Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

[GoodEnough]

JT:

It's true. The Thais may be slightly sexier as are the Vietnamese I think, but no one is sweeter, more romantic and more in the moment than these ladies. I doubt that American women were ever quite so loving and quite so good in bed.

[JT]

Miao,
You are absolutely right. I never meet such sensual women in my entire life. Not in Africa, Europe, South America, and certainly NOT in N. America! Filipinas are really sweet and old fashioned. I love it. It kind of reminds me of what American woman had to of been like prior to the 1960's. The PI is definitely worth the 30 hours it takes to travel there, even for just a few days! Pics just don't do these girl's justice.

[Miao28]

The GFE of the Filippina is such an artform.

My experience with them is that they would SMS you everyday with all kind of love notes and then ask you for small favors like reloading their cellphones etc.

Sometimes I get a standardized message saying that they couldn't get through to me, not knowing that a few weeks previously they have sent an identical message. Obviously they must have a template of messages that they sent to all their so called boyfriends.
It is no point asking a Filippina if they have boyfriends. Most would not admit it. When you ask them why their telephone is always having a busy signal, they would say they are calling their family. As if they have so much to chat with their family.

But in the end, it is the ego massage that a Filippina provides. It is second to none. They really seem to mean what they say. Or is it a fiction of imagination that the guy wants to accept?

[GoodEnough]

Pinay Lover:

It's true about the ferry. It blew up, and killed more than 100 people and no one seems to know why, or at least no one is saying anything for public consumption. As to mongering, I understand what you mean. It's so easy here to establish a team of regulars that it's often not worth the effort to go fishing for more. I have recently however, found a couple of new places in Davao that are worth the effort.

Don't envy you the cold and the rain. I think I'm getting too old for the bay area and for cold weather in general. The weather here is getting slowly ever warmer, with a lot of rain.

Let me know when and/or if you ever get to Davao.

GE

[Firedick]

JT,

And here I thought I was pretty gentle.

My apologies if you thought I was biting your head off.

FD

[JT]

Thanks Firedick for the info. Gees, you didn't have to bit my head off. I just asked for YOUR opinion. I am not lazy and have read numerous opinions from many guys. I just wanted to see your perceptions. I have mongered extensively in other countries and get the same question over and over and still answer it over and over.

JT

[Firedick]

Fellow mongers. I could have put "IMHO" in front of all the below, but that would have gotten old. It is all just my opinion.


JT,

Since you're a "newbie" I'll let you off easy.

Questions such as this one, that have been asked and answered hundreds of times on this board are not appreciated. Don't be lazy. Read past reports. The search function will help narrow things down for you.

Now, that said, since you asked me directly: I have been to the LOS 15-20 times. I find Thai girls just as beautiful as the Filipinas (some will say more so), but I also find them more mercenary. They do not love you, no matter how convincing the reverse may seem. It is just about the Baht. Most of the Thai girls also speak only a bit of English. Usually not a problem unless you want them to hang around more than a night.

I find the big advantages of Thailand are more about the country than the girls. Great culture and history, superior infrastructure (although improving a bit in the RP) and cuisine.

Filipinas are far better for your ego. Not just the pros but all. Girls throughout the country have raised flirting to an artform.
I also find the bar scene far more playful in the RP. When you barfine a girl in the RP, they seem to convince themselves that they are your "girlfriend for a night" rather than just someone to get you off.

A case in point. When you BF a Thai BG and ask her what she'd like to do, she will most likely say "Go shopping". Ask the same of a Filipina BG and she will probably say "Go bar hopping".

Good luck,

FD

[JT]

Thanks FD,
I will definitely be coming back. Everyone is so friendly there. Have you been to the LOS? How do the women compare?

[Firedick]

JT,

Welcome to our world ! :)

FD

[JT]

Hello fellas,
This is my first reply in the Philippines section of this site. I have mongered in Europe, South America, and Mexico. I just got back today from my first trip to the PI and I am absolutely flaggergasted at how sensual and sexy the Filipinas were. They rocked my world! So far, the PI has IMHO the best GFE's in the world! I totally can see why so many Westerners go there and marry. They have to be the sweetest girls on the planet. I can't wait until I return in a few months. I hit EDSA in Manila and Angeles City. I only had positive experiences with the Filipinas I encountered.

[Pinay Lover]

Goodenough,

Arrived late Sunday night in SFO and it is cold and rainy. Quite a different weather experience now eventhough I was born and raised in The Bay Area. Feeling horny as hell and no place to go. Miss my girls in the PI already.

Speaking about english. I never had any problems communicating with the filipinas. Some were real rough and with a heavy accent while on the opposite spectrum, some were real fluent. Of course it also depends on the class of women you ick up and meet. But, in Thailand, english speaking girls are quite hard to find. Hard to maintain a decent conversation. One of the girls I spent the week with spoke very good english but seemed to learn the colorful adjectives and cussed in every sentence. Got her to control it because it got real tired real quick. Other than that, had a great time in Thailand.

I've hooked up with a few women on the internet while in Makati. Some was good, so-so and never again. Plus it takes some investment in time which is hard for me to come by with the last couple of months. I do not hit the mongering scene as much lately since I've been seeing my regulars by texting them. Or hooking up with my little Cebuana while in the Visayan region.

I'll be back sometime in the middle of next week and would be heading to Cagayan de Oro and Butuan City for some business for a few days. I might fly there since one of my girls I called said a ferry caught on fire.

Enjoy your new experiences and keep it up. Hope to hook up with you in Davao one of these days.

PL

[GoodEnough]

Pinay Lover:

I think the thing that ennervates me about Thailand is that the girls' English is so limited, and they all learn the same lines and expect the same responses from all the clients. At least here in the Philippines, there's a possiblity of making contact at some level beyond (or in addition to) sex. Also, the action here, at least as it appears to me, is less overtly commercial than in Thailand, aside from the bar scene that is.

I have learned from Dragon Slayer that encountering middle class, articulate Filipinas is reasonbly simple in chat rooms, and the follow up is pretty simple as well. I doubt that, for an English speaker, a similar situation would exist in Thaland. All told, I've been meeting a different class of women lately here, and enjoying the whole experience a bit more.

Have a good trip to the US.

GE

[Pinay Lover]

Goodenough,

Your right about Thailand still being the same. After two years. Not much has changed at all. Most of the clubs are still here and the women as aggressive in the streets as ever. Price is slightly higher but can't complain about how they made these into a business venture that was targeted for the likes of me.

Called one of my old contacts from Soi Cowboy but said she was already booked for the week. She referred me to a couple of her friends and sent them to meet meat the lobby of the hotel I was staying. She did not disappoint me. Thai girls are so cute especially with their long black silky hair. Picked one of them called Titi, about a 7 or 8, a petite slim (size 2 or 3) 22 y.o. Had to giggle about that. Great in bed and had her come over for the past couple of days. Alternated with her other freind Mai about a 7, who is 20 .y.o., a little chunkier and great BBJ. Enjoyed the nightlife with the two of them these whole week.

Thailand is commercial enough and is out in the open. But the GFE is not the same as thePhilippines. At times I can tell the girls were faking the moans and their comments, rehearsed. Too bad they wouldn't let me take their pictures naked for fear of me "selling" them. But I do have a few having a good time out in the town.

On Sunday, I'll be leaving for California for a week or so. Already I miss my girls in the PI. But, I'm sure they'll be happy to see me when I return with some "pasalubongs" from the States. Can't wait to return to Manila. Enjoy your stay in Davao and stay safe.

[GoodEnough]

Pinay Lover:

Too bad about the lousy timing, but I will be here for quite a while. As to Thailand, I've spent a couple of months there this year after a hiatus of about 5 years and was struck by how little the place had changed in regard to the sex scene. Patpong, Soi Cowboy and Nana Plaza were all pretty much as I had remembered them. Some bars have closed, others have opened, but plus ca change plus que la meme chose. In a sense, I think I enjoy the Philippines more from that standpoint. It's less overtly commercial here, a little more gentile, and everyone speaks some English. The Thai girls may be prettier, but the Filipinas are enthusiastic and anxious to please.

[Pinay Lover]

Goodenough,

My timing really must suck the past couple of months. I'm sorry to inform you that I'll be leaving for Thailand, the land of smiles. First thing Monday morning. I'll be there for the week before heading for the States (San Francisco) fo attend a company meeting (and file my taxes, too). Go see my Mom across the Bay while I'm over there as well.

I'm really going to miss the Philippines while I'm gone but I'll make it up in Thailand. It has been a couple of years since I've been there so I know there has been some changes. Probably put up a post or two in the Thai board once I'm done.

Enjoy your stay in Manila and thanks for the tip about the place across the street from the LA Cafe. Did not notice it before. Cute girls.