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09-25-09 03:32 #2336
Posts: 994Binding responsibility 24/7
That is work few are able to do - binding responsibility 24/7.
Originally Posted by Warbucks
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09-25-09 03:22 #2335
Posts: 994Islam v Non-Violence Movement.
One created concept of Islam and the other created the non-violence movement against the Bristish.
Each divorced the other to start a quasi-seperate states of India and Pakistan.
As far as sex goes they sure have a huge population.
Originally Posted by Lustforthrust
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09-25-09 02:58 #2334
Posts: 3359Or you could learn to cook, hire a maid, and not act like such a tool.
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09-25-09 02:52 #2333
Posts: 391Well thanks for the encouragement guys. I still feel bad. If I had been a little more patient, I could have enjoyed the pussy (and bare back sex) for a full year or more before she took off. Would have gotten more for my trouble.
Not really a keeper though. Immigration should give us a 1 year deadline to get married on a K1 Visa. The girl was a 8-9 in bed, a 6 in cooking and getting better, but only a 4 for housework, and less interested in the home business. I had to buy her an iron right away, but in 6 months, not a single one of my shirts got pressed!
I'll try again because I got another 10 years here before I can pull in social security (if it will still exist!), so I got time for another marriage! I mean, having someone to cook, clean, help with the bookkeeping, and wring my chicken is worth the trouble--if I don't go overboard on spending on her up front.
Retiring to the PI later is looking better to me though, as I no longer have any children in the states.
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09-24-09 16:15 #2332
Posts: 316Originally Posted by Cunning Stunt
When witches were burnt in Europe, Indians were sculpturing erotica on their temples. Now they are burning, selling, beating their women when Europa is sexually liberated.
Hundreds of temples to loot, destroy, deface, millions of people to brainwash etc. India took time and that's what saved Thailand, Myanmar and others from the sexually repressive Islamic morals.
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09-24-09 13:42 #2331
Posts: 1856Hang on..
Originally Posted by Yella Man
Legalities are loosely observed because of lack of money for wedding ceremony costs/officials etc.
I do agree with your anecdote about paying to make inconvenient past events go away. Paying to have past marriages vanish, paying to have missing birth, education, health, death records appear, yes that is very common.
AV
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09-22-09 04:37 #2330
Posts: 498Shacking Up!
Originally Posted by Warbucks
The only time a Filipina will shack-up with another man is after they have been married and the marriage goes south. Since the Philippines is mainly a catholic country, they don't believe in divorce so it's extremely difficult if not impossible for them to do. They tend to go with the alternative instead; "The Life Partner", as so many Filipinas have told me they have, is someone they leave their spouse for to live with indefinitly (or until they meet a new Life Partner) Culturally, it's exceptable for them to shack-up with their Life Partner.
Which reminds me of a story. While in Korea a friend of mine married a Filipina Bar girl who was a friend of one of the girls I was seeing at the time. The girl I was seeing often called me up in the early morning hours after her bar was closed and would ask me to pick her up. Being the big horn dog that I am, I would usually pick her up and we would drink, sing karaoke, and fuck all morning long. One time, after we finished a good drunk sex session and were laying in bed, she told me that the girl who married my friend was already married to a Filipino guy, and that she had two children by him. She made me promise not to tell my friend. Evidently the girl paid a bunch of money to fix her previous history of marriage and make it disappear. The power of the Peso can corrupt anyone in the Philippines!
Yella Man
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09-21-09 23:27 #2329
Posts: 553Not all Filipinas are just after the green card
They are not all the same. I'm 49 and married my wife 5 years ago when she was 20. I brought her here on a fiancee visa. She got her green card, then got her US citizenship about a year ago.
We still make love about 6-7 times a week, and my wife initiates sex more than half the time. She takes great delight in waking me up in the middle of the night, or early morning, by sitting on my face and smothering me with her pussy. I was married twice before to American women, and always thought that it was natural for a woman to moan and complain about having sex. My current wife is, without a doubt, a dream come true. She's funny, intelligent, affectionate, very open minded sexually, and has a libido that won't quit.
I know I am biased, but my wife is an extremely attractive Filipina, and she gets hit on constantly. She is a very hard worker and now has a really good job. We have agreed that she can send $200 each month to her family, which comes out of her salary, so I think that's reasonable.
Of course, no marriage is 100 percent perfect. She still gets mad if she thinks I am ogling another woman, or if my ex-wife calls to talk about my kids. But I have never had reason to doubt her loyalty.
I think I lucked out because I took the time to really get to know my wife before we were married. I took 3 trips to the Philippines to spend time with her, and she came home with me to the US on my third trip.
I hope no one sees this post as a criticism of mongering. I've done my share of mongering before I finally found the right lady, and I still enjoy this site to sort of re-live my mongering days. But, for me, random sex without emotion gets a bit old and boring.
Originally Posted by Jambo
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09-21-09 13:41 #2328
Posts: 1342Marriage/PI...... A Few Thoughts
Marriage is an archaic institution IMHO. Financially binding yourself to someone in this day and age of 50% divorce rates make me cringe. If you like someone stay with them. When you don’t like them anymore you can leave without a taking an emotional or financial hit. Filipinas don’t like shacking up (a co-habitat, sexual relationship but not married) though they like to get married only to show you off as a trophy and to prove that they can lock someone down. They feel this elevates their social status (I guess in their culture it does). But as Yella Man said there is no need.
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09-21-09 12:55 #2327
Posts: 498Lesson Not Learned:
Originally Posted by Jambo
Lesson not learned: You don't need to get married to lead a happy life. Save your money, take your trips abroad, screw the most delectable young morsels the world has to offer, and then go back to your home country and start the cycle all over again. Maybe when you're old enough to collect Social Security or better yet, start receiving a pension, then go live your remaining years of life abroad chasing young (or old) pussy in third world countries. But if you do marry a foreign girl, stay, work and live in her country if possible. Taking her back home to meet momma so to speak, is not a good idea. She will hardly ever meet your expectations.
Yella Man
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09-21-09 04:20 #2326
Posts: 2656Originally Posted by Jambo
You should kiss her ass! At least she got a bit too eager to trade up before she had your balls firmly adjusted in the vise. She could have waited until she popped out a kid. She could have accused you of being an abusive old wanker and filed a police report stating that you beat her ass. The latter would have certainly secured her green card without your consent.
Yes. She went for a younger stiffer, perhaps even wealthier cock but then you knew that all of that would happen even before you married the little angel. Did you not? Well, at least you got to root a pretty little hole for a while and show her off at home. Just think of it like a really expensive bar fine for almost 6 months. You'll come away from it sadder but wiser. I'll bet people told you not to do it but you just had to find out for yourself. When it comes to pussy most of us are that way. Don't think too hard on it. You may be crying into your beer now but you'll be out wh*ring again in no time, maybe even marrying again. Really, Jambo don't be too hard on her. Remember how you were when you first got to the Philippines and saw all that young cheap pussy? She was just a kid in a candy store!
Originally Posted by JamboOriginally Posted by JamboOriginally Posted by Jambo
One day, a scorpion looked around at the mountain where he lived and decided that he wanted a change. So he set out on a journey through the forests and hills. He climbed over rocks and under vines and kept going until he reached a river.
The river was wide and swift, and the scorpion stopped to reconsider the situation. He couldn't see any way across. So he ran upriver and then checked downriver, all the while thinking that he might have to turn back.
Suddenly, he saw a frog sitting in the rushes by the bank of the stream on the other side of the river. He decided to ask the frog for help getting across the stream.
"Hellooo Mr. Frog!" called the scorpion across the water, "Would you be so kind as to give me a ride on your back across the river?"
"Well now, Mr. Scorpion! How do I know that if I try to help you, you wont try to kill me?" asked the frog hesitantly.
"Because," the scorpion replied, "If I try to kill you, then I would die too, for you see I cannot swim!"
Now this seemed to make sense to the frog. But he asked. "What about when I get close to the bank? You could still try to kill me and get back to the shore!"
"This is true," agreed the scorpion, "But then I wouldn't be able to get to the other side of the river!"
"Alright then...how do I know you wont just wait till we get to the other side and THEN kill me?" said the frog.
"Ahh...," crooned the scorpion, "Because you see, once you've taken me to the other side of this river, I will be so grateful for your help, that it would hardly be fair to reward you with death, now would it?!"
So the frog agreed to take the scorpion across the river. He swam over to the bank and settled himself near the mud to pick up his passenger. The scorpion crawled onto the frog's back, his sharp claws prickling into the frog's soft hide, and the frog slid into the river. The muddy water swirled around them, but the frog stayed near the surface so the scorpion would not drown. He kicked strongly through the first half of the stream, his flippers paddling wildly against the current.
Halfway across the river, the frog suddenly felt a sharp sting in his back and, out of the corner of his eye, saw the scorpion remove his stinger from the frog's back. A deadening numbness began to creep into his limbs.
"You fool!" croaked the frog, "Now we shall both die! Why on earth did you do that?"
The scorpion shrugged, and did a little jig on the drownings frog's back.
"I could not help myself. It is my nature."
Then they both sank into the muddy waters of the swiftly flowing river.
Self destruction - "Its my Nature", said the Scorpion...
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09-21-09 03:05 #2325
Posts: 391I Just Screwed Up a Relationship
I can't say it all here yet. Am sending a girl home after less than 6 months of marriage. She is is lovely and gave it a good try. I became a jerk--and with a pretty girl there is always some other guy she can chat up who seems perfect to her, and that's just what she did. Things may suck at home, but I won't tolerate infidelity. I am looking at spending $1,100 to submit the adjustment of status (AOS), and most certainly have her walk on my as soon as she has a green card. Or spend about that much and send her home. Its a no-brainer for me. I am just upset about all the time lost and money spent. And screwing with her life as well.
Lesson learned for the girls: wait until the green card is in hand before you stop putting out.
My lesson learned: stop looking at pretty, popular girls to marry, at least until I become really rich. Look for older girls, and ones who have proven themselves by being hired in the PI. I did have a prenup, and most of my assets in a corporation, so I was never worried much. Even better, she left here and moved in with a friend. If you know US divorce, getting the girl to move out is kind of a slam dunk--you can't be forced out of your home, and will prob keep what is in there. Be we aren't even going there--she will sign a no fault and get on a plane. She has no green card.
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09-18-09 14:39 #2324
Posts: 3003I came, I saw, I f***ed
Originally Posted by Born Loser 5
Originally Posted by Born Loser 5
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09-18-09 01:14 #2323
Posts: 4084Originally Posted by Born Loser 5
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09-17-09 16:44 #2322
Posts: 993Originally Posted by FreebieFan
To start a fresh, chanced on for some work in the greenbelt area and stumbled upon Havana cafe.
I think taxi folks will have difficulty if a monger tells directly to take him to Havana cafe, better to say greenbelt and then walk across the restaurants and find star bucks which is near Havana cafe.
Quality seems to be higher than what mongers have written before, the pro's and semi-pro's have a minimum height of 5' 6" it seems, all tall hookers seems to be in green belt area.
Quality wise, the girls who hunt in Havana seems better looking than La cafe or normal bars, may be it was the dim light not sure or the girls were really regular high society types, but the obvious ones were also good looking.
Lots of eye contacts, scanned the area, will hunt it properly next time.