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[Bubba Boy]

I didn't read everything that is on his website, but I am thinking she doesn't want anything to do with him and if he causes trouble in Rio it will be very easy for her to cause him very serious trouble in Brasil. I am thinking he is putting himself in danger by going to Brasil, very easy to have some one fucked up badly in Rio, very badly.

Dude, move on with your life and stop carrying on like a lunatic!

[Country Counter]

This would make an interesting poll. How many people feel sorry for him because he's lonely and/or obsessed? How many people feel afraid for the girl because he may be a stalker? How many think it could be a love story? How many want him to fimd her to hear about the possible train wreck?

[Euro100]

OK, this Fjockey dude is seriously deranged and, in my opinion, also dangerous. Absolutely classical stalker! I just read the whole story on his website. At first I laughed, and then I felt really sad for him. But finally I saw the whole range of his obsession and the length to which he went to track this girl down. And what did she do to lead him on? She did not even have sex with him. Just the normal seductive stripper stuff that they do to get customers to come back to them and pay more money.

The topper? The dude posts a picture of himself with her DVD on his website. At least that should make it easy to avoid him if I ever run into him.

Fjockey, if you have any capacity to listen left, here is my advice: get some serious therapy! God knows you need it.

[Bravo]

Fjockey, this is the most facinating thing ,I have ever read on a relationship between a stripper and a customer. I read your entire post and the money and effort you put into tracking this woman down, is staggering!! After reading your open essay to her, there seems to be a great deal of info that you have not shared with us.

Please Please Please!! Come back and update us on your trip to Brasil and your search for your friend. This story could be a best seller!!!

[Jan 156]

One of the interesting things about this post I think is maybe it highlights something that is the same in just about every country and language and situation I can think of: if a sex-worker wants to see you in a non-working capacity or as her boyfriend, *she* will initiate that relationship.

This not just the opinion of someone who has dated more than one sex worker. You will find it as standard advice on some of the better escort sites.

You are paying her to give you the most amazing fantasy. If it seems more real than fantasy, then she is doing a damn good job.

The stalker who has posted about this stripper is not a bad-minded person but he needs to get rid of his obsession. A couple of months in Brasil, getting laid a lot, lots of GFEs, maybe a regular p4p or two. Get things in perspective. Or see a shrink.

To inflict this sort of uber-fantasy on someone who has just done a good job is outrageous. And very bad manners. You are not in love with someone who you cannot respect.

[RxHammer]

Fjockey.....

You are one unhinged dude. Reading your esay was.....un-fucking-believable ! You never even saw this chick outside the strip club (?????) !!!! She didn't go back to Brazil because she missed her family, she was running away from a fucking crazy ass stalker.....YOU !!!!

UNHINGED !!

Guys, please think twice before ever considering helping this lunatic.

Hammer

[Lap Lover]

until you can post regular everyday non-professional photos of this girl alone or either with you i will have to dismiss the veracity of the post. you are exhibiting the behavior of a stalker. do yourself a favor and lose the obsession. i feel the need to play foreign service officer and tell you visa denied.

please dont help this guy!!! he is stalking her.

fjockey - dude before you go any further get some help. ie seek a therapist and explain what you are doing. show the doctor your website. and see if he/she isnt a little concerned for your well being. seriously dude, she was a stripper you met and a stripper will say anything to get your money. even make you think she likes you and even if she did like you - its not love... what you are exhibiting is obsession. surely you must see that . get the help you need friend...

not too mention you may be breaking laws - there are laws on the books for the kind of things your are doing. get your head straight man before you do something really stupid!

[Mr Enternational]

Until you can post regular everyday non-professional photos of this girl alone or either with you I will have to dismiss the veracity of the post. You are exhibiting the behavior of a stalker. Do yourself a favor and lose the obsession. I feel the need to play foreign service officer and tell you visa DENIED.

[Xavier]

I guess the girl you´re looking for can be booked in Rio:

http://www.contatos.com.br/acompanha...l=Morena&ss=33

[Safado6]

Oh yeah one more thing.

Have you thought that maybe you are fucking up this girls life.

By posting her porno PICS in Brazilian news papers.

Maybe she did a porno that would only be released in the US.

So her family friends, etc., wouldn't know what she was doing.

You might be in some trouble if you find her.

SERIOUSLY!

I can't even beleave you did that, another WOW!

[Safado6]

The setting of her video looks like a typical Brazilian termas club or swing resort.

IThe Search for Bianca/Daniela

http://www.voltabianca.info

Wow!

Checked out your site and all the info and links.

I can't beleave you took out front page ads.

Wow man, you say that the girl in the vids is the same girl you are looking for, but do you remeber the tatoos, are they the same?

Also if you post photos showing the setting, the club or termas you think the vid was shot at, I am sure some one will recognize it.

[MrThomas]

I would recommend that Taveres and MrThomas go to the website for more information.

The website is more than I can really take time to read. Enjoy your time in Rio, learn some Portuguese first you'll have more fun. My advice while your doing your research is to shag as many girls possible until you find this one. Find a dominatrix, ask her if she has a cluestick.

Recently I went to 4x4 (a terma) and after having a session and spending all my money some other girl sat next to me and started some rather nice kissing. Felt like love. I explained to here I was just hanging out and without more cash, didn't want her to waste her time thinking I was going to spend money on her. That didn't stop her, she stayed with me until closing with me making out, grinding etc, putting any experiences I've had in a US stripclub to shame. For free. Her conversations with friends showed a lot of excitement about me.

Would I confuse that with some sort of love I'd pursue as diligently for so many years? Hell no. I will however go back soon. Even though I had no money, and in your case you had not much money. Theres business logic behind giving out freebies. I'd be going back tonight if my 'girlfriend' wasn't already coming over. Speaking of the business logic behind freebies, even the clingy ones have some business sense.

[Safado6]

Fjockey,

The first photo does not match the others. We are dealing here with two DIFFERENT women!!!
.

It may well be, a different girl.

But she does have the same necklace in all the photos.

And its pretty destinct.

But anyway, I never saw her.

FJOCKY,

I wonder, what are your plans when you find her?

[Fjockey]

I would recommend that Taveres and MrThomas go to the website for more information. I realize there is almost three years of stuff there, but they have obviously not read the basic essay which is here:

http://www.voltabianca.info/experienceofbianca.html

1) Just a few sentences into my first conversation with her, I said I had not been to the club in 15 months due to financial problems. It was very clear I didn't have much money to spend. Read the essay for her response.

2) In American clubs, dancers make the most money when they hustle private dances one after another between their time on stage. The exception is a high roller customer. I obviously wasn't one, but she spent most of the time with me.

3) After her departure, her best friend among the dancers told me that she was very fond of me and "talked about me all the time." Why waste your breath talking about another customer who is merely a financial prospect? Yes, you can certainly argue that in the end, Bianca/Daniela's love or sense of obligation to her family proved stronger than her attraction to me, at least in the short term. But the argument that she was after my money just doesn't wash.

4) Bianca/Daniela has a very expressive face that never looks the same twice. But in real life, I have seen all these poses of her. The hint is to follow the necklace. She is wearing the same necklace in all the photos.

5) To Exec Talent: I am currently going through the process and will contact you as soon as it is complete. Thanks for responding.

[Tavares]

Fjockey,

The first photo does not match the others. We are dealing here with two DIFFERENT women!!!

Furthermore, I tend to agree with Mr. Thomas.

Read Patricia Highsmith's "sweet obsession" and you will be cured. Anyway, I wish you luck.