Anal Connoisseurs

[jakeblues]

I have been a lurker for months, maybe more. I feel like i know some off you from reading all the forums on here.

My question is mostly for RN since she has been a working gurl in the past, but the rest of you may give your opinons too. RN i have loved reading your posts in various forums. You have been very insightful to me.

When i am making a deal with a working girl, i get nervous, Is it ok or proper to ask the girl up front about certian things you may want but are unsure if she would do them? The whole reason i go to a working girl is to get stuff i can't get at home (like anal). So thats what i want. But i don't want to be offensive or even rude to a worker so that she does not feel comfortable with me as a client.

Is it ok to ask for stuff like anal? or even atm, cim, french, russian, or even gs?

When asking for stuff like that do the rules change if the girl is a sw, escort or at amp? Will she think i am a pervert if i ask for that stuff, or are working girls expectign that kinda of stuff. I mean does the average sw or escort expect only intercousre and bjs to be requested or are they willing to do more progressive stuff when requested. Should i just come out and ask it bluntly? I get neverous. How do i ask?

I know this may sound so lame,,, and i almost didn't post this , I have only ever used a wroking girl a few times in my life and only for basic stuff, i would kinda like to explore more. Please advise me.

Jake,

Thanks all, for any help you have.

[Rockhunter]

My last girlfriend was a "backdoor-babe". I introduced her to anal sex...it suited her nature, she was submissive and enjoyed being dominated and a little fear added to her excitement. She was a daredevil type in a quiet intelligent package. I enjoyed the feeling of power it gave me over her, although on occasion, it got out of hand. It wasn't dirty, it was exhilirating. It actually didn't feel any tighter than anything else she had, but the idea of entering the "forbiden zone" made every entry exciting. It was debasing though, to her from me, a power trip on my part, not a loving gesture. It was the acting out of a fantasy that made it stimulating for us both.

[AssMaster]

what happened to this forum? some knucklehead comes in and starts talking about some juvenile shit and it all goes down hill?

he'ers my assmanifesto

i like anal sex mostly because i love the female ass. The girl has to have a nice ass in order for me to want to fuck it. since i'm a bonafied ass man it is hard for me to be attracted to a woman unless she does have a really nice round ass. however, sometimes there is something about a girl, a cute face or whatever, that can make me find her sexy. if she dont got the funk in the trunk, though, i'm not interested in her rump.

Most guys whove never tried anal sex probably havent because they dont want to because they think it is dirty or whatever. I think the number of men who really feel this way is pretty low. i know some of my friends who make commetns about anal like it is nasty but later have told me in private that they do it and love it. Same with females as said on this board.

my belief is that most men have an intense desire to buttfuck women and most women are intrigued by the idea too. since it is such a taboo, it makes the whole thing much more intimate. you have to trust the partner not to blab all over town that youre an assfucker or a girl who likes it is the ass.

even still there may be men reading this who want to assfuck their girl but are scared to ask. i dont offer any tips, they've already been presented. i'm more interested in the psychology an anal desire.

the womans ass is obviously much different than a mans, just as much as a woman's breasts are different than a man's. physically spekaing a womans asshole is easier to access that can't be a conicidence.

I do not like the site of a nasty gaping asshole at all. that isnt sexy to me. what is sexy is a tight puckered ring. the asshole is so much tighter than the vagina it is obviously more pleasing to men.

Funny thing is that i thorgouhly enjoy eating pussy but in comparison to ass and oral i don't particularly like fucking it. i love the taste smell etc. of pussy but even when i'm fucking a girl in her vagina, i'm thinking about sticking it in her ass.

I don't consider myself a chauvanist either i love women, but I do enjoy the so-called domination factor. i know some women enjoy anal, but it is mostly for the man's enjoyment. i do not in any way enjoy inflicting pain or any sick stuff like that but I do find it very sexy that a girl would be willing to endure some discomfort to give me her tightest hole.

feedback?

[AssMaster]

chili dog is where you fuck a chick up her ass pull it out with shiton your dick and then tit fuck her. it is a joke, not something people really do.

what you are talking aboutis ass to mouth. first off it is totally differnt for a chick to suck fecal matteroff of your dick. if you want this then both of you are sick motherfuckers. ass to mouth assuming everything is clean can be a fun activity witha mega taboo attached to it.

but honestly we have all spend way too much time on this stupid subject. once i have my dick up a girls ass I have no interest in pulling it out until ive nutted even to put it in her mouth.

[Joe Zop]

...of course, girls can seem to like anything in the movies. Seeming to like it in real life is a bit different, though if there are enough movies about it, sending the message that it's great fun, the line blurs

[Fedup]

...watched a movie yesterday with the fore-mentioned "chilli dog" episodes... rather nasty... girls seemed to like it though... about as weird (to me) as [CodeWord117]...

[Prokofiev]

Fed-Up,

Yes, Doing IT is really no problemo . . .

But your need to make her do it is the problemo . . .

Watch the videos instead. Better yet, watch the videos with some woman and see what she thinks . . .

[pumpkin-eater]

I am proud to report that I had anal sex in the Red Light District in Amsterdam

Yes, sir, it cost 100 euros, but it was worth it. Plus, all prices have gone up in the RLD since the Dutch government started enforcing residency laws on all prostitutes earlier this year.

I had read over and over how anal sex in the RLD was very rare. But, believe it or not, the first lady I asked (after scanning a large selection for the most rounded and plumpest ass) agreed.

One point to keep in mind, you probably won't get to bang her butt doggie-style or even missionary the first time around. Since it was the first time even visiting this lady, she insisted that I lay on my back and that she guide my penis into her butt.

It was beautiful!

[Rubber Nursey]

Hey...I don't have a problem with it at all Fedup! Each to their own I say. *wink* Nah, don't panic....I was only teasing you...

But don't be offended if I turn down any future invitations to your place for a chilli dog and a few beers... LOL

[Fedup]

RN... Look you... it was merely curiosity... I can't imagine a girl wanting to do this (well... maybe the germans), nor would I ask a girl to do it.

Proko seems to think it's no problemo...

[Rubber Nursey]

Ohhhh Fedup...honey...
And to think I used to hold you in such high esteem... *grin*

[Prokofiev]

Wing,
Sounds like you've got it together which might well explain your success. Appreciation and the right approach can make all the difference . . .

Fedup,
Is that really something important to you? Yes, lots of pornos do it but in REAL situations with REAL women, most will find it offensive mainly because you are only trying to degrade them! I'm sure there are a few women out there who DO like it, precisely because of that, but that really becomes more of a submissive activity for the S&M or S&D crowd. If you want your wife or girlfriend to enjoy the activity don't go and make it even "more dirty" for her with that stuff. As far as "chili dogs" are concerned, only once have I had any kind of problem with that. And that includes 300-400 times with at least 10 women. Actually, I find that a little surprising considering we have never used enemas to clean things up before hand - which they always do on porno sets.

-P

[BootyLover]

I believe anal sex is something that create a very strong link between partners. The kind of link that will always make them ready for future sex even if they are no longer in to the relationship. This is phenomenal. Also based on my experience, I can say that nice butted women are more likely to to into anal games. The key things is that compliemnts have raised tehir awareness about the sexiness of their butt. Just add to it and keep on complimenting about the ass without being too much. then make sure you lick her ass at the first encounter if she's horny enough make sure you at least finger her ass softly.

P.S. I've lost a very good piece of ass because i waited for the next encounter. Make sure to always have lube handy. Who knows who you'll meet

[Fedup]

How many of you have found a gal who will (sorry RN) "eat the chili dog?" (suck on it during anal). I have a buddy who swears his ex loved to do it. I find this unlikely, butt then I noticed a bunch of movies at the XXX store that are just for this.

Anybody?

[wingwagon]

First, I am a black man and I have had experience with girlfriends and one night quickies and have been able to get anal in almost all cases.(Actually I hate to end a relationship until I have gotten the booty)

I have found that initiating a large amount of assplay is a really good way at openning them up. I am not shy even before the bedroom to talk about my love of ass and anal sex. So the women often go in knowing I am going to worship their asses (they almost all have incredible, above average asses). I am going to grab it, bite it, lick it and finger it. This of course goes along with doing the things that turn her on.

I guess I am like the Terminator when it comes to anal, I relentlessly pursue it until it is done. However, I am extremely cognizant of pain and will go slow, back off and go slow again until the deed is done. I use a ton of lube and just let the woman know how much she is turning me on and how appreciative I am of her for taking this step.

I don't know, maybe I just give off an aura of a asshound and attract women who secretly want it up the ass.

Just my two cents