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02-05-24 09:21 #6991
Posts: 64Originally Posted by DonMalo [View Original Post]
I do not think a self-respecting woman living with you as a wife will want or accept a salary. That is demeaning. She is your wife, not an employee. I send my partners money monthly to cover the bills and to save a little bit, but I don't do that if I am there. Treat her like a wife. They do not expect money just for being a wife. Just treat her well and you will be okay.
If you are going to the province, be aware that some girls are really dirt poor. Especially if they live in Sitio of some far-flunged barangay. Their house may literally be a wooden shack with a dirt floor and anahau roof and no power. You can not expect to get a girl like this and her be able to clean a western home properly. There is a learning curve.
My last piece of advice is just personal. It seems you're more interested in getting a maid than a wife. In the Philippines, women tend to be more traditional and subservient to their husbands. But, even then, they have feelings and do not want to be seen as a maid or an employee. You really need to change your mindset if you want to find a good Filipina wife who loves you like she should and not as a ticket out of poverty. With what you're doing, it's likely you may attract a woman who just wants out of poverty and a future, and she may use you as a ticket to leave the country and then leave you after she is safe from deportation. You wouldn't be the first man this happened to.
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02-04-24 10:23 #6990
Posts: 49Originally Posted by Aml3740 [View Original Post]
Furthermore, mongers are more pragmatic and rude to give me better advices.
The movie locked up for abroad is not allowed in YouTube anymore. But I won't marry a woman already married.
I won't pay any euro before marriage, as much am special gift as a motorbike or a Latin language classes after months of relationship and without her asking for it. Just as a surprise.
My idea after kids is pay to her monthly a salary if she is housewife like split my salary into 40% 60%.
I prefer province women because in many provinces 10 k is more than a monthly salary, my idea is pay 10-15 k as support. 20 k is a full salary in Manila or Cebu.
I'm. Not closed to single mother but I'm young also, I'm early 30 and childless and move to western with a baby is not the most easy. Hmm, maybe a young single mother as 20 years old. But it's not my priority. I met before many single moms online and they were too lazy, it's better if I meet women there.
Are not province or mountain girls very strong who knows how to do all house chores and working hard in industry or as maids?
The point is that Paul's Asian Adventure being and engineer of 55 y old married a perfect woman 19 y old and I think I could do the same but it is not easy if I only go there one month yearly.
My ex was from city and very good hearted, she only took 50 k and 20 k pesos in dumb gifts for her family because I was a beginner, but after it no one euro to her. But she was not very good in house chores and it scared me to make more serious commitment.
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02-04-24 05:19 #6989
Posts: 29Virgins.
Originally Posted by ExpatAmerican [View Original Post]
About 2 years ago I connected with a girl who ran a "massage" service near Manila and soon she was providing me about 1 new girl a week. We became friendly, meaning when she needed money for her family I helped her out haha. At some point I asked if she could get me a virgin, and she responded "ok" immediately. Within a month I had 2 - an 18 and a 19 year old. Both girls were terrified and asked the manager to be there when I fucked them so that was also my first time meeting the manager in person (FYI, she was HOT. Like stunning. After that the manager and I fucked a few times but that's another story). I thought it would be fun to fuck a virgin but not so much. They kept pulling away, crying out in pain before I even put in the tip, could not manage even basic positions, both cried. Sometimes the fantasy is better than reality.
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02-03-24 02:48 #6988
Posts: 168Hey DonMalo,
Watch 'Locked Up Abroad' - Philippines story Prisoner Of Love I think. There is an episode of a guy who wanted to marry an innocent Pinay. Unfortunately she was already married but he did not know she was still married . This guy paid an awful price.
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02-03-24 00:42 #6987
Posts: 6802But: Still wishing him good fortune in this matter.
Originally Posted by Goferring [View Original Post]
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02-02-24 23:52 #6986
Posts: 15811Originally Posted by Goferring [View Original Post]
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02-02-24 23:05 #6985
Posts: 3375Originally Posted by WestCoast1 [View Original Post]
Didn't Don have the hoes into housewives conversation a few months ago?
Cheers. G.
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02-02-24 18:37 #6984
Posts: 64Perspective
Originally Posted by DonMalo [View Original Post]
- An 18-20 year old meeting up with a foreigner probably isn't so innocent. You may find a unicorn, but probably not.
- Do not negotiate paying her a monthly salary to be your wife. She is your wife and partner, not an employee. The type of woman you seek should not be concerned about money from you. If she is, that's a huge warning sign to you.
- Expect to pay a dowry to her family. This practice is still common in Philippine provinces, and is often in the 20 k range. You may be asked to provide something for the farm or family business, too.
- You marry into her family, which means you marry into their problems, as well. If she is a good woman, she will want to help her family. This is really a cultural thing there. You need to expect that and set those boundaries early on in the relationship or you will be broke before you know it.
You may not like this, but I would consider a single mother if you really want what you say. And maybe a little older. She will be grateful for your love for her and her kids, and almost guaranteed that she will be a good housewife.
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02-02-24 16:23 #6983
Posts: 6802Originally Posted by DonMalo [View Original Post]
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02-02-24 07:01 #6982
Posts: 49A wife like that
Hello, I'm single again. I need to find the correct wife.
Do you have advices to find a woman like this one?
https://youtu.be/dOiU55spJIo?si=nP3tEEHgBOZmDP7I
My idea is look into provinces, looking for an innocent woman between 18-20 y old. Am I wrong? As I told before, I will pay to her monthly a salary as house wife (around 40 k pesos once abroad) and 30 k pesos to her family, to make them happy but I need a good housewife from their daughter.
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01-04-24 07:45 #6981
Posts: 334Originally Posted by WestCoast1 [View Original Post]
1. High School GF, We were both like 18 and neither of us knew really what we were doing. Obviously not the greatest sex but we were both still super turned on.
2. College GF when I was mid 20's an she was 17/18 freshman. First sex was painful and regular sex wasnt that great, but at 22 you take whatever and its enough.
3. Ex Wife when we were both 25, lost her shit after the first sex but then turned into amazing kinky sex. Enough to make me marry her even though she was crazy (and I was young and stupid).
4. Taiwanese girl who was 30 (I was 51) but still a virgin. I didn't know she was a virgin, she just said she hadn't had "much" experience. First sex was drunken. Then she said she didn't want to repeat. Then she turned into a kinky sex monster the next time she came and wanted me to teach her everything.
I have never had paid sex with a virgin though and don't think I would. And OP had already sent call center girl money so it was paid for sex no matter what he thinks.
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01-04-24 05:35 #6980
Posts: 6802Originally Posted by Sammon [View Original Post]
Originally Posted by MohdirFan82 [View Original Post]
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01-04-24 03:41 #6979
Posts: 3277Originally Posted by MohdirFan82 [View Original Post]
If the girl is doing it for money she would not want more sex and will start to complain.
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01-04-24 03:02 #6978
Posts: 15811Originally Posted by Dg8787 [View Original Post]
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01-04-24 02:14 #6977
Posts: 3244Originally Posted by WestCoast1 [View Original Post]
The 2 waited a week before they each came back but were still in pain and I didn't finish. The 3rd one came back in 3 days as she knew this was my last day. She wanted to please me. This time she was in excruciating pain and I had to stop as I could see the pain she was in.
Virgins and newly devirginized are not going to have fun and orgasm for you.