Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

[AsianPursuits]

I'm on Manila now, as I can't liar to my future wife they stop talking with me because I always was in chat with more than one. Then, I don't have decent girls to meet here.

What can I do? Some of them wants to meet me but only looks for fun and I want serious one.

I only could accept one bareback sex as much with a very beauty woman. Do you meet any good bar for this? How safe is put the woman in the hotel with me? I don't want thiefs.

But this one time as much, I'm looking for serious wife and marry her this month.

Stop looking and start enjoying. Go around the place being a nice guy. Go to church a few times until the good girls trust you.

I seriously think you are going to get rorted and ripped off with your current approach. Slow down. Meet some girls. Work out which pinay attributes you like and which you don't.

[MrHappyKat]

I'm on Manila now, as I can't liar to my future wife they stop talking with me because I always was in chat with more than one. Then, I don't have decent girls to meet here.

What can I do? Some of them wants to meet me but only looks for fun and I want serious one.

I only could accept one bareback sex as much with a very beauty woman. Do you meet any good bar for this? How safe is put the woman in the hotel with me? I don't want thiefs.

But this one time as much, I'm looking for serious wife and marry her this month.

There is virtually NO chance that marrying a bar girl will work out in your favor. There's an old joke in the US: You don't pay a hooker for sex, you pay her to leave after sex.

There are many vlogs on YouTube on finding a long-term relationship with a Pinay. That is a good place to research.

[MrJones87]

I'm on Manila now, as I can't liar to my future wife they stop talking with me because I always was in chat with more than one. Then, I don't have decent girls to meet here.

What can I do? Some of them wants to meet me but only looks for fun and I want serious one.

I only could accept one bareback sex as much with a very beauty woman. Do you meet any good bar for this? How safe is put the woman in the hotel with me? I don't want thiefs.

But this one time as much, I'm looking for serious wife and marry her this month.

I am a newbie. I am quite young, probably the same age as you, more or less.

What I don't understand is that you seem to look for a good girl to build your life with, but you seek advice on a monger's forum. Like wtf?

Moreover, you want to meet your chosen one and marry her within a month. Wtf again? Marrying someone is not like buying groceries at the supermarket.

If you're looking for girls to have sex with, this forum can provide useful information. If you're looking for the love of your life, this is probably not the best place. You should take time to know the girl, see if there is an alchemy. But that's just my opinion.

[Don Malo]

I'm on Manila now, as I can't liar to my future wife they stop talking with me because I always was in chat with more than one. Then, I don't have decent girls to meet here.

What can I do? Some of them wants to meet me but only looks for fun and I want serious one.

I only could accept one bareback sex as much with a very beauty woman. Do you meet any good bar for this? How safe is put the woman in the hotel with me? I don't want thiefs.

But this one time as much, I'm looking for serious wife and marry her this month.

[Goferring]

I also think they want to fool themselves. Common theme on meeting chicks online in the Dominican Republic is that they will send you a message saying they are looking for a serious relationship. (A lot of times I ask what their idea of a serious relationship is which turns out they have no fucking idea. It is just a repeated cliche.) But when you say sorry I am only looking for adventures or P4 P then they will say well that is fine too. These hoes ain't shit! LOL.

I've asked many if they are happy with hookups until Mr Right arrives. Inevitably it's "Sure".

[Mr Enternational]

Girls' online profile is for their friends and family's benefit, not the guys. It's so that they can seem like good girls while offering to suck dick for 1000 peso.

I also think they want to fool themselves. Common theme on meeting chicks online in the Dominican Republic is that they will send you a message saying they are looking for a serious relationship. (A lot of times I ask what their idea of a serious relationship is which turns out they have no fucking idea. It is just a repeated cliche.) But when you say sorry I am only looking for adventures or P4 P then they will say well that is fine too. These hoes ain't shit! LOL.

[DJ FourMoney]

I do not think you have to be on the ground at all, but you better damn sure be able to capture attention. Back in the day when chat rooms and shit started out it was like butter getting chicks. They were impressed to meet a guy from another place that was actually interested in them and would come to see them (I am talking in the same country as well as other countries.) But the honeymoon was over a long time ago. All it is now from guys is show me your tits and all it is from women is send me some money.

Online you are competing with thousands of other guys. It is like the sperm racing up the channel to see who can get to the egg first. On the ground in a personal interaction there is nobody else around to compete with for attention. The unfortunate part is that these days many chicks see a bird in the hand as being worth less than 2 in the Bush, so they choose the chasing waterfalls route.

I don't disagree but relatively few men are making the trek to the Philippines unless they are being paid to go.

Meaning that most of these girls will never see the majority of men they have been interacting with online. It looks to me that Filipinas are hedging their bets by contacting as many men as possible in the hopes that one will finally make the trip to meet her.

That is still low hanging fruit because upper class Filipinas are not spending time online, all hours of the day, because they have jobs. College students have classes to go too and study if they are serious a out their education.

What men generally do here is White Knighting. They figure if they get some chick from the sticks she won't cause any waves. But as Tony Huge has said these types of women don't generate stimulating conversations much of the time because their experience with the West is limited.

99% of topics concerning women in South East Asia is about working class women, dark skin and short.

If that is what you want great but I still think self esteem is an issue because these aren't even the best looking dark skin, working class Asian women they are average and below much of the time.

[Goferring]

Or, to put that another way: if I have a wife back home, I'm open about that, does that ruin my chances with most (non-pro) Filipinas? Is the average college girl open to being a foreigner's medium-to-long-term mistress / affair partner?

I see a lot of language on girls' profiles on PH dating apps about "no cheaters", but I can't tell whether they mean "no men who are cheating on their wives with me" or just "no men who cheat on me with hookers. " Do Filipinas care if they're "the other woman", as long as they're "the" woman that you focus on as long as you're in PH?

Does it change anything if I'm renting a house in PH while I'm there, and would be willing to let them "play house" as the female head of the household?

Girls' online profile is for their friends and family's benefit, not the guys. It's so that they can seem like good girls while offering to suck dick for 1000 peso.

The vast majority of girls don't care about your situation at home. As much as we like to ignore it, it's just about the money. That applies for 'non-pros' too. She may not be charging per session but expect to 'help' with school fees, sick family etc.

Enjoy. G.

[Mr Enternational]

Does it change anything if I'm renting a house in PH while I'm there, and would be willing to let them "play house" as the female head of the household?

In other words you want to fuck them AND get them to do housework?

[Chocha Monger]

Or, to put that another way: if I have a wife back home, I'm open about that, does that ruin my chances with most (non-pro) Filipinas? Is the average college girl open to being a foreigner's medium-to-long-term mistress / affair partner?

I see a lot of language on girls' profiles on PH dating apps about "no cheaters", but I can't tell whether they mean "no men who are cheating on their wives with me" or just "no men who cheat on me with hookers. " Do Filipinas care if they're "the other woman", as long as they're "the" woman that you focus on as long as you're in PH?

Does it change anything if I'm renting a house in PH while I'm there, and would be willing to let them "play house" as the female head of the household?

You will have no problem finding a mistress if you offer generous financial support and upscale lodging. Initially, you will have lots of fun cheating on your wife with your live-in mistress. Over the long term, your Filipina mistress will start snooping on you. Once she learns enough about your wife through social media, she will want to replace your legal wife. Expect your wife to receive a phone call or social media message saying more or less, "I am your husband's mistress. He fack me every night here in Philippines. ".

I know you are thinking that your Filipina mistress wouldn't do this because you told her about your wife at the start of the affair. You would be very wrong and underestimating the Filipina inclination for insane jealousy and drama. You can kiss your marriage and reputation goodbye once she starts posting the affair on social media to inform your wife, employer, friends and family.

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/hn1GZq2-tMc

[Zach Hammond]

Or, to put that another way: if I have a wife back home, I'm open about that, does that ruin my chances with most (non-pro) Filipinas? Is the average college girl open to being a foreigner's medium-to-long-term mistress / affair partner?

I see a lot of language on girls' profiles on PH dating apps about "no cheaters", but I can't tell whether they mean "no men who are cheating on their wives with me" or just "no men who cheat on me with hookers. " Do Filipinas care if they're "the other woman", as long as they're "the" woman that you focus on as long as you're in PH?

Does it change anything if I'm renting a house in PH while I'm there, and would be willing to let them "play house" as the female head of the household?

[Goferring]

The unfortunate part is that these days many chicks see a bird in the hand as being worth less than 2 in the Bush, so they choose the chasing waterfalls route.

With good reason. Previously, online was only an enabler to allow girls to meet guys for paid dates, gifts, maybe even a visa and marriage. Now online can be a revenue stream in itself and often many times that possible from working bars etc and no need to have sex with sweaty old men, be permanently labelled as a hooker, be caught out by uncles in the bar etc.

[Mr Enternational]

I agree with Engine, most men chase low hanging fruit and expect a fine dinning experience. That is not how things work. You can find diamonds in the rough otherwise that phase wouldn't exist, but that takes time and you must be on the ground in these countries not use the internet as a replacement for interaction.

I do not think you have to be on the ground at all, but you better damn sure be able to capture attention. Back in the day when chat rooms and shit started out it was like butter getting chicks. They were impressed to meet a guy from another place that was actually interested in them and would come to see them (I am talking in the same country as well as other countries.) But the honeymoon was over a long time ago. All it is now from guys is show me your tits and all it is from women is send me some money.

Online you are competing with thousands of other guys. It is like the sperm racing up the channel to see who can get to the egg first. On the ground in a personal interaction there is nobody else around to compete with for attention. The unfortunate part is that these days many chicks see a bird in the hand as being worth less than 2 in the Bush, so they choose the chasing waterfalls route.

[D Cups]

Hey DD did you knock her up and start a family?

Not yet but she would be a terrific wife and mother.

[Sammon]

Copy that, G. My 22 yo live-in has no bar experience but is getting better at pole dancing at least on my pole. Cheers.

Hey DD did you knock her up and start a family?