Sexual Addiction

[ChrisC30]

I for one believe "aphrodesiacs" do exist. Booze of just about any kind can do the job if taken in sufficient quantities, but too much as we all know will knock the girl out cold, and make her thus no fun.

There's the drugs, Xstacy for instance, as well as various other street drugs that have sexual side-effects of atleast a minor level.

As for the rumored "spanish fly" like substances that are rumored to make a woman jump you almost instantly for no reason, I doubt they exist.

Almost all of the ones that I know of either "enhance" an already occurring activity, or weaken one's judgement. So if you want to
spice things up with your girlfriend, something can be done along this line, but you probably won't find an instant "fuck me" drug.

[XXL]

aphrodisiacs and such things

the popular statement that there is no known substance that will artificially increase people's willingness to have sex needs to be qualified. illicit drugs often do, and i suspect this is the real reason why governments cling to repressive policies in spite of the incredible social cost.

much has been written about avoiding addict prostitutes on the grounds that they are more likely than the regular ones to be unreliable and diseased. there may be some wisdom in this, but many a monger, including myself, repeatedly have had the best sex of their life with girls who happened to be high on one stuff or another. this type of experience has been underreported in whoring discussions, for reasons not difficult to grasp.

this doesn't entail that all illicit drugs are ideal aphrodisiacs. for one, being horny and being a good lover are two different things. c*caine and speed, to name two of the stuffs that will have girls climb up a wall pleading for cock, will make you horny as hell, while at the same time diminishing your capacity to sustain an erection. "enhanced willingness but failing ability to perform" is a phrase i've seen used to describe this predicament.

interestingly, this may give a clue as to why viagra was banned in japan for a while: it effectively enables men to have great sex while high on stimulants. not astonishingly, drug dealers have a sideline selling viagra.

had the fda been able to anticipate this perverse side-effect, viagra probably would never have made it to chemist's shelves.

[Warpig2000]

From what I've read about you RN I could only wish I was free tommorow night. LOL Perth ain't exactly right next door to Detroit Michigan. But Detroit is next door to Canada (Windsor) so the commonwealth is in my back yard. God Save the Queen and all her lovely little ladies of the evening

Trust me that the lady treated me very well, Carah is an absolute sweetheart. And RN, you are more than welcome to backchannel her for my email adress (tell her who you are more or less), then backchannel me ;-) @----;--

[Rubber Nursey]

Woohoo Warpig! That's fantastic!! Wow, you really went all out...I don't suppose you're free tomorrow night, are you? *wink, wink* lol

See...even us bad-assed working girls enjoy being treated like a princess every now and then! (Maybe even more so than regular girls, actually). Sounds like she had an incredible time. I think you can safely assume that you made that woman's day. And hopefully she showed you how much she appreciated it...over and over and over again...

[Organicgrowth]

Continuing the serious note: anyone interested in taking "sexual substances" should read:

http://www.sexinfo101.com/ot_aphro.shtml

This is a well balanced short essay on the subject. Let me tell you in brief, there is no KNOWN substance that will really make your desire "go" (or should I say cum!).

There are however thousands of products that will give you a psychological / placebo boost... Unless you absolutely have to (...and I really can't see why you would...) I'd urge anyone to stay clear of the fraudulent love potion industry.

I have treated 8 priapisms, well in excess of 45 physically traumatised penises, and at least half a dozen penises with serious urticaria (penis skin reactions to nasty substances placed on the “member”). Sometimes it beggars belief….

Why not try something new, something really radical? Try the natural / unassisted methods… (appropriately covered, as necessary off course!)

Regards,

Havanaman

[Warpig2000]

Actually I need to Thank RN. I put her advise to use with a wonderful gal in Windsor Ontario (Canada)- yes, an escort...
but I thought I'd leave you a link to what she had to say about our encounter:
http://www.adultmb.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?threadid=1773

Havanaman, our little lady from OZ is right, a little rommance is a great lubricant regardless of whether the encounter is a sure thing or not. It was one of the more memorable ones I've had.

[Rubber Nursey]

"Just set your GPS to these coordinates, jump in the open-top and start driving, when the GPS start bleeping you just arrived…

...unless of course, you don't live in America. If that's the case, just make sure you have an echo sounder as well as a GPS, and then you can throw a line over the side of your open-top and do a spot of deep-sea fishing while you drive....errr ...sail. *cheeky grin*


PS. BadMan, On a more serious note, I have read that many people have had severe allergic reactions to Spanish Fly, and that people with certain medical conditions should never touch it. You might want to do a bit of research if you're considering taking it, just in case. And like with any drug, giving it to someone without their knowledge/consent could be extremely dangerous. (As someone who has been on the receiving end of a dose of Rohypnol, I just felt compelled to mention that).

[Organicgrowth]

RN,

((You could try conversation, gifts, compliments, laughter, dancing, foreplay....they are all things that make women horny)).

Excellent! Exactly what I was going to say, and also add, in agreement with Prokofiev, …con mucho dinero ($, £, Y…). LOL

BadMan,

Tiajuana is in Mexico. It’s classification is: Tijuana, Baja California, Mexico, and can be found at Latitude 32.53 deg. North, Longitude 117.021 deg. West. Just set your GPS to these coordinates, jump in the open-top and start driving, when the GPS start bleeping you just arrived… ;-)

Alternatively, search the net for S-fly… a lot of it and similar products are advertised for mutual consent usage… However, I still feel that RN’s suggestions to you are the best, better than any artificial chemicals; let your own / your partners human-chemistry work for you…

Regards,

Havanaman

[nai]

Originally posted by WindStar
That's not what sexual addiction is all about... It's about engaging in sexual activity compulsively while deliberately ignoring dangerous excessive risks to health, reputation, financial well being and/or, perhaps most significantly, ... to important primary relationships.

at least as it pertains to gaining control of a compulsive pursuit of the hobby - if you start to compare what you spend on fun to a non-elective debt - e.g. rent - it can help at least point out that the compulsive pursuit of the hobby is not always rational. finally doing the math that each month you lay off is 1 1/2 months of rent you can keep in the bank can be a shocking revelation.

Originally posted by badman
Just wondering where i could get stuff that could make woman horny?

beer and/or money seem to work. if they don't, a personality helps, too.

[BadMan]

Hi chrisC30,

Where is Tiajuana?

[ChrisC30]

That'd be "spanish fly".

Drive to Tiajuana, 3 AM is the best time. Park your car, find a dark alley near the center of town, call out "I want to buy some spanish fly....", someone will help you.

[Rubber Nursey]

LMAO Proko!

Badman. Let's see...
You could try conversation, gifts, compliments, laughter, dancing, foreplay....they are all things that make women horny. If you are considering dropping a pill in a woman's drink, however...all you're gonna end up with is a sexual assault charge.

[Prokofiev]

Bad,
The only stuff I'm aware of is $50 and $100 bills . . .

[BadMan]

Just wondering where i could get stuff that could make woman horny? I heard that there are some sort of pills that can make a woman hot and want to have sex. is that true?

[WindStar]

Originally posted by Big_Leo69
Well, once I started to play around a lot, I lost interest in my partner...she doesn't know about my hidden activities, but she is probably wondering what's going on...maybe this is a common issue here.

You raise a good point Leo. And one for which there is no good answer. I experienced the same thing when I started to "play around." But I think it's very important to understand the reason you do and never forget that there is a reason why your with you're partner and not last night's one nighter.

What I will suggest to you is this. If you play around a lot and find yourself getting "addicted" to the lifestyle and/or some of the "other" women you're with, go out with that "extracurricular" interest a SECOND or even THIRD time. You MAY notice that the "novelty" of that first nighter has worn off. IF so you may find yourself better able to appreciate your "prime!"

I hope this helps.