Bangkok Massage Parlors - Except TULIP and ANNIES!

[Whoreman]

Is this the same Candy who worked at Mango, then Cherry and opened up her own shop Candy?

No. You could just check the Snow White website.

[Dan7373]

I think what he meant is that you don't need to make training or teach techniques for sex if most guys are not looking for it. Recommendations are sometimes asked for but usually not on sex skills topics.....

No writer can please every reader. Because different readers are looking for different things.

There is no unanimity among readers. And no reader can speak for all other readers. Because nobody elected him to do so.

[Dan7373]

You're completely wasting your time. No one is going to change their attitude or conduct based on anything you say on this forum. If you're literally never going to post any field reports, your opinion is worthless.

The purpose of my comments is to increase understanding, rather than to change attitudes or express opinions.

I suggest that you read a famous Indian fairy tale titled, Blind Men and an Elephant, to understand what I'm doing here:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blind_men_and_an_elephant

In this fairy tale, blind men touched only some part of the elephant. One them touched the elephant's trunk and thought it was a large snake. Another touched the elephant's leg and thought it was a tree. Another touched the elephant's tail and thought it was a pig. And so on.

The moral of this story is that when you look only from one point of view, then you can have a huge misunderstanding and a false perception. Only when you put all points of view together into one, then you have the truth.

Sex encounters with P4P ladies usually include two points of view, the guy's and the lady's. You need to consider what happened from both points of view in order to understand what really happened. Or else, you have only a partial understanding and a false view.

Writing comments here for other people to read helps me to understand more than I did before. Because when I'm making it clear for other people, then I'm also making it clear for myself. This is my way of thinking and coming up with new understanding.

Writing for other people is a necessary part of my process, or else it doesn't work. But I'm partly writing for my own benefit and not just for the benefit of other people.

[LittleBigMan]

When I was in HK in 2015 prior to sessioning Chinese girls who spoke no English I showed them porn on my phone to indicate what I wanted. Some were disgusted, others not.

Funny bring back memories?

It has been many years I used to venture into a town next to Shenzhen with my cousins from Hong Kong in the late 80's early 90's then Shenzhen train station there was nothing there we were always pick up by his friends in a town next to Shenzhen. He had purchased a small condo building and his unit was on top. In the town, he knew where to get all the girls had them meet us after dinner at his place. There we drank and play games girls had to watch his porn because he said that teaches them how to do it right. We would play strip poker and then get it on all night long with the girls pretty much a Chinese orgy at times those were the good old days and cheap in China.

One girl who I dated from Hong Kong used to visit me in the States for weeks at a time she loved to watch porn on my pirated T. V. Box while we went at it. I thought Chinese girls would be disgusted but not.

[Kuratla]

Is this the same Candy who worked at Mango, then Cherry and opened up her own shop Candy?

Definitely not the same person. The Candy who opened her own shop was (is) rather plump and large-breasted while the Candy mentioned here is flat-chested (or was before getting implants).

[Olinda]

Is this the same Candy who worked at Mango, then Cherry and opened up her own shop Candy?

Wow it's been a while since Candy has been mentioned here. She was an old fave of mine. Absolutely no tits but I loved her DT skills. Slow, wet and deep with no gag reflex at all. Good to know she's changed things up with the new tits. Maybe I'll see her on my next trip in a few weeks.

[BrookeMad]

Candy was available, and I booked her;

She went immediately to work upon entry, full engulfing during shower. All good.

She has medium size silicone boobs, which are pretty solid. Abdomen tattoo covering up a see-section scar, rest of body very nice.

Wow it's been a while since Candy has been mentioned here. She was an old fave of mine. Absolutely no tits but I loved her DT skills. Slow, wet and deep with no gag reflex at all. Good to know she's changed things up with the new tits. Maybe I'll see her on my next trip in a few weeks.

[Mjen1970]

After a few poor BBBJs from freelancers in Nana, I was back to snowwhite for my dose of BBBJ.

Mamasan informed me that a girl has returned back to Snow after a hiatus of a year.

I asked for a show and she came out, she wasn't much of a spinner, and seemed like touching 30. But when mamasan told me she does great BJ, I was sold. And boy I was rewarded in the room for choosing her!.

Awesome deep throat and gagging for almost 30 minutes which I enjoyed seeing too.

So for DT lovers, this one seems promising.

I sessions with her before and while she does give a good aggressive BJ she also could not put me on her throat. Good attitude though.

It just goes to show that YMMV in this industry. I took Aom about a year ago and she definitely deepthroated me. Yes, She is a bit plump but I would definitely repeat with her.

[Syzygies]

Discussion is solicited, when people choose to talk about their sex in a public forum.

I think what he meant is that you don't need to make training or teach techniques for sex if most guys are not looking for it. Recommendations are sometimes asked for but usually not on sex skills topics.

It is best we report what we do ourselves, rather than try to tell others what to do, unless they definitely ask for it.

Instead you can post field reports where you tried some girl, and go into all the lurid detail of what you did if you choose. Does not mean every guy will want to copy your procedures. I am a DATY enthusiast myself to get girls going, rather than wanking their pussy (DATY is what I am experienced with and works okay For me) but I don't expect everyone to want to do like me, so I normally just mention I did it, and that's it.

Many guys on here state that they are paying the money and they don't give a shit if the girl likes the sex or not, as long as she performs and acts enthusiastic (maybe). We are not going to change their minds.

Don't worry though. No one is going to like all your posts nor mine. We just try to consider if we are putting out anything that could be remotely useful. Some guys just want facts. This girl named X takes it up the ass, has no baby damage, etc. Quite average looking and dumpy if we are truthful, but the looks detail often gets left off. If she is raunchy enough no one cares what she looks like, likely. Ha ha. She is very "meh" usually refers to performance more than looks I think.

Most guys don't want to be taught anything, but want information, and sometimes opinions. I would like to read some subtle humour about funny things that happen in Thailand sex, not just sarcasm type (which gets boring to me).

Did you produce any field reports lately Dan? If not, how come? I at least do report if I try a new MP girl or bargirl, etc. , what I thought of her. Could be useful to someone. You never know. There is a disturbing lack of useful field reports giving enough detail about girls to be any real use. That tends to make it like reporting on useful venues to try.

[Whoreman]

Discussion is solicited, when people choose to talk about their sex in a public forum.

I don't think it's fair to talk about a P4P lady behind her back in a forum like this and not have anybody say something on her behalf. Because she isn't here to speak for herself.

That's what my comments are all about. The story is told only from the guy's point of view. And I try to add some balance to this story by being the lady's advocate and saying something from her side.

One-sided view is a distorted view. That's why I can't stand it. I need to say something to make it two-sided.

You're completely wasting your time. No one is going to change their attitude or conduct based on anything you say on this forum. If you're literally never going to post any field reports, your opinion is worthless.

[Ixgzca]

When I was in HK in 2015 prior to sessioning Chinese girls who spoke no English I showed them porn on my phone to indicate what I wanted. Some were disgusted, others not.

I used to do the same in Guangzhou before I learned Chinese. Very few were disgusted, most were just intrigued or surprised. I ended up getting them to do the desired action in each case though.

[Ixgzca]

You're talking about Candy there I assume, not Aom.

No, I'm talking about Aom. The chubby, smiley one.

[Dan7373]

When I was in HK in 2015 prior to sessioning Chinese girls who spoke no English I showed them porn on my phone to indicate what I wanted. Some were disgusted, others not.

Perhaps the disgusted ladies thought you were trying to arouse them with porn. They didn't understand that you were trying to tell them what you wanted.

People usually watch porn for entertainment. It's unusual to use porn for communication or for teaching. That's why the ladies might've misunderstood you.

Porn has double meaning. It can be either entertainment or communication. Perhaps cartoon images of sex positions and sex acts might be a safer way to communicate with ladies, when you can't speak with them enough to make them understand your intention.

[Turgid]

Porn can and does teach people things. I'm not talking crazy octopus porn here. Just standard stuff. I know plenty of girls that got new moves from watching porn. Some useful some not. While I guess it's possible, I'm not brainwashed by porn anymore than I am by violent movies or video games. I watch the type of porn I like and most of my sessions in the PSE shops are similar to what I watch. But I had to find porn that was similar to my style of fucking, not the other way around. It was quite difficult too if I'm honest.

I showed a girl how I wanted a BJ once by showing her porn. She learned quickly and was quite proud of herself in the end. Another girl I know learned how to do a prostate massage from porn with outstanding results. So it's a perfectly good way to learn about different sex acts but it's not the best way to learn about intimacy.

When I was in HK in 2015 prior to sessioning Chinese girls who spoke no English I showed them porn on my phone to indicate what I wanted. Some were disgusted, others not.

[Khensan]

She got a boob job done just 1 month ago so it's not strange that many of you are surprised about it.

She is 28 years old by the way.