Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

[Mr Enternational]

What are ways to impress filipina?

Looks like you already have the game messed up. You are the one with the money. She should be trying to impress you.

How to get a filipina to love me?

What kind of bullshit question is that? You get someone to love you the same way you get them to be your friend. YOU DON'T! Shit just happens.

[AsianPursuits]

You and the GF need to have a serious talk about having kids or not having kids. Then plan accordingly.

Some expats retired Americans have kids just so they can get more Social Security pension funds.

It's not even a financial decision as such. If kids are involved it means stable household, parents (me and her) being around and dedicated to the process. Personally after my first family (who turned out allright) I was exhausted. I just hadn't realised that my Philippines retirement plan would be as a parent.

I'm interested to hear how many experienced resident punters here are in the kids way or whether there is an alternative.

The other avenue is ex-pats always seem to start a business for their wife.

Maybe I should re-evaluate my chair at Kokomos.

[Dg8787]

Over the years I have honed my selection methods for meeting Filipina and my most recent girl is perfect. Young, no kid, good family, actual graduate degree, motivated. Has a career plan. Marriage minded after she has settled into her career.

I am an older gent that has had a good life bringing up some kids here in my own country. They and the ex are off my hands. I am not planning more kids.

Now. When I think about the 8 ex-pat men that I visited in November, some older than me, some younger. They of course have the beautiful young Filipina and they all have kids.

I am thinking that I have made a strategic miscalculation on the type of future partner that I want to spend my twilight years.

If I stick to the 20-30 year old target range they will understandably and rightly expect to have kids. SO that's not going to fit with my retirement plan of travelling around.

If I go older 40-50 I guess I am getting a woman with older kids that might be off her hands and more available to travel with me.

Or, I could resolve to keep trading them out each 3-4 years when they want kids.

Right now I think I am in deep with Miss Perfect and just realizing the gotcha is paying off kids education until I'm dead.

You and the GF need to have a serious talk about having kids or not having kids. Then plan accordingly.

Some expats retired Americans have kids just so they can get more Social Security pension funds.

[AsianPursuits]

Over the years I have honed my selection methods for meeting Filipina and my most recent girl is perfect. Young, no kid, good family, actual graduate degree, motivated. Has a career plan. Marriage minded after she has settled into her career.

I am an older gent that has had a good life bringing up some kids here in my own country. They and the ex are off my hands. I am not planning more kids.

Now. When I think about the 8 ex-pat men that I visited in November, some older than me, some younger. They of course have the beautiful young Filipina and they all have kids.

I am thinking that I have made a strategic miscalculation on the type of future partner that I want to spend my twilight years.

If I stick to the 20-30 year old target range they will understandably and rightly expect to have kids. SO that's not going to fit with my retirement plan of travelling around.

If I go older 40-50 I guess I am getting a woman with older kids that might be off her hands and more available to travel with me.

Or, I could resolve to keep trading them out each 3-4 years when they want kids.

Right now I think I am in deep with Miss Perfect and just realizing the gotcha is paying off kids education until I'm dead.

[AsianPursuits]

So, I got to thinking, we need some extra input on dealing with Filipina, so I asked ChatGPT a few questions:

How to meet a good honest Filipina?

There are a few ways to meet a good and honest Filipina, including:

Joining Filipino groups or clubs in your local community
Going to Filipino-populated areas and meeting people in person
Joining Filipino dating sites or apps and meeting potential partners online
Joining Filipinocentric social media platforms and groups.
It's important to remember that honesty and goodness are not determined by one's ethnicity, so be respectful and open-minded when interacting with anyone, regardless of their background.

What are ways to impress filipina?

Impressing a Filipina, like impressing anyone, may vary depending on the person and their individual preferences. However, here are some general suggestions:

Show genuine interest and respect for her culture and traditions
Be a good listener and show interest in her life and experiences
Be thoughtful and considerate in your actions and words
Show a strong work ethic and a desire to improve yourself
Be kind and respectful to her family and friends
Be a good communicator
Be funny and make her laugh
Be a gentleman and practice good manners
It's important to remember that every person is unique and has their own preferences and tastes

How to get a filipina to love me?

Getting a Filipina (or anyone) to love you is not something that can be guaranteed or forced. Love is a complex emotion that develops over time through mutual respect, trust, and understanding. Here are some ways to improve your chances of building a loving relationship:

Be yourself and be genuine in your interactions with her.
Show interest and respect for her culture and traditions.
Be a good listener and show interest in her life and experiences.
Be thoughtful, kind, and considerate in your actions and words.
Be honest and open in your communication with her.
Show a strong work ethic and a desire to improve yourself.
Respect her boundaries and her right to make her own decisions.
Be patient and take the time to get to know her and build a connection.
It's important to remember that relationships require effort, patience and understanding from both parties. Love can't be forced or rushed. And, it is important to respect the other person's feelings and boundaries.

My more indepth questions like BBBJ, bareback sex and others were all rebuffed with "That violates our terms of service. Pfffft but still got some answers see screenshot.

[Mua Tur]

You mean like my buddy that was living in AC and married the bargirl because they would do threesomes together? Yeah. That lasted as long as the holiday season that just passed.

I met a girl in AC not from Bar wanted threesome and willing to chose the girl by herself. What a perfect bliss I got.

[Drbombay]

You can find some good and bad in all types of women. I knew some bargirls that would sell "your soul" to the highest bidder yet would stick with you through good and bad, and then known some "good girls" who have just as many boyfriends as their husbands had girlfriends. Just depends on the nature of the woman.

For example, I was down in Manila / Subic last September. Meet one that I had met online from Alua, very good looking and a typical bar girl with3 kids (1 in another country) who was tired of "the game" and was chatting with a US military person in Guam with the hopes of getting her paperwork together so she could go live with him and he "make her an honest woman. " Long story short I make it there and she tells all of me this and is complaining because for the past 3 days he dropped all communication with her, and then she says he was down somewhere in Angeles. I reminded her you are butt naked with me now, so why are you worried about what some other guy is doing? If you really felt that way, you wouldn't be here with me!

So as I said, it just depends on the person, but that old saying of you can take them out of the bar, but you can't take the bar out of them still rings true in some cases!

[Dg8787]

You mean like my buddy that was living in AC and married the bargirl because they would do threesomes together? Yeah. That lasted as long as the holiday season that just passed.

And who was the idiot here?

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[Pahllus Maximus]

I follow the middle eastern way. They have a custom of getting marred for an hour. Once I committed bigamy marrying two girls at once for 2 hours. Divorce is instantaneous.

As to the power / money thing, humans all over of both sexes are on the make in some way, declared or not. American women are in general mercenary. Just better at concealing it. All women know they have a fertility and looks shelf life and either build a career and wealth or get a man, a few do both. The rich guys with trophy wives are predicable, except Malania Trump who married Donald for good looks, charm and love after an intro by Epstein (who had an unusual number of pretty young things). Sloppy seconds Donald. Ha ha.

Jokes aside, most people don't even know their own mind let alone the dynamics of another person who is also constantly changing. Relationships are fluid, often transactional (declared of not) and many guys are sold on the fake Disney fireworks and happy ever after. One hour marriages are a good way to test, sometimes many times a day, in exotic countries and so on. Praise Jesus and Allah for telling me in my sleep this lifestyle has official approval.

[Mr Enternational]

For Pinas in general, I'd agree. However, for bargirls?? It's not zero but very few guys successfully took Krystal from the pole to the soccer field.

I can count two.

You mean like my buddy that was living in AC and married the bargirl because they would do threesomes together? Yeah. That lasted as long as the holiday season that just passed.

[D Cups]

I'm on Manila now, as I can't liar to my future wife they stop talking with me because I always was in chat with more than one. Then, I don't have decent girls to meet here.

What can I do? Some of them wants to meet me but only looks for fun and I want serious one.

I only could accept one bareback sex as much with a very beauty woman. Do you meet any good bar for this? How safe is put the woman in the hotel with me? I don't want thiefs.

But this one time as much, I'm looking for serious wife and marry her this month.

Go to church, man.

[Dg8787]

For Pinas in general, I'd agree. However, for bargirls?? It's not zero but very few guys successfully took Krystal from the pole to the soccer field.

I can count two. Unfortunately, those in the negative side contain some absolute horror stories for the guys.

Ever thought it might be the guys? In my book there are no victims here. Only volunteers.

[Goferring]

Don't be so narrowed minded. There has been many successful marriages. You hardly ever hear about them. No one really broadcasts them.

For Pinas in general, I'd agree. However, for bargirls?? It's not zero but very few guys successfully took Krystal from the pole to the soccer field.

I can count two. Unfortunately, those in the negative side contain some absolute horror stories for the guys.

[Dg8787]

There is virtually NO chance that marrying a bar girl will work out in your favor. There's an old joke in the US: You don't pay a hooker for sex, you pay her to leave after sex.

There are many vlogs on YouTube on finding a long-term relationship with a Pinay. That is a good place to research.

Don't be so narrowed minded. There has been many successful marriages. You hardly ever hear about them. No one really broadcasts them.