Anal Connoisseurs

**MeatMan** · 10-24-03 20:16

A-Men Joe...A pretty stupid one indeed! "Duh"

**Joe Zop** · 10-24-03 15:55

Gee, well, your different approach is one that a) is the single riskiest sex act in terms of AIDS transmission, not to mention other STDs, since you advocate no condom and b) can cause rips and/or lesions in your partners' anal tissue, since you say not to use lube. Not to mention, as others have, the consent issues.

Having the school band play a Nazi anthem and wave the Nazi flag on Rosh Hashana during the halftime show of a football game (as happened a few weeks ago in Paris, Texas) is a "different view and approach" as well, but like yours, it's a pretty stupid one.

**Vegamars** · 10-24-03 11:23

You could pretend it like a joke if you're gonna feel better,but don't be so surprised by different views and approaches!

**Zagor** · 10-24-03 11:17

Live in istanbul. I use anal sex with my Turkish gf for 3 years and believe she enjoys to share this experince with me. just we care about cleanless, take care, go slowly on starting we tried even in the car at front seat.

Sex must be have with right partner also in" sharing in mind" before go the bed.

Enjoy it

**Sun Devil** · 10-24-03 00:44

I have had anal sex with pros before; with one because she was having her period. For the most part, I just ask them nicely and politely if they do anal sex before with go to the room. If they agree to it, they agree to it. Also, it helps that you have established rapport with them.

To me, anal sex is no big deal. There are no Bartholin glands to naturally lubricate the rectum, unlike the vagina. Hence, it feels like you are having sex with a piece of sandpaper. To compensate for this, I would recommend having K-Y jelly on hand to lubricate that area. But you guys know this already.

**Prokofiev** · 10-24-03 00:15

Bad,

Anything you have to do 12-24 hours in advance is not too useful. Most of us don't plan that far in advance for anything, much less sex. I have known many women who have an orgasm DURING anal sex, but none with their butts. They usually play with themselves and come while I screw them.

As to anal sex with a pro, I would have agreed completely until I went to Buenos Aires this last July. A club woman (pro) asked ME for anal sex and she clearly enjoyed it. But that was the only pro I have ever done it with. If a woman doesn't enjoy the act, I don't either.

**Bizzie** · 10-23-03 23:59

Anal Orgasm..
Is there such a thing?

Two different girls that I had anal with (over a 2 year period), have told me that they experience anal orgasms during anal sex (penis,dildo).
Apparently, it is quite distinct from vaginal/clitoral orgasm, and can happen in the absence of the regualr orgasm.

They describe it as tense contractions or convulsiosn of the anal canal and the rectum, and pelvic muscles. One girl said that it was as intense as her normal orgasms.

It didn't happen everytime, only when they were 'really horny'.

The orgasm leads to expulsion of some mucous. Yes, mucous, not stool. I always have them do enemas or colon cleanser. They use some of those cleansing methods that are used for medical reasons for example colonscopy or surgery.
Usually done a half or full day in advance, not just before sex, can last 1-2 days.

I never experienced any unexpected stool on my dick, but you can see some yellow/brown mucous, especially when wiping with a white paper towel.

I can't imagine a prostitute that you just picked up, "ready" and 'eager" to give you a realy good anal experience.
She might do it ( for extra money), but dont expect it to be anything spectacular.
I know this from experience.

**Sun Devil** · 10-23-03 23:54

vegamars:

so you're saying that you pretend that you don't know what you're doing and just naturally poke your member in her rectum even though she might be protesting to this like crazy. in addition to this, you recommend doing this sans lube and condom, something that could injure her rectum's inner lining. sounds like [CodeWord123] to me, even though it might not stand in court.

**Warpig2000** · 10-23-03 19:31

If I didn't see the words "Senior Member" with 50 posts at the time I write this, I'd swear that Vegamars was trolling us.

Sounds to me like a surefire way to turn girls against Anal pleasures for life JMO

**MeatMan** · 10-23-03 19:07

WTF?????

.....Vegamars you are kidding right??

**Prokofiev** · 10-23-03 15:48

Vegamars . . .Tell us that was a joke . . . Please!

**Vegamars** · 10-23-03 13:38

It's always been more interesting and seductive for me to do anal when the girl's just against it or has never tried it before! You must be skillfill enough to persuade though. For me it's never been a problem since I act as if I'm driven out of control when the time shows up. One more piece of advice, always act naturally, no condom or lubricant, you'll feel much more relaxed and comfortable!!

**Prokofiev** · 10-21-03 17:24

Swiss Gal,

I think there is one little difference you are over-looking. I have a prostate gland in there and you don't. Neither of us can say for sure, but I'm willing to bet it feels much different for a man than a woman. Sure, one part is the same, but one part is totally different. That's not to say that you should not or can not demand equal access to your guy. Just tell him, "If you REALLY loved me, you would let me stick my John Holmes dildo up your ass" and see what happens. Guys use that line all the time. If he wants to get what HE wants, he has to give what YOU want.
But understand that it probably is more intense for him than it is for you . . .

As far as a mess goes, again let me say that I have had anal sex with over 10 partners and at least 500 times, maybe more. Only once did I have even the slightest problem. If you are worried about shit, an enema is going to make a mess for sure and if you do it together, well - it will be a special bonding experience. Been there, done that.

Good Luck, -P

**Warpig2000** · 10-21-03 17:11

More Faqs off sexuality.org that would be of interest to members of this forum:

Ten Rules of Anal Sex
http://www.sexuality.org/l/incoming/analrule.html

Advanced Sex Techniques and Secrets
http://www.sexuality.org/l/incoming/aanal.html

Your First Enema

http://www.sexuality.org/l/fetish/yfenema.html

I have no connection with this site, I just found their FAQs very informative and probably useful to readers here. The whole site is actually worthwhile browsing.

**Lazzaro** · 10-21-03 13:01

Swiss gal,

I totally agree with you.
On more, for me only if both partner want it, it is a real pleasure.
Mainly, both must be relaxed (as nervous) and excited (as sexual).
I think that anus is one of the more sensible zone in the human body, and could be great be fingered (for the males) while your partner suck your dick and/or lick your balls.

First of all, you have to wet the entire zone, and after start to play with 1 or 2 finger, sweetly, tryin' to avoid the forcing, but all in total relax.
Then, and only then, you could proceed with the penetration, still delicate.

Personally I accept (and agree

) be fingered: and I don't see a disablement of my masculinity.
Sex is pleasure, and if you like it, do it.
But I think (I repeat) that it is good ONLY if both the partner agree it.

...And always protected!

Ciao

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