Amateurs

[DJ FourMoney]

i agree with aragon -

a friend of mine from some ir relationship sites around the net recently married a swedish women he met online. they got most of her paperwork done in stockholm and it was done fairly quickly. i think that has alot to do with the relationship sweden as to the us. honestly it would be easier to bring back a lady from western europe than from eastern europe, china and brasil.

his wifey will be back in the us full time this summer when she's finish tying up lose ends back home.

if you pop back to page one of this thread, you will see some of the members discussing marrying their foreign girlfriends or fuck bunnies.

allow me to share some very authoritative advice.

do not file for a fiancé visa in the united states.

do not marry her in the united states and return to her country of origin and apply for a visa. it can take forever.

this is the best and fastest way.

go to her country of origin. marry her in whatever legally binding method is available.

caveat: some countries require lots of paperwork, for example a certificate of "singleness", you would get that from who ever records marriages in your state. my goal is to get you and your honey back to the u.s. as quickly as possible, not navigate local bureaucrats)

bring any proof of your relationship with you to her country. it will be useful at the embassy. i'm talking about letters, e-mails, pictures of the two of you together on previous trips, phone bills showing your long conversations while you are apart.

have her schedule an interview for an ir-1 visa. two more warnings.
1. there will be some fees involved. see http://travel.state.gov/visa/frvi/fees/fees_1341.html
2. if she has unmarried kids **** 21 that she wants to come to the us with her, they will be able to accompany you right away. the will need visas, fees.... however if she wants to bring married kids, kids over 21 or her brother, sister, cousins that can take years depending on the country. pi, mexico, colombia have waits in excess of 10 years.

the ir-1 is the fastest and most reliable way to get your squeeze to your garden apartment in amarillo.

[Aragorn]

if you pop back to page one of this thread, you will see some of the members discussing marrying their foreign girlfriends or fuck bunnies.

allow me to share some very authoritative advice.

do not file for a fiancé visa in the united states.

do not marry her in the united states and return to her country of origin and apply for a visa. it can take forever.

this is the best and fastest way.

go to her country of origin. marry her in whatever legally binding method is available.

caveat: some countries require lots of paperwork, for example a certificate of "singleness", you would get that from who ever records marriages in your state. my goal is to get you and your honey back to the u.s. as quickly as possible, not navigate local bureaucrats)

bring any proof of your relationship with you to her country. it will be useful at the embassy. i'm talking about letters, e-mails, pictures of the two of you together on previous trips, phone bills showing your long conversations while you are apart.

have her schedule an interview for an ir-1 visa. two more warnings.
1. there will be some fees involved. see http://travel.state.gov/visa/frvi/fees/fees_1341.html
2. if she has unmarried kids **** 21 that she wants to come to the us with her, they will be able to accompany you right away. the will need visas, fees.... however if she wants to bring married kids, kids over 21 or her brother, sister, cousins that can take years depending on the country. pi, mexico, colombia have waits in excess of 10 years.

the ir-1 is the fastest and most reliable way to get your squeeze to your garden apartment in amarillo.

[Zde]

Hello gentlemen,

I was wondering what is your opinion about pick up lines. Do you know any that actually work for you? I think the successful pick up lines should get their own section. So any pick up line that got you where we want to be?

[Sky Dumont]

http://www.unter-aller-sau.com?WMID=69564&WMEC=5&PID=1

When you are a pig you like that watch this.

Thanks

Sky Dumont

[Jaimito Cartero]

I've had pretty good results so far. I've gotten about 10 phone numbers so far, and out of 25-30 responses, I'd say that at least 30% are very willing. Generally the phone giving ones are the most interesting. I've had a couple that basically have told me they want me to come and fuck them right now.

I don't take these too seriously, though. I think this is a good plan for when you're going to a city for a couple of weeks or more. My only concern now is do I tell them I'm coming, or just call them when I'm there. I'd be a bit worried about them not wanting to leave, or coming by when I'm fucking some other chica.

There are some sincerely nice chicas here as well. I've tried to be obvious about what I'm looking for without being crude. I'm not expecting to just fuck some of these girls and take off. It would be nice to have a girlfriend or three when I come to town.

I get the most unsolicted messages from Colombians and Cubans. I don't have any plans on going to Cuba, but Colombia is a possiblity. I get the most emails from Barranquilla which I went to one time by mistake (Airport was fogged in). And all I remember is that it was horribly hot at midnight, and I was told not to leave the hotel as they would kill me for a quarter. I was horrified, since I always thought that they'd have to pay someone at least a dollar.

[Jaimito Cartero]

Thanks for the details. It seems that most members are from Peru, Chile and Colombia.

I've upgraded the membership so I can actually send more than one or two responses a day. Hopefully it pays off. I have found the best responses from the 26-30 age group. I haven't sent any emails to the 30+ chicas yet.

I don't have a camera on my computer, although I'm sure I could find something cheap.

I'm assuming that many of these chicas will expect something. A nice gift, money or such. I'm not much for freebies, as they're usually much more expensive.

[Duesy45]

Jaimito,

I would strongly urge you to try Cyber Cupido. I joined about 4 months ago. I am going to Peru and possibly Chile. In fact, I leave tomorrow for 5+weeks.

My results have been amazing. I get about 75 emails a week. Originally I was getting almost 100 emails every weekend. Most of these women realize that the man is only interested in sex. Some of them are looking for a longer term relationship and will ususally tell you so very quickly.

I have 23 different women lined up for my trip. Most of them are older - 34-42 range but all are nice looking. I would probably rate them 7+. In fact, one of the women is riding with the limo to the airport to pick me up. She told me she wants to go back to my room and 'rest' awhile before going to work. My planes arrives at 4:30 a.m.. Then another one is coming to my room at 8:30 for 'breakfast'. After 'breakfast' I hope to get some rest as I have a date with another one for dinner.

Some of the best looking women do not live near the major cities but will travel there to meet you. I had one who wanted to come Lima and spend the month with me. HaHa- fat chance. I have offered to pay bus fare to some of them if they travel very far.

I am really surprised with my results because I am an old fart, average looks and about 30 pounds overweight.

I do have a suggestion if you join. Insist that the woman send you her foto. If she passes that test then insist that she go to a cyber cafe and use a web cam when chatting with you. I suspect that most of them lie about their age and probably all of them lie about their weight.

The web cam helps eliminate the 'duds'.

Hope you have good success in the chase. If I can provide any more info please let me know.

Happy hunting - Duesy

[Jaimito Cartero]

Since I travel to Latin America most of the time, I'm interested in meeting non pro and semi pro girls there. Does anyone have experience with Cybercupido? The fees to join are a little stiff, but I wouldn't mind paying if I got some results.

They seem to be affiliated with AdultFriendFinder as well.

[Sebastian My]

I found this while doing a search for ARPU (a teleco financial term) and found this site, it may be of interested to your guys (and gals).

http://boffola.com/-/r=vbvl/

I just hope I never see any of the guys I work with on this site?

[Sebastian My]

I have no experience with this method of obtaining gratification, but i am aware of someone who has - mainly in singapore and hong kong. But it does take some time and you will get women who are in their 30's and 40's - although they are good in bed and very very grateful - according to my laowai mate.

Another of my friends registered with dating services in australia, RSVP from memory. His objectives were honerable, a wife, but he ended up getting one night stands with slighlty screwed up women. One woman used him as a test bed for her recently healed vagina tightening operation. Not so flattering, but what the heck - it cost nothing and i certainly found the stories very entertaining.

[Spike]

I have cultivated several relationships on Asia Friendfinder and on Cherry Blossoms. The jury is out, but I would bet big money that an upcoming trip to Asia will result in AT LEAST 3 scores in China (not including a Thai and a Filipina I will meet in Hong Kong) and 3 more in P.I. No reason it shouldn't be the same here in the States, and I have a good friend who has had GREAT results using Adult Friend Finder.

If you are traveling overseas, it is a VERY easy way to build a "book" from which to branch out into a great mongering experience. All it takes is a little time and a little patience, but the price is right. If you are going over there anyway, why not save money on mongering by setting up some freebies in advance?

[Listo1]

I have not had any success meeting any women off of Yahoo, and I refuse to even try Adult Friend Finder as I believe that is a total rip-off.

I have found a nice little Pen Pal site that I have met and fucked 3 different women. PM me if you want that site, as I don't think it would be appropriate to post that info in this forum.

The site works great, you create your own profile then you can view other profiles from every state. I am not looking for the young little chickies on that site either. I am looking for the older, bored housewives that are willing to try a fling. I'm 37, and the women I have met ranged in age from 46 to 50, but they were all damn good looking and knew what the hell they were doing in bed too!

I had positive results with AFF. I met women in the sleepy town in Texas where I was living and hooked up with two in DR and one in PR using AFF. I guess it is hit or miss. If you don't have game you are hosed anyway.

Listo1

[Rene02]

Exchanged many many emails from AFF website, but haven't met anyone yet....

[Kindashy3]

I am currently working on some hookups if aff. I am not a paying member, but I think that aff is having tech diff since I am able to send and receive messages. I will let all know how I do.

[Rub & Tugged]

Another monger and I were looking through Adultfriendfinder out of curiosity. We found a photo of a girl that works at the local strip joint and that does take out for cash. Some of those girls are clearly not amateurs, they are pros. If you bone one, best have your wallet handy in case you get a bill after you are done.

We saw the girl and asked her about her ad, she admitted to us that is was sex for money. (This was in the Chicagoland area)