Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

[Engine Driver]

Dude, these were $10,000 houses, so of course they did not wire $50,000.

They did not wire $10,000 either. Most LBFMs who socialise with mongers have never set foot in a bank before. The only financial institution they have dealt with is the local Western Union shop to pick up their donations from horny mongers in return for a cam show.

[Kabul Guy]

Dude, these were $10,000 houses, so of course they did not wire $50,000.

10 k USD is 500,000 p so lets say they got fucked 5 times a week for 2 years that is 500 fuckings or 1000 per.

Good rate, especially considering that he lived rent free for 2 years.

Hell if she was a good cook and good at shopping the guy could have given her the house and still lived cheaper than otherwise might have been the case and essentially fucked for free.

I know that he got the money back and I have no idea how long they were together or how often they fucked or what else was involved financially but my point is that you have to consider everything in settling with the girl.

[Mr Enternational]

Did you believe what those two LBFMs told you? Does anyone ever believe what a Filipina tells them about money? Picture the situation. An LBFM goes into a bank and wires over $50,000 to her ex-boyfriend who's gone permanently back to the US. I'm sure her family and good-for-nothing relatives would have just let her give up her windfall like that!

Dude, these were $10,000 houses, so of course they did not wire $50,000.

[Goferring]

The $50,000 will be payment in full for years of BBFSCIP rendered.

The debt is never fully paid. Any LBFM smart enough to keep the $50 k (plus any progress payments made over the previous years) is certainly smart enough to keep Jonny on the hook for future income as and when he tires of white chicks and returns for a revisit.

Enjoy. G.

[BrainDrain]

Have been in contact with one of 4 year duration fuck buddies in Manila. I usually cut all ties with the girls since I have returned permanently to my country but this one is a genuine sweetie. She has a professional job in Makati.

Some time last year she got married to a rather large (let's say obese) Australian gent. He's already divorced from a previous marriage. It appears he travelled to Manila a few times and met her. He married her last year and was expecting her to move to his shit town and be his maid. Well she never hoped on a plane, having never talked about moving here, she has a good career there. Philippines seems to be the country of these long distance marriages where mum, dad or both are OFW, kids being brought up by the grandparents back in the province. It doesn't sound like she has done anything wrong, she's just focused on her life and happy to have a long distance partner. He contributes zero money to her or her kids.

The Aussie guy has now just discovered that his Philippines marriage is recognised in Australia as per the Marriage Act which recognises all marriages regardless of country, doesn't need to be 'registered' in Australia to be valid here.

It seems the way out if for this guy is to go through the Ph annulment process. The girl is not looking for any settlement money although the guy should pay for being a stupid dick.

Anyone have an direct experience with the annulment process?

I also had another girl who was also married to a USA gent. In the provincial marriage process he seemed to forget that he was also married to another Filipina. So two marriages in Ph. In this case the Filipina was able to apply to have the marriage deregistered as it was not valid in the fist place.

It seems that many men forget that laws do reach across borders.

BD.

[Chocha Monger]

Did you believe what those two LBFMs told you? Does anyone ever believe what a Filipina tells them about money? Picture the situation. An LBFM goes into a bank and wires over $50,000 to her ex-boyfriend who's gone permanently back to the US. I'm sure her family and good-for-nothing relatives would have just let her give up her windfall like that!

The very thought of a LBFM wiring $50,000 USD to her ex-boyfriend who returned to the USA permanently after he enjoyed several years of bareback full service cum-in-pussy with her is indeed hilarious. Hahaha! The no good friends and family would never allow her to make such a foolish mistake. The $50,000 will be payment in full for years of BBFSCIP rendered. Those wily LBFMs sure know how to tell the right lies to build up the confidence of their willing victims. Hahaha!

[Engine Driver]

I know two Pinay girls who lived in with guys in the Philippines for 5 to 8 years before ending relationships. Foreigner guys just said goodbye and left back to home country. Interesting because in both cases a house was owned by the girl as required by PH law but originally paid for in cash by the guy. After the split the guys said "sell the house and give me the money". Both girls did exactly that, not keeping even one php of the proceeds for themselves nor did the guys offer any to them.

Did you believe what those two LBFMs told you? Does anyone ever believe what a Filipina tells them about money? Picture the situation. An LBFM goes into a bank and wires over $50,000 to her ex-boyfriend who's gone permanently back to the US. I'm sure her family and good-for-nothing relatives would have just let her give up her windfall like that!

[Chocha Monger]

True but be careful. Nowadays many jurisdictions regard defacto the same as formal marriage so you don't need a Marriage Certificate to lose half your stuff.

Like I said, choose carefully in either situation.

Cheers. G.

BBFSCIP always has a cost, especially when it involves a live-in arrangement. Just as mongers are ruthless in their relentless pursuit of BBFSCIP, Pinays and their family members are even more ruthless in the collection of compensation owed them for BBFSCIP. A live-in situation is not for Cheap Charlies looking for bargain rate BBFSCIP on tap. It could end up costing them more than their dwelling and possessions.

[Expat American]

I know that I will never not fuck other women when I can, I have actually had these EXACT discussions with potential mates. I plan to fuck many and to find a partner that understands and supports it. And yes it works both ways.

I have cheated and that is not good and I don't like it. I don't plan to cheat again and I won't marry a woman that won't allow me to fuck around and this will be a clearly written part of my pre nup.

PP.

Exactly. My GF (Singaporean not Filipino) accepts that I need to play now and again. That involves 3-4 day sex vacations to Philippines or Thailand etc every few months (pre CoVid of course). I also have cheated and it didn't end well. This is much better. I am open about my lifestyle and desires with her and she loves me and accepts me for who I am. And no it doesn't cut both ways. She is devoted to me only.

[D Cups]

It is Article 147 of the Family Code, It does not state a time period.

Art. 147. When a man and a woman who are capacitated to marry each other, live exclusively with each other as husband and wife without the benefit of marriage or under a void marriage, their wages and salaries shall be owned by them in equal shares and the property acquired by both of them through their work or industry shall be governed by the rules on co-ownership.

In the absence of proof to the contrary, properties acquired while they lived together shall be presumed to have been obtained by their joint efforts, work or industry, and shall be owned by them in equal shares. For purposes of this Article, a party who did not participate in the acquisition by the other party of any property shall be deemed to have contributed jointly in the acquisition thereof if the former's efforts consisted in the care and maintenance of the family and of the household..

Thank you very much, KG. Forewarned is forearmed.

[Kabul Guy]

Hi KG,

What is the the length of the time period, please, if you know. Regards.

It is Article 147 of the Family Code, It does not state a time period.

Art. 147. When a man and a woman who are capacitated to marry each other, live exclusively with each other as husband and wife without the benefit of marriage or under a void marriage, their wages and salaries shall be owned by them in equal shares and the property acquired by both of them through their work or industry shall be governed by the rules on co-ownership.

In the absence of proof to the contrary, properties acquired while they lived together shall be presumed to have been obtained by their joint efforts, work or industry, and shall be owned by them in equal shares. For purposes of this Article, a party who did not participate in the acquisition by the other party of any property shall be deemed to have contributed jointly in the acquisition thereof if the former's efforts consisted in the care and maintenance of the family and of the household.

It doesn't give a time period. I did some searching and could not find any definitive time period for it to be considered common law.

Anyone know?

Here is a link to an article on prenups. https://www.iafl.com/media/1162/pren...hilippines.pdf.

[Sammon]

Make sure that the girl has her own independent legal counsel and that this is carefully documented. If she is not 100% fluent in English her lawyer should also speak her first language. Failure to comply with these points can lead to the agreement being considered to be null and void in some jurisdictions.

It is called informed consent which states a common person strictly understands the language, wording. Efore it is signed.

[Nice Guy 99]

Start with an agreement than clearly states there is no agreement and everything is consensual.

Then get a properly prepared agreement in the respective country.

Make sure that the girl has her own independent legal counsel and that this is carefully documented. If she is not 100% fluent in English her lawyer should also speak her first language. Failure to comply with these points can lead to the agreement being considered to be null and void in some jurisdictions.

[ForkTruck]

Even in the Philippines there are live in pre nups.

You have to watch out because after some period of time you can be considered as married and the default is shared assets. Your prenup can be as simple as saying that you are going to adhere to strict separation of assets in this relationship.

I know two Pinay girls who lived in with guys in the Philippines for 5 to 8 years before ending relationships. Foreigner guys just said goodbye and left back to home country. Interesting because in both cases a house was owned by the girl as required by PH law but originally paid for in cash by the guy. After the split the guys said "sell the house and give me the money". Both girls did exactly that, not keeping even one php of the proceeds for themselves nor did the guys offer any to them.

[D Cups]

Even in the Philippines there are live in pre nups.

You have to watch out because after some period of time you can be considered as married and the default is shared assets. Your prenup can be as simple as saying that you are going to adhere to strict separation of assets in this relationship.

I believe that all it needs is two witnesses to be valid. I would make sure that I could find the witnesses, they would be my lawyer and his associate and I would also go with notarizing it.

Hi KG,

What is the the length of the time period, please, if you know. Regards.