Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

[Cbea20]

She does not have a return ticket because that requires advance planning-something alien to poor filipinos. I agree with your reply. My response is,"If your family wants you back, they will find the money." In most cases the girl has family or other resources. She prefers to get travel funding from a foreigner, because it creates no debt or obligation. I will not pay for a girl to come if she has roots here, whether family or friends. On arrival, she will go off with them! And get around to me only a few days later. And then I will probably reject her, eating my loss. Let her borrow the money, as she suggests, and then earn money from you to repay the loan.

Other situations. I will not session with a girl or give her money to go away. My line is,"I don't help a girl to go away, unless I want her to go away." I don't expect committed service when she is planning to leave town the next day.

Bringing in a girl when she has no ties here can be very satisfactory, if I determine that she is worth it. The travel expense is added to her daily allowance and amortized over 3 days."Stay three nights, and you get a ticket back." (Otherwise, the daily allowance pays for it.) The ticket you send her (or air fare itinerary) should of course be not refundable to the passenger.

Now I a great lover of pinays as some of you would know but a few things infuriate me more than anything else. One is the very common issue of going somewhere and then not buying 2 way / return ticket, expecting someone else to pay for them to come home!

Recently a little cutie told me she was in Manila at some family funeral etc that took all of 2 weeks and when I said when are you back in your home town as I would be there soon she replied she had to "borrow" cash to pay that ticket back. Seems her relatives who she said paid for the outbound did not buy a return (or "2 way") ticket.

This is happening a lot to which I tend to reply along the lines of "well they got you there so they can get you back as I won't contribute"

Anyone had this situation or is it just me?

[Wicked Roger]

Now I a great lover of pinays as some of you would know but a few things infuriate me more than anything else. One is the very common issue of going somewhere and then not buying 2 way / return ticket, expecting someone else to pay for them to come home!

Recently a little cutie told me she was in Manila at some family funeral etc that took all of 2 weeks and when I said when are you back in your home town as I would be there soon she replied she had to "borrow" cash to pay that ticket back. Seems her relatives who she said paid for the outbound did not buy a return (or "2 way") ticket.

This is happening a lot to which I tend to reply along the lines of "well they got you there so they can get you back as I won't contribute"

Anyone had this situation or is it just me?

[Capistrano]

I was going to post this is Chat Rooms & Pen Pals, but then a few other messages followed, and this is a better location.

From M, a 24-year-old on FC:

My reply:

M's reply:

Golly, talk about an upsell. A barely literate, unemployed, homeless, short, fat, bullish lesbian who's career has been bouncing from one job to another in different fields wants to be my baby momma? What an honour!

Yeah, you're truly a god's gift to her, she's asking for an extraordinary favor. If you don't want to give her a baby why not give her 2nd favor. It would be of great help and I'm sure you'll going to have more blessings by helping her.

[Hutsori]

I was going to post this is Chat Rooms & Pen Pals, but then a few other messages followed, and this is a better location.

From M, a 24-year-old on FC:

Subject: Hi,

im a lesbian.. filipina,,can u give me a sperm,,, ??? me and my girlfriend wonna have a baby.. and i love your out look,, heres my cell 09xxxxxxxxx

My reply:

A sperm? Just one? ;) You want me to ship it to you or will you come to my condo with a tweezers and microscope to choose the one you like best? You're the 8th person who has requested I father her child this year. Though flattering I always decline. I feel a child of mine needs me to be actively involved in his / her life. I need to be more than the DNA donor, I need to be the genuine father. My job, which I love, has me traveling from country to country, and of course this is not conducive to family life. It's why I'm not in an exclusive relationship at this time.

I wish you and your partner all the best in your search and in your lives.

M's reply:

and by the way. ill be jobless next week,, can u help,, me find any place to stay??? or any work,, i have experienced. as a nurse, as a secretary,, as a tutor. and as an advisor. pls. help me. 09xxxxxxxxx. i hope,, your Gods gift to me.

Golly, talk about an upsell. A barely literate, unemployed, homeless, short, fat, bullish lesbian who's career has been bouncing from one job to another in different fields wants to be my baby momma? What an honour!

No baby, you're God's gift to me.

[Capistrano]

I would stay away from oral sex especially with ladies in the Philippines as safe sex practices are not their strong suit.

Filipinas are known for taking a full load of semen into their wombs without complaint only to hours later let an unsuspecting and unfortunate guy such as yourself lick up the last guy's spunk.

Some guys in the sport are beyond the help of biochemisty and a tongue lashing of the wet kind is all they can offer those nubile nymphs. After all you wouldn't want to come down with Gonorrhea / Chlamydia of the throat or worse end up like Michael Douglas.

http://www.theguardian.com/film/2013...ral-sex-cancer

http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-204_162-...ghts-epidemic/

I agree, just hit her with your weapon not with your mouth or tongue,

[Pete Benetar]

After all you wouldn't want to come down with Gonorrhea / Chlamydia of the throat or worse end up like Michael Douglas.

Exposure to the bacterial STDs a fair point but no more than barebacking (without barrier or chemoprophylaxis). OTOH, your reference to oropharyngeal CA not so much. Ref CDC STD section below, note ubiquity of HPV, anywhere, and utility of HPV vacccines, the most effective being Giardisil, reported to confer about 95% immunity. My 16 yo got his 3 shot series about 2 years ago and my youngest will start his later this year. Better living through chemistry.

Per CDC:

How common are HPV and health problems caused by HPV?

HPV (the virus) : Approximately 79 million Americans are currently infected with HPV. About 14 million people become newly infected each year. HPV is so common that nearly all sexually-active men and women will get at least one type of HPV at some point in their lives.

Genital warts: About 360, 000 persons in the USA get genital warts each year.

Cervical cancer: About 10, 300 women in the USA get cervical cancer each year.

Other cancers that can be caused by HPV, including some vaginal, vulvar, penile, anal, and oropharyngeal cancers: Each year in the USA, HPV is thought to cause an estimated.

6, 700 oropharyngeal cancers in men*

*Note: Other factors, notably tobacco and alcohol use, may also play a role with HPV to cause these cancers.

About 21, 000 of these cancers are potentially preventable by HPV vaccines.

http://www.cdc.gov/std/hpv/stdfact-hpv.htm

[Hutsori]

I have a fetish for women with unshaven legs and pits also, but good luck finding that in the Phils!

Unshaven legs are not uncommon, definitely not the norm, but can be found. Haven't come across the unshaven pits, which I too like.

[Member #4351]

As I said before, I prefer them unshaven. However, an obvious retort to your argument would be that God gave them hair under their arms and on their legs also. I have a fetish for women with unshaven legs and pits also, but good luck finding that in the Phils! . Maybe in China.

RG

I don't want to push my luck.

[Radical Guy]

I have found a way to get them to stop shaving. I tell them that if God wanted them to shave, he wouldn't have given them hair down there. It seems to be working well.

As I said before, I prefer them unshaven. However, an obvious retort to your argument would be that God gave them hair under their arms and on their legs also. I have a fetish for women with unshaven legs and pits also, but good luck finding that in the Phils! . Maybe in China.

RG

[Hutsori]

I always use condom but I'm still debating whether its safe to lick her down there or not.

Any comments are welcome.

If you put in the time and do it well you will own the girl. This is especially true if she is a regular good girl who doesn't do p4p. I'd have some qualms about doing so on a MBC girl; am I the first guy she met tonight, or am I the third? Since the poster asks whether it's "safe" I should mention that some STIs can pass vag to mouth. You're only safe by staying home alone; risk mitigation is what you're looking for.

[D Cups]

Yes and you could suffocate if you don't do it right. Haha.

NO DO NOT DO IT!

You will loose your lips, face, nose, eyes etc

[Geneva Guy]

Don't forget that a majority of Pinays are quite submissive. I recall a 27 year old Pinay nanny who kept those legs tightly together as I worked my way south and made a half hearted attempt to push my head away. Once we reached her very wet pussy things changed to head pushing and moans. Later that evening she was riding my face.

The neophytes think they don't want it done until you get them going. Now I must qualify it that the nanny was not a pro and had only had 4 guys before. All from the Phils. Missionary and wham bam.

Interesting. My experience with my filipina GFs is this. Most tell me that the Filipino guys haven't eaten their pussy (I always tell them I don't care if someone has before). I have found that once you start, they love it. I have one GF that messages me regularly and says "honey I can't wait for you to eat me again".

GG

[Pete Benetar]

Works fine if she shaves bare; slips all over if she keeps all or part of the Bush. LOL

Hahaha. In which case the wrap better in place over mongerer face-sadly must break for ventilation. Maybe mouth condom better.

[Nice Guy 99]

Interestingly, I have found that a number of Pinays do not want it done. They will actively push you away. Perhaps somebody has brainwashed them to believe their private parts are fundamentally dirty.

Don't forget that a majority of Pinays are quite submissive. I recall a 27 year old Pinay nanny who kept those legs tightly together as I worked my way south and made a half hearted attempt to push my head away. Once we reached her very wet pussy things changed to head pushing and moans. Later that evening she was riding my face.

The neophytes think they don't want it done until you get them going. Now I must qualify it that the nanny was not a pro and had only had 4 guys before. All from the Phils. Missionary and wham bam.

Don't cross the line into really forcing it but a little pressure can really pay off.

[Red Kilt]

I have found a way to get them to stop shaving. I tell them that if God wanted them to shave, he wouldn't have given them hair down there. It seems to be working well.

I couldn't find the "like" button but for the record, nice one David.

I too have found it works to invoke His intercession.

I used the line "If God didn't want us to have sex He wouldn't have made it so enjoyable" a few times and it seems to work too LOL