Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

[Blink157]

I'm a Pinoy living here in Manila. My suggestions for those who wants to marry a filipina is stay away from the hookers. Thats all. Of course they are you're easy target and because they, re sweet and everything but you must be carefull. These girls have too may boyfriends like previously said, they just want your money to spend with their pinoy bf. Of course there are exeptions. Look for the one which is not a sex worker. Btw its my first post. If you need to ask anything feel free to ask but I'm not an expert in mongering in manila but perhaps I could help. I'm going to Thailand in September. I wish I could get a tip in the BKK forum.

hi,
check out Giottos forum in BKK reports, he has his own thread. I stayed in his lodge before and I found it good value for money. He wisely spend his money on things like gud bed/matress, silent aircon, breakfast al the day, gud coffe, excellent western and thai food and he even have his own sports bar with gurls in the hotel, hahahaha, what more you can ask for. Easy access to the red light areas, walking distance...


as for pinays, I prefer the semi pros :D


Blink

[Mister Sy]

I'm a Pinoy living here in Manila. My suggestions for those who wants to marry a filipina is stay away from the hookers. Thats all. Of course they are you're easy target and because they, re sweet and everything but you must be carefull. These girls have too may boyfriends like previously said, they just want your money to spend with their pinoy bf. Of course there are exeptions. Look for the one which is not a sex worker. Btw its my first post. If you need to ask anything feel free to ask but I'm not an expert in mongering in manila but perhaps I could help. I'm going to Thailand in September. I wish I could get a tip in the BKK forum.

[Blackangst]

Today my conclusion is that all women flock to the guy that provides them with a better life. You can't blame filipina's for wanting security and a better life. The hot ones get the best pick, and the others fall into a natural pecking order. They are doing what they have to do, and we are doing what we have to do, which is nail as many as we can before one grabs our heart. This is just life. So, it seems to me, if you get one, then keep her in PI and live down there. Bring her to the states and the pecking order changes. This is just my latest thoughts.

Carmex

Nice reflections Carm. And I would stress this last point in your use of the word "all". So many times guys on this and every other board I visit complain about a girl wanting to "step up". This is just natural womanhood. EVERY woman wants to find the most secure man they can. Most of the time secure = money. I dont look at it as a bad thing at all. It makes sense. Sure there are the few who go from tumultuous relationships to another, but most of the time they want better.

Dont we also?

[Carmex]

Ok guys, so I know this story belongs in S. Korea forum but I had to share.

So I am in the Reggae Bar in Seoul last weekend with two of my buddies. A filipina comes to the table to ask our drink order and then comes back with the beers. Nice club, good music, and the waitress was about 5'4", with B cups and a pretty face. A little chubby, but that made for a nice fat ass. Anyway, she comes back with the beers and asks if we want to buy raffle tickets. So I ask what for? And she says because she lost her house in a mudslide on Leyete and she needs money to rebuild! I asked what caused the mudslide and she said "Typhoon". Hehehehe I asked which Typhoon? What was the name of it? She didn't know. My buddy asked, "What do we get if we win the raffle? " And she said, "huh? " heheheh So, he asked again, "What is the prize if you win the raffle? " And she said, "oh, I don't know". By this time, I am cracking up. I honestly cannot contain my laughter. She looks at us, and says, "Forget it! " Kinda pissed off like. We all laughed about that for a good 10 minutes.

Just goes to show, you can take the girl out of the PI, but you can't take the PI out of the girl.

Thought I might share a funny story with you guys.

Carmex

[Cunning Stunt]

Carmex,


Its always better to monger alone...There will be compromises on the negative when mongering in groups..its never better...but the idea looks cool....

Its better to chat with a fellow monger in coffae shops about the hunt then hunt in pairs..

I want to be my own...when im in the zone...this is what i live for :D

Agreed BL - I too like to hunt alone, especially when after FLs. In fact I'd say that having company along when out on the prowl is an unnecessary distraction in that you end up spending too much time chewing the fat and not enough time concentrating on the main business of the evening. So opportunities can be lost/missed. Another thing is that FL's often go in pairs, so if there are two mongers, a choice has to be made as to who gets who (and I often end up with the dog :D). If you are alone you get the choice of either/both.

The only exception to this is when visiting a new locale for the first time. Then company is preferable and optimally a local who knows the area. This is particularly necessary in a dodgy local mongering area.

Of course some guys get lonely/need the reassurance of having a buddy along so would never dream of mongering alone. I can understand this but think that they will miss out on opportunities that will pass them by if accompanied. Each to his own depending on his comfort zone. GH

[Starchild2012]

Carmex,

Great conclutions...It needs to be pinned in every mongers chest who intends to come to PH or even TH

Every scam will happen so subtly that we would be drawn into it....

Its better to follow the RULES STRICTLY...there is no escape from it..

D etat,

Its always better to monger alone...There will be compromises on the negative when mongering in groups..its never better...but the idea looks cool....

Its better to chat with a fellow monger in coffae shops about the hunt then hunt in pairs..

I want to be my own...when im in the zone...this is what i live for :D

[Fastpiston]

Well It took me 25 years to learn this but this is now my golden rule. Every filipina will hit on you for money for every emergency under the sun. So the way to get a good relationship is set the ground rules at the start. I say I will pay you for every time you spend with me. Like last night she came late (10pm) left early (6am) and we couldn't fuck because of her mens. So I gave her 1000 instead of usual 2500. But still it was nice for both of us. If she asks me for money I say come and see me and earn that money first then you can spend it on what you like. If you want a cell phone fine. Earn it first. Then don't get suckered when you go back home and have many requests for money. Make the ground rules straight before you leave. "If you want me back in your arms next time I am here then don't ask me for money". Also if you see a girl just once overnight then you should pay her 3000 but if the same girl comes 3 or 4 times a week then maybe only 2000 each time. Hope this helps. Its sure hard to resist sometimes but once they know the rules then there is no more hassle.

Women want security, and money provides the highway to that security. Add to that the Catholic indoctrination about rich (translates to Foreigner) giving to poor and you have the Filipina cocktail.

[Fastpiston]

Well It took me 25 years to learn this but this is now my golden rule. Every filipina will hit on you for money for every emergency under the sun. So the way to get a good relationship is set the ground rules at the start. I say I will pay you for every time you spend with me. Like last night she came late (10pm) left early (6am) and we couldn't fuck because of her mens. So I gave her 1000 instead of usual 2500. But still it was nice for both of us. If she asks me for money I say come and see me and earn that money first then you can spend it on what you like. If you want a cell phone fine. Earn it first. Then don't get suckered when you go back home and have many requests for money. Make the ground rules straight before you leave. "If you want me back in your arms next time I am here then don't ask me for money". Also if you see a girl just once overnight then you should pay her 3000 but if the same girl comes 3 or 4 times a week then maybe only 2000 each time. Hope this helps. Its sure hard to resist sometimes but once they know the rules then there is no more hassle.

You payments are far too generous. If these are bar girls who are bar-fined, then you are ruining the market for yourself and others. Bar-fine plus trike money is the standard for overnight.

[Warbucks]

Just like to report that I have now read every post on the "opionions and advice" forum. Whew! Was a long book, but well written and interesting in some parts. I don't feel like I am an expert now by any means, however, I do feel more informed. I have ordered some books from Amazon to complete the quest of understanding the monster known as "pinay". The Tagalog CD and instuction manual will also arrive with the Amazon shipment.

Simple conclusions:

Don't get married if you still monger, unless your gal is OK with this.

Family is everything, you are 2nd or 3rd.

Pinays are great long term partners if you find the right one.

Don't meet the parents unless you are serious.

Don't bring your heart to AC, Manila, Makati, Cebu, etc...

Don't bring her to the US.

Pay the local market rate.

Treat them as you wish to be treated.

Wear condoms, or be ready for the pregnant scam.

Use the head on your shoulders.

Be ever vigilant, in reguards to your health, heart, and wallet.

Be upfront, have fun, and you will get the same.

Some guys get taken, some guys don't. That is life and natural selection.

So, that is it. My conclusions for the day. It will be good to finally get some sleep and back to work on time for my lunch hour. Good thing I could not access this site at work! I would have got nothing done!

much aloha to everyone, love these pinay girls. (even if I don't understand a where they are coming from)

I would like to meet some of the legends on this board next time I visit. Usually about every 2 months or so.

Carmex

Great way to sum it up. I am not a legend but I am interested in meeting some other members of the board. I have been a member since Al Qaeda put together their first explosive and have never met another member. Last time I went mongering across Asia with co-workers it was pathetic. Guys talking shit behind other guys back. Whining about this and that. Some not sure they want to pay for pussy saying they should be getting for free simply ludicrous.

[Carmex]

Just like to report that I have now read every post on the "opionions and advice" forum. Whew! Was a long book, but well written and interesting in some parts. I don't feel like I am an expert now by any means, however, I do feel more informed. I have ordered some books from Amazon to complete the quest of understanding the monster known as "pinay". The Tagalog CD and instuction manual will also arrive with the Amazon shipment.

Simple conclusions:

Don't get married if you still monger, unless your gal is OK with this.

Family is everything, you are 2nd or 3rd.

Pinays are great long term partners if you find the right one.

Don't meet the parents unless you are serious.

Don't bring your heart to AC, Manila, Makati, Cebu, etc...

Don't bring her to the US.

Pay the local market rate.

Treat them as you wish to be treated.

Wear condoms, or be ready for the pregnant scam.

Use the head on your shoulders.

Be ever vigilant, in reguards to your health, heart, and wallet.

Be upfront, have fun, and you will get the same.

Some guys get taken, some guys don't. That is life and natural selection.

So, that is it. My conclusions for the day. It will be good to finally get some sleep and back to work on time for my lunch hour. Good thing I could not access this site at work! I would have got nothing done!

much aloha to everyone, love these pinay girls. (even if I don't understand a where they are coming from)

I would like to meet some of the legends on this board next time I visit. Usually about every 2 months or so.

Carmex

[Seafish57]

After years of chatting with hundreds of Filipinas on Yahoo,( I could write a long report about some of the real winnners I have chatted with and met in person, and I think I shall soon), and meeting a number of pretty nice girls on my 3 trips to phils, I got bored and just started this week with Camfrog.

Seems to be a whole different type of chat. The few I have talked with only ask for my paypal account :)

Has anyone here met any of the pinays there or are these girls only out fun?

[Sxxxx]

I was sad. I told a wonderful story. I poured my heart out to you guys. I was booked on Dr. Phil b. See no one replied until now.

Now I met some smoking girls and some normal girls on DIA and some normal girls on CL.

My next fiasco on DIA. Girls shows up at my hotel from Manila. This is great b/c my last 3 DIA girls were "hotel room only dates. " No dinner or a movie. Just hotel room. I was on a roll. 3 hot freebies in a row. Yes I tossed them money for cab fair.- that is another story.

So I go to the lobby. There is my DIA girl, hour cousin (not the girl-on-girl hot 3 some cousin.- the other kind.- the ugly speaks no English cousin) and my date's 3 year old daughter.

So I just say.- well. I had 3 great ones in a row. I guess this is "my turn" to give back. I took them to McDonalds. I bought them dinner and got the kid a toy. I gave them 200 for cab fair (it was 100 each way from where they were in Manila which made sense given where they lived). I just could not bring myself to walk away b/c kids are kids. I figure this one will have a pretty rough life. Like a lof of kids there. So I spent my 45 minutes to an hour of "be nice" time at McDonalds.

Then I rewarded myself by calling my favorite girls for a three-some.

Title of your post : "I was feeling lonely (no one read my post)"

Well I have read it , and I am now feeling lonely. What with your threesomes etc , lol.

[Warbucks]

Ok guys, been reading the last pages of this forum like a book I can't put down. I think now I am on page 68 or something around year 05. Very interesting to see the transformation all those on the board go through.

So, with talking with my buddy today about these chicks in PH. Basically, I have come to the conclusion that all women are *****s. Now, now, hear me out before I get flamed to extinction. I came to this conclusion very early in life, around 25 or so, and I just now remembered it clearly.

I was 25, just freshly divorced and with a wounded heart. I got married at 20 to my sweetheart, beautiful filipina/hawaiian who could not stand that I was gone so much in the Army. So, I get back to my hometown and it was like someone put out a billboard, "**** is back in town". Because all of a sudden I had girls calling me out of the blue I hadn't heard from in years. So, I pick up the phone and it is a girl Laurana, hot blond with a blond bush. I had to think to remember her, as I guess I f***ked her on a bathroom sink in some guys house at a kegger. (She reminded me). So we make a date and I go to pick her up and my old high school good friend answers the door! Hey! Buddy, how you been, so good to see you, etc. Then he asks what am I doing there, "pick up Laurana" I said. "What are you doing here? " I ask. "Laurana is my wife. " What? Just then Laurana walks down the stairs and says lets go. So in the car, I am like, "WTF? " And she tells me that my buddy was having sex with her 15yo sister (who was smokin hot) and she walked in on them. He was also doing the counter girl at work. But since Laurana's parents owned a chain of health food stores and my buddy managed the biggest one, that was doing very well, they were staying together for a while. Ok, so most guys would have stopped the car and got out of there but I stuck it out. No pussy for two weeks, and then came her birthday. Expensive dinner, expensive gifts from me, and viola, some pussy that night. Turns out, my little 30 minute stand from a kegger in high school was a bisexual dynamo, who would always bring chicks home to share, who loved asians also. Anyway, my thought at the time was, all chicks are *****s.

So think about it. If you have money, house, nice car, etc. You get pussy in the US. Doesn't matter your age, how you look. Old, bald, fat, you still get pussy. So, what is the difference in PI? Women are women are women, and a rose by any other name is still a rose. My doctor buddy in Hawaii had a big problem with this theory. He told me his wife (also a doctor and super hot blond with natural big tits) was not a *****! I told him, "I understand, but do you think she would have married you if you had no job, lived on welfare, sat around the house all day". He told me "of course she would". I still laugh at that.

Today my conclusion is that all women flock to the guy that provides them with a better life. You can't blame filipina's for wanting security and a better life. The hot ones get the best pick, and the others fall into a natural pecking order. They are doing what they have to do, and we are doing what we have to do, which is nail as many as we can before one grabs our heart. This is just life. So, it seems to me, if you get one, then keep her in PI and live down there. Bring her to the states and the pecking order changes. This is just my latest thoughts.

Carmex

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Yes most women do like security so do most men. Yes a lot of women will use their pussy to get it. Also a lot of women will use their mind and hard work to get it also.

C I married my military sweet heart Latin American at the age of 21. Now I am in my late 20s and divorced I feel your pain. We just grew up apart. I was flashy with money, diamonds nice clothes, nice cars she shopped at Wal-Mart. She was family orientated... I only thought about the night life; in short things just didn’t work. I know all about that wounded heart.

I am now in another LTR, Japanese bred Filipina. But my eyes are open I am jaded and pessimistic. I don’t believe in love anymore but I believe in what’s practical and what is not. In hip hop circles we say ("I got love for her but I am not in love with her") I stick with my ole lady because I can trust her and she is a good person. Her moral compass is pointing north; those are qualities I find hard to locate in people in general.

The relationship is on my terms. I go where I want when I want to. I made it clear to her no other person could run my life and she would have to deal with it or leave. We do have our “family time” together it is what it is…. On marriage I probably won’t do it ever again. It’s an out of date institution especially for a contemporary man as myself.

[Blink157]

Carmex not all women are *****s,

just the one Im dating hahahaha...your lets say 50% right..I think its like this..young gurls tend to hang out and date young men, thats normal..if they attracted to each other..Means screwing is ok, once they get older and wiser they looking for financial stability and thats where the money thing comes in.

Women, I think , are generelly attracted to successfull guys, guys who know their way and what they doing, so they feel safe. Filipinas also like this, cause they women. Its just that they see us foreigners as a steady income for them and their family...but like I said its not allways like that..When I was a bit younger I got an offer to get married to a filipina from a rich home, her daddy runs a company and he doesnt want a pinoy as his son in law..made sense to me :D..

What makes me smiling all the time is, when I see quite attractive younger guys with "dogs" :D...either in AC or Manila...I dont wana be boastfull, but my GF`s are allways headturners..but thats another story...

Your question, why go to the Philippines? Easily answer is, more f..ck for ur bucks :D and more fun. IM not much attracted to european or even american women...I love asian gurls, most of them filipinas, cause they come in many shapes..

Now a bit from my story....

Happens to me that I feel a bit sorry for my GF mistres from AC, she stop working now in a bar and I told her when Im around at the weekend and you drop by to meet me I will support you. Last weekend I bought her a new cp, not a cheap one..Nokia express music :D, and I gues I gave her 3k or so, not sure..aside from the fact when her friend drop by I invite them to dinner..We didnt had much sex, which disapointed me a bit...

This weekend I gave her 5k, gave her another 5k for buying her a dvd player which we saw in sm clark....

Tuesday, she txt me if she can go back to work in bar, cause they (her relatives) asking more money to her..

I txt her back, if they ask more money from you, they should go and work for it....and I guess I txt her some other things which she doesnt reply to me..

All in all I can say, if you have a GF from AC, once she turn ur back on you she fucks with another guy for money, cause she need it , or her family needs it. SHe knows I dont like her to go work in a bar, I wouldnt mind she make her money with LD only, but I know if she got a good offer from a guy and she got this allways , cause she aint a "dog" she will go for it..cause money talks in AC..

SO , here goes the warning, dont get to much close with those gurls..the more you give the more they ask..


Blink out for a beer :D

[Flying Saucer]

I was sad. I told a wonderful story. I poured my heart out to you guys. I was booked on Dr. Phil b. See no one replied until now.

Now I met some smoking girls and some normal girls on DIA and some normal girls on CL.

My next fiasco on DIA. Girls shows up at my hotel from Manila. This is great b/c my last 3 DIA girls were "hotel room only dates. " No dinner or a movie. Just hotel room. I was on a roll. 3 hot freebies in a row. Yes I tossed them money for cab fair.- that is another story.

So I go to the lobby. There is my DIA girl, hour cousin (not the girl-on-girl hot 3 some cousin.- the other kind.- the ugly speaks no English cousin) and my date's 3 year old daughter.

So I just say.- well. I had 3 great ones in a row. I guess this is "my turn" to give back. I took them to McDonalds. I bought them dinner and got the kid a toy. I gave them 200 for cab fair (it was 100 each way from where they were in Manila which made sense given where they lived). I just could not bring myself to walk away b/c kids are kids. I figure this one will have a pretty rough life. Like a lof of kids there. So I spent my 45 minutes to an hour of "be nice" time at McDonalds.

Then I rewarded myself by calling my favorite girls for a three-some.

Earlier report about a DIA gurl whos a nurse and whos big with a pic htat was at an odd angle rang a bell.

I had one but can't remember her name, deleted some time back. But exactly that. Nurse, big etc. She had looked cute in the pic on DIA.

Arranged a meet in Burgos. She whined htat she lived in Manila. But I said take it or leave it. I had plan b. C, and d. And in fact had been to Sogo before I was going to meet her.

She said she was by 7. 11. Saw a ladyboy and a large gal there. Hmm. I phoned and she said thats where she was. Walked near. Got a look. Thought. Fuck, I can't do THAT. And carried on walking.

Pride myself as being a gentleman but hell no. That wasnt for me.

So if ts same one. Poor girl attracts the guys with her pics. But not with her figure. Hahah