Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

[Wicked Roger]

P. S. She has this family to move back home to, but they can't scrape together $10 for her to get a bus ticket and she has to rely on you? You did not give a time frame, but if she moved back home last month when you gave her money to do so, how did she get 3 months behind on her rent? And she is supposed to be at her family's home anyway. Either you told it wrong or this shit does not add up.

Used the same argument with one girl and when I said it, explained it in great detail she never chatted again.

A few have WhatsApp me saying 'please send me cash for my ticket home as I am in Manila and can't get back to Cebu / Davao etc' When I tell / ask her 1) why a one way ticket 2) whoever paid the ticket can pay for you to go back (normally the reply is family or sister) and 3) best find a job and save for it as you are stupid to take one way. They shut up and ignore me.

[Muzungufotsy]

Girl I exchanged Whatsapp info with I picked up at LA Cafe a while back pleaded for one bailout in April, gave her $170 since I was tired of listening to her. As a thank you, she sends dirty pics, she's nude but just kinda awkwardly lying in bed with barely any movement if it weren't for her one hand moving up and down, I'd be checking for a pulse.

Two months later, she pleaded for bus fare to move home to folks in countryside since she was depleted in Manila with no business in LA Cafe. Gave her the "last bit" $50 to get some bus fare and food and be done.

Blows up Whatsapp again saying she's 3 months behind needs 15000 PHP yesterday, landlord already has people ready to move in. Silly me thinking the bus ride was the end of it. Haggled and "they" agreed to 10000 PHP today and settle up for rest in 1 month, I tried for 9000 but oh well. Sent $220 (ouch!) toward the 10 k plus a little extra for groceries. Also hammered her with I don't really have the means to do this on a regular basis.

So 5 days later (today), she sends dirty pics. These dirty pics are envelopes saying she still owes the electric utility company 2200 PHP.

You know that feeling when a stray cat adopts you? Am I allowed to say "If you have any sponsors in Korea or China, you probably want to start hassling them" or "Create a My Free Cams account"?

Just show us the pics at least.

[Run Mann]

Girl I exchanged Whatsapp info with I picked up at LA Cafe a while back pleaded for one bailout in April, gave her $170 since I was tired of listening to her. As a thank you, she sends dirty pics, she's nude but just kinda awkwardly lying in bed with barely any movement if it weren't for her one hand moving up and down, I'd be checking for a pulse.

Two months later, she pleaded for bus fare to move home to folks in countryside since she was depleted in Manila with no business in LA Cafe. Gave her the "last bit" $50 to get some bus fare and food and be done.

Blows up Whatsapp again saying she's 3 months behind needs 15000 PHP yesterday, landlord already has people ready to move in. Silly me thinking the bus ride was the end of it. Haggled and "they" agreed to 10000 PHP today and settle up for rest in 1 month, I tried for 9000 but oh well. Sent $220 (ouch!) toward the 10 k plus a little extra for groceries. Also hammered her with I don't really have the means to do this on a regular basis.

So 5 days later (today), she sends dirty pics. These dirty pics are envelopes saying she still owes the electric utility company 2200 PHP.

You know that feeling when a stray cat adopts you? Am I allowed to say "If you have any sponsors in Korea or China, you probably want to start hassling them" or "Create a My Free Cams account"?

Why does it have to end? You have the money and she needs it so let her have it. In Thailand the chicks would say you have a good heart or you are jai dee, max max.

[SaltyPete]

It ends when you say no. Or it never end.

Up to you.

A QC girl I knew asked me to buy her a food cart stand. I figured the price was more than the revenue she would bring in over a year. And of course, the failing business would have had me responsible to keep it solvent ("I have no money to buy meat!").

It would have never ended. I said no.

[SaltyPete]

Girl I exchanged Whatsapp info with I picked up at LA Cafe a while back pleaded for one bailout in April, gave her $170 since I was tired of listening to her. As a thank you, she sends dirty pics, she's nude but just kinda awkwardly lying in bed with barely any movement if it weren't for her one hand moving up and down, I'd be checking for a pulse.

Two months later, she pleaded for bus fare to move home to folks in countryside since she was depleted in Manila with no business in LA Cafe. Gave her the "last bit" $50 to get some bus fare and food and be done.

Blows up Whatsapp again saying she's 3 months behind needs 15000 PHP yesterday, landlord already has people ready to move in. Silly me thinking the bus ride was the end of it. Haggled and "they" agreed to 10000 PHP today and settle up for rest in 1 month, I tried for 9000 but oh well. Sent $220 (ouch!) toward the 10 k plus a little extra for groceries. Also hammered her with I don't really have the means to do this on a regular basis.

So 5 days later (today), she sends dirty pics. These dirty pics are envelopes saying she still owes the electric utility company 2200 PHP.

You know that feeling when a stray cat adopts you? Am I allowed to say "If you have any sponsors in Korea or China, you probably want to start hassling them" or "Create a My Free Cams account"?

She wins the award for the most expensive lay in LA Cafe.

[Mr Enternational]

Girl I exchanged Whatsapp info with I picked up at LA Cafe a while back pleaded for one bailout in April, gave her $170 since I was tired of listening to her. As a thank you, she sends dirty pics,

Hehehe. If you were tired of listening to her, why not just block her or put her on mute? You paid $170 for pictures of a chick that you had already fucked (could have taken them of her for free then yourself). You paid $170 for the same pictures that she has sent to who knows how many other dudes. You paid $170 for pictures when there are millions of free ones on the internet of chicks that surely look better than her. But like posters have said before, you made your own money so that you could waste it as you please.

P. S. She has this family to move back home to, but they can't scrape together $10 for her to get a bus ticket and she has to rely on you? You did not give a time frame, but if she moved back home last month when you gave her money to do so, how did she get 3 months behind on her rent? And she is supposed to be at her family's home anyway. Either you told it wrong or this shit does not add up.

[Goferring]

You know that feeling when a stray cat adopts you? Am I allowed to say "If you have any sponsors in Korea or China, you probably want to start hassling them" or "Create a My Free Cams account"?

20 k over 3 months for a few dirty pics? Dude, sorry to say it but she well and truly saw you coming.

Why was there any "haggling" over giving her 9 or 10 or 15 k?

And to cap it off, of course there are other "boyfriends" sending funds on top of yours.

It seems Carona has been very good to her. 😀.

My suggestion is to not even answer these types of chats. By all means, keep her number for an easy ST when you return but carrying on conversations for months on end serves no purpose.

Cheers. G.

[Albert9989]

Girl I exchanged Whatsapp info with I picked up at LA Cafe a while back pleaded for one bailout in April, gave her $170 since I was tired of listening to her. As a thank you,
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You know that feeling when a stray cat adopts you? Am I allowed to say "If you have any sponsors in Korea or China, you probably want to start hassling them" or "Create a My Free Cams account"?

It ends when you say no. Or it never end.

Up to you.

[Gargano19]

Girl I exchanged Whatsapp info with I picked up at LA Cafe a while back pleaded for one bailout in April, gave her $170 since I was tired of listening to her. As a thank you, she sends dirty pics, she's nude but just kinda awkwardly lying in bed with barely any movement if it weren't for her one hand moving up and down, I'd be checking for a pulse.

Two months later, she pleaded for bus fare to move home to folks in countryside since she was depleted in Manila with no business in LA Cafe. Gave her the "last bit" $50 to get some bus fare and food and be done.

Blows up Whatsapp again saying she's 3 months behind needs 15000 PHP yesterday, landlord already has people ready to move in. Silly me thinking the bus ride was the end of it. Haggled and "they" agreed to 10000 PHP today and settle up for rest in 1 month, I tried for 9000 but oh well. Sent $220 (ouch!) toward the 10 k plus a little extra for groceries. Also hammered her with I don't really have the means to do this on a regular basis.

So 5 days later (today), she sends dirty pics. These dirty pics are envelopes saying she still owes the electric utility company 2200 PHP.

You know that feeling when a stray cat adopts you? Am I allowed to say "If you have any sponsors in Korea or China, you probably want to start hassling them" or "Create a My Free Cams account"?

Both options are good, or you can use third option and sag "NO". She will figure it out somehow.

That's the thing, you help them once and now she will message you anytime she need money. I have seen it a lot of times. Recently I gave $50 to some chick in Hanoi last month, I met her on my Hanoi trip last year. She asked for $100 again next week and said something about rent bla bla. I told her nope, no reason given. I don't owe her any explaination. And now she's not disturbing me. If I don't want to give money, I will say no.

[Expat American]

Girl I exchanged Whatsapp info with I picked up at LA Cafe a while back pleaded for one bailout in April, gave her $170 since I was tired of listening to her. As a thank you, she sends dirty pics, she's nude but just kinda awkwardly lying in bed with barely any movement if it weren't for her one hand moving up and down, I'd be checking for a pulse.

Two months later, she pleaded for bus fare to move home to folks in countryside since she was depleted in Manila with no business in LA Cafe. Gave her the "last bit" $50 to get some bus fare and food and be done.

Blows up Whatsapp again saying she's 3 months behind needs 15000 PHP yesterday, landlord already has people ready to move in. Silly me thinking the bus ride was the end of it. Haggled and "they" agreed to 10000 PHP today and settle up for rest in 1 month, I tried for 9000 but oh well. Sent $220 (ouch!) toward the 10 k plus a little extra for groceries. Also hammered her with I don't really have the means to do this on a regular basis.

So 5 days later (today), she sends dirty pics. These dirty pics are envelopes saying she still owes the electric utility company 2200 PHP.

Imagine walking down the street and finding an ATM. All you have to do is push a button and money comes out. No account needed. Every time you ask for money it gives you money and then says please don't ask again. But you do, and each time the ATM dispenses money asking for nothing in return. How many times will you push the button? Why on earth did you respond the first time she asked for cash? Do you really think that if you didn't send her the money she wouldn't find some other way to make do? You were and are the easy mark and are labelled as such. Delete and block her and don't be so stupid again!

[CenTexCrash]

Girl I exchanged Whatsapp info with I picked up at LA Cafe a while back pleaded for one bailout in April, gave her $170 since I was tired of listening to her. As a thank you, she sends dirty pics, she's nude but just kinda awkwardly lying in bed with barely any movement if it weren't for her one hand moving up and down, I'd be checking for a pulse.

Two months later, she pleaded for bus fare to move home to folks in countryside since she was depleted in Manila with no business in LA Cafe. Gave her the "last bit" $50 to get some bus fare and food and be done.

Blows up Whatsapp again saying she's 3 months behind needs 15000 PHP yesterday, landlord already has people ready to move in. Silly me thinking the bus ride was the end of it. Haggled and "they" agreed to 10000 PHP today and settle up for rest in 1 month, I tried for 9000 but oh well. Sent $220 (ouch!) toward the 10 k plus a little extra for groceries. Also hammered her with I don't really have the means to do this on a regular basis.

So 5 days later (today), she sends dirty pics. These dirty pics are envelopes saying she still owes the electric utility company 2200 PHP.

You know that feeling when a stray cat adopts you? Am I allowed to say "If you have any sponsors in Korea or China, you probably want to start hassling them" or "Create a My Free Cams account"?

[Wicked Roger]

I was paying an attorney in Angeles for advice (business matters) and they didn't inspire my confidence either.

Many are incompetent and corrupt. Ask large sum up front for fees and spend it on other things, don't do much, full of BA.

But there are good ones with morals who are excellent. I have met both kinds and can, and have, recommended the good lawyers to a few members.

[Engine Driver]

Was a contract issue that needed to be resolved through the Ph courts. The lawyer that I saw really wasn't interested or competent. Lots of words and no progress.

Your attorney was also getting paid by the other side. LOL.

[Engine Driver]

The curious thing is that many mongers endured lives of deprivation and hard labor to squirrel away and invest in a nest egg only to allow a LBFM and her family to squander it in spectacular fashion over a few years. In the end, many end up with nothing more than memories of BBFSCIP for their trouble and live out their remaining lifetime as paupers, older but not necessarily wiser.

In that regard, Grandpa Caramello was one of the smarter mongers. In his legendary 40+ year mongering career in Micronesia and South East Asia, he did not fall in love with any of his nubile, young conquests. He rather wisely avoided matrimony. His addiction to BBFSCIP did leave a lasting social legacy of course though. Over 500 half-caste bastard children wandering the streets looking for their Australian passports. Hahahaha.

[Chocha Monger]

Pinays live in a culture where 'sharing' among the extended family is the norm. Many academic elites from Western universities, and a few do-gooders on this Board, gush over the egalitarian nature of Filipino society. What becomes apparent over time though is that the culture stifles all ambition, keeps everyone at the lowest common denominator, and corrupts the democratic process as elected representatives are expected to 'share' with a select group. This then ensures that everyone stays poor.

Many a monger in the West who has fallen into the marriage trap with an LBFM has found out that his entire life's work has been squandered by that LBFM's extended family, all in the name sharing.

The curious thing is that many mongers endured lives of deprivation and hard labor to squirrel away and invest in a nest egg only to allow a LBFM and her family to squander it in spectacular fashion over a few years. In the end, many end up with nothing more than memories of BBFSCIP for their trouble and live out their remaining lifetime as paupers, older but not necessarily wiser.