Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

[Wimble]

Finally, when confronted, she defended herself by stating the necessity of a lady in Thailand needing to ensure the best possible future for herself and her family (only middle class in Bangkok).

I am sure this applies to the Philippines as well.

The truth did hurt as I had invested in this quite a lot of time and traveling, but it also taught me not to take anything from a SEA lady at face value. And maybe to allow the "weaker" sex the same privileges I am enjoying: if you have an itch, you have to scratch it.

I eventually broke up with her but letting my ego take a hit or two gave me a more realistic view of the passing nature of most of the relationships we enjoy.

I hope you don't think this is unique to SEA lady. Where I come from, I see it a lot. Hence the easy to lead a lady astray. Some girls like the social media play as they like reading romance novels. There is a reason for the high divorce rate in Western countries and an interesting news article (fake news?) about the rather high percentage of questionable biological father in some families in the UK.

IMHO, girls want to play around as much as guys in general. They dream of their prince or knight in shining armour.

[Kurre]

Yes, we do need that and it is good to remember that the girls will do whatever they need to survive in this developing country. That I was able to see and hear the lies and the cover-ups was an amazing experience for me.

Do be cautious because the truth does hurt. For me, I already am happy to accept my place, as a visitor, in this amazing country.

Just looking for a (better) opportunity, was the answer I got from my Thai girlfriend a few years back. As I had my suspicions of this "good" Thai lady, working for a well-known university in Bangkok, I had set up multiple accounts at Thai Cupid and baited her until she responded. She began to miss our scheduled chats and meets and made excuses while using the time to build a connection with a fake, better looking and better-off me. It was partly an entertaining but certainly most enlightening experience to see how her mind worked. Finally, when confronted, she defended herself by stating the necessity of a lady in Thailand needing to ensure the best possible future for herself and her family (only middle class in Bangkok).

I am sure this applies to the Philippines as well.

The truth did hurt as I had invested in this quite a lot of time and traveling, but it also taught me not to take anything from a SEA lady at face value. And maybe to allow the "weaker" sex the same privileges I am enjoying: if you have an itch, you have to scratch it.

I eventually broke up with her but letting my ego take a hit or two gave me a more realistic view of the passing nature of most of the relationships we enjoy.

[Wimble]

Yes, we do need that and it is good to remember that the girls will do whatever they need to survive in this developing country. That I was able to see and hear the lies and the cover-ups was an amazing experience for me.

Do be cautious because the truth does hurt. For me, I already am happy to accept my place, as a visitor, in this amazing country.

This might appear twice. Remember the Eagles. Lyin' Eyes? I think most of the SYTs are 1/2 to 1/3 the age of some their sponsors. In reality, they have ambitions and dreams. Ignorance is bliss. Better to not peek behind the curtain and break the magic. Think best to turn a blind eye and live in the present and in the dream. My 2 cents.

[MrWoolyBooly]

Sorry if this offends anyone.

BD.

Greetings, Mr Drain. IMHO Facts can't offend. They can irritate, enrage, or disconcert, but not offend. Except the already imbalanced. Excellent observations. We males tend to think our lady companions are somehow less promiscuous than we, but statistically it must be roughly a wash.

[BrainDrain]

Good story. They lie. They lie regularly. As do we. We shouldn't be surprised they know how to play us whilst we think we are playing them.

Yes, we do need that and it is good to remember that the girls will do whatever they need to survive in this developing country. That I was able to see and hear the lies and the cover-ups was an amazing experience for me.

Do be cautious because the truth does hurt. For me, I already am happy to accept my place, as a visitor, in this amazing country.

This ruse took the following:

1 x Facebook account
1 x free email account
2 x different dating site accounts

and now has 20-30 other hotties in the pipeline

I know it's not allowed on this site but I'm willing to offload these accounts as I no longer have a use for them.

BD.

[Omega 3]

Yesterday in AC I met a guy whose first time it is in PI. Before coming to AC, he spent days in Makati hanging around Burgos. He was shocked at how cheap AC was in comparison. He told me a story and showed me pictures of 2 chicks that he took from there the night before. He said one of the chicks asked his permission to squirt. Beginner's luck I guess. Wish I would have asked more info about the girl to pass on.

Ha ha, good one ME.

Keep on trucking, my fellow monger.

OM.

[Mr Enternational]

But, over many years and after knowing many women in the Phils, have never actually met (or even heard of) a Pinay squirter in real time, and just wondered why not.

Yesterday in AC I met a guy whose first time it is in PI. Before coming to AC, he spent days in Makati hanging around Burgos. He was shocked at how cheap AC was in comparison. He told me a story and showed me pictures of 2 chicks that he took from there the night before. He said one of the chicks asked his permission to squirt. Beginner's luck I guess. Wish I would have asked more info about the girl to pass on.

[FreebieFan]

One of the most insightful experiences that I have is setting up a (second) fake account to chat with a Cebu girl that I am getting involved with. I am sure some readers will judge harshly.

Usually I will casually make contact via this new account in a different way, perhaps being introduced through a friend of a friend or through a dating site. Sooner or later the friend suggestion will appear on their FB feed and they accept.

Over the past month my fake profile has developed a daily small chat with this pinay I'm spending a lot of time with. Recently while I was in PI I thought I would apply some pressure testing to see what I could learn.

Scenario 1: While I was at my desk working, she is sitting watching TV. She wants to see the fake guy on webcam but need to turn off my sound so her 'family' does not know I'm chatting her. As she calls me on chat video, I walk over and join her on the couch. She quickly kills the call.

Scenario 2: I plant the seed that on Friday I will be at work near Ayala. No other info given. Amazing to have conversations with her and understanding how she arranges her time. Sometimes she will chat to real me and just ignore the suitor profile for days. Gently she is also checking that my work plans have not changed.

Scenario 3: One afternoon I decide to go for a 'sleep' in a different room while she is at the table. She agrees to a video chat with this fake profile but she asks for a delay. OK, to my surprise she enters the room where I am 'sleeping', goes to the bathroom and CR. Then shuts my bedroom door and goes back to the table for the video call. As the call is connecting I leave my phone in the bed and go to join her on the couch as she had 'awoken' me. She kills the call. But I am shocked, now she has freshly applied lipstick and new strapless shirt. What's up Babe? Oh, just thought we should go out she says.

Scenario 4: So the seed I plant in Scenario 2 starts to approach and yes I'll still be at work. She follows through to plan to meet this fake guy. I even now have a fellow monger whom will meet her at Margarita Station at the scheduled time while I'm at work. In discussion with my fellow man he helps me realize that knowledge is power and to exposing this girl would only kill the relationship. Basically nothing to gain. Change my work plans and spend my time with her enjoying each other. She is happy to burnoff the guy with some lame excuse. We had a wonderful time together and amazing to see how she can focus.

Lessons:

We all know that these girls need more than our casual visits each few months and accept that they will meet others.

I was amazed at how much mis-direction she can put into a conversation (ie I'm sitting across the table from her, but to her fake friend she says she is "in a trike".

Some of the mis-direction was not needed but it was amazing to see how consistent she was at it.

This actually built my trust in her, she is very picky and choosy. Not meeting every guy and in fact took me 2 profiles to get her closer. She is strict on her rules.

There was nothing to gain by exposing her, she's just doing what she wants and for much of it is 'entertainment'. She amuses herself by misleading DIA contacts.

In the end, she really played with me as without prompting she confessed it all to me one evening.

I also have this running with another of my provincial girls with whom I am supporting. Amazing to see that she was in real life in the middle of last week's earthquake and she's now homeless. But to the fake profiler she was at 200 kms away safe with her family. That misdirection was amazing and she wasn't looking for sympathy at all. I don't understand that one.

So, from a learning perspective I do suggest that this be done. I would not bother to do it unless you are physically present with them as he majority of my learnings happened through observation.

Sorry if this offends anyone.

BD.

Good story. They lie. They lie regularly. As do we. We shouldn't be surprised they know how to play us whilst we think we are playing them.

[BrainDrain]

One of the most insightful experiences that I have is setting up a (second) fake account to chat with a Cebu girl that I am getting involved with. I am sure some readers will judge harshly.

Usually I will casually make contact via this new account in a different way, perhaps being introduced through a friend of a friend or through a dating site. Sooner or later the friend suggestion will appear on their FB feed and they accept.

Over the past month my fake profile has developed a daily small chat with this pinay I'm spending a lot of time with. Recently while I was in PI I thought I would apply some pressure testing to see what I could learn.

Scenario 1: While I was at my desk working, she is sitting watching TV. She wants to see the fake guy on webcam but need to turn off my sound so her 'family' does not know I'm chatting her. As she calls me on chat video, I walk over and join her on the couch. She quickly kills the call.

Scenario 2: I plant the seed that on Friday I will be at work near Ayala. No other info given. Amazing to have conversations with her and understanding how she arranges her time. Sometimes she will chat to real me and just ignore the suitor profile for days. Gently she is also checking that my work plans have not changed.

Scenario 3: One afternoon I decide to go for a 'sleep' in a different room while she is at the table. She agrees to a video chat with this fake profile but she asks for a delay. OK, to my surprise she enters the room where I am 'sleeping', goes to the bathroom and CR. Then shuts my bedroom door and goes back to the table for the video call. As the call is connecting I leave my phone in the bed and go to join her on the couch as she had 'awoken' me. She kills the call. But I am shocked, now she has freshly applied lipstick and new strapless shirt. What's up Babe? Oh, just thought we should go out she says.

Scenario 4: So the seed I plant in Scenario 2 starts to approach and yes I'll still be at work. She follows through to plan to meet this fake guy. I even now have a fellow monger whom will meet her at Margarita Station at the scheduled time while I'm at work. In discussion with my fellow man he helps me realize that knowledge is power and to exposing this girl would only kill the relationship. Basically nothing to gain. Change my work plans and spend my time with her enjoying each other. She is happy to burnoff the guy with some lame excuse. We had a wonderful time together and amazing to see how she can focus.

Lessons:

We all know that these girls need more than our casual visits each few months and accept that they will meet others.

I was amazed at how much mis-direction she can put into a conversation (ie I'm sitting across the table from her, but to her fake friend she says she is "in a trike".

Some of the mis-direction was not needed but it was amazing to see how consistent she was at it.

This actually built my trust in her, she is very picky and choosy. Not meeting every guy and in fact took me 2 profiles to get her closer. She is strict on her rules.

There was nothing to gain by exposing her, she's just doing what she wants and for much of it is 'entertainment'. She amuses herself by misleading DIA contacts.

In the end, she really played with me as without prompting she confessed it all to me one evening.

I also have this running with another of my provincial girls with whom I am supporting. Amazing to see that she was in real life in the middle of last week's earthquake and she's now homeless. But to the fake profiler she was at 200 kms away safe with her family. That misdirection was amazing and she wasn't looking for sympathy at all. I don't understand that one.

So, from a learning perspective I do suggest that this be done. I would not bother to do it unless you are physically present with them as he majority of my learnings happened through observation.

Sorry if this offends anyone.

BD.

[Questor55]

Guys,

If it makes you feel better to pay more, by all means, enjoy doing so. I have no problem finding attractive, skilled, non pros, eager to repeat at 500 P for ST. Sometimes I will take one to a beach resort and pay 1 K per day. Again, absolutely no problem finding young babes very willing to accept. Those who insist on paying international rates are economic Neanderthals. When related to wages in the city, or especially in the provinces, the amount I am prepared to pay is considered generous.

[Omega 3]

From your question you want to know if anyone knows of any Pinay that are squirters? You are not asking if squirters really exist.

I have never had a Pinay that could squirt. But my lifetime tally is 2 Thais, 2 Mexicans, 1 Peruvian, 2 Brazilian, 2 Colombians, 2 Black Americans, 1 White American. The Brazilians, Thais and 1 of the Colombians were hookers.

You are right, ME.

I know the "theory" and have read the articles and ads for "educational" materials which seem to make squirting (or inducing squirting) sound relatively easy. But, over many years and after knowing many women in the Phils, have never actually met (or even heard of) a Pinay squirter in real time, and just wondered why not.

Thanks for all the encouraging posts from various "old hands" - impressive!

OM.

[Mr Enternational]

Is there such a thing as a bona-fide real-life "fountain spraying" squirter (female) in the Philippines?

From your question you want to know if anyone knows of any Pinay that are squirters? You are not asking if squirters really exist.

I have never had a Pinay that could squirt. But my lifetime tally is 2 Thais, 2 Mexicans, 1 Peruvian, 2 Brazilian, 2 Colombians, 2 Black Americans, 1 White American. The Brazilians, Thais and 1 of the Colombians were hookers.

[FreebieFan]

So OM, the squirter is not a myth, but they are few and far between I guess. Keep playing the odds and one day your numbers might line up.

No its not. I had one once and in 9 months of meeting and getting horizontal it only happened 2 or 3 times and when it happened the girl was mortified until I showed her that its quite normal, just rare. Indeed its a bit like the lottery, never know when it going to happen. . and I only had once since then. As rare of hens teeth, or white rhinos or clean air in Beijing.

[Crazy4Thai]

One of the mysteries of the Universe, I guess. I had a gusher in Thailand.

I had one in Thailand too just about a month ago. I can remember 4 of them total in my lifetime. 2 were regular girlfriends. One ruined my futon mattress with mass quantities. The first one I ever had happened when I was in my mid twenties and it was a one time thing. She would not let me go down on her but would not say why. When she got on me to ride I soon found out. The one in Thailand immediately responded to me lightly spanking her pussy and she had a world class event and apparently not related to her g-spot.

[Hutsori]

So OM, the squirter is not a myth, but they are few and far between I guess. Keep playing the odds and one day your numbers might line up.

It's not a myth, but not all girls can do so. The main hang up I found is when the novice girl gets close she chickens out because she thinks she's going to p33.

1) Before starting make sure she uses the toilet. Even if she has little to empty from her bladder is helps to empty her mind of thoughts later that she's going to p1$$.

2) Put towels on the bed. This helps prevent the mattress from getting soaked and also reassures her.

3) Keep your fingernails very short and file them to get rid of a sharp edge. Even better are the curved dildos specifically designed to hit the G-spot. It's not uncommon for a Pinay to not even know about the G-spot. There are many good instructional videos online.

4) Don't dive right in with G-spot massage. Get her warmed up and turned on in the way that works for her, be it neck, breasts, whatever.

5) A gush is a release without the projected force. Kind of like a spilled glass of water. I find this is more common than the squirt. I've yet to come across one who can squirt more than a few inches, and nothing like that in videos. I'm not saying extinguish the towering inferno doesn't happen, but, again, some girls have an idea that it's the correct one. Then they get discouraged.