Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

[X Man]

What a great story and a great experience. Most of us would like to hear more of the story.

On my second trip to the PI I had a penpal meet me at the airport. The whole family showed up, and I ended up paying for the jeepney. This girl had a drug user boyfriend who offered to marry her, but the father said "no. " Of course, all this was unknown to me.

The whole trip I was stuck with her, even though she wasn't into me, and there were zero sparks. My stay with the family was great, but romantically and sexually it was a zero. Mom and dad were hoping she would choose me over the POS boyfriend--that didn't happen. In retrospect, I was a newbie who got played from the first moment.

Don't let her meet you at the airport. Make it clear that you are a free agent. This is your leverage. --Not that you're going to manipulate somebody, but you're not some idiot who's going to get screwed. She has to up her game, and at the first moment you feel you are getting used you can move on.

[Member #4558]

Assuming you are a first timer here its no wonder you ask. When I was a very nube to the pinay scene I thought it would be fun to give the "girl meet me at the airport" a shot. And it worked out just fine. She brought her chaperone (another girl) and they drove me to my hotel and we boinked (the chaperone waited at the mall close by). But even so it was stressful times because I wasn't able to do my usual preparations solo.

In aftermath I never did it again because I think its plain stupid and represent a risk factor you don't need in Phils. There are huge loads of willing young pukie standing around to meet you and even come to your hotel or wherever you want to meet them at.

I soon found out arriving alone (airport / hotel), get installed, stock up with beers / drinks, shower and shit is the way to go before playtime starts. Everything told you here is very sound advice.

[SergeantRay]

On my second trip to the PI I had a penpal meet me at the airport. The whole family showed up, and I ended up paying for the jeepney. This girl had a drug user boyfriend who offered to marry her, but the father said "no. " Of course, all this was unknown to me.

The whole trip I was stuck with her, even though she wasn't into me, and there were zero sparks. My stay with the family was great, but romantically and sexually it was a zero. Mom and dad were hoping she would choose me over the POS boyfriend--that didn't happen. In retrospect, I was a newbie who got played from the first moment.

Don't let her meet you at the airport. Make it clear that you are a free agent. This is your leverage. --Not that you're going to manipulate somebody, but you're not some idiot who's going to get screwed. She has to up her game, and at the first moment you feel you are getting used you can move on.

[MrWoolyBooly]

Do not let them pick you up, its that simple.

They are masters at getting you to reveal your info. For instance you arrive, get a sim, she says why you need a sim card, you are with me.

Arrive in hotel, she will check out all your bags. " oh why so many condom, we are together ".

You will have no privacy as you are now hers.

She will know your hotel, room, maybe has even seen your real name.

Arrive, get to hotel, get organized then invite her over. Not at the airport.

All solid advice.

- You are always on a business trip. When you are "working" you are unreachable.

- Your boss or customer or colleague is picking you up and dropping you off.

- (If your budget allows, your stuff is all kept at the "office", I. E. Your cheap hotel dive near your nice one.).

- You don't know what hotel you will stay in until you arrive because "the company" arranges it. This has an advantage in case a clever Pinay sees the name renting the room. "That's our firm's travel manager. ".

- If you are or can fake an office-type, you're an accountant. If you're blue collar through and through, you're a security consultant.

- Generally blame anything she doesn't like about your schedule or whereabouts or even energy level on "work".

[Red Kilt]

Do not let them pick you up, its that simple.

FF is absolutely right.

I reported an extreme instance around 18 months ago about a girl meeting a guy at the airport, escorting him to his hotel, settling in his room and, to cut a long story short, soon after her boyfriend arrived and they robbed him of all his possessions. Professional con-artists.

This is an extreme example and FF details many of the things that can happen. You will meet some girls about whom you are comfortable about bringing back to your hotel; others will ring alarm bells and you will want to use a short-time hotel instead. It's difficult to judge them until you actually meet them.

I am certain some guys will jump on here and say they always have girls meet them at the airport and it always works out well for them.

That's OK too, but I prefer to assume, especially for the Phils, that "if something can go wrong, it will". After 20 years living here, this assumption works for me.

[FreebieFan]

Hello fellow mongers,

Like many of us, I also stroll dating sites before going to visit some honeypot city and this works surely best for the Philippines I believe. Now recently more than before I had girls proposing to come and pick me up from the airport and I was wondering what is your experience with this and what do you think is the reason for them to do so.

Do not let them pick you up, its that simple.

They are masters at getting you to reveal your info. For instance you arrive, get a sim, she says why you need a sim card, you are with me.

Arrive in hotel, she will check out all your bags. " oh why so many condom, we are together ".

You will have no privacy as you are now hers.

She will know your hotel, room, maybe has even seen your real name.

Arrive, get to hotel, get organized then invite her over. Not at the airport.

[Lloydd72]

Hello fellow mongers,

Like many of us, I also stroll dating sites before going to visit some honeypot city and this works surely best for the Philippines I believe. Now recently more than before I had girls proposing to come and pick me up from the airport and I was wondering what is your experience with this and what do you think is the reason for them to do so.

[Dg8787]

Most Pinay CR has a non flushing toilet bowl, a barrel of water and water scoop with handle. The floor has a drain hole. To bath they scoop water from the water barrel and pour onto themselves wetting the floor. To flush the toilet they scoop water from the barrel and pour it down the toilet.

They do not "flush" the toilet if they are just [CodeWord112]. I have noticed many times my lovely Pinays do not flush the hotel toilets if they are just [CodeWord112].

In the 1980's I noticed even the 4-5 star Hong Kong hotels had no shower curtains or dividers, just a drain in the middle of the floor. Water got everywhere, all over the toilet and sink.

[Mr Enternational]

Agree with RK. Just look at the design of Asian bathrooms, a lot of times there's not even a divider for the shower area, it's just all tile and there's a drain for the room.

That is the way my place in Thailand is. I installed a rod and shower curtain, but 95% of the time I am the only one that closes it. Thai chicks don't put water all over the countertop as Pinays do.

[Roll Aides]

After taking a shower, instead of hanging her towel up to dry openly, my girl folds hers.

Why is it that when you go into the bathroom after a Filipina it looks like they just had a water fight with someone? Yesterday while my girl was brushing her teeth I was standing next to the sink with my back turned. How did I end up with more water on me than was inside the sink? It seemed like she was throwing water at me from the spigot.

Agree with RK. Just look at the design of Asian bathrooms, a lot of times there's not even a divider for the shower area, it's just all tile and there's a drain for the room. It's assumed it's going to be wet in there. I'm the same damn way so it doesn't bother me, I like to just fling water anywhere, but I can see how it would get on most westerners' nerves.

[Red Kilt]

After taking a shower, instead of hanging her towel up to dry openly, my girl folds hers.

Why is it that when you go into the bathroom after a Filipina it looks like they just had a water fight with someone?

I think it's more an Asian thing than something peculiarly filipino Mr E.

I hosted 2 Thai senior educators for 2 nights in my home in Australia some years ago now and they completely flooded my bathroom (including the mats on the floor). A Lao girl in my hotel room in Vientiane last year also managed to put 1 cm of water across the floor in my bathroom. I cannot explain it.

I guess we just ignore that aspect and enjoy the side benefits.

[Mr Enternational]

After taking a shower, instead of hanging her towel up to dry openly, my girl folds hers.

Why is it that when you go into the bathroom after a Filipina it looks like they just had a water fight with someone? Yesterday while my girl was brushing her teeth I was standing next to the sink with my back turned. How did I end up with more water on me than was inside the sink? It seemed like she was throwing water at me from the spigot.

[MrWoolyBooly]

Got a nice message on viber earlier today. From a girl I haven't met in a very long time (maybe a year or so).

Msg as follows: "Help".

In many ways I appreciate people to come straight to the point but when girls don't bother not even to invent and describe a problem, its gone to far, hehe. Small cute pinays become lazy.

A less lazy Filipina lady could more effectively say: "Help. I'm still a small cute Pinay. " No problem description necessary.

[Member #4558]

Got a nice message on viber earlier today. From a girl I haven't met in a very long time (maybe a year or so).

Msg as follows: "Help".

In many ways I appreciate people to come straight to the point but when girls don't bother not even to invent and describe a problem, its gone to far, hehe. Small cute pinays become lazy.

[Pcpc1688]

I was on PL and came across a decent looking woman in her late 20s whose profile was intriguing.

Nazis and global warming?! Oh joy! This may be the elusive intellect you've been searching for. I sent her a message.

Brace yourselves.

Indisputably she has some facts straight. Hugo Boss did indeed design the Nazi uniforms. 'Posh' may not be the right adjective, though. 'Dashing'? 'Sinister'? Much of the rest is a sprinkling of names & events mixed in half-baked conspiracy theories. An entertaining read, but I prefer conspiracy theories to be full baked. Could you imagine listening to this for hours? You could spend your time saying repeatedly, "Wait, wait, wait. That's not entirely accurate. " Or you could concoct even more farfetched conspiracies to dazzle and bewitch her. How far could you take it until she says, "That doesn't sound right"? Or you could just stick your dick in her mouth.

Your holiday is yours.

Speaking of PinaL, I just had 2 besties leave me just now. Both college students (yeah right). Met me at Metrowalk last night. Had some Starbucks and back to Hotel. Switching back and forth between them, BBBJ, DATY other, switch, cum and then sleep. Order Jollibee for breakfast (YUCK) for 500 p. Dam its pricey for delivery LOL.

More fucking till 7 am. Shower and call Uber to get them gone. 5 k for both all night. For about $130 USD, not a bad deal for 2 21 yr olds IMHO and coffee LOL.

Yes its better in the Phils LOL.

PC out.