FKK Oase - Burgholzhausen

[Steverino1968]

3 one hour rooms and 7 finishes in about an 8 hour period. That's like cumming twice each in 2 one hour sessions and 3 more times in another one hour session. That's super impressive, superhuman, defying the norms of male biology. Some may even say it's not believable. 😏.

It was probably closer to 10 or 12 hours. I fell asleep on one of the lounge chairs in the solarium for a while and lost track of time.

[McAdonis]

On my next visit I bought her some nice perfume at the duty free shop on my way to FRA and gave it to her. ; instead of being happy, she hit me for more tips, extras like anal (she knows I never do anal, and yet demanded it) and so on.

She used the foot-in-the-door (FITD) technique. Make a small request first, get commitment, then move on to larger requests. The reverse approach, the door-in-the-face (DITF) technique, involves making an outlandish request first, getting rejected, then making a comparatively more reasonable request. For instance, you can ask your boss for a $50,000 raise. When he declines, wait two weeks. Then ask him if he can pay for a conference in Frankfurt that will only cost the company 2000 EUR. His guilt from rejecting you the first time, may compel him to say "yes" to the second request.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Foot-i...door_technique

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Door-i...face_technique

[Member #4581]

It is very unlikely that a girl, especially a popular girl, has WhatsApp connection with just you, one single customer. Most likely she has several. If she is hitting you with a money request, she is probably doing the same with many others, or at least a few others depending on how many admirers she has.

From her POV, no harm no foul. If the guy is foolish enough to give, she will take. If not, she will move on to the next guy. This is akin to asking for a tip at the locker, or perhaps the next step in that direction.

So, if she pretends *fake anger or hurt* when you decline the money request, it's what it is — fake. If she hits 10 blokes and 8 reject the request, can she really afford to dump well paying customers? Remember, to get up to stage of asking for money on WhatsApp, it must be with somewhat good customers I. E, a few sessions lasting more than 50/30, then exchange of personal phone #s.

There was this big fav girl of mine. She whined and pouted and said I didn't bring her any Christmas gift. On my next visit I bought her some nice perfume at the duty free shop on my way to FRA and gave it to her. That was the end of my relationship with her; instead of being happy, she hit me for more tips, extras like anal (she knows I never do anal, and yet demanded it) and so on. Soon, it became so untenable and I didn't session with her for more than a year. Eventually, she became normal and it was OK again. Lesson Learned: I never ever give any gifts to girls after that experience.

[McAdonis]

You are spot on. I have found that telling a girl "no" leads to NO diminution in service or affection from the girl. The girls do it just on the off chance they will strike the big time.

I have never had a girl break off our business relationship because I refused to send money.

This wasn't due to a Whatsapp request for money. But recently I had one WG give me the silent treatment. It lasted about one visit. We passed each other a few times. I tried to make eye contact only the first time. She didn't acknowledge. I never made an effort to apologize or initiate conversation. Then on my very next visit, she summoned me over. Of course she didn't apologize, but she explained that she was not mad at me anymore, and that we could go to the room again if I wanted. I just politely excused myself. Haven't been with her since.

But I have had friends tell me of similar situations. They declined a Whatsapp request for money. They were given the silent treatment for one visit. Then at some point the WG re-enters the picture like nothing ever happened.

[Optimist]

Just tell them "No". A few weeks ago, a WG asked if I would bring her a birthday present. I just ignored the message. When I saw her this weekend, she never brought it up. There was no downgrade in service. She still talked to me.

Both of you have written in the past that you are not 50 EUR men. Trust me. I believe you have leverage. A non-confrontational approach would be to remind her how good of a customer you have been in the past, and ask her how she could treat you this way? I would still raise my voice during that conversation. Chances are she will realize she is in the wrong.

Optimist, I know you are more concerned about emotional connection. But how genuine is the connection if she is willing to break the relationship, because you cannot or will not accede to her financial demands? Is greed not a turn-off?

You are spot on. I have found that telling a girl "no" leads to NO diminution in service or affection from the girl. The girls do it just on the off chance they will strike the big time.

I have never had a girl break off our business relationship because I refused to send money. I have on the other hand abandoned girls who get insistent. I just occasionally say yes, on the basis that if they are entertaining me on the telephone during my exile from Germany, then a little payment for their time is fair enough

[Takedown]

I was at Oase a month ago on a Saturday, visiting from the USA. It was my first time at Oase, but I had been to other clubs several years ago. Dozens of girls came up to proposition me over the course of the 8+ hours I spent there. Each and every one of them, literally begged for me to shoot my sperm in her mouth. I had three sessions that day, each for an hour, including one full-on lesbian duo, cumming a total of 7 times. Each and every load was delivered to a girl's mouth, and two of them swallowed. No one had any problem with BBBJ that day, law or no law.

3 one hour rooms and 7 finishes in about an 8 hour period. That's like cumming twice each in 2 one hour sessions and 3 more times in another one hour session. That's super impressive, superhuman, defying the norms of male biology. Some may even say it's not believable. 😏.

[Steverino1968]

They have a special with 50 EUR entry before 4 pm. CBJ is what the law requires. Especially for non-regulars.

I was at Oase a month ago on a Saturday, visiting from the USA. It was my first time at Oase, but I had been to other clubs several years ago. Dozens of girls came up to proposition me over the course of the 8+ hours I spent there. Each and every one of them, literally begged for me to shoot my sperm in her mouth. I had three sessions that day, each for an hour, including one full-on lesbian duo, cumming a total of 7 times. Each and every load was delivered to a girl's mouth, and two of them swallowed. No one had any problem with BBBJ that day, law or no law.

[Danny227]

What have they asked for? The only thing that I've come across is listerine breath strips -- and some designers' shoes, but that's a different story.

I've been asked for body oils that are not available here or claimed to be unavailable, perfume, bags, Victoria secret and more. They'll take anything that's free. Greedy!

[Jmioffe]

I found they always ask us to buy them things they can't get in Germany. For that reason, I stopped telling them when I am returning and only let them know when I am in Germany.

What have they asked for? The only thing that I've come across is listerine breath strips -- and some designers' shoes, but that's a different story.

[Jmioffe]

Maybe I was lucky but reception advised me when I phoned recently that a girl was not in. Reception was also very tolerant of my creaking German.

Jmioffe. Yes, having the girls private contact can be potentially expensive

Oh, I'd say if the desk tells you a girl is not in, that's not lucky, that's just the straightforward Germany that I love so much. That should be expected. It's more when they tell you that a girl is in that should be doubted.

It has usually cost me a few pricey sessions or the rare emotional connection (usually a combination) to get a private contact. I suppose that's just how the game goes. Even when you're paying for it, you have to show the girl you're worth their time, that you're extra to all the other sorry johns she sees throughout her day. I keep this in mind, since I've been in more than one session where a girl is cleaning out her purse, and hands me a random scrap of paper to throw out, and I'm like "what's this?

It's the phone number of some dude who wanted her to contact him.

[ExpatLover]

Just tell them "No". A few weeks ago, a WG asked if I would bring her a birthday present. I just ignored the message. When I saw her this weekend, she never brought it up. There was no downgrade in service. She still talked to me.

Both of you have written in the past that you are not 50 EUR men. Trust me. I believe you have leverage. A non-confrontational approach would be to remind her how good of a customer you have been in the past, and ask her how she could treat you this way? I would still raise my voice during that conversation. Chances are she will realize she is in the wrong.

Optimist, I know you are more concerned about emotional connection. But how genuine is the connection if she is willing to break the relationship, because you cannot or will not accede to her financial demands? Is greed not a turn-off?

Let us not making the things so rational, the girls are prostitutes, and they have sex 10 to 20 times per day even more with all kind of customers, some of them are not even keeping the money for herself, when they are bored they just send message to see what will happen, but a no will usually not affect the relationship.

[McAdonis]

I found they always ask us to buy them things they can't get in Germany. For that reason, I stopped telling them when I am returning and only let them know when I am in Germany.

Yes, having the girls private contact can be potentially expensive

Just tell them "No". A few weeks ago, a WG asked if I would bring her a birthday present. I just ignored the message. When I saw her this weekend, she never brought it up. There was no downgrade in service. She still talked to me.

Both of you have written in the past that you are not 50 EUR men. Trust me. I believe you have leverage. A non-confrontational approach would be to remind her how good of a customer you have been in the past, and ask her how she could treat you this way? I would still raise my voice during that conversation. Chances are she will realize she is in the wrong.

Optimist, I know you are more concerned about emotional connection. But how genuine is the connection if she is willing to break the relationship, because you cannot or will not accede to her financial demands? Is greed not a turn-off?

[Banana Boi]

It's better to get their private contact info. But I've found that to be often a rather expensive process.

I found they always ask us to buy them things they can't get in Germany. For that reason, I stopped telling them when I am returning and only let them know when I am in Germany.

[Optimist]

Maybe I was lucky but reception advised me when I phoned recently that a girl was not in. Reception was also very tolerant of my creaking German.

Jmioffe. Yes, having the girls private contact can be potentially expensive

[Jmioffe]

Reception is so impolite and actually lied when I asked if a girl was working on a given day.

I've had this happen to me to, and not just at Oase, but upon reflecting, I should not be surprised. It's game theory. The club has an interest in saying "yes" to get you in and get your entry fee. If you don't see your girl, maybe a big spender has monopolized her time, or maybe she left before you arrived. Just because they say she's in doesn't mean you'll get to seer her, and I think most guys understand that.

If other girls tell you that the front desk lied to you, who are you going to believe? They're all current or ex-prostitutes with their own dramas, right? It's not like you're going to march to the front desk and make a scene. Odds are, most guys will manage to have a good time anyway.

If they tell you she's not in, I think that's a stronger signal than if they tell you she's in, because they have no interest in not having you show up. The only time they'd lie to you and tell you someone wasn't in is if you were being a creeper, and that's a different problem you got.

I've generally stopped calling in to ask about my faves. It's better to get their private contact info. But I've found that to be often a rather expensive process.