Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

[Don Malo]

Maybe you were not listening closely. I am pretty sure she said when a relationship became official that the foreigner must take a gift to the family. You would have a hard time convincing me that the average Filipino has 30,000 pesos to give away to his girlfriend's family. Besides that, experience tells me otherwise. I have been in a relationship with several Filipinas and have never been asked to give money to them or their families.

You should have come here and done the smart thing and asked before taking her word. My response to her would have been to show me the Filipino dude that has done this shit you are telling me is supposed to be done. And if she could point out the dude, I would say now show me one who is not a damn fool that has done it.

At least she didn't ask me for money since this gift, I Just país her travels with me and our dates, no gifts to her.

I spend 30.000 pesos is gifts tot he family, they were in hall and choosed many things.

She shares all her salary with her family and she know I won't pay her family with all money she put never. Thats not my problem and I can't provide for kids, housewife and a whole family there. She is giving 30 k pesos monthly to her family.

[AsianPursuits]

Want someone make a sex test to her? Like meet her and try to see if she is really like it seems and I finally founded the woman of my life and future family? For example, if she has sex with other boy, she will be totally discarded but if one boy courts her and she refuses him, it would means that she is the correct one.

Bye,

I am willing to be the one to perform this sex test. In my industry we would call it "intrusion detection".

If you PM me her FilipinaCupid profile link I will make contact with her.

P.S.: There is your first clue. Why is her profile still active?

PPS: Another clue. Why does she know how to give HJ in the taxi?

PPPS. Another clue. Why does she expect you to hand over one month of wages for her family?

Put it another way, in your universe you are being asked for one month salary for access to her pussy. She's jealous not of you but of making sure some other pinay doesn't get a look in to her pay check.

[Mr Enternational]

Filipina woman said me that when a relationship became official the boy must make a gift to the family. Second gift in wedding day.

Maybe you were not listening closely. I am pretty sure she said when a relationship became official that the foreigner must take a gift to the family. You would have a hard time convincing me that the average Filipino has 30,000 pesos to give away to his girlfriend's family. Besides that, experience tells me otherwise. I have been in a relationship with several Filipinas and have never been asked to give money to them or their families.

You should have come here and done the smart thing and asked before taking her word. My response to her would have been to show me the Filipino dude that has done this shit you are telling me is supposed to be done. And if she could point out the dude, I would say now show me one who is not a damn fool that has done it.

[Don Malo]

I think you should send more money. Did she ask for the 30,000 pesos for her family the first time? I seriously doubt it. You are just supposed to send without her asking if you are really her boyfriend and a gentleman. You need to send money every week sir.

Filipina woman said me that when a relationship became official the boy must make a gift to the family. Second gift in wedding day.

I won't send more money to hers or her family as long she has a job and I don't care her family problems, that's their responsibility, not mine.

If she become housewife I could send 8000 pesos monthly to her family, in Mindanao is many money but in Cebu is a shit of money. They aren't my responsibility and I just need take care of my future wife and kids.

I think JL likes cuckolding relationship, I'm not disagree with that but nowadays social media and finance system are encouraging males to veganism, ecologism and cuckolding. They want to destroy our Society.

[Mr Enternational]

I met that girl in Tacloban in November. She was the kindest and sweetest girl I have met to date. We were together for more than two weeks in an apartment and I noticed that we were in love with each other. She was very jealous. I told her: when I get home, you can have sex whoever you want because, even if I meet you other times, you can't do without sex or find yourself a boyfriend. So you are a completely free girl and you can do what you want. But if you have sex or find a boyfriend you have to tell me.

LOL. Why would you fucking care? Sounds like a trap to me. If my girlfriend said if you have sex with other girls you have to come back and volunteer the info to me I would say okay, but I damn sure would not tell her. Where do you guys get these crazy ideas from?

That is like some shit I read yesterday of the Internal Revenue Service in the USA just made an announcement that people must report their criminal income on their taxes. Who the fuck would do that? I guess the same person that would come home from fucking another guy and call their boyfriend up and say yeah JL, I just finished sucking off Pete from down the street.

[Mr Enternational]

I paid all our dates together, travels, 4000 pesos of medical services due to she was sick two days and 30,000 pesos to her family.

What do you think? I talk with her every day one hour through video call and she never asked me for money.

I think you should send more money. Did she ask for the 30,000 pesos for her family the first time? I seriously doubt it. You are just supposed to send without her asking if you are really her boyfriend and a gentleman. You need to send money every week sir.

[Don Malo]

Hello,

I will make a summary:

Manila: first day on LaCafe and Royale for fun. LaCafe was in the morning, I thought one girl was beautiful but after nude her body has a downgrade. Royale in night, awful level of womans. , I didn't pay no one service there. Thats more like a normal discoteque.

Just one day into payment sex. After that I meet some girls in Manila and Tarlac City, no sex. I lost my time because many of them were 18-20 why old students and I can't wait many years of distance relationship because I'm already old and I'm losing my change to have kids.

Cebu: in Cebu I meet my current girlfriend, she is early 20 but with bachelors degree already finished, I meet her on FilipinoCupid, we tried sex first day because each other develop a strong love attraction for the other. Her pussy was sweet but not accesible due to no sex experience on this woman. I didn't forced her pussy because I don't use anticonceptive and I want to avoid a unwanted pregnancy.

After one week together we decide be a formal couple (I refused sex with hers every day), so we started bareback sex, her first penetration was painful and she had blood like a virgin, but she isn't virgin because was raped in a discoteque many time ago.

After that I was worried because she became like sex addicted, we had sex even in the airplane when I was doing masturbation to her pussy. She even masturbate me into my trunks into Cebu taxies.

She was caring and lovely with me all time, I meet all her family and some of her friends.

Moreover, she is extraordinary jealous. Even so, in February she had the menstruation, so no kid yet. I paid all our dates together, travels, 4000 pesos of medical services due to she was sick two days and 30,000 pesos to her family.

She is true catholic and pray before each food, we were going to church all sundays even when we were in other islands.

What do you think? I talk with her every day one hour through video call and she never asked me for money.

Want someone make a sex test to her? Like meet her and try to see if she is really like it seems and I finally founded the woman of my life and future family? For example, if she has sex with other boy, she will be totally discarded but if one boy courts her and she refuses him, it would means that she is the correct one.

Bye,

[JonesLover]

I noticed that my post triggered many doubts. So now I explain well.

I met that girl in Tacloban in November. She was the kindest and sweetest girl I have met to date. We were together for more than two weeks in an apartment and I noticed that we were in love with each other. She was very jealous. I told her: when I get home, you can have sex whoever you want because, even if I meet you other times, you can't do without sex or find yourself a boyfriend. So you are a completely free girl and you can do what you want. But if you have sex or find a boyfriend you have to tell me. For me this is the most important thing because I hate lies. She assured me that she would do this. Back home she kept writing to me every day and she was falling more and more in love with me. But since she didn't write to me for 3 days, I thought badly. But I was right. Ajajajajaja In fact I told a friend of mine to write to her and to meet her but she said that she was in Manila. Etc. Etc and that she would meet him after two days because she was at her aunt's house and she wouldn't let her out. Meanwhile she told me that she was staying at home. I asked her why she hadn't written to me for 3 days and she replied because she had to take exams. I asked her to activate a video call, but she made up an excuse for me. I then asked my friend to video call her and she answered. She wasn't at home, but she was in a good apartment. Instead of my friend she saw me. Jajajajajaja Three days ago it was her birthday and I sent her a nice picture of me in bed with a girl. Jejejeje Don't worry please, we were dressed, I don't send around daring photos. She complimented me because I had a very beautiful girlfriend. Then the communication ended. After 3 days, today she wrote to me asking how many hours of travel she had to do from Manila to reach Europe. I replied about 20 hours with the stop and change of planes. She marveled as she believed it was a more challenging journey. But I still don't understand why she asked me this.

[Mr Enternational]

But even though she told me she was at home in her city, she instead went to fuck a guy on another island. This also happened to me with another girl. With us foreigners they look for true love but then they screw us over.

What does love have to do with sex? Did you have some type of agreement in place that you would not have sex with other people? Because usually people do not, and it is something that I myself would never agree to.

[WestCoast1]

I was in love with her and she was madly in love with me. She was beautiful kind, polite and sweet. We spent 2 weeks together full time. Then I returned home and she wrote to me every day with the same passion.

JL: What is this in relation to? Was there a previous post about this girl? This seems a random post about something. Its difficult to respond to.

[Dg8787]

I was in love with her and she was madly in love with me. She was beautiful kind, polite and sweet. We spent 2 weeks together full time. Then I returned home and she wrote to me every day with the same passion. But even though she told me she was at home in her city, she instead went to fuck a guy on another island. This also happened to me with another girl. With us foreigners they look for true love but then they screw us over. With Filipinos, however, girls are looking for sex. I believe that a beautiful girl has sex with a different guy every week. If you are poor, perhaps to get money. I think they fuck just as much with everyone, young and old, as rabbits do.

Sadly professed love does not put food on the table. She still has to provide for herself and her family.

How do you know she went and fucked some other guy on another island?

How did you meet her? Was she a bargirl? FL?

Did you profess a commitment to her and send some support?

[JonesLover]

I was in love with her and she was madly in love with me. She was beautiful kind, polite and sweet. We spent 2 weeks together full time. Then I returned home and she wrote to me every day with the same passion. But even though she told me she was at home in her city, she instead went to fuck a guy on another island. This also happened to me with another girl. With us foreigners they look for true love but then they screw us over. With Filipinos, however, girls are looking for sex. I believe that a beautiful girl has sex with a different guy every week. If you are poor, perhaps to get money. I think they fuck just as much with everyone, young and old, as rabbits do.

[AsianPursuits]

Somewhere in the forum I recall reading about the sex life of filipina and their pinoys. They both live at home with their parents, they don't have much money, chismis doesn't support them going off to stay in a hotel together. So I guess they have to get creative about how and where they have introductory sex.

This translates quite nicely when these Filipinas land here in my country as foreign students.

I have romantic ideas of taking any new flames away for a romantic weekend or needing to book local hotels or having them over to my place for the night.

But for the more rural unmarried filipina used to having a quickie in between family activities they seem happy with a fuck in the back seat of the car, delivering a BBBJ in the shopping centre car park and most recently a quick HJ while we were stuck in traffic.

I can only assume I am not the only one finding this streak of gold in out otherwise punting prison.

[AsianPursuits]

The girls tell us things like "Oh I like older guys", "Oh your cock is so big".

What are the equivalent ones that we politely tell the girls? I know a few I use in all cases:

- Why do I like filipina? Oh because you are so caring and have a good heart.

- (any filipina over size 10) - oh I love your ass.

- any filipina over size 12 - oh I prefer chubby.

-upon first penetration. OMG, you are so tight and wet.

It made me wonder what are the lines that we spin to the girls that are polite.

[AsianPursuits]

Looks like you already have the game messed up. You are the one with the money. She should be trying to impress you.

What kind of bullshit question is that? You get someone to love you the same way you get them to be your friend. YOU DON'T! Shit just happens.

Read the context of the post before you sprout mindless words.