Safe Sex

[Starling67]

Hi Guys,

I am an Escort who, although from the Uk, is now living in the Dordogne area of France.I have read many threads and have found that its not just me that cant get what i want lol.I am looking to Escort nice, Polite Buissness men who come to visit, and need a lovely lady on there arm when wining and dining or attending functions etc. Could anyone here help or give out any information as to why its so lovely, but quiet here?

Starling.

[Boberati]

Show me where it was stated that you "are no longer mongering" in your original post about barebacking in the Cambodia thread - I can't find it anywhere. As well, who says you are clear? As I asked you before, when was your last encounter and how much time elapsed from that until you tested for HIV?

[Bareback Bonker]

Oh, and precisely what wisdom does a dumb **** like yourself have to offer regarding HIV transmission after having claimed to bareback more than a thousand SW's over your illustrious "career"?

"Wisdom", none, but then I never professed to. I offered "experience" as you outlined above which is true and relevant to this forum.

SO, what is it? - you have now found some minute speck of intelligence and feel compelled to dole out your own scientific "facts"?

I have no idea what you are talking about.

Unless you have not noticed shit-for-brains....

*yawn*

Now get on with your hagged-out dried-up life you pencil-dicked bag of rotting flesh!

(For those unfamiliar with this lovely gentleman, check out the Cambodia Picture Gallery for a more complete image)

And you call me offensive? LOL! What was it you said?

I won't judge you .... you douchebag

Also...

Not that morals are really a big part of this forum, but do you ever think about the fact that, at some point, you WILL become infected with HIV and not know it, and then go on spreading a deadly disease to the destitute women that you somehow convince to have unprotected sex with?

And...

However, this stupid assmuncher would never see it in the Safe Sex forum, as he clearly has no regard for anything even resembling safe sex. If there is a shred of truth to what he is saying, he is not only a danger to himself and the women that he may be infecting, but quite possibly to others who frequent this website.

Not exactly NICE yourself, are you? And I am still waiting for an explanation or answer to my question; If I am CLEAR and NO LONGER MONGERING, how can I be a danger to anyone?

Well? Will you answer, or hide away?

You accused me twice of being a danger to others and yet in reality, I am less of a danger than you or just about anyone else on this forum because I am no longer "mongering".

The truth is, you and your cronies in the "Cambodia Picture Gallery" are a bunch of BIGOTED idiots and THUGS.

[Boberati]

Oh, and precisely what wisdom does a dumb **** like yourself have to offer regarding HIV transmission after having claimed to bareback more than a thousand SW's over your illustrious "career"?

SO, what is it? - you have now found some minute speck of intelligence and feel compelled to dole out your own scientific "facts"?

Unless you have not noticed shit-for-brains, all of these posts are "opinions", just as are yours. But thanks very much for pointing out the obvious. By the way, what you mentioned (if you even bothered to read my complete post) has no bearing on HIV transmission if the person is wearing a condom, which was actually the whole point of my post and the one that I was responding to.

Now get on with your hagged-out dried-up life you pencil-dicked bag of rotting flesh!

(For those unfamiliar with this lovely gentleman, check out the Cambodia Picture Gallery for a more complete image)

[Bareback Bonker]

The reason that straight males have such a hard time contracting HIV is that the virus basically needs to enter through their urethra. Now, think about that - even if you were having unprotected sex with a known HIV+
person, enough of her infectious fluids would have to be pounded into that tiny slit at the end of your dick and somehow make their way into your system before you flushed everything out with a big exploding load of cum.

Misinformed idiocy like this is precisely the reason that anyone with concerns should get tested and only read (or listen to) authoritative opinion.

There is more than one way in which the HIV virus can infect a male, some studies have suggested it may enter through the exposed foreskin of an intact (ie: non-circumcised) penis. There are other possibilites, the ONLY truth is that no-one is completely sure.

Boberati, handing out your "opinion" as fact is not only ill advised, it is also incredibly irresponsible and clearly demonstrates you have no regard for anything even resembling safe sex.

I suggest you either 1.) state that your posts are only your opinions or 2.) keep your "opinions" to yourself.

I am considering posting a FACT of my own here, but with all the bigotry going on I will have to give this more consideration.

HTH HAND,

BBBonker.

[Boberati]

Have you been tested for HIV?

If all of your encounters have been protected, it is highly unlikely (to the extreme) that you would have been infected.

The ongoing blurb about condoms is that they are 97% effective - but what does that mean in the real world of statistics? The other 3% covers 1. Breakage. 2. Improper use. 3. People who lie or don't remember exactly what happened in a sexual encounter because they were too drunk or were not paying attention closely enough (like "Oh yeah, I forgot to mention that I also had unprotected anal"). 4. The moral majority stance of this very fucked-up US government that really would prefer that no one engages in sex of any kind.

Can you be infected via small cuts, etc.? Theoretically, but the studies that try to recreate this in a laboratory setting are using conservative examples with fluids that are many times more infectious and in quantities that are well beyond what would be present in real life. HIV likes to be injected in an enclosed environment, and that is why vaginal and anal receptive sex are the two riskiest forms of unprotected sex. HIV, unlike many other STD's does not live outside of it's host, and is therefore the most fragile of all.

The reason that straight males have such a hard time contracting HIV is that the virus basically needs to enter through their urethra. Now, think about that - even if you were having unprotected sex with a known HIV+
person, enough of her infectious fluids would have to be pounded into that tiny slit at the end of your dick and somehow make their way into your system before you flushed everything out with a big exploding load of cum.

Check out a couple of forums - www.thebody.com and www.aidsmeds.com. Especially the "Fears" section of Aidsmeds. Ask them your question and I think you will start to feel a lot better real soon.

[Lorenz]

While fucking with a young (she said 19 yo) Thai girl (professional prostitute) taking her from the back my condom broke.

I realized it just when I came out, so I have been fucking her for about 2 minutes with my glandis in contact with her vagina and sexual fluid.

I immediately washed it carefully with plenty of soap and water, I pissed, and I watched and carefully examinated my penis: no any sign of little scares, or cuts, or wounds or red skin, the skin was normal as usual.

Supposing that the girl is 100% HIV positive.

What do you think is the risk of getting HIV?

What the risk to get other diseases?

Should I use any special cream or medicaments to prevent other diseases?

Thanks for sharing your experiences and knowledge!

Actually I'm quite sure that, as all the skin of my penis was perfectly intact, there is no way HIV could have been transmitted to me, but who knows?

[Buzz00]

Thought this might interest some of you guys :

FRIDAY, Jan. 6 (HealthDay News) -- New research suggests that the gonorrhea-like condition known as urethritis, perhaps the most common sexually transmitted disease, can spread to men when they're on the receiving end of fellatio.


"This one really nails it down," said Dr. Hunter Handsfield, a professor of medicine at the University of Washington who wrote a commentary about the findings.

Urethritis, a condition related to a number of health problems, such as urinary tract infections and some sexually transmitted diseases, causes inflammation of the urethra. It can lead to genital discharge, burning during urination and redness and swelling at the tip of the penis, said Dr. Jeffrey D. Klausner, director of STD Prevention and Control Services with the San Francisco Department of Public Health. The symptoms "usually signify an infection due to a germ, like a bacteria or virus," he said.

Urethritis usually goes away on its own or is easily treated with antibiotics, Klausner said. But in some cases, it can result in serious complications, including permanent damage to the urethra in both men and women, especially if it's not treated.

According to Handsfield, urethritis brings more men to sexually transmitted disease clinics in the United States than any other condition or disease, and it may be the most common STD among both men and women.

In the new study, Australian researchers recruited 329 men with urethritis symptoms that weren't related to gonorrhea and 307 healthy men. The researchers tested the men and asked them about their sexual habits.

About five percent of the cases were directly related to germs from the mouth, including adenoviruses and a form of herpes. The researchers also found that urethritis without an apparent cause was more common in men who were on the receiving end of oral sex from their female or male partners.

The study findings appear in the Dec. 28 online edition of the Journal of Infectious Diseases.

The research points to the potential influence of normally innocuous germs in the mouth, Handsfield said. "It suggests that some of these cases might be due to bacteria that are entirely normal when they're in the mouth but cause inflammation in the urethra."

This also suggests that men shouldn't assume that getting a case of urethritis from a partner is a sign that she or he has been unfaithful, Handsfield said. The urethritis may have simply come from normal mouth germs.

By contrast, there's no evidence that urethritis is easily passed to women during cunnilingus, Handsfield said. In fact, he said, cunnilingus seems to be safer when it comes to STD transmission than fellatio.

What does the urethritis finding mean for sexually active men? "Men who receive oral sex need to be concerned about STDs and talk to their doctor about what screening tests might be appropriate or how to reduce their risk for getting infections," Klausner said.

[Wanderlust1]

Might be from adult onset (Type II) Diabetes. She should go in for a physical and get a blood test. She was at risk based on her weight for developing Type II Diabetes. Other symptoms include dry mouth/thirsty, frequent urination, etc. BTW, not the end of the world if she does have Type II Diabetes. Can be managed with diet, exercise and oral meds. But will need to be monitored and managed. You can do more research on this on the internet.

[Elmo]

Has anyone used both Kimono Micro-thins and Beyond 7 condoms? If so, which do you prefer and why?

I have been using Kimono micro-thins for a while, but am looking for something that is even thinner with even more sensitivity. Have heard good things about Beyond 7, but they are pricy. Should I switch to Beyond 7 or stick with the micro-thins? Thanks.

[AssMaster]

I was a fairly active hobbyist for about 3 years. During this time, I may have engaged in 50-60 sex acts. All vaginal intercourse was covered. I gave bare cunnilingus 2 or 3 times; rimjobs many times. I have read on reputable medical sites that it is virtually impossible to contract HIV these ways. I have also received a few BBBJs, but I've also read that getting HIV that way is nearly impossible.

I stopped mongering shortly after I got married (had 2 or 3 rounds after the wedding--it was a hard habit to break, but I did it).

Now I had had unprotected sex of every variety with my wife prior to our wedding, while I was still mongering. I felt it was legit to do so since I was protected with the workers. I might also add that I only did lingerie models, a few asian masage girls, and only one "street" walker one time--that's the only I'm most worried about, even though it was covered.

I have absolutely no symptoms of any STD, but I'm a worrier. I am quite overweight and so is my wife.

However, here is the issue: My wife has recently experienced a rather radical weight loss. She was well over 300 pounds at one point, and has since lost about 60 pounds. We don't know the timeframe of her weight loss, but one day she got on the scale and weighed 60 pounds less than her all time high of a few years ago.

She has NOT been actively dieting or exercising--although her eating habits have changed. Her weight loss is therefore not "unexplained," but rather "hard to believe." She's had a new job for awhile that keeps her away from snacking, etc. Her exercise increase is 0.

I have NOT lost any weight at all during this time. I feel fine. She feels healthier than ever.

Is weight loss alone a symptom?

I know someone's going to say: Get tested. Easy to say. Others can do it. I don't think I really have reason to be scared, but I am scared to death of getting tested. I have not engaged in any unsafe behavior--the most dangerous has been protected vaginal sex.

Tell me: Do I need to be worried?

[Hijinxjohnson]

However you can get HPV even with a condom, HPV is the most common STD and most of the time not very serious but your wife should get an exam because it can lead to cervical cancer.

[Hijinxjohnson]

usually my friends always ask me to do cbj but i am not afraid and always ask the ladies to do the bbbj. my last fj in hc, after bbbj, i experience itchiness in the urinary track whenever i pass [CodeWord109]. i am so afraid and shy to see doctor. the weird thing is the itchiness seems to come from the location where the testicle tube and [CodeWord109] track from bladder, so what the hack, i just masturbate to let the sperm come out. guess what, it was cured. still don't know whether this is std. in my mind i want to do cbj, but my little "brother" wants to feel the real lips. every time i do bbbj, i have mixture of feeling.

non specific gonheraea, i am sorry to tell you but thats my opinion, see a doctor soon!

[Freshcum]

usually my friends always ask me to do cbj but i am not afraid and always ask the ladies to do the bbbj. my last fj in hc, after bbbj, i experience itchiness in the urinary track whenever i pass [CodeWord109]. i am so afraid and shy to see doctor. the weird thing is the itchiness seems to come from the location where the testicle tube and [CodeWord109] track from bladder, so what the hack, i just masturbate to let the sperm come out. guess what, it was cured. still don't know whether this is std. in my mind i want to do cbj, but my little "brother" wants to feel the real lips. every time i do bbbj, i have mixture of feeling.

[Viator]

Hi everybody,

apologies if the question has been asked & answered countless times on this folder, or if there is no sure answer to give. I'll try asking anyway: what are the chances for a guy to contract AIDS or hepatitis by having condom-protected sex with a hooker?

I have - let's say so - a covenant with my wife that I am only going to have oral sex with other women because she is frightened by sexually contracted deseases. I have kept my word to her in all circumstances, but I am growing a bit tired of this particular limitation, all the more so because in my country street walkers are starting to charge the same fee for BJs and BJ + intercourse. :-(

Besides, I am questioning her wisdom: is there any *significant* chance that I get infected by having protected intercourse? Are AIDS and all (or some) kinds of hepatitis transmissible through the vaginal fluids that may come in contact with the unprotected basis of penis during pelvic activity, or even through minor (perhaps invisible) cuts all over the woman's body? Obviously, I do not plan to have intercourse with addicts and such, but I wouldn't mind getting a complete service with some of the better-looking, higher-echelon hookers once in a time.

Is there any reasonably definite answer to my question? Any web site I can visit to improve my level of information? All sites I was able to google tend to be somewhat evasive: "condom decreases risk, but..."; "you should never have unprotected sex, even if no level of protection can fully guarantee...". I realize that absolute certainty is not of this world, but I am looking for some circumstantial advice from an aknowledgable person marking the boundaries of probability, in order for me and my wife to come to a rational decision.

Thanks in advance for any help and please keep up the excellent discussion! :-)

Viator