Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

[Pinaypounder]

Living in Bangkok so not sure this applies but here goes.

Met this Pinay in Bangkok and I must say, WOW what a change to most Thai ladies.

First, I can have a conversation with her in English without any misunderstandings. Don't have to explain myself for a word that she misunderstood and is upset about (due to lack of Vocabulary).

Second, she is coming from a family that does not need money, she always wants to pay her half and buys me gifts left and right.

Last, the sex is mind blowing. She's the definition of an energizer bunny, very high libido..

The woman is being sincere in my opinion. Filipinas want kids I don't fully understand why but I know that they want one. She was likely 100% serious about not making you pay, but a good man would not knowingly create a child then abandon it in my opinion.

Many friends and acquaintances there have told me that they want a child from a decent DNA specimen, many have had spawn from Men they know were married. I have always admonished them and told them a child needs two parents, but all classes of women seem to think that just a mom is good enough and having 2 parents is not even a goal. I guess one could consider this to be a pragmatic approach but if you observe how Filipino males interact with women there you can see the damage done.

They want a child and that is that. Most of them don't even raise their kids as we know took me a few years to understand that, its an economic thing, but oddly when they want a child it is super easy to find a man to provide the seed.

95% of them do not even pursue Child support which oddly Filipino law supports. THEY simply want a child. I guess it provides a sense of need?

Kids in the West are certainly more work and require a far greater investment of time and resources.

I have not yet gotten snipped but with regulars I do like the 3 month Birth Control injection.

I find it all so odd in a "Catholic" country and I used to judge them rather harshly for their actions now I just simply wonder why.

The lady you met is not a pyscho just selfish in our western view I mean most of us try to raise kids with a mom and dad and most of us try to be fathers even thought the courts here in canuck land are a farce.

Be careful try not to contribute to new unfathered children karma is a *****.

PP.

[Goferring]

Run for what? Stand strong! I wish a bich WOULD think she is about to punk me into running away. I have had the same phone number for the last 21 years. I stay easy to find, because I am never lost.

True.

The moment the girls have something to hold over you then that's when you are truely fucked and open to be pressured or coerced. That's why guys that are supposedly hiding that they are married or their true identities are the ones who should be worried. Go in with a IDGAF attitude and the girls have nothing to hold over you. 👍.

[Nice Guy 99]

Thanks for the answers guys, much appreciated.

She said she's going to go back to actively looking for a potential husband.

Good for her!

I think this confirms my assessment that she would be an Option 4 candidate, but, as that seems to be something you don't want, I guess that option is not viable. Were I you, NicF, respectfully, I would reexamine my life goals to ensure you are heading in the right direction.

[Sammon]

Filipinas are obsessed with children. It does not cost much to raise an extra kid or two in the slums and there's always plenty of Titas and Ates around to share the childcare load. It's like you or me wanting to get a kitten for our girlfriends back in RWML. A tin of tuna, a bag of kitty litter and a bowl of milk are not going to cost much.

Filipinas have no knowledge of birth control, have no access to contraceptives and have 400 years of Catholic Church doctrine to adhere to. Therefore, every kid that pops out is indeed a gift from God. And I'm talking about the college educated ones.

I'm currently chatting to a 30 year old, "college educated" MILF with three kids. You're probably thinking why would a 350 pound, chrome domed, pock marked Quasimodo like me drop his standards like this? I normally chase 23 year old spinners. Let me assure you that if it wasn't for her totally hot, root worthy body and her mouth made in heaven for BBBJ, I would not be entertaining her hahaha.

Now this chick is borderline lower middle class as she doesn't quite live in a timber shack in slum town. Her father owns a car. She works as a beautician at the mall and I would think she earns around 10,000 peso a month plus commission on product sales. She's outsourced the care of her youngest two kids to her Tita and her eldest kid lives with her ex-BF. I don't know if all three kids are from the same father, but I assume they're not. Now this lady, despite not having the resources to look after her three kids, wants a fourth one. From me! Hahahahahaha. A kid with a foreigner monger seals the deal from her perspective.

I'm not sure how she anticipates this all working out. I think she wants me to fly to her city, make her pregnant, and then take her, the three kids from two previous boyfriends, plus our big nosed, half caste bastard all back to RWML. An instant Brady Bunch. Yes I can hardly wait. I shall make the visa arrangements right now and order the Toyota people mover while I'm at it. Hahahahahahaha.

This conversation with this MILF has 1 day to run before I pull the plug. Filipinas are the biggest fuckin' idiots on the planet.

All of what you said is true except ' Filippinas are the biggest fucking idiots '. In order to get to better life they will do anything.

You maybe smarter to avoid the trap but just think of many gullibles who fall for this. I have seen many philippina girls have done this and have been successful.

Nobody can blame them. We all try to better our life.

As for our benefit if you can play the game you get to fuck young normal non callgirls irrespective of your age. Where else in the world you can do that?

[Mr Enternational]

She was not happy knowing I'm also on Tinder chatting with other girls, and asked me "what are we?

My girlfriend in the Philippines keeps asking me the same thing, and I keep telling her that we are people.

[Mr Enternational]

It is amazing how mongers can fuck hundreds of hookers, yet remain completely clueless to female wiles. Obviously, the most likely outcome is Option 3. A Pinay with a good job, social status and independent means is not looking to make herself a pariah just to birth a big-nosed half-white bastard.

She is only saying that crazy stuff because she believes that the monger is a soft target who will shoulder the responsibility for his bastard without her having to ask.

Exactly!

If the monger does not want to become a daddy, he must stop fucking her immediately and run away. Find a new fitness club.

Run monger! Run away!

Run for what? Stand strong! I wish a bich WOULD think she is about to punk me into running away. I have had the same phone number for the last 21 years. I stay easy to find, because I am never lost.

[Mr Enternational]

Maybe you have already kids, or sadly like me, my kids are usually older than my filipina.

What the hell is so sad about that?

[Engine Driver]

Thanks for the answers guys, much appreciated.

1. She is not a working girl, she has a decent job in Bangkok and never asked me for any money.

2. She's coming to an age where it's time to have children (mid 30).

3. She's not happy with any ex-BF enough to marry and have kids.

I told her I am not a fan of kids, don't like them or want them, and even if she absolves me of all responsibilities, it's not the way to bring a child into the world. I mean, the little gargoyle should at least have the opportunity to have 2 parents.

She said she understands and accepts my decision.

She was not happy knowing I'm also on Tinder chatting with other girls, and asked me "what are we? Oh my. I don't want a GF (I'm already taken), so we just meet for fun or not at all.

She said she's going to go back to actively looking for a potential husband.

Filipinas are obsessed with children. It does not cost much to raise an extra kid or two in the slums and there's always plenty of Titas and Ates around to share the childcare load. It's like you or me wanting to get a kitten for our girlfriends back in RWML. A tin of tuna, a bag of kitty litter and a bowl of milk are not going to cost much.

Filipinas have no knowledge of birth control, have no access to contraceptives and have 400 years of Catholic Church doctrine to adhere to. Therefore, every kid that pops out is indeed a gift from God. And I'm talking about the college educated ones.

I'm currently chatting to a 30 year old, "college educated" MILF with three kids. You're probably thinking why would a 350 pound, chrome domed, pock marked Quasimodo like me drop his standards like this? I normally chase 23 year old spinners. Let me assure you that if it wasn't for her totally hot, root worthy body and her mouth made in heaven for BBBJ, I would not be entertaining her hahaha.

Now this chick is borderline lower middle class as she doesn't quite live in a timber shack in slum town. Her father owns a car. She works as a beautician at the mall and I would think she earns around 10,000 peso a month plus commission on product sales. She's outsourced the care of her youngest two kids to her Tita and her eldest kid lives with her ex-BF. I don't know if all three kids are from the same father, but I assume they're not. Now this lady, despite not having the resources to look after her three kids, wants a fourth one. From me! Hahahahahaha. A kid with a foreigner monger seals the deal from her perspective.

I'm not sure how she anticipates this all working out. I think she wants me to fly to her city, make her pregnant, and then take her, the three kids from two previous boyfriends, plus our big nosed, half caste bastard all back to RWML. An instant Brady Bunch. Yes I can hardly wait. I shall make the visa arrangements right now and order the Toyota people mover while I'm at it. Hahahahahahaha.

This conversation with this MILF has 1 day to run before I pull the plug. Filipinas are the biggest fuckin' idiots on the planet.

[Goferring]

She said she's going to go back to actively looking for a potential husband.

So it was "Option 1: She continues being a fuckbudy with no further demands nor expectations (unlikely) until she gets bored and moves on. ".

You've done well.

It sucks when a good thing draws to its inevitable close.

G.

[NicFrenchy]

Thanks for the answers guys, much appreciated.

1. She is not a working girl, she has a decent job in Bangkok and never asked me for any money.

2. She's coming to an age where it's time to have children (mid 30).

3. She's not happy with any ex-BF enough to marry and have kids.

I told her I am not a fan of kids, don't like them or want them, and even if she absolves me of all responsibilities, it's not the way to bring a child into the world. I mean, the little gargoyle should at least have the opportunity to have 2 parents.

She said she understands and accepts my decision.

She was not happy knowing I'm also on Tinder chatting with other girls, and asked me "what are we? Oh my. I don't want a GF (I'm already taken), so we just meet for fun or not at all.

She said she's going to go back to actively looking for a potential husband.

[Chocha Monger]

Option 3: she gets pregnant and goes nuts demanding support, love and compensation. See above. How much heartache will this cause you?

It is amazing how mongers can fuck hundreds of hookers, yet remain completely clueless to female wiles. Obviously, the most likely outcome is Option 3. A Pinay with a good job, social status and independent means is not looking to make herself a pariah just to birth a big-nosed half-white bastard. Such offspring will attract all kinds of attention back in her barangay. Once her compatriots discover that the white father did a pump and dump, they will ridicule him for cruelty and stinginess. Then they will spend every day telling her that the foreigner took advantage of her and she was stupid to allow it. Unlike Filipino men who are permitted to impregnate and evacuate, white men are expected to buy at least a house and lot for their half-Flip bastards.

Women say anything when they want to secure the seed of their preferred target. She will quickly forget all of declarations of impregnation without obligation once the deed is done. She is only saying that crazy stuff because she believes that the monger is a soft target who will shoulder the responsibility for his bastard without her having to ask. If the monger does not want to become a daddy, he must stop fucking her immediately and run away. Find a new fitness club.

In Flip culture, the giver of gifts does so to create a debt on the part of the receiver. This debt may be called in at any time in the future. Therefore, the refusal to donate sperm and further solidify the relationship will spawn bad feelings. This Pinay is a scorned woman now, good for the fucking but not good enough for the breeding.

Run monger! Run away!

[BrizLad]

My worry: she said she wants my child, that I won't have to do anything, claim the child or pay any child support. I was shocked and left.

I am sure I have heard this from a few different filipina. It's a next sign in a career and will keep her provincial parents busy.

You just have to tell her you are not interested in kids. Maybe you have already kids, or sadly like me, my kids are usually older than my filipina.

I did have one filipina who would not permit the use of condoms as it's God's wish if I am the one to get her pregnant. I just made sure I did not cum inside her.

I don't think your girl was genuinely serious.

[Nice Guy 99]

Option 1: She continues being a fuckbudy with no further demands nor expectations (unlikely) until she gets bored and moves on.

Option 2: You get her pregnant, continue to fuck her until you separate severing ties to her and your kid. Unlikely that she will be ok with no compensation and many will say a prick act on your part.

Option 3: she gets pregnant and goes nuts demanding support, love and compensation. See above. How much heartache will this cause you?

Option 4: The are many indicators in NicF's OP that indicate this girl is not a WG and has means of support. Marry her, have children and be happy. (This option is sometimes (I would say often) successful, but under reported on ISG. I know dozens of Caucasian men who are very happily married to Asian women. Some of these women were WGs).

[Bushes]

Happens a lot.

Not just with Filipinas but with also other girls. Difference is that I have seen many Filipinas who actually support the child but do not put as much social pressure as western girls for marriage or child support. I think more because of racism against them than lack of effort. Socially more acceptable for a westerner to walk away from child responsibilities if the girl is non white.

I have seen French girls go both way. Walk away without commitment or start WWIII and trash the guy socially and professionally.

I think it boils down to your personal philosophy. Do you feel OK holding her to her word and have no responsibility? Or are you in a position to skip a night out every fortnight and send the money you would have spent to her and help with expenses? Even better if you are in a position to get the child a passport from your country.

I have so far been successful in avoiding having to make that choice by declining the numerous offers I have received over the years. I have also maintained self control whenever put in a situation that could lead to that situation. I have stopped girls who start riding me while I am still asleep.

In short, I think the decision is less dependent on what she will do and more in what you want to do and can live with. You see around you the results of guys walking away. (Since you are in Thailand) It is a very personal choice.

Living in Bangkok so not sure this applies but here goes.

Met this Pinay in Bangkok and I must say, WOW what a change to most Thai ladies.

First, I can have a conversation with her in English without any misunderstandings. Don't have to explain myself for a word that she misunderstood and is upset about (due to lack of Vocabulary).

Second, she is coming from a family that does not need money, she always wants to pay her half and buys me gifts left and right.

Last, the sex is mind blowing. She's the definition of an energizer bunny, very high libido..

[Goferring]

Living in Bangkok so not sure this applies but here goes.

Met this Pinay in Bangkok and I must say, WOW what a change to most Thai ladies.

First, I can have a conversation with her in English without any misunderstandings. Don't have to explain myself for a word that she misunderstood and is upset about (due to lack of Vocabulary).

Second, she is coming from a family that does not need money, she always wants to pay her half and buys me gifts left and right.

Last, the sex is mind blowing. She's the definition of an energizer bunny, very high libido.

She's just a fuck buddy, she knows we won't ever be serious. Sorta FWB if you will.

My worry: she said she wants my child, that I won't have to do anything, claim the child or pay any child support. I was shocked and left.

She's been apologizing, saying she was just saying this but not serious.

I'm inclined to RUN, but we go to the same fitness club. Sometimes I feel I attract the psychos.

I guess my question is, how scared should I be? (didn't wear a condom but never finished inside, and she's on her period now so she's not pregnant).

On the positive side it's common for pinas to want a half white baby and for them to raise them alone once the father disappears.

On the negative side is a pina gone psycho is not a pretty sight. Being in LOS she won't have the same resources to fire against you as if she was in MNL but it still wouldn't be good. Do you have an image conscious job there? A wife and expensive pending divorce?

Depending on your position:

Option 1: She continues being a fuckbudy with no further demands nor expectations (unlikely) until she gets bored and moves on.

Option 2: You get her pregnant, continue to fuck her until you separate severing ties to her and your kid. Unlikely that she will be ok with no compensation and many will say a prick act on your part.

Option 3: she gets pregnant and goes nuts demanding support, love and compensation. See above. How much heartache will this cause you?