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06-02-22 12:27 #6761
Posts: 173Originally Posted by Pheasantplucker [View Original Post]
That's why is important to put in your dating profile: No GOLD DIGGERS or ESCORTS! You got to have a job and not be Lazy!
Is OK to send money on her Birthday or Christmas, or when you go visit her and you ask her to quit her job so you can spend time together and travel around Philippines, that's different, you can pay for her while you are living together for afew months and also you can pay when you go back until she finds a job, but she needs to find a job ASAP when you leave, like within a month or two, if you find the right woman and she is hard worker, it will come from her and you don't need to say anything.
And by the way is easy to find a job in an agency in a big city like Manila or Cebu, once they know her that she is a hardworker her agency will rehired her, is good to have friends in the agency also, so they can rehired you back after you quit. You can make 20 K a month from an agency (6 days a week), and 20 K for her only is more than enough, unless of course she is supporting her family.
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06-02-22 12:04 #6760
Posts: 3281Sponsor
I have sponsored 5 Girls over the years. All for education. Except 2 who did not graduate and dropped out 3 did well and got good jobs. 2 went to Middle East and are doing well.
I sent 10000 pesos each month plus off and on extra for other things. I do not sponsor just to keep her as a GF although all of them stay with me when I visit. I have stayed near their colleges and have met her college friends. It does not bother me if she is sleeping with other men. With that mindset I am at peace.
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06-02-22 11:07 #6759
Posts: 6834Originally Posted by Pheasantplucker [View Original Post]
Compare that with the NCR (Manila) minimum wage of p486 / day, or p2916 / week, and p11,664 / monthly.
https://www.nwpc.dole.gov.ph/stats/c...um-wage-rates/
I'm with the other gents in my cynicism. Its entirely possible that she has other sponsors (whether they visit with her or not). There's nothing wrong with sending her money. A general rule of thumb on the amount: Are you sending an amount (either monthly, or in past total) that would keep you awake at night if you found out that she had other sponsors, or a local pinoy boyfie, other foreign visitors, or she had terribly wasted / mis-spent your money (ie, she was spending it on her pinoy beau)? Sorry if these questions bite.
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06-02-22 11:01 #6758
Posts: 462Originally Posted by Pheasantplucker [View Original Post]
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06-02-22 08:15 #6757
Posts: 3394Originally Posted by Pheasantplucker [View Original Post]
1/ Everyone thinks their girl is different.
2/ Any girl capable of hooking a whale for 20 k per month plus ad hoc sick buffalos and dying uncles has likely played the game before.
3/ any skilled girl (see 2/ above) knows how to keep 2, 3 or 10 guys on the go, each thinking they are her only Sponsor and true love.
4/ if you have been unable to visit for a year or two, what have you received for 250 to 500 k? Only you will know if it was money well spent. That sort of money pays for a hell of a holiday when you do arrive.
Do I think sponsoring a Pina is worth it? No.
Do I think you are her only sponsor? No.
Is 20 k a good monthly salary? Yes.
Is 20 k a good salary for essentially doing nothing all day? Definitely.
When I'm there in town, have I ever had a girl refuse to see me because I didn't send her money while away? Never.
Sorry if these are not what you want to hear but in all probability your situation isn't any different to many others.
Good luck. G.
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06-02-22 06:27 #6756
Posts: 59Originally Posted by Pheasantplucker [View Original Post]
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06-02-22 04:56 #6755
Posts: 695Originally Posted by Dg8787 [View Original Post]
Entry level BPO jobs will pay around 13-14 K / mo. Crap jobs in province (like local bakeries etc) maybe 3-5 K.
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06-02-22 04:10 #6754
Posts: 3260Originally Posted by Pheasantplucker [View Original Post]
An old person in the province living on rice and sardines would barely survive on 5 k a month. Providing there is no rent to pay.
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06-02-22 04:01 #6753
Posts: 61Originally Posted by Pheasantplucker [View Original Post]
Need get breakdown of everything as they will tend to misuse your money IMO.
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06-02-22 03:42 #6752
Posts: 15925Originally Posted by Pheasantplucker [View Original Post]
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06-02-22 02:22 #6751
Posts: 219Originally Posted by Pheasantplucker [View Original Post]
I've seen people be fine with 5 k a month.
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06-02-22 00:59 #6750
Posts: 57Financial support for GF in PI
I have a long term GF in PI and am sure I am the only guy supporting her.
I haven't been able to visit her during the Covid period and will be returning in October but, in the meantime, we are discussing an increase in the allowance I send her.
She reckons that she needs P700-800 daily for food and drink alone so lets say P20 k per month.
Is that reasonable?
I also send her cash for other expenses on an ad hoc basis BTW.
All constructive comments appreciated.
PP.
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04-25-22 14:19 #6749
Posts: 462Originally Posted by RakSopheni [View Original Post]
Each person is an individual.
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04-23-22 19:24 #6748
Posts: 212Another Filipina Vlogger Urging "Gentle Sex"
As a follow-up to my previous post here is Filipina Vlogger Des also making an appeal to Western Men to be gentle, kind, vanilla, and not to use sex-toys:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zvM7...cpYVz&index=14
Knowing that all women, everywhere will fuck hard if turned on by a physically attractive high value aggressive man, the subtext here is that her imagined audience is the older, less virile Beta foreigner males in the cast of schlubby Youtube Vloggers like Reekay Velez, Gio in the Philippines, or Paul's Asian Adventures. There is a sense of duty and necessity but no genuine desire in these sexual encounters, and so yes a gentle, non-taxing, minimally aerobic expedited deed heavy on sensual foreplay would be the preferred modality.
The red-pill is a flawed ideology, but I think the dictum "women make rules for Betas and break them for Alphas" holds here. If you can bring the the all of this wishy washy hemming and hawing goes away. For us mongers who deal with WG's who are often hyper-sexual due to childhood abuse- all this is much less applicable. I've had plenty of Filipina WG's who were wild in bed.
Curious what the BM's here think.
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04-23-22 00:48 #6747
Posts: 212Filipina's don't Like it Rough?
Interesting video by Filipina Vlogger Rubeauti who makes the claim that Filipinas don't like rough play like face-slapping or dirty talk and are afraid of large penises:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jViy...cpYVz&index=25
She then seems to disagree with herself- following up with the assertion that, well actually Filipinas DO like to be dominated. So which is it Rubeauti? Dominated gently? Vanilla sex with a slight edge? Could she be expressing her own preferences? Could this be what conservative province women tell each other to save face and then go wild in private?
I've only had experience with WG's, so can't vouch for civilians. Some seemed to go along with the rough play, some not so much- it was hard to quantify. All tried, at least, to be accommodating to some degree. This was somewhat before I explored my DeepThroat fetish in South / Central America so I am also curious about the prevalence of that fetish.
Board Members have any opinions on this issue?
I will be finally back this summer for a few months to test all hypothesis- see you guys soon!
RakS.