Sexual Addiction

[Pronto91]

I think sex addict is way overused term, coined by women whose guys wanted to screw any other women but her. They had to make sense out of it.

Cheers.

I had never thought of this angle. Well stated!

[SuperRaven]

Hi,

Yes I would agree on your points, I only add that I have heard of girls who do think like men, but I bet same as you that they are few and far between.

I think we are programmed to go after many women. For us quantity is more important then quality because we recuperate fast, less then a day and we ca go for another round. Women have minimum of 9 months recuperation period and that is why for them quality is more important then quantity. That is why they are attracted to handsome (healthy) , rich (good provider) , powerful or famous (leader) kind of guys. That is why they cannot understand why Arnold Shwarzeneger screwed his house maid (poor Hispanic) when he is with such beautiful and prominent Kennedy wife of his. They simply cannot understand how sweet that is. Their brain is just different then ours.

I get incredibly bored very fast. It is enough for me to screw exceptional FKK girls few times to get me not to pick them again but some new ones. Imagine just how is with wife when she is nowhere near age, skills and imagination of FKK girls.

I think sex addict is way overused term, coined by women whose guys wanted to screw any other women but her. They had to make sense out of it.

Cheers.

[Hedonian]

I am always surprised why women (in general) want to have only one partner. I love having different girls, it's the little things that make it interesting, they way this girl moans or this girl flinches when you go in the first time or this girl does this and that.

Are most men interested in sex with many partners or this part of sex addict behaviour?

I really have no idea why I can't just never stick to just one.

I think we are programmed to go after many women. For us quantity is more important then quality because we recuperate fast, less then a day and we ca go for another round. Women have minimum of 9 months recuperation period and that is why for them quality is more important then quantity. That is why they are attracted to handsome (healthy) , rich (good provider) , powerful or famous (leader) kind of guys. That is why they cannot understand why Arnold Shwarzeneger screwed his house maid (poor Hispanic) when he is with such beautiful and prominent Kennedy wife of his. They simply cannot understand how sweet that is. Their brain is just different then ours.

I get incredibly bored very fast. It is enough for me to screw exceptional FKK girls few times to get me not to pick them again but some new ones. Imagine just how is with wife when she is nowhere near age, skills and imagination of FKK girls.

I think sex addict is way overused term, coined by women whose guys wanted to screw any other women but her. They had to make sense out of it.

Cheers.

[SuperRaven]

I am always surprised why women (in general) want to have only one partner. I love having different girls, it's the little things that make it interesting, they way this girl moans or this girl flinches when you go in the first time or this girl does this and that.

Are most men interested in sex with many partners or this part of sex addict behaviour?

I really have no idea why I can't just never stick to just one.

[The Hammer1169]

As far as I'm concerned, this term 'sex addict' is thrown around far too much, and really like many of these disorders started in Hollweird. The bottom line is sex feels good and people want to feel good. The true disorder is when someone can't feel good or is frigid.

From the time men hit preadolescence we are wired to procreate and pursue sex. The real shame is when people or entities make one feel ashamed for having urges out of our control.

Most men that do have an issue sexually are not sex addicts, but rather are sexually deviants. This crosses over from pursuing women for sexual gratification and relationships to enjoying harming a woman, or sexually perverse behavior. I think pornography viewing is perfectly natural as well. Men are visually stimulated and naked women in the act of sex is pleasurable to us. Now clearly, if a man is glued to his computer all day, masturbating repeatedly to the point he turns away from former hobbies or human relationships and to the extent there is an interference in daily routine and life, there is an issue. At this point however we are dealing with obsessive behavior rather than sexual addiction.

I think one of the greatest causes of social tension in our society is the indoctrination as young children in the belief that sex is dirty and that normal sexual feelings and desires should be suppressed. This leads to massive frustration, broken marriages, and feelings of guilt and shame for something that is entirely normal. The Christian church is behind most of this.

Women really suffer from this, and it often translates into sexual dysfunction or frigidity. My wife is a former stripper from Mexicali. We talked allot about her clients. Most were married to women who cut them off sexually or drastically reduced sex, and whom were prudes in the bedroom. The majority pursued oral sex in particular because wives won't perform it. She said most dumped on her about how frustrated they were, how they just wanted their wives to be sexy and have a little nasty sex on occasion, and overwhelmingly they said they would not frequent sex clubs if their wives were more receptive, attempted to be sexy on occasion, and would open up sexually.

The good thing for me is my wife knows this! So, when I want nasty I get it. Last night was blissful!

[DarwinP]

I always see my self lying in a bed with some escorts.

I lurk into escorting website like www.adultsearch.com Erosguide city vibe. And etc.

Just to see some pictures of provider posting their ads. And I usually meet some kind and sweet

Providers, hahah I often masturbate by looking at their sexy photos and when time comes.

I'm going to call them.

[SuperRaven]

Yes totally agree, I would bet everyone who posts on here is on that side of ledger. To be honest I am happy being addicted, never want to quit. EVER.

I would go further to say that a great majority of men would fall into the sex addict category.

[JoeBaker75]

I would go further to say that a great majority of men would fall into the sex addict category.

[Henri Dufresne]

Guys,

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If we consider average rate per minute is $2. 50 (and it is a nice average). It means one hour video chat with an host will cost $150. Two hours $300. You pay so much money and the girl will almost do nothing for you.

On the other hand, a sex worker in the RLD of Amsterdam or in London will cost 200 euros ($261) and you ll have a great service. So. Save your money to travel. Plan mongering trip but don't waste your money on webcam girls.

Here is a good website to help you stop webcam girls:

http://stopcamgirls.com/

[SuperRaven]

Just completed the sex test, I would say that most of the users of this website are addicts according to the web site. I say you can make a test to prove anything. I would go further to say that a great majority of men would fall into the sex addict category. Haaaa online sex addicts test.

[IndoAussie]

Think of it this way. Think of yourself (your body) as a car. We all know cars are made of parts, just like the human body is made of parts. We all know that automotive parts only have a certain life and you can only get so many miles on a car or its parts. Do you want to be wasting the miles you have in your dick on your hand? I think not. I prefer to extend the life of mine and I hope to have 18-20 year old chick's bouncing on my cock when I'm well into my later years of life. I mean, I hope that I can still get it up and perform in my later years.

Fitz

Or on the other hand (pun intended) , think of sex like a game. The more you practice, the better the performance.

If your balls don't know what they are supposed to do how would they produce the optimum sperm?

It is not a matter of what you think, we are trying to establish some scientific bases here.

[Errol Flynn]

to see if you qualify as a 'sex addict'. (and yes, there is also a link to becoming a 'certified sex addiction therapist'. not sure if the additional qualification of being a 'sex addict' actually helps!). (it did give mr. w00ds an excuse for his 'behavior')

http://www.sexhelp.com/sast.cfm

so i took the test, and low and behold, according to them i'm a sex addict (and need their help). funny thing is, compared to a lot of you sick bastards i think i'm pretty normal. just kidding. but the tells in this test are that they use the same questions that the anti alcohol tests use to prove you're an alcoholic: "has alcohol ever effected your performance the next day?" duh, if you've ever bent one on you've had a hangover. if you're near perfect you only did it once, but most of us have to learn that lesson a few times, i don't think everyone who's ever had a hangover is an alcoholic."has sex ever interfered with your career?", well, unless you're an amoeba i'll bet it has. you wouldn't be a sexual being if it didn't. the question should be has sex ruined your career, but even then you might just have had bad luck. so, after taking this test i still don't know whether my proclivities and the time and resources i devote to the pursuit of sex (both solo and with others) are normal or cause for great alarm. what i do know is another do-gooder ngo is trying to make money off of me. no thanks.

[Member #4171]

Good for you, Dude!

Whether I am addicted or not, I like my addiction and there are volumes of information on how orgasms benefit men's health. Psychiatrists can draw their imaginary lines of propriety all they want, but for me. I'm going to relieve my throbbing knob.

[Bobsthrobbinknob]

to see if you qualify as a 'sex addict'. (and yes, there is also a link to becoming a 'certified sex addiction therapist'. not sure if the additional qualification of being a 'sex addict' actually helps!).

http://www.sexhelp.com/sast.cfm

whether i am addicted or not, i like my addiction and there are volumes of information on how orgasms benefit men's health. psychiatrists can draw their imaginary lines of propriety all they want, but for me. i'm going to relieve my throbbing knob.

[Member #4171]

to see if you qualify as a 'sex addict'. (and yes, there is also a link to becoming a 'certified sex addiction therapist'. not sure if the additional qualification of being a 'sex addict' actually helps!). (it did give mr.w00ds an excuse for his 'behavior')

http://www.sexhelp.com/sast.cfm