Safe Sex

[Dickhead]

Excellent point. Safe sex has many parameters. Not getting robbed is key to safe sex. Picking up street walkers is very dangerous. They look like they are alone but they are not. BUT I don't think incall is that safe either. You never know who is in the closet or filming you or taking down your plate number to blackmail you. I like to have the woman come to my hotel (outcall) and would use hotels even if it were my home town. I know this drives up the cost in the short run but there is cost and then there is cost.

I prepare the room by, among other things, disconnecting the phone and putting it in the safe along with my other valuables. I have everything like the fee, condoms, lube, toys, etc., ready in the bed side table so I don't have to let the gal out of my sight. I make sure to have the correct change but then I have some extra money stashed in a convenient place in case I need some extras. This helps you stick to a budget also.

You gotta watch your ID as close as you watch your wallet. Not only are stolen IDs valuable by themselves but there is the potential for blackmail and burglary. Everybody knows about keeping stuff in their socks but I like to also tape the wad to the inside of the sock.

Also, if you order a hooker from a cabbie, don't give him your room number. Meet the gal in the bar or lobby. This is also why I don't like ordering hookers from bellhops or desk clerks; they already know your room number.

Play safe, live fast, die young, and leave a good looking corpse.

Dickhead

[deep4u31]

Since this is the WSG, there is another dimension of safe sex besides protecting yourself from STDs that I would like to add.
That is.. sex without getting into "trouble." I only deal with incalls and only apartment workers. I don't want anyone knowing where I live or in my house. I prefer to be one-on-one with the woman, I don't like other guys or even other women around which is why I prefer apartments.
I don't deal with street action- much too risky for me. Once or twice I hung out with the fellas and had a little street action but I wouldn't do it alone. I also prefer foreign women. They're usually very respectful and really want to please you. I've also noticed that they are more comfortable with their sexuality and enjoy it more. I've had many situations where I paid for 30 mins. and ended up staying for over an hour because they enjoyed it so much and didn't want to stop. One even asked me for my phone number telling me that she wanted to see me outside of "the business." It may seem limiting but I feel comfortable with my approach to this. I don't need to do this but I love women and this is a way to have plenty without all of the headaches...lol.

Hi guys, it is important to use condoms because AIDS is not the only STD out there. Also keep in mind that a condom does not protect you from everything. Herpes can still be transmitted because the condom does not cover your whole body and any skin contact can lead to possible transmission.(most likely at the base of the penis) Also a condom will not prevent you from getting an infestation of lice commonly called "crabs" and crabs do not start to itch until a week or two after you get them. (crabs are easy to get rid of with a cream you get at the drug store) I have had unprotected oral sex with dozens of women and protected sex with more than I can count . I have never had any STD but thats just dumb luck. The rate of AIDS has gone way down as a sexually transmmited disease because gay men understand the risk of anal sex, but other sexually transmited diseases are still going strong so wear a condom and if your in a relationship you should think twice about your personal risk

[Easy Rider]

Braces are dangerous. They can cause open sores on the young girls gums. And that can cause her to get aids, if she's going down on some guy who has aids, and gets some of his come onto that sore.

Current fad amoung young hookers in Matamoros is to buy braces. Even though they might not really need em. They are fashionable. But they make me nervous.....

Does the doctor agree with that point?

Curious I've been hangin out extensively with *****s for the last three years in Matamoros, and have yet to even hear of my first aids victim. But I've also yet to meet a needle using druggie there. There is a certain amount of MJ, coke, and crack, but no mainlining of anything.

Thank God.....

[Guess Who]

J.G.
I hear ya, I didn't know about the caffeine either. However, he's the doc and I put trust in that. I told a buddy about him and it turned out he coincidentally saw him previously for a similar episode. He needed treatment though unfortunately. The doc also said I may have had something but fought it off. Who knows, but thankfully nothing showed up. I've heard horror stories of having to get your dick reamed, then antibiotics. I guess that's heaven compared to other things you can catch.

[Member #4239]

There are multiple causes of burning with urination(which in medical jargon is called "dysuria"), but I am not aware of caffeine being one of them. I am glad you're doing better now.
There is no question that certain types of sexual activity carry a higher risk and certain others are relatively "low" risk. In my opinion however, when it comes to the HIV infection, even a "low" risk of exposure is too high a risk. Any prostitute is HIV positive unless proven otherwise. Therefore I recommend condoms for any kind of sexual activity with a prostitute -no exceptions. Have fun, but do it intelligently. J.G.

[Guess Who]

hey guys,
i appreciate your responses. i'll also add i never have intercourse with a prostitute. i guess i'm just scared shitless, protected or not. the only thing i ever do is get bj's. but i'll admit, sometimes its a bbbj. a while back i thought i had something. when i urinated it felt like fire was coming out, no discharge though. i immediatley saw a doctor who specialized in std's. he took a [CodeWord109] sample and said i had nothing. i guess if you have an infestion of some sort that white blood cells collect as they fight it off and show up in [CodeWord109]. he did tell me that alot of caffeine or soda can sometimes cause this to happen as well. needless to say i drank gallons of water and was fine. anyone ever have anything like that?

[David]

Brett,

Let me add that AIDS is not the only STD you need fear ... even if you don't wear a condom to protect you from AIDS, wear one to protect you from a multitude of other nasty (very contagious) STD's.

David

[Prokofiev]

Brett,
While I agree with almost your entire post, you leave the impression that unprotected sex with a prostitute is OK. I would NEVER have intercorse with a pro (vaginal or anal) without using a condom. All reputable sources recommend this, not only for AIDS prevention, but all other STD's. BBBJ is probably safe from an AIDS perspective, but other STD's are possible( i.e. herpes). I always use a condom for BJ's because it makes me feel safer and I can sleep at night knowing I have protected myself at the highest possible level. I also use anti-bacterial soap or "Handi-Wipes" after sex for the same reason. Needless to say I have never had any STD, but it is likely that my level of protection is a bit of overkill. But either way, unprotected intercourse is a very bad idea. . .
-P

Hi guess who..glad to see you here. I think the last post covered it. It is not easy to get HIV through the penis. Even if she has full blown AIDS its not likely you would get it from her. The study quoted in the last post is correct, and many others involving prostitutes show that getting AIDS through sex is not easy. Almost none of the prostitutes studied had the virus except the ones that use needles to shoot drugs. The bad news is that a very high number of prostitutes are drug users so many did have the virus. Still a man is unlikely to get AIDS from an infected female unless he has open sores.(even then its not likely) The one very dangerous thing to do is anal sex. Thats because the ass is not meant for fucking and there is usually some bleeding involved, If the guy doing the fucking has AIDS then he may pass the virus to the woman or man he is fucking. Mostly men are reasonably safe from getting AIDS sexually unless they have open sores that come into contact with an infected persons body fluids. Or they allow another man to fuck them in their ass. Gay men get it mostly through anal sex, oral sex is not a high risk. The most common way of getting AIDS now is through sharing needles to use drugs. But if you already have a sexually transmitted disease then you may have the open sores that could allow the virus into your body.................The simple way to say it is there are two high risk things that you should never do. ..1......Do not share needles to shoot up drugs. ..2...Do not allow a man to fuck you in your ass.......If you avoid those two things you are at low risk...........

[Prokofiev]

GuessWho,
Why would that make any difference? If she swallows the sperm it is gone and dead in an acidic environment. In her mouth, saliva has a negative affect on the HIV virus, although nothing like stomach acid. Don't you think she will have a glass of water, food or maybe even brush her teeth before having sex with you? The HIV virus is relatively delicate and is not going to last in her mouth for a long period of time. No cases of HIV thru kissing or oral sex have been reported. But there has been a study of homosexual men in SF who had routine oral sex without condoms with KNOWN HIV infected partners. At the end of the study, no one was HIV+. None of this proves anything except that it is extremely dificult to get the virus though oral transmission - either giving or receiving.
I suppose you are thinking that she has a mouthful of sperm at the point that she gives you a BBBJ and that the pool of HIV infected semen in her mouth could travel up your urethra and infect you. Not very likely - but I suppose possible. Try talking with her first! Or offer her a breath mint or one of the new Listerine Oral Care Strips - which supposedly kill germs, but at least make your breath smell good!

[Guess Who]

Brett,
I wonder, let's say you get a bbbj from a girl who takes it in her mouth, or swallows. She may have had many guys before you that day or night. Wouldn't you say that shoots down the minimal risk when receiving a bj theory?

Safe sex is a relative thing, It is nearly imposible for a male to get AIDS from a blowjob unless he has open sores on his penis and the person sucking him has open sores in her/his mouth. It is also very unlikely that a man will get AIDS from intercourse with an infected woman, unless he has open sores on his penis.
The most common causes of getting AIDS are when drug addicts share needles, or from anal sex. Homosexual men where the first group to be identified with AIDS. Gay men that had anal sex would spread the virus to the men they fucked.
Once safe sex practices became common most gay men stopped having anal sex without condoms and that made the virus much less common among gay men. Unfortunately the virus still spread between drug users who would share needles.
Also the virus spread through third world countries that did not educate people about safe sex practices. In many parts of Africa the virus spreads through hetrosexual (male-female)sex. There are a few reasons for that and some of those include a common practice of anal sex to avoid pregnancy, a common practice of body peircing of the scrotum and penis in some cultures, and lack of health care to treat common venereal diseases that cause open wounds on the genitals.
This forum is for men who want to have sex with women so our main concern should be to avoid getting common sexually transmitted diseases.
Wearing condoms is the most effective way to do that, but you can still get herpes and some other viruses even if you wear condoms because they only cover part of you. There is always some risk.

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