Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

[Blanquiceleste]

And what is wrong with communicating with your specific partner and coming up with the rules of your particular relationship instead of guessing at what you think might be acceptable in a culture?

Two different chicks from the same culture have told me two different things. One said I know you are fucking other chicks. Just wear a condom and make sure I don't see it. Another has told me that she is not going to fuck with a guy that fucks other women. Keep in mind that there is no one size fits all either. YMMV.

This just reflects on one of two things (or both possibly).

1. The quality and class of women you are acquainted with in Asia.

2. Your own ignorance about Asian cultures.

Refer to point #1.

[Goferring]

Another has told me that she is not going to fuck with a guy that fucks other women. Keep in mind that there is no one size fits all either. YMMV.

Hahaha. Please tell me you are kidding and understand that she is saying exactly what I said: "If you don't embarrass me by doing anything that my friends or family see, I'll pretend nothing is happening" I'll admit that going unnoticed would be exceedingly difficult (even if you wanted to) if you both frequent the same town.

In all seriousness, maybe I'm generalizing all Asian women but I haven't come across a mixed or Asian relationship that proves me wrong. Most Asian cultures that I've come across have allowances for everything from a quiet dalliance thru to a formal Major / Minor wife agreement.

Cheers. G.

[Mr Enternational]

This just reflects on one of two things (or both possibly).

1. The quality and class of women you are acquainted with in Asia.

2. Your own ignorance about Asian cultures.

And what is wrong with communicating with your specific partner and coming up with the rules of your particular relationship instead of guessing at what you think might be acceptable in a culture?

Two different chicks from the same culture have told me two different things. One said I know you are fucking other chicks. Just wear a condom and make sure I don't see it. Another has told me that she is not going to fuck with a guy that fucks other women. Keep in mind that there is no one size fits all either. YMMV.

[Blanquiceleste]

Many Asian cultures expect men to wander. One of the first things that happened when I met my Asian GF sister's husband is he took me to a "spa" in their hometown.

I played dumb as I thought it was a test and said "just a massage please". I'm sure he got the full treatment.

Many Asian wives know not to ask. As long as you look after them, come home and are discrete as Gof says all is fine.

And looking after them does not mean being a walking ATM 24/7.

NI.

This just reflects on one of two things (or both possibly).

1. The quality and class of women you are acquainted with in Asia.

2. Your own ignorance about Asian cultures.

[Wicked Roger]

Another interesting chapter to this story. This monger has been sent on assignment to another city in Australia for six months or so. Company has hired him an apartment and his Filipina bride has also accompanied him. She can't work as she has no residency status yet. What is she going to do in her luxurious inner city apartment while Mr Fat Monger is at the office for 12-hours a day for the next six months? There is only so much social media, video chat with family in Cebu and shopping you can do in a day. You can all see where this is going.

She can work but depends on her residency status as once married and the bridging visa is in place she can work but can she find it. Most pinays can stay transfixed to FB etc for 12 hours happily as their whole world can be there. The news, their friends and all the chismis!

But she will wander to gym or supermarket maybe ED and then people think she is exotic especially if in the Bush areas so you point is well made.

[Beavis]

That is totally going to depend on the girl you meet. If you fall in love with a bar girl yes she will expect you to stray. If you fall in love with the typical catholic girl that has very high values then no it will not be expected. Low profile is the answer and don't shit where you eat. Take a cab or a jeepney to wherever you plan to play, not the next door neighbor.

[NewImage]

You're both right. However, one thing that the occasional visitor or online love struck seldom realised is that in most of Asia it's totally acceptable to have your cake and eat it too.
DCs civilian princess accepts that virtually all husbands are going to stray and will tolerate the odd "golf trip" as long as nothing comes to light in public and embarrasses her or her family.
For those that want to settle down, there is definitely no need to fall in love with Chocha's scheming hoe. Just find a good civilian and quietly have fun on the side.
Enjoy. G.

Many Asian cultures expect men to wander. One of the first things that happened when I met my Asian GF sister's husband is he took me to a "spa" in their hometown.

I played dumb as I thought it was a test and said "just a massage please". I'm sure he got the full treatment.

Many Asian wives know not to ask. As long as you look after them, come home and are discrete as Gof says all is fine.

And looking after them does not mean being a walking ATM 24/7.

NI.

[Goferring]

Romantic love is a temporary form of mental illness. Thousands of mongers fall victim to this illness in the Philippines, and end up married to low quality scheming Filipina pussy.

Yes, but there are always exceptions if one chooses an educated, employed good girl with good values, right, RK?

You're both right. However, one thing that the occasional visitor or online love struck seldom realised is that in most of Asia it's totally acceptable to have your cake and eat it too.

DCs civilian princess accepts that virtually all husbands are going to stray and will tolerate the odd "golf trip" as long as nothing comes to light in public and embarrasses her or her family.

For those that want to settle down, there is definitely no need to fall in love with Chocha's scheming hoe. Just find a good civilian and quietly have fun on the side.

Enjoy. G.

[D Cups]

Romantic love is a temporary form of mental illness. Thousands of mongers fall victim to this illness in the Philippines, and end up married to low quality scheming Filipina pussy. These impoverished women are always looking to enrich themselves and display their loot on social media. All one can do is sit back and watch the show. At least the office is getting a laugh out of this over-the-hill Filipina pussy cleaning the old Aussie monger's clock. The fact that he has multiple failed marriages and his middle-aged Flip wife 'forced' him to buy her a luxury house shows that he is a very weak man who enjoys playing the fool for women.

Yes, but there are always exceptions if one chooses an educated, employed good girl with good values, right, RK?

[Engine Driver]

Romantic love is a temporary form of mental illness. Thousands of mongers fall victim to this illness in the Philippines, and end up married to low quality scheming Filipina pussy. These impoverished women are always looking to enrich themselves and display their loot on social media. All one can do is sit back and watch the show. At least the office is getting a laugh out of this over-the-hill Filipina pussy cleaning the old Aussie monger's clock. The fact that he has multiple failed marriages and his middle-aged Flip wife 'forced' him to buy her a luxury house shows that he is a very weak man who enjoys playing the fool for women.

Another interesting chapter to this story. This monger has been sent on assignment to another city in Australia for six months or so. Company has hired him an apartment and his Filipina bride has also accompanied him. She can't work as she has no residency status yet. What is she going to do in her luxurious inner city apartment while Mr Fat Monger is at the office for 12-hours a day for the next six months? There is only so much social media, video chat with family in Cebu and shopping you can do in a day. You can all see where this is going.

[Chocha Monger]

I am eating a lot of bread these days. Gluten free to be safe. Many people have allergies, not least to LBFMs, who are irresistible to some. I prefer to be safe, immune and inoculated. Take gambling. I don't see the lure of betting on someone else's horse. But others do. And more still marry these nags.

Pussy is a vice, best used in moderation and knowing who or what is in control, you or the pussy. All common sense but common sense is a rarity.

Sirens are a good description of these lascivious Filipina prostitutes who enchant wayward mongers with their pussies, depriving them of reason to the point of forgetting their native country. Once these mongers become lost in carnal delights with their LBFMs, they neglect their finances and fall into poverty. Their LBFMs quickly unload them and the elderly fellows soon succumb to sickness and death. Some of the courageous ones throw themselves off tall buildings or drink themselves to death with cheap Filipino rum that doubles as an industrial solvent.

[Kabul Guy]

I could care less what someone does with his money and life as long as it doesn't affect me. These guys are not victims so quit feeling sorry for them. They are grown ass men!

Who feels sorry for these idiots?

I like these guys for the amusement value.

[Bushes]

Several people I know have done the same. Like getting on to wife number 3+. There are advantages to making it official but there are so many downsides that some never seem to learn. In the PI, I have met some 30+ who were married to foreigners who kicked the bucket. Unfortunately, many of the ladies are left high and dry and shunned by the extended overseas family. IMHO, a shame.

On the flip side, some are taken care of and should be ok if they don't get ripped off. So NI is steping into the sun shine and exiting the cabinet

Thank god I am immune.

[Dg8787]

I could care less what someone does with his money and life as long as it doesn't affect me. These guys are not victims so quit feeling sorry for them. They are grown ass men!

[Goferring]

Some people are so lonely who like to keep girls by getting married.

Agreed. Being lonely and craving company is also different to not being content with your own company when you are alone. Anyone who is both is truly fucked.