Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

[Goferring]

Have been seeing a regular girl reasonably seriously for most of this year. She's 22 which also makes her fun and also make her immature. Starting to suggest too many rules and lifestyle changes for my middle aged, second time around liking. I though it was a big deal until a day later she's back on the dating sites. Guess I'm not that hard to forget.

Why can't Filipino just be content with their lot in life? Life's good with her but she wants more of me than I can give.

She will make the next guy very happy. I've trained her well.

Next!

Cheers.

I chat with DIA girls and at first they are so anxious to meet and then after a few days of chatting and she thinks I am hooked they begin to get demanding for commitment, etc. That is a turn off and not what I want. They do seem to follow pattern of woman world wide. Always wanting more when they think they have man in their pocket. Trading sex for submission. Anyone have a strategy to slow them down and stick to what I want?

What are you telling the girl (s) you want out of a relarionship? If you tell that you live in town or are a very frequent visitor and see her often and repeatedly for a year, yes she will think it's an ongoing relationship and use emotional ties to ratchet up demands.

I'm always honest with the girls about what I want. There is no need to be rude or insulting to them but it never hurts to politely remind them of what you are looking for when they start to think that the relationship is changing.

PL I've had great luck with temporarily breaking up with girls. She will quite often return a couple of times to show me what I am missing out on and if she has been complaining about how poorly I have been treating her, then it gives her a reminder of how poorly the general punter can treat girls and how hard the daily grind can be. Perhaps I wasn't such an arsehole after all. 😁.

If you do get back together after a coupe of months, expect it to be much more on your terms

[PinaLove]

Had the same problem at home with a girl who kept on calling needing money, calling even though I told her I was out of town. Every two days the calls would go on and on, needing money. Then I fucked her in the ass and the calls stopped.

I have accepted her ass when she offered it. That didn't slow her down and as I learned it was her investment in getting commitment.

I chat with DIA girls and at first they are so anxious to meet and then after a few days of chatting and she thinks I am hooked they begin to get demanding for commitment, etc. That is a turn off and not what I want. They do seem to follow pattern of woman world wide. Always wanting more when they think they have man in their pocket. Trading sex for submission. Anyone have a strategy to slow them down and stick to what I want?

It's not so much any financial demand, in fact she is modest in expectation.

Mainly the demands for monogamy, attention, couples time and longer term plan. None of which are compatible with Monger Ver 2. (actually these values were also not compatible with MarriedGuy V1).

Happy days.

[Breadman]

I chat with DIA girls and at first they are so anxious to meet and then after a few days of chatting and she thinks I am hooked they begin to get demanding for commitment, etc. That is a turn off and not what I want. They do seem to follow pattern of woman world wide. Always wanting more when they think they have man in their pocket. Trading sex for submission. Anyone have a strategy to slow them down and stick to what I want?

Had the same problem at home with a girl who kept on calling needing money, calling even though I told her I was out of town. Every two days the calls would go on and on, needing money. Then I fucked her in the ass and the calls stopped.

[Dg8787]

I chat with DIA girls and at first they are so anxious to meet and then after a few days of chatting and she thinks I am hooked they begin to get demanding for commitment, etc. That is a turn off and not what I want. They do seem to follow pattern of woman world wide. Always wanting more when they think they have man in their pocket. Trading sex for submission. Anyone have a strategy to slow them down and stick to what I want?

Yes sir. Stay off dating sites. Stop dating.

[ForkTruck]

Starting to suggest too many rules and lifestyle changes for my middle aged, second time around liking.

Why can't Filipino just be content with their lot in life? Life's good with her but she wants more of me than I can give..

I chat with DIA girls and at first they are so anxious to meet and then after a few days of chatting and she thinks I am hooked they begin to get demanding for commitment, etc. That is a turn off and not what I want. They do seem to follow pattern of woman world wide. Always wanting more when they think they have man in their pocket. Trading sex for submission. Anyone have a strategy to slow them down and stick to what I want?

[Bushes]

Maybe horizontal aerobics coaching was one of the unstated job descriptions.

[PinaLove]

Have been seeing a regular girl reasonably seriously for most of this year. She's 22 which also makes her fun and also make her immature. Starting to suggest too many rules and lifestyle changes for my middle aged, second time around liking. I though it was a big deal until a day later she's back on the dating sites. Guess I'm not that hard to forget.

Why can't Filipino just be content with their lot in life? Life's good with her but she wants more of me than I can give.

She will make the next guy very happy. I've trained her well.

Next!

Cheers.

[Naked Gunz]

And I might add that they are deadly afraid to travel at night especially by taxi in Manila. I have had girls refuse to come after dark no matter what I would give them. Also some would not go home from my hotel at night. Later I found out most of the neighborhoods they lived in were not safe to be out at night.

That coupled with the fact that women are biologically hardwired to be wary of risk and change.

[Naked Gunz]

At least she should have enough money for a good lawyer. $ 133,000 a year, is that a normal salary for a teacher in the US?

Maybe she had a high-level degree. She was at the same school for a long time, which boosts pay a bit, but still, that's a lot of cash. Teachers are seriously (under) paid! Maybe she was fucking somebody else for that salary!

[Dg8787]

$133 k / yr is not normal salary for a high school P. E. Teacher. Something is seriously out of whack. It's California but Fresno area, which has a lot lower cost of living than the rest of Califormia. Fresno is right at or slightly above the median USA cost of living. I'the venture to guess her salary is about half of what was reported.

News article said 133 k including benefits. Benefits probably includes medical, pension, life ins and other employer costs. Leaving probably 100 k for her. Still a high amount for the area.

[ClamSlammer]

At least she should have enough money for a good lawyer. $ 133,000 a year, is that a normal salary for a teacher in the US?

$133 k / yr is not normal salary for a high school P. E. Teacher. Something is seriously out of whack. It's California but Fresno area, which has a lot lower cost of living than the rest of Califormia. Fresno is right at or slightly above the median USA cost of living. I'the venture to guess her salary is about half of what was reported.

[Mogwai]

Married mother-of-two 50-year-old Pinay cheats husband with her high school student!

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/arti...l-student.html

At least she should have enough money for a good lawyer. $ 133,000 a year, is that a normal salary for a teacher in the US?

[Dg8787]

Doesn't seem relevant to the forum. Please explain.

He harbors contempt for Pinays and consistently denigrates them. I guess it doesn't matter where they are located. This Pinay has a long career as a public school teacher in bum fuck valley, California, quite possibly 2nd or 3rd generation American.

[Dg8787]

It is not their fault. Unlike western girls where the system of individuality come Phi girls rarely venture out alone. Usually they are accompanied by family or friends. So sense of direction is not there. Many a time when I asked the girl to meet me they asked if they can bring somebody. Initially I thought it is because they are afraid but later found out they simply do not know much about transportation and where to go. As young girls they are afraid to ask for directions because there are many shady characters on the streets. Being generally many of them do not have money to travel and explore.

And I might add that they are deadly afraid to travel at night especially by taxi in Manila. I have had girls refuse to come after dark no matter what I would give them. Also some would not go home from my hotel at night. Later I found out most of the neighborhoods they lived in were not safe to be out at night.

Lucky for me the ones that came after dark brought a friend with them!

[Bushes]

IMHO and with some scientific backing, women are just different with directions. Money and access to mobile data is a problem but I take care of that with passa load. With the really challenged, I ask them to go to an intersection or store send me pictures of the street sign / store and a 180/360 set of pictures. I can usually find them with maps or street view. Some phones have flaky GPS so they can only get you close if you have patience to walk them through the process of sending their location.

Now: What meeting place do you (to the girl) know to met near Terminal?

I don't think it's a "power" thing, just generally some pinay do not have good navigation outside of their common visiting places.

So sense of direction is not there. Many a time when I asked the girl to meet me they asked if they can bring somebody. Initially I thought it is because they are afraid but later found out they simply do not know much about transportation and where to go. As young girls they are afraid to ask for directions because there are many shady characters on the streets. Being generally many of them do not have money to travel and explore.