be! Just kidding! What's scary is that this is one of those moments in time (in MY life, at least) where something of value actually STICKS to my mind and the undeniable conclusion seeps into my mind because I HAVE to accept the logic of it. To do LESS would mean that I am being ILLOGICAL, and to do THAT would mean that don't have a leg to stand on. On a more serious note, you've made me question my female-bashing tendencies, uncomfortable as it is. My ex (a woman with whom I'm actually still good friends) once asked me why I hate women. I told her I didn't, but maybe I did. WELL... I have some work to do, but luckily, a lot fo it was done FOR me. Oh yeah, my attorney is drafting up that written proclamation of me being wrong! LOL

[USbabe]

Sinanjumaster, you are very kind! You said, "I'm gonna say something that I'll admit that I almost NEVER say to a woman: 'You're right'." Could I get that in writing please?! I'm just teasing you. Actually, I'm not right, and I'm not wrong. I'm just relaying my experiences in life. I also know that quite often, people are easier to meet in some countries outside the US. When I travel by myself outside the US, men frequently approach me, but it isn't too often in the US. It's almost as if guys are scared or don't want to make the effort. If I were a guy and had been insulted by women much of the time when I approached women, I'd probably be a lot more wary, too. We tend to be somewhat of an uptight society, not only with romantic and sexual relationships but in general. In crowds, it's a fact of life that we get bumped or get our toes stepped on. Usually in Europe, people utter a quick pardon and go on their way, but too often in the states, people take it so personally, as if the other person had it all staged out, just to inconvenience them! I think the trick is to adequately protect ourselves yet not put up such a strong defense that it repels others. I really do think people sense negative vibes from others. And it's also hard to optimistic when you've been shot down quite a bit. To put things in perspective, I think of Terry Anderson, who was held captive for what, 7 years, or something incredibly long like that. Now, that is a guy who deserves to be bitter! But he isn't. We're a lot stronger and tougher than we give ourselves credit. Sinanjumaster, you sound like a cool guy. Please never give a girl the power of making you feel inferior.