Anal Connoisseurs

[Alan]

JP2U is very correct. There is a real thrill when the "pop" comes and you go past the spincter. Some girls do okay when your stroke is long and slow but have trouble when you try to pump too hard and deep. What you do not want is for her to want you to take your cock out of the sweet little hole while you are on heaven. You have to gauge what kind of anal sweetheart you have. I like it when you are ready to pop and are giving it to them nice and hard and they start grunting as if they are having a tooth pulled. LOL.

[JP2U]

To me, assfucking is more of a psychological thrill than a physical one. Its a taboo, filthy act rejected in nearly all cultures and societies and can make both partners engaging in it feel like sexual deviants (which is why I like it). Then theres the shape of a well proportioned female ass, esp when she's walking in front of you clad in spandex or a thin tight dress. As your eyes are transfixed on those two glorious orbs, you realize theres a forbidden, dirty little hole embedded deep within that you'd love to violate. How many times have we seen that only to go home and have a hearty wank? But when you manage to find such a specimen whom you know you can sex with, what a delight to find she doesnt mind having her back orifice stuffed.

As far as the physical sensation is concerned, it varies form girl to girl. Many girls I've had are actually not tight (even though some of them were supposedly 'ass virgins' and were not able to continue due to the pain). Some I've had were tight but the tightness doesnt seem to last long. After a few minutes of pounding, the sphincter loosens and is why you see 'the gape'. The sphincter is the ONLY part that gives the tight sensation, the rest of it is just wide open tunnel. So after a few minutes, with the sphincter loosened up, I find the tightness mostly gone (of course, I often dont last more than a few minutes ). The vagina on the other hand is tight all the way through, though it loosens with age and continual banging.

[It Travel]

I agree with your 4 main factors, though I interpret them differently.

1) My Pleasure. I enjoy anal much more than vaginal. There is no roughness in it for me. What I find so enjoyable is the way she can squeeze her ass muscles around my cock. I find it enjoyable for a woman to squeeze her vaginal muscles around my cock. But the ass muscles seem to squeeze harder and cover more area (so to speak). Having all that muscle clamping your cock just feels fanatstic to me. Even lap dances by big assed women who clamp their asses around by cock through my pants feels great.

2) Her Pleasure. While I would like for her to enjoy anal sex, I realize that it is not comfortable for her and is often just painful for her. I do not enjoy causing a woman pain. Though in the case of anal sex, I DO enjoy that she is willing to tolerate pain in order to give me so much pleasure. Almost all of the women I have known get the most plasure from oral sex. I offer a trade: give me anal sex to my heart's content, I will give her oral sex to her heart's content.

3) Visual. I love to look at sexy ass! I love to feel sexy ass! I love to lick sexy ass! I love to watch sexy ass jiggle when she dances or even just walks around. A sexy ass is essential. It's all about the ass! As I wrote in part 1, a sexier ass compensates for a smaller breasts and a less pretty face.

4) Psychology. This factor is also very important for me. However, the psychlogy is totally from the point of view of the women. I do not have any qualms about anal sex. I do not see it as dirty or anti-establishment. I do not feel I am breaking a taboo or degrading myself or her through anal sex.

For me, anal sex is an expression of submission. She is submitting to me when she lets me penetrate her deeply in her rectum with my cock and dump a large load of sperm there. More than vaginal or oral sex, accepting my load anally seems to convey the feeling to me that she accepts me as dominant. I guess I agree with your assessment that anal sex reinforces the notions of male superiority, power and control.

I broke in a couple of anal virgins. Those were quite satisfying experiences! Even though the physical experience was not superb due to their inexperience, the psychological experience was outstanding. Over a week, I was able to gain enough trust, and, with the help of some money as well, enough willingness to submit to my desires, for them to open their asses to male penetration for the first time in their lives. Penetrating them was very rewarding!

I rate all these 4 factors equally in terms of importance at 10.

Dear Friends,

I have to agree and disagree on some of your “anal” views. Of course it’s just my opinion, like yours is yours so no matter on how we intend anal we are all enthusiasts!

My loving on anal is on several reasons.

1) Anus is tight and warm, far better than pussy specially if a girl already had children…
2) It gives a sense of domination and submission, somebody likes both… I like to dominate (not so harshly) my girl.
3) If you get the right position you feel to dominate completely the girl… like she was a prisoner.

In my opinion by far the best position for anal (influenced by girl dimension, she has to be a petite) is laying her down normally. Lifting her legs so the knees are on the side of her body (you need a young and elastic one!). Her feet can be used as a base for your chest, you can use your hands for holding her tits or best her wrists, so she is completely immobilized. With a pair of pillows under her head you can kiss her lick her face bite her nose, while you see your shaft going up and down…

No question of how to end… if you are in rubber just facialize her… otherwise a nice small cum enema will be fantastic…

These are the obvious reasons for which I search for young petite, possibly Russian or Ukrainian for this anal duty after I love to relax licking two pink swollen pussy lips!

IT

[George90]

Why? You like anal but will not date a women long term that opens her back door to you. This is a misunderstanding because I sure as hell don't understand it.

Because I don't edit my posts for clear grammar as well as I should. LOL! Sometimes I read what I intended to write, not what I actually wrote. Thanks for pointing out the error.

[Warbucks]

This is a great post! I happen to disagree with a lot of what you wrote, but the topic is still fantastic. Thanks for bringing it up.

For me, anal sex is also the ultimate sex act with a woman. I will not consider a LT relationship with a woman who does open her backdoor to me.

Why? You like anal but will not date a women long term that opens her back door to you. This is a misunderstanding because I sure as hell don't understand it.

[George90]

I consider 4 main factors, and rate them roughly on a scale of 1-10 in terms of importance.

1. My Physical Pleasure/Pain
2. Womans Physical Pleasure/Pain
3. Visual Appearance / Aesthetics
4. Psychological Factors

I agree with your 4 main factors, though I interpret them differently.

1) My Pleasure. I enjoy anal much more than vaginal. There is no roughness in it for me. What I find so enjoyable is the way she can squeeze her ass muscles around my cock. I find it enjoyable for a woman to squeeze her vaginal muscles around my cock. But the ass muscles seem to squeeze harder and cover more area (so to speak). Having all that muscle clamping your cock just feels fanatstic to me. Even lap dances by big assed women who clamp their asses around by cock through my pants feels great.

2) Her Pleasure. While I would like for her to enjoy anal sex, I realize that it is not comfortable for her and is often just painful for her. I do not enjoy causing a woman pain. Though in the case of anal sex, I DO enjoy that she is willing to tolerate pain in order to give me so much pleasure. Almost all of the women I have known get the most plasure from oral sex. I offer a trade: give me anal sex to my heart's content, I will give her oral sex to her heart's content.

3) Visual. I love to look at sexy ass! I love to feel sexy ass! I love to lick sexy ass! I love to watch sexy ass jiggle when she dances or even just walks around. A sexy ass is essential. It's all about the ass! As I wrote in part 1, a sexier ass compensates for a smaller breasts and a less pretty face.

4) Psychology. This factor is also very important for me. However, the psychlogy is totally from the point of view of the women. I do not have any qualms about anal sex. I do not see it as dirty or anti-establishment. I do not feel I am breaking a taboo or degrading myself or her through anal sex.

For me, anal sex is an expression of submission. She is submitting to me when she lets me penetrate her deeply in her rectum with my cock and dump a large load of sperm there. More than vaginal or oral sex, accepting my load anally seems to convey the feeling to me that she accepts me as dominant. I guess I agree with your assessment that anal sex reinforces the notions of male superiority, power and control.

I broke in a couple of anal virgins. Those were quite satisfying experiences! Even though the physical experience was not superb due to their inexperience, the psychological experience was outstanding. Over a week, I was able to gain enough trust, and, with the help of some money as well, enough willingness to submit to my desires, for them to open their asses to male penetration for the first time in their lives. Penetrating them was very rewarding!

I rate all these 4 factors equally in terms of importance at 10.

[George90]

This is a somewhat long post, relating more to the aspects of anal fun that attract us to it. Maybe it will stimulate some good conversation or introspection. If not, I apologize.

I often find myself considering the psychological roots and aspects of my anal obsession. To be clear, I consider hetero anal sex to be the absolute highest form of sex act, and a complete must for any long term relationship. It is highly desired for STR/paid acitivites as well, and the more I think about my own behavior, I have found i only gravitate towards the type of women that either overtly or subtly imply the back door is open.

As for the cause of this obsession, I'm fairly certain porn is the root, the continued dominance of anal-themed hardcore. I'm not so interested in that, but what I do wonder about is what aspects of anal are so appealing to myself and others.

This is a great post! I happen to disagree with a lot of what you wrote, but the topic is still fantastic. Thanks for bringing it up.

For me, anal sex is also the ultimate sex act with a woman. I will not consider a LT relationship with a woman who does not open her backdoor to me. Of the handful of women I discussed LT relationship with, none were put off. All agreed to it, though only 1 with no terms attached.

But I strongly disagree that porn is responsible for mine of any other man's ass fetish. I have been intrigued with women's asses since I was a child. I have memories of looking at some of my teachers' asses in grade school. There were a couple who were slightly overweight and had very round jiggly asses. When they erased the blackboard, their hips and asses would sway and jiggled under their dresses. I would stare at them! And when they wore pants that should the outline of their asses, it was an even better treat! I was 6 or 7 years old!

Another memories was taking swiming lessons at around age 9 or 10. All of the instructors were older kids (18, 19, 20) and some were girls. Those teen girls walking around in their bikinis were quite a sight. I watched the ones who had round asses as much as I could. Another lesson taker tried to get me into trouble, by telling one particular round-assed female instructor that I kept looking at her ass.

My point is that we are born with our fixation on female asses. Some men are born with the ability to especially appreciate female breasts, other men are born with ability to especially appreciate female buttocks. We, or at least I, fall in the latter group.

(As an aside, I have not met many women who understand this about men. They all seem to think our sexual piccadillos are determined by the media.)

It is the way round female ass turns me on that draws to me anal porn. Anal porn does not turn me on to female ass.

You only touched on this slightly but the quality of the ass is a very important factor. I am not turned on my any old female ass. It has to have a specific shape and size. I am most attracted asses that are fleshy and well rounded- absolutely not flat - and attached to hips that are wide and accentuated by a slim waist. I am willing to accept smaller breasts and less pretty faces for more of what I consider to be a sexy ass.

[Wicked Roger]

I have to agree a lot with what you said. (Except the shitty dick part ) I think that porn has played a large role in perpetuating this sadistic act. I also have this fixation with anal but does the ass really offer anymore sensation then a nice pussy? I think not. I would have to say it is all psychological. I think there is a little bit of a sadist in us all and those energies are released through the act.

I love Greek as for me a different sensation and tighter - well for a while

I have devirginised many a Filipina's backside and many, if not most, now come back for more, one only does it Greek style (saving pussy for husband) and another whose pinoy boyfriend here in UAE did not like Greek (said it was a homosexual act only) so I helped her satisfy her curiosity

And more to do, my work is never ended

[Sushilover808]

I have to agree a lot with what you said. (Except the shitty dick part ) I think that porn has played a large role in perpetuating this sadistic act. I also have this fixation with anal but does the ass really offer anymore sensation then a nice pussy? I think not. I would have to say it is all psychological. I think there is a little bit of a sadist in us all and those energies are released through the act.

Actually I agree with you 100%. But still it's FUN!!! I also love CIMWS but that is for a different forum. Am I NUTZ or just trained by porn!?!?!?!

Aloha,

Sushilover

[Warbucks]

This is a somewhat long post, relating more to the aspects of anal fun that attract us to it. Maybe it will stimulate some good conversation or introspection. If not, I apologize.

I often find myself considering the psychological roots and aspects of my anal obsession. To be clear, I consider hetero anal sex to be the absolute highest form of sex act, and a complete must for any long term relationship. It is highly desired for STR/paid acitivites as well, and the more I think about my own behavior, I have found i only gravitate towards the type of women that either overtly or subtly imply the back door is open.

As for the cause of this obsession, I'm fairly certain porn is the root, the continued dominance of anal-themed hardcore. I'm not so interested in that, but what I do wonder about is what aspects of anal are so appealing to myself and others.

I consider 4 main factors, and rate them roughly on a scale of 1-10 in terms of importance.

1. My Physical Pleasure/Pain
2. Womans Physical Pleasure/Pain
3. Visual Appearance / Aesthetics
4. Psychological Factors

1. My Physical Pleasure : 5
To be honest, I find anal sex to be generally no more or less physically pleasurable than a tight pussy, probably less pleasurable than a really good blowjob, and, clearly a wide variance of pleasure depending on fatigue, effort, position, etc.

I find this to be surprising - while the popular concept of the "tight asshole" is very strong, once you pop through the o-ring, it's nothing exceptional.

Depending on my mood, I sometimes enjoy very prolonged sex, denying myself orgasm and even some level of discomfort or pain on my organ. Nothing bloody or truly damaging, but I enjoy roughness. Anal can provide that aspect, and I think it does add to the appeal, but maybe more psychologically.

2. Womans Physical Pleasure / Pain

This is a tough one to quantify. I believe women vary greatly in their ability to get pleasure from anal and/or to minimize discomfort. Obviously a lot of this depends on the situation. With a committed lover, I have no desire to cause any pain beyond what she wants and agrees to before any sex begins. With a STR/Pro, it's really the same, although to be honest I don't think I'd care enough to really talk through things with her extensively before action begins.

If the woman can cum from anal, or really enjoys the pain, this becomes a big turn on (maybe this should really be classified as psychological...) and I'd say this factor rates a 7-8. If they do not enjoy it or experience extreme discomfort, it loses sexiness for me and drops to a 2-3.

3. Visual / Aesthetics

Assuming a hot lady, this is a major plus for me. Maybe its my porn watching ways or highly visual nature, but certain positions and angles of viewing a beautiful ass taking in a thick cock puts me in heaven. This is an 8 or 9 in importance to me. At the same time, without much of a view or at least some view and tactile feedback... or a really unattractive ass, well wahts the point? 1 or 2...

One side note others may appreciate - I truly enjoy the unique look my cock gets when fucking a tight ass - very red, harder than usual, and the combinaton of lube, spit and cum are fantastic. Oddly, I find myself often fantasizng about the idea of fucking a dirty ass, getting shit thick on my cock, but in practice, the smell and any actual solid waste is 90% of the time a turnoff. I do VERY much enjoy "santorum" - the mix of lubes and the slight fecal coating of a clean ass. Of course, ass-to-mouth, watching a girl clean a cock and consume her own assjuice is beautiful.


4. Psychological Factors

As I examined all these factors, I've come to believe this is the big-daddy. All of the other 3 feed into this factor in one way or another, and it seems to me to break down into a few areas.

One is the enthusiasm/nastiness of the lady. A dead fish is never fun, but a hot, willing and horny babe who wants a big cock up her ass, a girl who matches me for enthusiasm, well thats a big turn on. While some might think that that enthusiasm could be just as easily expressed in other ways, I still find the taboo/intense nature of anal to be what "sets the bar"

The flip side of that is my own feeling of breaking the taboo, being filthy, bestial, even degrading myself somewhat. It's fun to just let loose and enjoy the flesh in any way possible.

I also find, a bit to my chagrin, that the final psychological aspect is the conquerer/sadist/dominant bit. With a woman that enjoys the pain, I very much enjoy giving it, and using one of her holes in a way nature never intended definitely involves degradation/inferiority, while reinforcing chauvinistic male superiority, power, control. To be totally clear - I have no desire to degrade women in any other way, to control a real thinking, feeling human beings life... but i would be dishonest to say that in this one situation, it is enjoyable.

Anecdotally, when my girlfriend (now wife) first gave in to anal sex, she, unprompted, also engaged in ass-to-mouth. Unsurprisingly, I was in heaven. First time anal with her, and she not only willingly, but on her own initiative cleaned my cock! It has become a staple of our sex life, and an undeniable mental thrill.

In total, I'd say the psychological factors of anal sex are by far the most important. 10 out of 10. What is going on in our heads is much more exciting than going on between our bodies.

Well I had better wrap it up now but hopefully that gets some wheels a-turning, I'd like to know what other people think, if they have any insights, etc. I am genuinely interested in my own, and other peoples attitudes towards this VERY POPULAR taboo.

Thanks for reading.

I have to agree a lot with what you said. (Except the shitty dick part ) I think that porn has played a large role in perpetuating this sadistic act. I also have this fixation with anal but does the ass really offer anymore sensation then a nice pussy? I think not. I would have to say it is all psychological. I think there is a little bit of a sadist in us all and those energies are released through the act.

[Sushilover808]

I'm new to ISG so sorry for my mistake.

I didn't know you couldn't repost the same pics in a different forum.

You can see my original post from the Lima forum here: http://www.internationalsexguide.inf...postcount=1064

It is worthwhile to compare before & after pictures.

Aloha,

Sushi

[Sushilover808]

I was in Lima in the early half of April 2008. I went to Pizza Alley solo to check out the scene. On my way there, I was approached by many SWs in Park Kennedy. Because my Spanish is limited, I had difficulty. There was one tall, slender girl that caught my eye. I asked about anal sex and she accepted for 150 ns (about $55). She was really nice during the 5-10 minute walk back to my hotel making simple, small talk.

When we got to the hotel, I got BBBJ then a few positions of straight sex for about 15-20 min w/ raincoat. During doggie I FUTB to her and asked if she was ready for some back door action. She nervously said "si". From the start she was moaning & groaning. After about 5-10 minutes, she started a little screaming & complaining saying "grande". I'm Asian and pretty average size so I think this was BS. I put her on her back & tried to finish quickly but the screaming intensified & she started saying "no mas". Sad to say, I did not get to finish during anal. We changed comdoms & I finished during straight sex. Then she asked me if I wanted her to stay until morning for more money (I forgot how much.) but I declined. I added 3 pictures. The last two are before & after shots of her asshole.

Aloha,

Sushilover

[Gaped Ass Lover]

I'd just like to say how much I enjoy your posts. Way to go!

[Gaped Ass Lover]

Very nice IT! Please let us know how it goes. She looks like the flexible type - maybe get her ankles behind her head before plunging into her ass?

Just got by mail the pics she has on her page... (I do not look on ground I know her telephone...)

I think I'll aske her to come with this dress, just position her as in the photo # 01 and take up the dress and down the pants, and just make a Deep Rectal Inspection!

IT

PS a real beauty...

[Gaped Ass Lover]

This is a somewhat long post, relating more to the aspects of anal fun that attract us to it. Maybe it will stimulate some good conversation or introspection. If not, I apologize.

I often find myself considering the psychological roots and aspects of my anal obsession. To be clear, I consider hetero anal sex to be the absolute highest form of sex act, and a complete must for any long term relationship. It is highly desired for STR/paid acitivites as well, and the more I think about my own behavior, I have found i only gravitate towards the type of women that either overtly or subtly imply the back door is open.

As for the cause of this obsession, I'm fairly certain porn is the root, the continued dominance of anal-themed hardcore. I'm not so interested in that, but what I do wonder about is what aspects of anal are so appealing to myself and others.

I consider 4 main factors, and rate them roughly on a scale of 1-10 in terms of importance.

1. My Physical Pleasure/Pain
2. Womans Physical Pleasure/Pain
3. Visual Appearance / Aesthetics
4. Psychological Factors

1. My Physical Pleasure : 5
To be honest, I find anal sex to be generally no more or less physically pleasurable than a tight pussy, probably less pleasurable than a really good blowjob, and, clearly a wide variance of pleasure depending on fatigue, effort, position, etc.

I find this to be surprising - while the popular concept of the "tight asshole" is very strong, once you pop through the o-ring, it's nothing exceptional.

Depending on my mood, I sometimes enjoy very prolonged sex, denying myself orgasm and even some level of discomfort or pain on my organ. Nothing bloody or truly damaging, but I enjoy roughness. Anal can provide that aspect, and I think it does add to the appeal, but maybe more psychologically.

2. Womans Physical Pleasure / Pain

This is a tough one to quantify. I believe women vary greatly in their ability to get pleasure from anal and/or to minimize discomfort. Obviously a lot of this depends on the situation. With a committed lover, I have no desire to cause any pain beyond what she wants and agrees to before any sex begins. With a STR/Pro, it's really the same, although to be honest I don't think I'd care enough to really talk through things with her extensively before action begins.

If the woman can cum from anal, or really enjoys the pain, this becomes a big turn on (maybe this should really be classified as psychological...) and I'd say this factor rates a 7-8. If they do not enjoy it or experience extreme discomfort, it loses sexiness for me and drops to a 2-3.

3. Visual / Aesthetics

Assuming a hot lady, this is a major plus for me. Maybe its my porn watching ways or highly visual nature, but certain positions and angles of viewing a beautiful ass taking in a thick cock puts me in heaven. This is an 8 or 9 in importance to me. At the same time, without much of a view or at least some view and tactile feedback... or a really unattractive ass, well wahts the point? 1 or 2...

One side note others may appreciate - I truly enjoy the unique look my cock gets when fucking a tight ass - very red, harder than usual, and the combinaton of lube, spit and cum are fantastic. Oddly, I find myself often fantasizng about the idea of fucking a dirty ass, getting shit thick on my cock, but in practice, the smell and any actual solid waste is 90% of the time a turnoff. I do VERY much enjoy "santorum" - the mix of lubes and the slight fecal coating of a clean ass. Of course, ass-to-mouth, watching a girl clean a cock and consume her own assjuice is beautiful.


4. Psychological Factors

As I examined all these factors, I've come to believe this is the big-daddy. All of the other 3 feed into this factor in one way or another, and it seems to me to break down into a few areas.

One is the enthusiasm/nastiness of the lady. A dead fish is never fun, but a hot, willing and horny babe who wants a big cock up her ass, a girl who matches me for enthusiasm, well thats a big turn on. While some might think that that enthusiasm could be just as easily expressed in other ways, I still find the taboo/intense nature of anal to be what "sets the bar"

The flip side of that is my own feeling of breaking the taboo, being filthy, bestial, even degrading myself somewhat. It's fun to just let loose and enjoy the flesh in any way possible.

I also find, a bit to my chagrin, that the final psychological aspect is the conquerer/sadist/dominant bit. With a woman that enjoys the pain, I very much enjoy giving it, and using one of her holes in a way nature never intended definitely involves degradation/inferiority, while reinforcing chauvinistic male superiority, power, control. To be totally clear - I have no desire to degrade women in any other way, to control a real thinking, feeling human beings life... but i would be dishonest to say that in this one situation, it is enjoyable.

Anecdotally, when my girlfriend (now wife) first gave in to anal sex, she, unprompted, also engaged in ass-to-mouth. Unsurprisingly, I was in heaven. First time anal with her, and she not only willingly, but on her own initiative cleaned my cock! It has become a staple of our sex life, and an undeniable mental thrill.

In total, I'd say the psychological factors of anal sex are by far the most important. 10 out of 10. What is going on in our heads is much more exciting than going on between our bodies.

Well I had better wrap it up now but hopefully that gets some wheels a-turning, I'd like to know what other people think, if they have any insights, etc. I am genuinely interested in my own, and other peoples attitudes towards this VERY POPULAR taboo.

Thanks for reading.